How To Become More Emotionally Attractive 

Becoming emotionally attractive is extremely important to re-attracting an ex, meeting new people, and maintaining a relationship. If you don’t do the work it will come back to haunt you

Being accepting and understanding is the most attractive trait. If that person isn't on any level they're not worth the time.

We have to be more present, not worrying about the past, future or opinions. Have to get your behaviors under control and enjoy that we are back together in this moment. We need to shift on becoming better in our relationships and every area of our adult life.

Mindfulness is essential for mental well being.

This is one of those videos that you have to save to a personal playlist and replay daily. This is my third time watching it and I still feel like I learn a little more each time. Thanks, Coaches!

People really can sense your mental health. A few times this weekend, I had several friends tell me that "you seem like you're in a really good spot." They saw me at my worst earlier this year, now it's completely different. A couple that saw me before the pandemic while I was still in the relationship remarked with "dude, you seem way more healthy emotionally now." It's funny, for me it's been a bunch of small changes, but bring it all together and show someone you haven't seen in awhile, and they really do see a "new" you. I understand why eventual contact after an extended period works now. If you make changes and offer a whole new package, people can't help but notice. Guessing if my ex ever comes around, she'd notice, too. Still not completely over it but I'm taking my time to get this right. Not for her, but for my life going forward. Getting there towards a success story, and hearing other success stories with or without an ex keeps me motivated. The channel's due for a new video on that!

We gotta quit worrying about the future, as in what " may" happen. We need to be more present. We need to heal from our past. This was a really good one video, Thank you!

Thank you for this video - not only are you explaining what to change but how! These key points on differentiation will not only help in romantic relationships but with friends and family too. Becoming secure is the healthiest thing you can do for yourself - and I learned that from this channel. Keep these videos coming!

Hey Craig and Margaret! I hear often about how people reach out to you and say they wish they'd found you sooner....well I did! I was able to learn and recognize my own need for personal growth and was able to turn a potentially bad situation into a much better one. When my anxiety starts, I just come to your show and listen and I start feeling better. It helps me see the good instead of the bad and to understand my own issues. Thank you for all your help. Take care

This is excellent. What a wealth of wisdom Margaret possessed! Such a loss!

Thank you for helping through such a tough period in my life. These videos are priceless 💯

This is a wonderful perspective. Thank you very much and more of these, please!

Thank you for the great video. Coach Margaret your insight in this segment was so helpful to me. Bookmarking this video!!

Happy Monday Craig, thanks for posting

Thank you for all your hard work, coach!

Great video. I'm unaware of any possible connection between the content that Margaret presented and cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT), but I was reminded of it. Thanks for the video.

This is great information. I like to listen to you guys in the mornings before work, while I stretch. This message really came across, for me.

Great topic, love what You do! Thanks again! 🙏

Thank you so much for this video...it was very informative!

This channel is such a blessing, thank you for posting!!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

Thankyou for making this video, it was my emotional state and worrying about the future and not living in the moment that caused my relationship to end. I really have learnt life lessons from this breakup.

If only I had found these videos while I was still in a relationship with my ex. I feel like me being unable to differentiate from my family was ultimately the downfall of my relationship. I didn’t stick up for myself and set my boundaries with them. I let their negative comments and attitudes consume me and I carried it over into my relationship. I took it out on my ex and ultimately he got tired of my bad mood and being put second to my family. He then left me. I’m really hoping I get another chance with him..

Margaret is a living legend. Sharing this material is so helpful and of course you guys sharing your understanding is also huge. The comic relief does help too but I'm left wondering what banter was edited out 😭. The dynamics may contain more to learn from. 🌞

Wonderful insights in this video. Thank you!!

Very good topic and well researched bravo Margaret! :-) thank you!

They should teach this stuff in school.

This was one of my favourite videos. Thank you so much

Margaret was great. Thanks for these videos

This was great! Effective examples of relationship faux pas. Aha moments abound‼️ thank you 🙏

So much knowledge 🤯🌱

Hey Coach Craig, appreciate all the video content you have done! :) I don't recall seeing a video on the topic - monkey branching. Perhaps, you can do a video on it? Thank you!

I did my thesis on a comparison of Jung and Freud's dream theories

This video makes me miss my dad. We had a good relationship like that where we were individuals and connected in that way

Sand trays are so wonderful. I like the little figures. :3

Great topic 👏

I first learned about Carl Jung Playing a game 😂, the game was called "Control" delved into the concept of your inner self and your outer self and synchronicity and how your thoughts can be transmuted to reality. I've been reading up on the subconscious and conscious mind and psychology for about 5 or 6 years now and I learn something new all the time.

I worked at a department store and it stirred up enough trauma for me to start my crazy learning, healing and growing journey. It was like a petri dish of sorts with very contrasting cultures and people coming and going with management that address nothing probably because their just overwhelmed by it all.

more on becoming emotionally attractive!

Wow This subject blows my mind and hits so deeply. Thank you Margaret Craig and Victoria on this one. Tears...time to get to work. I got the Knowledge Craig. Thank you

Awesome!

Did Margarete begin two times with the first Step? I am confused :D

We need emotional health in someone, as he says we can sense or even witness when someone is out of control, they get triggered, and likely are passive aggressive, not health, for it will repeat.

I treated my woman like a queen and still got dumped. Was attentive to her wants and needs, but treated me so cold and wanted nothing to do with me towards the end...

Can differentiation occur "too early" in childhood? If so, what issues/challenges might result from this?

Can anyone tell me what the workbook series is like? I’m considering getting it as I know I need to do a lot of internal work. Is it beneficial for someone that is dealing with low self-worth and cravings for external validation? Thanks everyone

What about the context? Economic crisis, lots of work, insuficient economic power at hand, etcetera.

Everyone is different and has different opinions.

But what if they broke up with you to go and hook up with that other person and then ... they come back?

Women also cause with her lack of attentions the demise of the emotional atraction, is not a sole factor of the individual, both have to juggle the variables, its a work of two.

Stress levels increase without support of the couple and those are the triggers for explosive discussions and problems. Specially if you live with a narcicist. One can never done enough to mantein those monsters happy. There are jobs that deal with agenda(future) and you cant withdraw from that stimulae, nor with the context problems specially if your couple never help and is responsible and acvountable of compromise and participate in the homme and couple life.

I dont agree and share that all the emotional responsibility sshould be charged in only one person (both man and women are responsible). The rigth way to correct this is trough therapy but it seems that everyone is happy to blow the relation off to smitherins first and then glue every little part toguether again and that is harder.

Start dictation hey Craig I’m dating a detachment personality girl and it’s kind a hard for me to understand her but I’m trying to make it work with her because I love her so yeah I’ve been watching your videos for a think about a year or two now and they help me a lot better

Gracias,,,, !!!! . I’m a gay man who has been watching your videos and even might be for straight people. . My 18 years boyfriends decided to move on, 2 month ago. Soo I did begging, crying and work the relationship but he was cold soo decided to move on was very hard still hard he cold me and I text back acted cold and asked Do you need anything or a mistake cold he said a mistake I’m ok soo fur I’m a very attracted man soo talking to others guy but still love him

My ex…undifferentiated…I lean towards differentiated. Would this be a red flag for incompatibility?

Day 32 of no contact and I feel defeated..

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My (long time now) Greek ex-wife used to explode over any issue…. I thought it was Greek culture…. Sounds like she was bi-polar…