How to Be FUN on a Date (3 NEW WAYS!) | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

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Mat Boggs shares dating advice for women and 3 ways you can turn up the fun on your next date!
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@matboggs Год назад

FREE eBook! 100 great questions to ask on a date: www.bravethinkinginstitute.com/love-relationships/resources/ctmc/mag/100-questions-date

@aviatrix007 5 лет назад

“Yess! What’s an aquarium??” 😂 Sign me up! 💝

@andreacruz108 5 лет назад

How adorable, right?

@ElizabethLewisLoveandLaughter 5 лет назад

GREAT ideas! An idea is to have a Goodwill date... you both go to Goodwill and pick out an outfit for the other that only costs $10.00 and you each have to wear that outfit on the date... :-)

@alexandrar.4900 5 лет назад

Elizabeth Lewis love this idea!

@petrahladkyj1301 4 года назад

Great one!!!

@hidayah1662 Год назад

Thanks so much Mat! I am going on a date this weekend and I really needed these tips. They're incredible and I am sure I'll do good. In Sha Allah Someone should like my comment so, I can keep coming back for revision ❤

@boomerangsruckflug8513 5 лет назад

If you're in a restaurant you can guess which professions people have sitting besides you or what they probably are talking about etc.

@sonny12681 5 лет назад

who cares about the other people next to you. Focus on the man you are with. Also it's not good to only care about what the men are doing for a living because you sound like a gold digger.

@germainrodriguez5230 2 года назад

This seems fun!

@katarzynadunn6059 Год назад

I love it

@user-sv5md3nw7d 5 лет назад

Thanks for the advice! The games looks great and perfect for me! My best dates are when there's actively involved like playing basketball or doing something else, but not sitting in a coffee shop or a bar...

@bonniepickhardt5088 5 лет назад

I love your daughter’s enthusiastic response. If the conversation stalled, I would ask some questions to try to get to know my date better, - his opinions, ideas, dreams, and might relate some interesting stories about experiences friends have had. Sometimes it’s nice to just smile reassuringly, to encourage a comfortable pause in the conversation.

@gorgainde1978 5 лет назад

I wish that too for myself

@1jennifer89 5 лет назад

You're a genius! This tips are awesome! Please post a part 2, 3, 4 and 5! Lol.

@callmelizette 5 лет назад

Hey Mat, thanks for the tips. I'm really always thinking about what to do on a date to make it more fun. I like that. I'm gonna try it out. Bless you

@bonniepickhardt5088 5 лет назад

Thanks Matt for those creative suggestions. I’m ready to give them a try.

@Elofsdotter 5 лет назад

Thank you dear! This was really helpful to me! I am gonna try it! 😃🙏🏻🌸

@halliceola2630 5 лет назад

Thanks! These are great tips, I need to remember them, I could use more tips on making the date fun. I'm definitely going to write these down!

@nastyasmirnova3945 5 лет назад

Thank you, Mat! Can't wait to try these on a date!

@mahagharib6587 5 лет назад

Thank you very much Mat. For the tips.... this is a very good issue to help us with.

@glamoursglowmarisela7884 5 лет назад

Awesome advice!!!

@IkeYru3ziGbo 2 года назад

So helpful ty!

@gigif4089 5 лет назад

Such great advice Matt!! One of my recent dates we actually challenged each other playing video games it was so much fun!!

@hanskraut2018 3 года назад

U love games are you real? 😄

@vanishiaekumi8315 5 лет назад

Wooooww Mat thanks very much so kool am gonna try these tips

@avioletgordon2749 5 лет назад

It's great to have fun games because this way you can be more flexible and open in sharing your true self. Thanks Matt great job👍

@allisonwilliams3714 5 лет назад

I love this! Now I just need to get a date : )

@Avoid_Low_Frequency 2 года назад

Thank you thank you thank you!!! Just getting back into the water!!!

@vlj9013 5 лет назад

It's always nice to be in the present

@janiceweathersby2280 4 года назад

I live this and it is awesome!!

@Joann5 2 года назад

This is really great tips because people have become so complacent with the modern age dating.

@lisaamaral5905 5 лет назад

Love this!! I love games!!

@floweryasset Год назад

People talk more over an activity. Dates can be hard to decide what to do. These are great ideas to spruce things up!

@BrendaBriscoe 5 лет назад

Those were really run ideas, Matt!

@EliteXtasy 5 лет назад

That third phone game is SO cringey! Ladies, don't do that.

@wallis69 5 лет назад

Yeah, I was thinking the same thing. My hair was standing on edge just hearing the role play... hahaha

@marinatiunova7565 5 лет назад

Sorry. What do you mean by "cringey"? I'm Russian. I don't quite understand.

@shannonk1351 5 лет назад

@@marinatiunova7565 cringing is to make a face like something is difficult or a bad idea.

@marinatiunova7565 5 лет назад

Thank you. )

@tanlight45 4 года назад

💖💖💖 be yourself. Ask them questions about what they like doing. Be natural things will flow💖💖💖

@seraphinefolebe7207 5 лет назад

Wow, I love your videos

@blancaisela2621 5 лет назад

i usually go to the mall the first date and just start a vonversation about everything i see. for example if theres a rock band shirt ill be like " hey what time of music do you like"..? "have you heard this band?" then ill see a rugrats poster and he like "what 90s cartoons was your favorite?" and just take it from there. lol

@gorgainde1978 5 лет назад

This has move me I think is hight time to look for a date

@teresai1877 3 года назад

This is a great game. Love it!

@sandrazevallos5077 5 лет назад

I create fun when I tell anecdotes or create moments where we both can laugh about ourselves or our reactions ❤️

@melmel8907 5 лет назад

People watching - you guess their life story, always being kind and humororous.

@cindyleesiuyin Год назад

Thk u and that's impressive for me to start with my first date.

@isabelmejia2431 5 лет назад

Wow! So simple♡ Great advice Mat (as always)!! I can't wait to try these tips out:D I'm a fun person♡♡But these tips R too kool to pass! Lol

@gorgainde1978 5 лет назад

Who 💋 is this

@innachka 4 года назад

Man! Thanks for your channel no manipulation advises from this ☝️guy! I will use all game tips 🙌

@theonejaynewallace296 5 лет назад

Thanks a lot for this video!!! I've been waiting to see how i can lighten up.. ;-) #Greatstuff @Matthew Boggs.

@zechariah4663 5 лет назад

Great story about your daughter!! Thanks for this video, I'm a professional female having this struggle. I have a fast paced, serious and demanding job that keeps me in my masculine energy. I'm trying to let my feminine be the lead energy when not at work. I definitely dress the part, have gotten many compliments at work for years but once I am out and about it's lingering because I'm also a single parent of a teenager. You guessed it always in leadership always on, always thinking about the next move and making sure everything is taken care of. Any suggestions on how I break this cycle? Thanks Matt, you're the best!

@shannonk1351 5 лет назад

feminine energy = receiving. let him be the giver. let him open doors for you, plan dates, do favors for you. he wants to feel successful in making you happy so in every interaction give him a specific way to win (e.g. 'i don't need you to solve this problem but i really do need to be heard & understood. would you help me with that?') with every little thing he does for you, then go a little overboard with appreciation ('thank you so much for listening, i feel so much better since you understand how i feel. you really helped me a lot!'). treat him like a superhero. takes practice but you can change to this feminine energy after you leave work.

@lilai777 5 лет назад

Eres lo máximo, you really rock

@sandrazevallos5077 5 лет назад

The third game is actually cool

@liviaclemente8015 2 года назад

The phone game is classic and was done in the movie Before We Go, with Chris Evan's. A really very cute game.

@jessicaflesher1890 5 лет назад

Thank you Matt this will totally help me for a first date I'm having in a few days

@scarlet824 3 года назад

It made me laugh at the part about being Open. I can just imagine him asking, "Do you want to go back to my place?". Me saying, "Yes!". Then thinking... oops, wait a minute. All in good fun though. I get what he was saying :)

@MD-yl4yb 3 года назад

Even more fun is to have your date play your best friend and ask you questions about your date ! Ouuuuuu interesting 😂

@ivettelee5340 Год назад

i like the phone call game. will use that.

@salimad6501 2 года назад

Thank you for the tips Matt. I am going on a first date and after watching the video I feel good. I might suggest a place where we can play board games

@yadanalin 5 лет назад

Hi Matt, could you explain when a man feels safe ? Does he think he can control the situation? Calling the shots etc.

@drinkmorefijid 5 лет назад

I really like the first one

@Fcacamposs 4 года назад

While walking around, challenge him to play frisbee! 😃

@kimmyfitness_ 3 года назад

Im gonna have a date on September 2nd week. Ive been talking to this guy for quite a long time and at last we will meet. I will use this technique hope it works for us. Thank you mat

@teresai1877 3 года назад

How did it go?

@charleenhopkins3590 5 лет назад

cool story one

@wanderwoman5558 Год назад

Would you Rather..... Is also a good game.

@MissAllaCinderella 4 года назад

The game idea doesn’t work for everyone. Tried unsuccessfully for years to do this, (they would always say, “no” and then it got awkward... ), but worked with the man I’m currently seeing- we now play the ABC game all the time!

@Sanjitza963 5 лет назад

6:30 Reminding me on Before the sunrise movie

@AnantyaV 3 года назад

Exactly, they played that game

@AmieOlsonalo 11 месяцев назад

Watching a really good romantic comedy toward the end of a date can be sweet and fun since a guy usually really likes seeing you laugh and it lightens the mood. Also, during the romantic parts, it’s the perfect setting for some great first kisses.

@michelesanderson5973 5 лет назад

Haha role playing best game ever .... 😊

@GPAnAngelDK 5 лет назад

Go Matt ! 👋... Some women REALLY needs the icebreakers cuz we offen get bombed with survey quest or feels we're a job interview 😱... Or getting un~dress with the eyes from we enter a room or sit down 😒 I 💖 your games... TOO many people are way to busy being grown ups , borring or serious and it REALLY kills or limits the posibilities to have fun , relax & enjoy each others time and if you like fun and the other don't ~ you find out fast & knows you're not a long term match any way 😇😉

@williamb8593 Год назад

I LOVE IT MAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@BeOutstanding 2 года назад

don't judge, being open, be in the present

@paulomipatel3236 5 лет назад

Hi mat Boggs I just one question that I really one boy in the gym and he also really likes me too but I don’t know how to say to him please help me out

@outsidemej 4 года назад

I bet Before Sunrise inspired the last one 😉

@Jakilyn Год назад

I recently met a man who invited me to his house for wine by the fire and card games. Such an intimate way to get to know someone, I had the best time!! A little risky on the first date, but so glad I went!

@floweryasset Год назад

Sounds great. Though I would opt for a library or the corner booth in a cafe as a first date.

@paulettehall4614 5 лет назад

Ok maybe the first 2 but. Pretend to be on the phone...yeah no

@boomerangsruckflug8513 5 лет назад

Yes, it's fishing for compliments and men usually are not that open.

@MissAllaCinderella 4 года назад

Agreed. That makes it sound more like an obligation and forced. No one likes that.

@steviepichols9144 4 года назад

i spice it up with love

@dbayhk5425 2 года назад

I wanna ask if what should I tell him coz he wants me when.and where

@alannakiki4279 5 лет назад

I don’t know......it feels kind of strange to do these games, especially number 3.

@flomar111 4 года назад

I think number 3 game is a bit much.

@elizagms 5 лет назад

Hey hello, I was impressed by the games. I don't like competing on the date, I love you be social and of course fun! I've always been successful with looking for things that my date didn't like and try and find other ways to look into the box and enjoy these in a personal way. Like one date didn't like to try different foods he didn't usually eat! I asked for: If he had a choice what would or wouldn't he try? He answered never sushi! So I asked what then in the Japanese government would he try? He said nothing! My challenge: finding out what... I asked some type of foods with no successes and thought... this is to look inside the box an other way----so I remember the chefs with the grill and tossing foods around! I suggested that we go without asking about pallets. His eyes lightened up and clearing his mouth smirked trying to say no, and yet I caught it and laughed out softly with a smile and tilting my head looked up towards his eyes and said calmly and assertively: For our next date You pick the Japanese restaurant and when we arrive I'll act like a dizzy dummy and ask all the questions for you. Any questions you have you ask me if? Then we can order 2 different meals and I'll ask for some samples! He loved the idea of looking in control of the ordeal and I would help without showing it! He agrees and the date was fun, funny and he got to enjoy Japanese foods, that opened up the door for other restaurants and home cooking different foods for each other. A other way was with church, with a long distance relationship when we would see each other periodically. My date had questions about how important the Biblical history, the facts confuses, how this applies to his life? He didn't want to get pulled or forced into religion. So being a Seven Day Adventist from birth. I asked for some stuff and helped him understand somethings and connected to him by asking him to open up and allowing me to answer what I can. He didn't happily and when he needed a authority to talk to him o asked him to look for a SDA church and visit without comment and he found one he liked and started working with bible studies with his requesting. This bought us closer and more trust built between us. Hope this helps??? Thanks for your videos 😀

@sweetsue4204 5 лет назад

Haven’t dated in over 40 years. Lol! I’m naturally fun, light, bubbly....all those things that are attractive. I see the world through the wondering eyes of a child, waking up daily to joyful anticipation. No need for games in my universe, but these were fun to consider and I’ll likely intersperse them into our play. I believe I may have manifested that man of mine Matt. 💜 Thank you for all the fine-tuning you’ve taught me that I now get to apply.

@beinggreen24 5 лет назад

I like to go to an arcade and play skee ball and see who can get the highest score.. always fun and high fives can happen..

@mariamartello7556 3 года назад

Good for me and my super outgoing boyfriend of 3 years 🤣 he would do all these things and loves to joke with waiters and cashiers. First date I would be so nervs to do any of these!!

@sanskrutigupta3661 5 лет назад

On my first date with my bf .. He and I went to the city museum and i started to act like savage and told him that these all were made and designed by me.. And i suggested to the king of state in 90s.. Etc etc And guess what it was totally different and he really appreciate my Childish behavior.

@johnaganyo9977 3 года назад

CONGRATS inovative. I play games by tosing two dies

@lindsey361 2 года назад

He called me from the pub I live in the uk

@avioletgordon2749 5 лет назад

I play the truth and dare game with my online friend

@smallvilleisdabomb 5 лет назад

I think my thing was I was battling major aniexty on mine sort of date. It wasn't, but it was. But yeah, I think that's why I shut down is because I battle that, though, so yeah not totally fun.

@charleenhopkins3590 5 лет назад

it,s been 4 yrs

@samuelsarpong5196 5 лет назад

Hey man I really need ur advice, I feel my guy doesn't want to be part of my life. I'm saying this because anytime I want to talk about my life or something about d future he kinda ignores it and sometimes wired to me, I don't know if it's because we haven't met before and it's a long distance relationship. I really dont know what to do

@shannonk1351 5 лет назад

he's telling you what you need to know: move on to someone who will invest in you. don't expect this guy to change b/c he won't. this is not the right guy so stop wasting your time. sorry this one didn't work out.

@samuelsarpong5196 5 лет назад

shannon k hmmm ok

@QuangNguyen-dw9je 3 года назад

@@samuelsarpong5196 what ended up happeing? Did you find someone else instead?

@yeyeejaimelamusique 5 лет назад

Anyone know a youtube channel, compagny or forum where I can learn to be more charming with my husband? (What I mean by that, is to learn to be more funny, better dress, workout, how to use my body language and verbal language to influence the behavior of the other person) I really love what you are doing and I'm gratefull for your content! I'm just looking for something to complete what you do, to live the best life I can have with the love of my life.

@teresai1877 3 года назад

There are a lot of "femininity" or "leveling up as a feminine woman" youtube channels. Dr. Michelle is one of my favorite youtubers who discusses what you mentioned. Kopano Shimange and Nikita Okeke are other youtubers who take about tips for women including wives. All the best sis!

@yeyeejaimelamusique 3 года назад

@@teresai1877 oh wow thanks a lot for answering me, much apprectiated!

@charleenhopkins3590 5 лет назад

i look for joke props or story props . i can do impersonations too.

@marieanne1989 5 лет назад

Been going out with this handsome guy,but my brain seems to freeze when around him and I don’t seems to be myself as I will.. 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️I like him though I think it’s me not him

@AnaMaria888 4 года назад

This happened to me many times. It is important to feel at ease in his presence. Probably it didn't work,right?:)

@ladyl8944 5 лет назад

i like games,but i might not so sure if my date will like also a game..

@ellengrace4609 5 лет назад

loida fuentes If you like games and he doesn’t, move on.

@resurrectthenight 5 лет назад

Your daughter sounds charming

@myoung8415 5 лет назад

😂..I like the lets guess the waiters age..I haven't been on a date in a while..I gotta start thinking of some cool stuff to do other than a movie and going out to eat all the Damn time..but I'm cool with it if I get flewd out to Italy for pasta..😂😂.flewd out..

@atyehatyeh6257 4 года назад

Mat , I would really love to learn more dating 60 +6O men are little bit different I would love of it

@MD-yl4yb 3 года назад

Great idea !!! Go for it Mat. Let us know dating Guys 60+

@scarlet824 3 года назад

I think that would be, "just be quiet and listen to me, woman". That's a whole other generation right there, lol

@ashleypeipeiAUS 5 лет назад

I'm 33, still can have a lot of fun in a park ( not the sexual way ), play like a kid 😆😆😆😆

@gorgainde1978 5 лет назад

Hmm am in position for that

@katty936 4 года назад

🙄!!

@ZabZab1 3 года назад

Phone game is awkward and weird ... seems a bit desperate to find out what they think of you

@user-pl3zh8lu3i 3 года назад

Man, I hate how todays society thinks that men and women cant be friends. So when I go somewhere with my girl friend and when we wannt to have fun. There is always that person in corner of café laughing at us how we are "so young and in love"... Like... chill out 🙄🙄 I cant drink hot chocolatte with my bf without feeling weird 😂😂