How to Be More Vulnerable & Expressive In Relationships (EXPRESS YOURSELF ARTFULLY & RESPONSIBLY) 

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Hi Geoffrey, I been with my wife for 15 years. And we have hit wall in our communication. I have been trying my best apply your advice, and I have been seeing results. But I have been struggling with changing my identity. But I believe that over time I will change internally. I attended your master class, and at this time I’m not able to pay for the full course. But I wanted to come on here to let you know that these videos are helping those who can’t work with you directly. So thank you.

Most insightful: asking for permission first, waiting for consent, once given framing it as, "I feel like you're feeling xyz..., what are your feelings/thoughts?" I've been trying this with my bf and from my perspective it's been working. I have learned so much more about him lately, even secret doubts that he had been harboring for a long time. Finding opportunities and planting seeds, also genuine advice.

This is such excellent advice on creating a conversation where someone will be more open to accepting... Confirming you and she both understand and agree to move forward on the same page. Serious communication skills right here! 👏

Great video Geoffrey. Thank you for this advice. Best I ever heard.

This is amazing. Thank you so much.

Thank you for this. The how with the why are eye opening.

Awesome content Geoffrey! I imagine it can help so many people. Thanks for sharing :)

Excellent video Geoffrey. Great insights.

thank you! this was so helpful! ❤️

Yeah I really like this video. Only because I pinpointed the relationship I’m in as the lack of trust one. I found the “Emotional consent” things to be really helpful.

Thanks ❤️ it was great for me

Best video ever. From a girls' perspective this is helping me too👌

This is gold

This guy is great. His principals are great and the way God would want you to lead your family. Be a God loving husband that knows how to lead his family

I was always too afraid to start anything confrontational or talk about anything that emotionally could hurt me and my girlfriend. Now we are on a break.

Awesome content!

Sorry i know this video is 2 years old but it was really helpful for me as im looking for advice on how to get this thing off my chest. The thing is I’ve been with my husband for 15 years. During the lockdown we separated because he cheated on me.. So as you can imagine we was in a very bad place. I thought we was done and we separated but he did the work and did his best to prove to me that we can work through this terrible mistake he had made. We are now back on and its like starting the relationship from scratch, its been very liberating and we have both grown up a lot and done a lot on inner work on ourselves. However he used to have an awful temper and when ever i brought up money he would blow up i then learnt that I cant go to him about finances. Like in the video id feel punished. When we separated i had to do a lot of damage control to just get by, i didn’t want anything from him and wanted a total fresh start for me and our children. I had to use my credit cards for all sorts and im now about 18k in debt. I dont have any loans or cars on finance its just this but it overwhelms me. He has no idea about this and i think he’ll be so angry i let this happen. But when youre with someone who cant deal with talking its emotionally exhausting after years of baring the brunt of their triggers, i just learnt to tred on egg shells instead. It keeps me awake at night and i want to desperately get out of this hole and now we are back together i want to share this with him, i do not expect anything from him still financially but its more so i can get this burden off my chest and be fully vulnerable with him. As a woman im just tired, im tired of being strong, doing my best, everything feeling like a struggle. I know i got to start somewhere but i want to be in a relationship that i can share this big thing with someone even just so they can see im trying to own it and im not a bad person because im really not. We have been doing well but we are obviously fragile, im scared dropping this bomb will cause a huge reaction in him and he may walk away from me. I know hes messed up but he really has a lot of shame for what he did to me and i dont want this to be our reality forever. All i want is my husband back, the one where i was safe to go to him about anything i dont want to be in this masculine place of energy where im not fully open, i can feel the conflict inside of me about this debt and it needs to come out. I actually don’t even know how and when to bring it up. Im so nervous but at the same time i also know deep inside i was only doing what i had to at the point in time so im trying to be accountable but also not punish myself. We have two children and i just did what i could to get by and not have to go to him after he had just broken my heart in such a awful way. I want to believe he is the man i think he is fee down and justvgo for it. Or else what is the point. Im also hoping he see’s me trying to be open to him as a sign i do trust him and i want him to be my safe place again. So what do i do?

You provide hope and excitement !

This was really helpful!!! Excellent content!!!!!!

Examples of the learn to get an emotional agreement?

Being vulnerable takes me out of my mindset for a little bit. I’m in early stages of this process. Is that normal.

My husband keeps telling me "I can't talk to you that's why I talk to my "friends" instead." That's his answer for every issue so we don't get to address them. Very frustrating

After 2,5 years together , she left me saying she doesn't have feelings for me anymore , i should go no contact till she comes back byherself right ?? And during that time i should learn and understand why things went wrong and how to become better ,right ? What do think?? I would love to hear ur opinion about this

So what to do after youve explained that you dont feel the safety to share, they then say that youre just pulling that card for no real reason?

At what point do you start this. We’ve been separated five days

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I am married and have been with my wife 16 years and she wanted space she moved out a month and a half ago she did tell me she loves me two days ago if she wanted to divorce do you think she would say that and no I don’t think she is cheating at all?

you've just saved me a 340 dollar investment for self therapy , in one video I have a clear idea

Sorry...just not going to happen. I'm 58 and I've never been vulnerable with anyone or opened up to anyone. I will never trust anyone enough to ever consider it.

why you gotta be heteronormative though?