the last part is so real. I've always felt lonely and not belonging with anyone, but this one time I saw somebody saying on the internet "of course you don't fit in, you're custom made" and it just made sense.
@@tintedqualia i think what she/he is trying to say is if you change your self like idk attitude looks and people like the way you look or how your attitude is and more and more people develop around you staring and all it makes you feel nervous and uncomfortable😅 idk how to explain
I've always had this kind of insecurity about being "forgettable", so to speak, I even complained "I'm so incredible how come they act so indifferent towards me", anyway I learned a lot in this video, thank you alessia!❤
For the individuals who fear being disliked will eventually become slaves to other people's judgement, as a result they end up seeking validation from strangers, which speaks to their emptiness
You are defining me. This is exactly how I am. It took a long time because I was a people pleaser but I am totally magnetic now, they either hate me or are obsessed with me. 🔥
@@Persephonesmind thank you thank you thank you soo much, cause of your videos things have been so better for me, im soo grateful that I came across you, you gave me the confidence I needed, I'm just so grateful to you. Please keep on making videos, i appreciate everything about you, thank you. I too lovee you soo much.💗🌸
im so happy to relate to everything u were saying. I was never afraid of standing out and all of my friends, relatives or even people I just met told I was really extravagant and that I easily stand out, that I looked smart and confident. I am proud of being somebody that u can spot easily and proud of being myself. LOVE U ALESSIA. im proud of being unforgettable.
Peace be upon you,Alessia. I appreciate you so much as a Muslim. Music is haram in islam and most videos have background musics on it but i really appreciate you for not putting unnecessary background musics on your videos!:) and i most definitely appreciate your perfect timing and work you do for us🤎 cannot thank you enough for how much you builded so beautifully my personality as a person,truly by your help i gained so much knowledge and become unrecognizable whenever i follow your advices.🤎If you're reading this i love you beautiful queen!🤎🤎
You have truly changed my life, and I am forever grateful to you. Your aura has changed since the first few videos you’ve made, and I can tell you’ve had even more spiritual growth, and I’ve grown a lot since first watching you. You are like a mentor to me
Been looking at so many related videos these days but here at yours I finally got all my answers! You solved all my doubts. Thank you so much, you are amazing!!! ❤
True guys, I realized this way before that I'm the only child in my family who kind of break the traditions and their rules coz simply I've my own reasons and at some points, I just don't find them meaningful. Now I started to notice how some (cousins) are getting inspired by me lmao and its like they've been waiting for someone to speak up. P.s being the odd one is definitely not for the weaks. The amount of hate I got from my own relatives and friends just by simply choosing what I love to do is insane. But I'm also somehow happy that yes I'm not doing anything wrong, I'm just doing what I love and saving another generation of my family to suffer from all those mentally exhausting things. I'm proud of myself. Thanks for this video. It just boosted up my confidence. I love this!
queen posted❤ could u do next time another video talking about detachment in borderline terms? How do you PERSONALLY dealt with detachment as a borderline person? For me is kinda complicated (I also have a sociopatic diagnosis so every time I know someone I tend to manipulate them without even realizing and they leave me as soon as they recognizing that). It would be interesting seeing how you mature your detachment (I know is not easy, and it takes TIME and TERAPY) but everyone has a different way (as a borderline)
OH MY GOD, I just thought “if Alessia posted a video right now it would be perfect” and you just did. How can you always appear at the perfect timing EVERY SINGLE TIME?? It’s unbelievable how connected I feel to you. I love you so much beautiful🤍
yea ! I am one of them. i don't fit in with those group. i am the one who always speaks up, even though so many people hates me.. but there are so many people who loves me as i am. i am so blessed....
I was the one girl who always quiet and can't do nothing even tho i am annoyed with loud people cz i am afraid of ppl won't like me if i say my opn but this vd make my life changes! Thank you persephonemind, we all say in union
Your videos truly are a sign from god I asked god for a sign and in the same minute not even same minute not even 10 secs later I got a video notification . Maybe it’s finally time to be who I am?
