How to Come Out | MTF | Transgender YouTuber 

I’m 19, and stuck in a family that wouldn’t accept me. I don’t have enough money to move out yet, and I know that they’d kick me out if I came out. On the plus side though, I came out to a friend, and they were very accepting. I’m glad I have a good irl friend who accepts me as a trans man. Let’s just hope that I’ll have the money to leave soon (I’m getting a new job soon). Thanks for the video. I really appreciate it.

Also if I can add. If you're coming out as mtf, you will lose privileges. I always knew as a man I had certain privileges and checked them as much as I could. But being a woman in the world, specifically a transwoman, you're at the bottom of the privilege totem. It's quite drastic actually. Not trying to scare anyone, just saying this is still a mans world.. Unfortunately.

NEED ADVICE: i have a very conservative family and all of them have slowly become more conservative over time. i've been trying to keep the people i grew up with from losing themselves to this, and damn did i put in some actual effort trying to deradicalize them. Now I'm in my mid 20's and i'm realizing I can't be happy with them in my life, constantly retraumatizing me. The problem: I have no clue how to ghost them. My family relies on me to be their therapist. I want them to get better, but I cannot be the one to do it. I don't even live with them anymore but they don't stop leaning on me. My mom wil quite literally not sleep if she thinks I'm in danger (she's like, racist racist, and i recently moved to a place that /isn't/ 90% white). My dad's a joe rogen and jordan petersen listener who's a straight up narcissist. My older sister takes affter my father, and takes immense pride in being the oldest, racks up debt and then sees how long she can livev with each family member before they get upset. My younger sister believes vaccines cause autism (both my partner and I are autistic) and she trusts cops to such a degree that I can't have normal conversations with her. I need to heal myself and be the person I've known I am. The person I've shown them again and again and they've looked away from. I've already come out to my sisters, and my online footprint is impossible not to follow if you're in my family. They don't want it to be true that I'm trans. I feel like afraid they're going to say "we knew this from an early age about you" and then continue treating me the same. I wish I could say "Look at the art you told me not to make. Look at how I act online. Look at my friends. I was here the whole time and you didn't notice." I try to google help on how to ghost your parents as a trans woman but this is such a complex situation that that makes you see things that are genuinely exhausting to come across as a trans woman. Anyway thanks for reading, I hope another trans woman knows /anything/ that could help, I'm just really trying to ghost my parents.

Just hinted at my mom by asking about the only trans person in our family and she put the word “brother”in air quotes.... there’s no hope for me

I’m in a pretty accepting family but certain people might try to misgender me to hurt me but I’m ready for that

I have been searching around for channels like this for advice,it is tough to come out whether its family or out in a public setting,i know that living in fear constantly is not the answer and i have done that for a long time,be yourself and the rest will be fine.

Im a 13 year old male and i know that im trans (mtf) but im super scared to come out to my mom because I don't know if she is going to hate me and disown me

Thank You So Much I Am Coming Out Soon And I Needed To Know How To Start The Convo

Great video, thank you, needed that

You look so pretty 🥺 your such and inspiration.

Great advice. I came out to a few friends in the past year. I have started counseling and have many outfits. Physical transition will be starting most likely in late 2022 or early 2023. My employer will cover it under my insurance if I live life as a female for 2 years.

I posted a photo of my new me without telling snyonr it realizing what I had done. But I couldn't deny who I really was any more. Do liberating.

Love your energy it’s so uplifting!! 😍😃

Amazing video 🥰 This video gave me so much wisdom and guidance and also very much linked to transgender visibility video. Additionally, I would like to make video on how trans women can pass without any thoughts.

This is a great video. May I ask, what do you do if someone asks you and you aren't ready to tell them?

I feel like I accept me as a woman so everyone else does but it’s like simple for me idk I just never felt like being trans was a big deal and I am trans!!!

I'm literally closeted to just the people in my immediate life like family(Extended included) but I'm basically out to everyone else from people on the intern and super close friends. I must say tho, after I came out to like my closest, I've just been dropping T bombs on everybody.

When I came out as a Demi girl I just told my mom. My dad still doesn’t know. A few years ago my cousin came out as trans mtf And watching some family members reactions to that most of them were supportive there were a few that weren’t.

It's a very nice video Thank you so much for making it. I'm definitely going to subscribe to you.

I am not sure how to come out as trans fully(MtF), I was thinking of doing it today and on my social medias. Fb and on discord and figure out how to at work but I also still don't feel like that is smart without starting the process already. My family knows and I have my circle set up for support and I am doing voice training. I just don't feel up to presenting all the time and I know that isn't a requirement but it would help when I do come out to be able to do that. I am just overwhelmed with all of the parts and overwhelmed with helping my body represent how I feel and what I am which is I am a woman. Should I get a trans therapist first and work with them on this? I have been meaning to but I don't know what direction I want to take just yet.

I love your glasses

Thank you for the vid but also your very pretty I can’t ☺️

Thank you.

How should i tell family on Christmas that im tans women? I need ideas

I want to come out so bad and I really really want to start hormones but I’m just so scared that it will be too hard and I’ll give up on it, but I want to start right now yk? (Mtf btw)

Great video

My mom always says she's supportive, but always goes on rants about how "most trans people are faking". I'm scared she will think that of me.

How should i tell My family and 2 stepsister and my mom and dad on Christmas i want to lell them that im transgender women and how should i say it

I want to come out to my dad's family on Christmas because that's when we are all together They are supportive of LGBTQ i think And honestly it's the safest environment i could do it on But idk how to do it or if my parents (they already know) will be okay with me coming out I'm scared the wife of my grandpa will be upset because idk her opinion on this and i don't want to cause a fight or something

She's definitely worth it... 👩😍... 😆 But seriously, this has to be harder than anything I can imagine; they have my support. Of course, you'd most likely have no choice but to come out to your parents eventually, I would think... However, there's one MTF RU-vidr I'm following who's considering not coming out to her dating prospects once she's had SRS; she's thinking about going completely 'stealth'. I'm not sure about that; it seems kinda shady and potentially dangerous.

I’m Trans 14 years old I’m coming out soon probably in January im very scared but I’m ready and I need to I’ve hid my identity for too long it’s been like 2 years since i realized I was Trans

I did not have a plan and the only thing I regret is not having savings. I was blindsided in a surprise divorce which resulted from my ex cheating, and with no job bc I was watching her son it left me with a huge financial struggle. I am still trying to find employment and have to go out to pantries everyday, I continue to try to be positive believing that I will find a job and move out of Texas permanently.

What do you do if you are older and afraid of your kids being taken away

Is it nervous coming out as a trans women transtion from man to women and tell family

Hi girly lol❤😊

I didn’t think u were trans at first

I’m actually so scared to come out but I’ve always felt different but my family is transphobic:(

I don't even know who I am anymore

Well. Try to make short. Felt like a female since i could remember. I learned to hide very well. But still continued with my girly habits. With out no won knowing. Tryed to be societies idea of a male. Just made me very very Angry. Thru my life. Was not good. To say the least! So after being force to come out at work. Which i no longer work. Big surprise Not....i Dont care what others think. I will trans.. I Will Die Happy When the day comes.