You Can Destroy Attraction Quickly

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You can destroy attraction fast. In this video we talk about how and why
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Have you ever had someone's interest level drop on you quickly?
Coach Craig talks about how easily your behavior can turn someone off.

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@kimberlys4075 6 лет назад

Great video. I do not latch on to my dates at all. Then I finally met one man I truly connected. Then I managed to screw things up with my anxious relationship style. So weird how that kicks in when you finally meet someone you’re digging.

@kintuinka 2 года назад

Same here :(

@Zemohc Год назад

Well that's the definition of anxiety. You're afraid of losing the one person or thing that can take care of you or make you happy in a meaningful way. Of course you're gonna freak out and try to control things to try to keep them in your life.

@sshuteandrew 6 лет назад

Yes, the trait I loved most in my ex was his ability to make me feel safe. No feelings of safety, no respect. No respect, no love.

@jmarie4875 6 лет назад

I know you are a busy guy, but you need to write a book for people BEFORE they go into relationship with your information. I wish I had known a lot of your teachings BEFORE some of my dating and relationships.

@CoachCraigKenneth 6 лет назад

I know. I’m so busy I can’t keep up. But it’s a priority

@That_Handle 4 года назад

Hear here!

@kimdarling7177 4 года назад

Hi Craig! Can you do a video on the difference between "neediness" and vulnerability? And why vulnerability can seemingly kill attraction?

@robertjelinski5113 6 лет назад

Emotional self control...such profound words... in any situation! Thank you again Coach Craig!

@CoachCraigKenneth 6 лет назад

Margaret is finally doing Skype coaching! :)

@kimberlys4075 6 лет назад

Do either of you have office hours in Orlando? Also do you accept Florida Health Care Plans? I tried reviewing your website but seems you only do the online/Skype coaching???

@davidu8688 6 лет назад

Coach Craig Kenneth who's Adrienne Lima? May have to look her up.

@LaoSoftware 6 лет назад

I refuse to beg someone to be with me. If they want to leave me, good riddance. There are other fishes in the sea.

@everzamora9031 6 лет назад

LaoSoftware Agreed!

@ladyinthelocker 6 лет назад

I agree. But I’m now in the phase of having recently broken up with my ex and men I have met for now can’t outshine my ex ...I’m starting to feel I can never meet anyone, not to mention someone that is more outstanding.:(

@MrUntiendX 6 лет назад

Hang in there, and be strong. Time is your friend, investn in yourself and understand how much this pain, moment and phase will help you evolve even more. It hurs, stings, depressing, etc.. Trust me I know. But your happiness is the key and understand YOU are the one and only one who can help you in the long term.

@sshuteandrew 6 лет назад

LaoSoftware - would you easily let go and move on if you felt love for them and were attached to them? I’ve let go easily, but only when my feelings weren’t involved.

@EasyPeasyVegan Год назад

Fish is already plural

@caroliner2029 Месяц назад

I've only discovered your work here this week Coach Craig, and have been watching your back catalogue of videos. I want to comment here that these real life case study tutorials are both engrossing and valuable. Thank you very much, From Australia.

@Ssengel69 6 лет назад

I am strong. We are all strong! Do no stop! We will all prevail!!!

@daisyg7822 6 лет назад

Amazing video! Soo true about moving too fast and not displaying your worth. Thank you for sharing your mind and knowledge! We all need to hear this❤

@miguel92996 5 лет назад

Omg 😂 I did a lot of what this man did ... thanks for all the info ! No contact for almost 4 weeks !

@chasesebastian3064 4 года назад

Of all the videos I have watched of yours, and I have watched ALOT of them and this is the one that the light bulb went on.

@blackcurrantpop 6 лет назад

I've dated guys where I wanted to take things slowly to get to know them. And by the 3rd date they start insulting me or making me jealous talking about other girls. They later tell me that they did that because I didn't show enough interest and that I don't care. This happening within 2-3 dates. What could've been a great relationship starts off with insecurities and hurtful behavior. I should've stopped at that point instead of giving them the benefit of the doubt and continuing. Would've saved me heartache.

@jhonjohnjonjondoe5011 5 лет назад

wow amazing did you really get jealous? I think you shouldn't have and you should of told him maybe you should go be with them girls you talking about then. Men are terrible t body language so your body language might of showed high interest but because you were not verbally telling them how you feel they felt insecure. Congrats you weeded out the insecure men.

@sunflowers2469 4 года назад

they sound like creeps!

@aeb1492 Год назад

Sometimes I just watch these videos just to think "well, at least I didn't fuck up that bad"

@FireExistence 6 лет назад

Coach you're the best, thank you for the knowledge and the laughs! I sure need them

@MYNOR213 6 лет назад

damn!!! i made all kind of mistakes. HELLPP!!!

@marykerr5024 5 лет назад

Can’t stay in the moment when it’s long distance! It doesn’t work! Heartache just continues over time! You will always stay disconnected because there is no connection! I texted my ex all night long for lots of nights because he was ignoring me! This man is 57 has never been married. Doesn’t have a home, lives with his mother and he thinks he is the ego, narcissistic person that knows everything! He says all his exes always still text him! I don’t believe him! He is the most insecure man I have known! He’s the most manipulative person and doesn’t want to burn any bridges! I feel he has used me for the past 8 years! You can’t feel safe when they are 5 hours away!

@arlenesanchez9562 6 лет назад

Hi coach, LOVED your video as always! Can you do a video on unconditional love? Thanks!!

@teesahurt2074 5 лет назад

Only person I am aware of that gives UNCONDITIONAL LOVE IS THE MOST HIGH. GOD....

@jmo9641 3 года назад

@@teesahurt2074 ahahahhahahahahahahahaahah

@teesahurt2074 3 года назад

@@jmo9641 What made you laugh? Truth ?

@psalms1163 Год назад

Great video bro

@sshuteandrew 6 лет назад

This guy would totally drive me away. He was weak and needy from the first date! And telling her he’s heart broken and sad is not attractive. As a woman, I want a strong, confident man!

@denzaharo9326 6 лет назад

Stacey Swope I'm a guy and I agree with you . Hollywood has confused men into thinking that women want weak snag . Reality us that women want strong alphas .

@adishankaracharya4988 6 лет назад

And you have it. He is an avoidant.

@dum.vivimus.vivamus 6 лет назад

He seems to be in love, that's why he's already attached to her after two dates. It is rare for a man but it may happen. this man seems to be a tender one with warm feelings and this is something hard to find.

@denzaharo9326 6 лет назад

Georgia Papadopoulos and surprisingly women are hard wired not to be attracted to that . Do you agree ?

@jhonjohnjonjondoe5011 5 лет назад

den zaharo i agree but 2 people can fall in love at first sight.

@Luminous.Dynamics 5 лет назад

He's doing everything all wrong 😂 comes off as a cowardly dude, 0 masculinity

@teesahurt2074 5 лет назад

Sounds like this guy has some type of ISSUES. Dealing with ANXIOUS SOMETHING...

@Beatlemaniac1983 5 лет назад

Hallelluja! ❤❤❤❤ Near match to my situation!!!! Age gap, child, avoidant and anxious!!!!

@teesahurt2074 5 лет назад

AVOIDANT and Anxious/ Disaster. Heart broken disaster, and AVOIDANT bury their feelings so you know who was left with all the pain. And I was never told anything about this disorder he has so I was truly thrownaback by his WITHDRAWING behavior and stopped sex, kissing, touching, holding hands etc. text, calls from on 100 to 0.5%. I kept asking was there something bothering him. He say nah. We good. Ok. So He just stopped answering phone for days. Small things I asked him to do. He never did. I ask again, not done... oh so he can't do anything for you either because he believes at this stage in the relationship, every body should be SELF sufficient and needing others is a sign of weakness, I verbally went in on his behavior and Omg. I was not nice. He turned into a monster, ok. Like he never knew me and said he has NO FEELINGS. BLOCKED ME AND WENT ON LIKECI NEVER EXISTED

@6thmercury 6 лет назад

if we cant think of a person that we are dating as someone who can gratify our needs, then who is supposed to gratify our needs if not them?? i know you'll say its us but what if the person we are dating, has alot of the qualities that we are looking for in a partner? are we not allowed to fantasize on potentially having them as a romantic partner?

@sshuteandrew 6 лет назад

vanessa v. I think it’s normal and healthy to expect your partner to meet your needs while you meet their needs. The problem lies in expecting your partner to meet all your needs, placing them on a pedestal and expecting the partner to be responsible for own happiness- which of course is unrealistic and unfair to our partner. Also, that kind of pressure placed on a partner can cause them to run away.

@6thmercury 6 лет назад

i agree but some dont know that to just expect all or nothing. Some is good whereas all isnt realistic like you said.

@falischaperez4864 5 лет назад

Hey Coach Craig. I just wanted to say that besides being amazing, you've got great taste in women. 🤣 Adriana Lima and Natalie Portman... I completely agree. Thanks for all you do and I am forever grateful. I will be sending a success story shortly.

@DreamBeatsBakery 6 лет назад

Are long distance relationships even relationships or just some weird fantasty play? I get it If it's like love on first sight and life tragically forces you apart but people are building entire relationships with people they don't even know. It's kinda crazy If you ask me.

@sunflowers2469 4 года назад

DreamBeatsBakery if they have good communication & are attracted to each other, it can be a relationship imo.

@OceanMetTheSky 6 лет назад

if you are still friends and still text but youve made the mistake of doing this texting thing too much and not actual in person interaction, can it be turned around if we'd begin hanging out in person? do you think the attraction would rebuild? Please reply.

@thtboirich_ 6 лет назад

Great job Craig

@kayleeguth7291 Год назад

My same exact situation 😞 except I pulled away during intimacy, and then he ended it 2 days later

@Beatlemaniac1983 5 лет назад

What's your advice on personal development in this respect, though?

@nikm2045 Год назад

23:05 pity kills attraction

@stephenn77 2 года назад

Hard to display confidence when you’re rejected left and right… People (guys) suck! In the next life we’ll be free from the judgements of others and free from the pain of this physical world.

@Dad_Brad 4 года назад

A woman sleeping in your bed showing a high level of attraction and desire to hook up, you get to the foreplay and suddenly hit the brakes. I think there’s gotta be more going on here, something just seems off. Normally a guy is going to hook up and make her his lover. It’s one of the greatest things in life. There’s definitely not going to be any anxiety the next morning after a night like that.

@Sarablueunicorn 4 года назад

I've crashed many guys beds before without feeling high level of attraction or intended to hook up, I just felt comfortable enough to sleep there, not threatened. Don't think with a woman's brain.

@stargazerlily8451 6 лет назад

Mid 40's, too nice guy syndrome, too soft, doesn't know when to escalate things. As an older man, he should already know about seduction. Hes more emotional than the woman. He needs to work on cultivating his masculinity and seduction skills. Also, does he realize that in 20 years he'll be in his mid 60's and her in her mid 40's? This is recipe for disaster as a long term relationship. A short fling yes. long term no.

@SAiNT_Ryan25 6 лет назад

18:35 I'm a little confused. She reminds him that "they're just talking and not married" and that he's "coming onto her too strong". He subsequently backs off and gives her some space. She then says "you're pushing me away". How is the guy at fault in that situation when he's seemingly giving her what she was asking for, which was for him to just ease up a bit?

@jhonjohnjonjondoe5011 5 лет назад

because he was supposed to pull all the way back and go no contact. That also means don't be a butt hurt little boy at work and don't be around her trynna let her see you sad. That is trynna put a guilt trip on her in to being with him. When a women is telling you those things just pull back and let her come to you. That would of never happened had he fucked her and only hit her up one to 2 times a week.

@Luminous.Dynamics 5 лет назад

@@jhonjohnjonjondoe5011 you're completely right lmao. that dude is nothing but a beta

@marykerr5024 5 лет назад

Can’t stay perfect! I am the catch ! He knows it! He’s a mommy’s boy! Please do a video on Mommy’s boy!

@sunflowers2469 4 года назад

a guy hopping in bed w a woman so soon is a huge turnoff. that’s what happened. “a tall glass of you” is so cringe but I think she was cringing inside and didn’t want to say her real answer (which was probably “nothing, don’t bother”) also women don’t say cheesy things like that or try hard to flirt, so that’s unnatural, she was trying but then couldn’t bring herself to continue

@Sarablueunicorn 4 года назад

Exactly. If a guy is so anxious to take the woman to bed and setting dates at his house she will think that's only what he wants. There are plenty of fukbois around

@frankwhite9170 3 года назад

Judgmental and idiotic assessment.

@iconicsavage2327 4 года назад

“2 dates”!

@samanthamills8899 5 лет назад

craig ur so funny omg

@paigeturner4525 6 лет назад

20 years? DILF obviously haha

@CoachCraigKenneth 6 лет назад

There was no F... Just texting.... So hes a DILT

@paigeturner4525 6 лет назад

Coach Craig Kenneth but she "liked to"... initially anyway, yeah? Haha ;-)

@brandonf24 2 года назад

11:20 take advantage you fool...she's a consenting adult not a servile romantic partner that you make decisions for. 🙄 You want connection and intimacy? Stop getting in your own way. Minimize chitchats in text, set dates, and save all that energy for it! Anticipation and attraction helps establish the intimacy necessary for a relationship.