How To Be as Unbothered As Me 

“Put outfits together in your mind when negative people are talking” - Best advice I’ve received in my 20 some years on this planet 😹😭🙌

Competing is masculine energy. Walk away from that mindset. If a man isn't choosing you, you're an option. Do not work for him. Pick a man who will treat you with the utmost respect. Think you're number one and you will be #1👸

Fake it till you make it. That’s what happened with me I started to pretend that it didn’t bother me now I’m literally so unbothered and focused on myself

As Coco Chanel once said, I don't care what you think about me, I don't think about you at all!

Golden advice here. Caring too much is one of the worst things you can do. Cut off anyone who brings you down and doesnt contribute to your happiness. Life's too short.

"Find a focus that's bigger than that situation." That resonates nicely. Too many people never think about the bigger picture.

Once u learn yourself and master yourself from within NOTHING CAN STOP U and NOTHING WILL BOTHER U ♍

Since i started watching videos , no man took advantage of me

Men love themselves more and are selfish, and that is okay, just u have to be the same :)

First step to be unbothered is dealing with a man that has something to offer like stability protection so you can focus on that. if you are with a dusty all you can focus on is being bothered cus he has nothing else to offer you but his crazzy emotions to deal with.

I went freestyling at a bar the target man was chatting it up w me. Asked if we could go to another bar I said. Oh I only gave the babysitter a $20. He got right up n got $100 out of the atm n gave it to me n said. For your sitter and your time. I was so giddy that it worked lol it was too easy.

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When you are showing that you’re upset or bothered you’re giving them power to know they affected you but I’m the same way I love everyone but I do not argue, I have trained myself not to get emotional even at my husband or family. Shera being this way also makes you more respected, it’s part of your charisma.🌺

I always say if they ain’t paying my bills or benefiting me/helping me reach the next level💰🏠💸💵🛍, then I could care less what they say or think of me. Because at the end of the day, they ain’t the target🎯 I’m aiming for!

What helps me to be "unbothered" is to gain a high level of being secure with myself. Another thing that helps is to let the rotten fruits fall from my tree and let the new fruits grow.

Being unbothered is a choice !!!💋

"I never compete" said by Shera. That will be my lifestyle. I should keep that in mind. Thank you, Shera.

“Don’t base your self worth on trying to control a cheating men”So classic

I’ve been getting feedback from others that I’m “mean and seem cold nowadays”. No I’m just unbothered and I’m so glad I finally am an unbothered person. These are compliments to me baby 😁😁❤️

48 laws of power .....is how to not be naive

“They say I’m not street smart” “go get in the streets and get smart” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Another tip that I know for myself is to be detached from everybody else and what they have going on. Then the focus should really be on yourself because this is your world that they're living in 🤷🏿‍♀️

3 yrs ago and this still holds gems

Being bothered created hate from others , anxiety , waiting for approval from people who are not engaged with with in family, friendship . or employment .

Once upon a time ago, I used to care about everyone's opinion and I would legit stoop down and it didn't benefit me or my bag. Now that I am unbothered everything is falling into place. They're mad and I'm happy!

I feel so fortunate to have found you.

“Cheat on him with his money.” Solid. Now if he doesn’t have that and got the nerve to cheat too you know you need to dip 😂

People that wanna be friends at work are always so funny to me😂😂😂😂 Make your money and go home those are not your friendsssssss.

I’m a cancer with a Pisces moon. Horoscope ain’t got nothing to do with it.... watching Shera has finally taught me to control my emotions and think logically, and that all comes from being unbothered. Ultimate freedom!!!!

When you show your bothered people will give you MORE to be bothered about

My goal for 2023 is to be as unbothered as Shera lol ❤

There are no rear view mirrors in ASCENSION. It's ONLY UP!! The PHOENIX rises & SOARS, leaving all the ashes (dust) of what was in the past 💯 Total RENEWAL & TRANSFORMATION ✨ RISE & SOAR!!!✨🦅✨🌟

Hi Shera, I’m so happy I found your channel before it’s too late. I’m in my mid thirties, not married yet and no kids yet. I truly feel like you taught me so much about the true nature of a man and my true value as a woman. Now I’m wide awake and I know exactly what I want and need. God bless you.

You are the big sister I never had.

Yes I think it’s strange when ppl get bothered by ppl who are not even close to them. My mother is a pisces like Ashera and I’m a Scorpio. Lol I’m unbothered to the maximum 🤷🏾‍♀️ I do not care at all. And I don’t compete either lol You don’t compete where you don’t compare..I’m the Queen

One time you said in one of your videos that love between you and your partner will never be unconditional, it’s nothing but conditional. That really changed my thinking and shifted my energy. Thankfully, I have a very loving family so I know what unconditional love feels like and that’s good enough for me.

I love that saying don’t waste your energy! It reminds me of the quote, “ words can’t hurt unless you let them.” So true, can’t please everyone 🤷‍♀️ but at least I can please myself so why care about the bs

I think the release of emotion comes with understanding. Understanding the motivation behind the actions of other people, and understanding why those actions are triggering you. Dig deep within yourself.

Excellent chat. Stay Unbothered. Stay Striving. Stay Leveled Up. Also find a hobby to occupy your mind.

I know I’m late to the party , but this truly helping me ! I’m always so emotional it’s embarrassing! Thank you

Family is one of those places I’ve learn to master this. Never thought I could but after losing my job in the most unexpected way possible, which turned out to be a blessing in disguised, everything changed. Before tht, I was someone who just didnt care in the first place but the ppl closest to me i tend to give, give. Smh have i learned. Even with them, I draw the line. Ppl used to tell me you need to speak up, you need to put your foot down etc., you need, you need none stop unwarranted advices about how to deal with ppl behaving badly but I really didn’t care deep I didn’t care enough abt their opinions to put any But after the last, nothing has settle more to me than me not giving a ish. Ppl have called me selfish, self centered; all I do is care about myself and I’m like yeah. Stuck up blah blah I should bc who gonna care for me more than me? You don’t even care abt me but you’re talkin abt how I should care about me. Boy bye.

I’m Scorpio and respect to you all but according to astrology Scorpios are the most emotional sign. My moon is in cancer. Another emotional water sign and if I can shut off my emotions and leave them for the nearest and dearest ( kids and family) you can too !!!

We are so similar people talk about me a lot but it’s truly because I don’t share everything about me and it bothers them

LOL at the person who paid you $9.99 to ask how to get $1k on the second date just for you to say "i don't know baby"

Don’t care about anything that does not get you results you want.

@8:03 “because they don’t have no money baby....SPRINKLE SPRINKLE” 😂😂😂

In my mind, Shera is my favorite cousin...funny as shit!!! 😂😂😂 She tells the unadulterated truth and did not come to play...it’s all about the money, hunny...😭😭😭

The more I listen to you and compare it with what I see women do, the more you make sense more and more! It’s ashame that women have made having a man, having $3x and getting married the end all be all. Chileeee it’s crazy

Yesss! Do your work, and Leave! I agree with that workplace question. Do your job and go!

Now thats something to ponder,some aren't worth your energy or time...

I definintely needed this one! LOL

You can cheat all u want I be in the Bahamas 🇧🇸 whew the coldest in the game 🤣😂🤣

Every time my husband or his family members bother me, I set off to shopping😂.

I do that to all my friends that call about man problems. I do something else while they tell me the same story for the 100th time. 😂😂😂

I cannot even keep up. So many new uploads!! 🤩🤩 Turning me into an unbothered savage. The money 😍😍😍

I miss when you did videos just about the topic without answering so many questions

OH EM GEE I remember you now! I used to watch you YEARS ago when I was a teenager. (And I shouldn't have stopped) yall when u listen to her u win! (I'm a witch, that's how I came across her page). She is RIGHT and she has a good innerstanding of karma. Trust in the sprinkle!

I want to call you my mother. You’re kids are so blessed.

*I need another video like this! With this length! I need to listen to this every morning!*

You only go with the flow when you're in a riptide, and even then you swim sideways, not exactly with it!

Them : is this my soulmate? Is this the one ?? Her : No fool 🙄

I wonder if you know how helpful your content is and the value you give out into the world 🙏🏽❤️

Thanks for this message, Shera! It has been much needed by me, and is truth!😎👍

How do I deal with my dusty?!? Shera- same way you deal with all your dust.. Sweep him into the dustpan

Having a bigger picture really does help put everything into perspective.

Ur so consistent in daily uploads and lives!!!! Kudos on growing ur channel

I was at a party this weekend and let’s just say I’m glad that my focus is on leveling up. Had the girlies uncomfortable with my presence 😂😂😂

Appreciate you needed to hear this today

When she said “you with a feminine man” I screamed

Love your energy and vibration

Loved this topic you covered. Much needed! TY SheRa!

Man in their 50s up to 60 even early 70s ain't no good either and act childish and stupid and still playing games and being cheap I'm trying to be players there's nothing worth wild out here anymore

This is some very amazing advice! I’m takin all of it ❤this found me! Thank u divine

Awesome nuggets!!! Your Tippets has help me an my personal life. Thank you for sharing

I’m a Cancer..Gemini moon ... I learned to not care. I’ll cut a person off with the quickness. When I had my business, I terminated staff by telling them they’re no longer needed. PERIOD.

Why she give me niki Minaj vibes like CRAZYYY😂💕💖😍

U're a great teacher May God bless you forever amen.

This is a hidden gem Ashera! My 21 year old loves you so much and we both are Pisces too! Pisces gang! ✨✨✨💯💯♓️♓️♓️

Unbothereness is the key 🔑 to happiness ❤ keep going queens👸🏻 💅

My Lil cousin is about to get married soon. She is 30 and he is 32. She has 3 kids and 1 with him. I'm happy for her.

No I missed the Live AGAIN!!!

Shera this is one of your funnier videos lol you have me laughing over here.

Love your message Shera thanks for the game. I need it n it has changed my life

Thank you for helping me lift myself up

Omg EVERYTHING u r saying is real & crackin me up & its so how i think

Best RU-vid video that I watched in my life🙏thank you so much for making this😍😘🤩

Thanks for teaching us Shera. Lord knows I need these lessons daily with this marriage of mine 🙄 cause hunny!!! I be trying not to catch a case😬😬😩😩😩😊😊.

I’m the true definition of a Pisces. It’s all over my chart. It helps me when it comes to my femininity because I’m naturally very womanly but these emotions of mine 🤦🏾‍♀️ I check everything and everyone at the door if I feel offended. Heart on my sleeve...but I’m working on it. One of my goals for 2020 is to be completely unbothered.

Thank you for this video ! Really helped me with my confidence and how to stay unbothered ❤

This is very helpful, thank you ♥️

“Then don’t be nice”😭

i don’t even date men but I can’t stop listening to your videos 😂

Hi y'all. I believe it applies to all relationship relationships. Indeed. Goal goals goals.🌺🎆💅☕

Gotta be like Omarion 🤷‍♀🤷‍♀🤷‍♀

Amen Queen Sprinkle Sprinkle Girl Have A Bless Day♥️♥️♥️😍😍😍

Can’t take it personal from people that don’t know you personally.sprinkle sprinkle lol

Great advice as always!

So true! SheRaseven1 ! I’m unbothered as well! Your right! No socializing at work! Who wants to be there anyhow 🤷🏿‍♀️imma get me a sugar daddy and retire! Preferably’ a gentleman who’s 60! White black or whatever , I appreciate diversity! I just need diversity to find me 🤣😆🤣😆🤣😆🤣

You are so wonderful 💐🙋🏻‍♀️

Girl I love ur vibe u the only RU-vidr I’ll watch this long 🤣🤣 I need u to be my therapist 🤣🤦🏻‍♀️