How to deal with TOXIC family members | Tips to protect your inner peace and mental wellbeing

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How to deal with your TOXIC family members | Protect your mental wellbeing and inner peace
Description: Is blood really thicker than water? After facing extreme physical abuse when I was a child by a close family member, I beg to differ.
The word “family” can bring to mind an array of complex emotions. Depending on your childhood and current family situation, these feelings could be mostly positive, mostly negative, or an equal mix of both.
If you’ve experienced a toxic family dynamic, your feelings may go beyond frustration or annoyance. Instead, interacting with or even thinking about your family might cause significant emotional distress.
Toxic or dysfunctional family dynamics can be hard to recognize, especially when you’re still entrenched in them. Here’s a look at some common signs, what to do if you recognize them in your own family, and how to protect your inner peace and happiness.
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@TrishLee Год назад

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@tessak2175 Год назад

One thing I’ve learned from having toxic family members is just because you share blood doesn’t make them family. Family is home. Family is a sanctuary. Family is a safe space. The people who make you feel the sunshine on cloudy days are who you need the most in life.

@TrishLee Год назад

Very well said, not all blood related could treat you just like a family, sometimes they are worstt than that! But there are people who isnt blood related but will accept and love us for who we are, that is true family! Thank you for watching! ❤

@rubyanasysu4260 7 месяцев назад

Absolutely! Thank you!

@raisa_cherry35 7 месяцев назад

👏👏👏 beautiful words

@Ibhumika1 4 месяца назад

😭

@buttercup86900 2 месяца назад

I agree

@AjurisStyle 9 месяцев назад

To me and to be honest...strangers have helped & supported me more than family members

@TrishLee 9 месяцев назад

Yes, it is possible, dear. Sometimes those people we don't have any relation with can strike a good connection with us. That's why it is also a good thing to talk to others sometimes. 🤗

@AjurisStyle 9 месяцев назад

@@TrishLee exactly and I'm thankful for them all ...both families ❤

@sutanyalove9174 Год назад

I have been struggling within a toxic household for years and because of that I had to start therapy. I had to pick myself up and mend the broken pieces. I have learned to walk away and don't try and fix it and just like you said in the video everyone has their expectations. This video is a reminder that not because we are related means that it's good for you. Whoever, reads this please don't let no one tell you that you are unworthy.. And please walk away from whoever that doesn't care about your well being 😢

@TrishLee Год назад

I am so sorry to hear that and you had to go through all that, we dont deserve those kind of treatment because we deserve to be love. We need to protect ourselves and prioritize it more than anything or anyone else, cutting off people is much better than suffering from them! I am really hoping that you are doing much better there now, always take care my dear and know that you are worthy and amazing ❤️

@sutanyalove9174 Год назад

@@TrishLee Thank you. Am doing much better, where am able to leave my home. Those brutal moments taught me a lot and because of what I have been through am able to be at peace and encourage others to do the same.

@mihirimahsultan8391 6 месяцев назад

Yes I am agree with you I am not worthless and you are not worthless just to forgive everything and think positive I am too suffering pain for many years I too want to walk away from these family members may Allah help me

@sabrinao.699 4 месяца назад

Allah is not going to help you because it's an idol. Jesus Christ will help because He is alive today and the Bible makes full sense with the world today. God is by your side.

@buttercup86900 2 месяца назад

Thanks... this is very importsnt advice for me because i think my sister doesnt care about my well-being 😢 i hope u are oki now

@emilyjoansmith 3 года назад

Protecting your peace is so important! Can't wait to hear this!

@TrishLee 3 года назад

So true, dont let others destroy it! Thank you for coming dear!❤️

@sasaha8389 11 месяцев назад

Ugh i am at constant fight with questioning myself, emotions and my morals...the past expirience with family and friends brought me to this point

@TrishLee 11 месяцев назад

Really sorry to hear about that, no one deserves to feel the need to constantly question their existence! You are a beautiful and amazing human, dont let anyone mistreat you. You deserve the world, I hope you are fighting there and doing much better. Hugs dear! ❤️

@SamElle 3 года назад

i definitely find it so so hard to deal with toxic family members. I used to always think family comes first and that I should overlook anything they do. Ive come to realize that I shouldn't tolerate their behavior if its damaging to me!

@TrishLee 3 года назад

True, and most of us think that way always overlooking for their wrongdoing cause you dont want to cause trouble for them! Yes, never tolerate them as to how they treat you! Thank you Sam for stopping by here! ❤️

@KirstenQuickFit 3 года назад

What a difficult situation- family toxicity is so hard!! Very good information- forgiving and moving on is such good advice- thanks Trish!

@TrishLee Год назад

Definitely difficult if your loved ones is the one that is hurting you too! Thank you for watching!❤

@ChoogyNet 3 года назад

They are everywhere but the worst is you can't stay away from them since it's family. Great topic

@TrishLee 3 года назад

Yes, but you could choose how you would let them treat you! Do not let them abuse you, even if they are family! Thanks for coming! ❤️

@AsteriaUniverse Год назад

Toxic family members are such a bad influence on psychological health. I am struggling with that everyday and it makes me feel sad. I try not to resent them, but at this point I really don't see any other option then leave and let that people behind. It has been very tough last half year, although I really tried to sincerely talk to them and set boundaries. It just got worse by time. Draining energy out of me every day and even kill my self esteem and inner peace.

@TrishLee Год назад

Having this kind of family really drains out people and it affects their life, having the choice to leave is one of the things that you could do to prioritize yourselves because you cant overcome it if you dont cut them off! We should prioritize ourselves too!❤

@NowHereBlow 3 года назад

It’s their problem only .. Not ours... No worries...Happiness is forever Great thoughts..Have a blessed day ❤️

@TrishLee 3 года назад

Very true, just focus on your own! Have a blessed day and thank you for coming!❤️

@SadafHeals 3 года назад

I resonate with this so much, I always talked about this that family can be toxic and can manipulate you to do what is best for them. Being aware of it is important! I had to consistently fight to stand my ground and it took years to come out of that Mindset that Family is everything! Thank you for sharing! PS: I was thinking of making the similar video;)

@TrishLee 3 года назад

Great to know it resonated, yes you just need to stand your way or they will just continue to mistreat you for their own good! Yes, will be lovely to watch that!❤️

@KenJKnight 3 года назад

Blood is thicker than water. Always pondered on this statement. First I was like... hmm yes, the consistency of blood is more of a plasma than liquid.. then later on in life I understood the meaning that a sister or a mother is more important than a friend. But theeeen, even later in life I understood that some friends can be even more precious that some family members. I would go to hell with a good friend.. but I would not go to heaven with a bad family member. Awesome vid Trish!

@TrishLee 3 года назад

Well said Ken, its just a that we sometimes they might really bring you down just because they dont like what you are doing! Sometimes friends treat you better! Its different for everyone! Thank you Ken for dropping here, appreciate you always, I've noticed that one of my comments on your video is missing I think It is a bug on RU-vid!

@KenJKnight 3 года назад

@@TrishLee i have noticed the same thing. Some of my comments have disappeared on other channels. Weird

@TrishLee 3 года назад

@@KenJKnight I thought Im the only one and I am really worried about it! It's one of the bugs of RU-vid now.

@KenJKnight 3 года назад

@@TrishLee yeah. As a programmer I am really surprised to see something like this on a website like this. They might be testing some new autonomous algorithms

@yohaneztheos2556 3 года назад

Interesting insights and how to engage with family because peace is essential for our well being. Thank you for sharing 🔥

@TrishLee 3 года назад

Yes, peace is very essential! You are so welcome, hope you like it!❤️

@guitarwithmattpugliese 3 года назад

Thank you for this video, Trish. There are members of my family that dwell on events that happened in the past and unfortunately never look forward. We are all mostly at peace with each other now and hopefully that will remain. When you stated there is no exact answer that will work with everyone I immediately said to myself, Trish is SO right.

@TrishLee 3 года назад

Thank you Matt, so glad this one resonated well! Hoping the same on you, everything will be fine! Take care!❤️

@jasonherrera7017 11 месяцев назад

"choose to forgive them, simply because you value your happiness and inner peace more than being right." thank you for that. those are words Im going to live by!

@TrishLee 11 месяцев назад

Yes, forgiveness will give us the peace that we want. Thank you so much, glad this resonated with you! ❤️

@BendnStretchwithSue 3 года назад

Such an important talking Trish, One that is not often addressed. Absolutely wonderful that you would share this insight With the community. I am forwarding this to someone who really needs it. Thank you so much for what you do🥰🙏

@TrishLee 3 года назад

You are very much welcome Sue, happy to know that! Gladly share it to someone who might need this, nice to be in help! Thanks! ❤️

@JoinDrSuri 3 года назад

Love this video, Trish. You're so right in terms of regulating expectations we hold from toxic family members, while also establishing strong boundaries with them! 🙌🏽 🖤

@TrishLee 3 года назад

Absolutely, so glad this video resonated with you! Keep safe! ❤️

@clairemwangi8275 5 месяцев назад

Remember... Family are who we choose, relatives are chosen for us

@TrishLee 5 месяцев назад

Very well said, anyone can be our family too! Thanks for watching, stay well!❤

@rossimorey2340 7 месяцев назад

I value my happiness, inner peace & HEALTH!Thank you for reminding me of my purpose 😊

@TrishLee 7 месяцев назад

Yes, value those things that makes you happy and what makes you at peace! Thanks for watching!

@anthonyoreta 3 года назад

Great tips! Good sharing my dear, watching here from United Kingdom 🇬🇧 and thanks for sharing

@TrishLee 3 года назад

You are welcome, so happy that you like them! Have a great day ahead! ❤️

@SimpleLifeSG 3 года назад

Great video. Lots of people face this issue in their family. It is always good to keep a calm mind when speaking to someone who is toxic in the family. Love what you shared about forgiving 👍👍👍

@TrishLee 3 года назад

This was a nice topic, just as you said lot of people come through this! Thank you very much for watching! ❤️

@MindfulnesswithKiran 3 года назад

Trish! you are GLOWING in your thumbnails. Well done, my friend. Excellent work xoxo

@TrishLee 3 года назад

Aww, thank you very much Kiran! Hope you have a lovely week!❤️

@LIVINGAUSTRALIASINHALA 3 года назад

So beautiful work dear!!

@JacquelineOrtizSelfLoveDiva 3 года назад

TRULY powerful! You are having such a great impact on people! Keep shining your light!!!!!!!!!& leading the way for others to the lights!

@TrishLee 3 года назад

Thank you for always appreciating my videos dear, will do! Thank you again!❤

@FrugalOverFifty 3 года назад

This is SUCH a crucial topic. I appreciate your addressing this and adding nuance to a very difficult topic. It can be so heartbreaking to deal with a toxic family member/situation. Thanks for talking about this.

@TrishLee 3 года назад

You are so welcome dear, yes it can be heartbreaking because we really love our family! Thank you too for coming!❤

@techworldwiz 3 года назад

Reminder set! Cant wait, every time i watch ur videos i gain some unique perspectives

@TrishLee 3 года назад

Cant for this one as well, hope you will like it! So happy that you are learning here! Thanks!❤️

@techworldwiz 3 года назад

@@TrishLee definitely! Gotta appreciate your talented and support

@TheMoodyArtistChannel 3 года назад

Got your channel playlist playing this week starting now. Will share a few videos, too ~ thumbs up!

@TrishLee 3 года назад

Thanks a lot friend, so glad to know! Have a great day!❤️

@helenaquejano2930 3 года назад

I'm so thankful my family's is Wonderful

@moonectar Месяц назад

Your advice is compassionate and wise! I'm subscribing! Thank you! ❤

@TrishLee Месяц назад

Glad to hear that! Thank you for watching too!❤

@JonathanSorunke 3 года назад

Great video! Deal with difficult family members is a very difficult task but I really like the suggestions you made!

@TrishLee 3 года назад

So glad to know that Jonathan, thank you for dropping by! ❤️

@MindNow 3 года назад

*This is something that I struggle with or have struggled with, but now I came to accepting it by making the best out of it*

@TrishLee 3 года назад

So happy for you, always make something positive out of every situations! Thanks for watching! ❤️

@DiwanEnih 3 года назад

Very interesting. Toxic family don't let them top of you. Thanks for sharing sending love 🇦🇺 have a wonderful day and to all god bless

@TrishLee 3 года назад

True, dont let them use you or hurt you! Much welcome dear, God bless you!❤️

@MindsettoMastery 3 года назад

thanks for sharing Trish! great point at the end- so important for forgiveness for your own benefit

@TrishLee 3 года назад

You are welcome, so glad you like this one! ❤️

@LifesMagicalJourney 3 года назад

So powerful! Thanks for sharing Trish! 💙

@TrishLee 3 года назад

You are welcome love, thank you for watching!❤️

@TurystykaiPrzygoda 3 года назад

Very interesting considerations, thanks for sharing. I really like watching new and interesting video. You have an interesting channel, so I'm staying and watching. Big like, stay connected. Have a good week.

@TrishLee 3 года назад

Thank you very much, I appreciate you here! Have a good week as well!❤️

@HowDebbieSaves 3 года назад

Trish wonderful job explaining the topic. I know first hand what you’re addressing.

@TrishLee 3 года назад

Thats great to know, thanks a lot for coming Debbie! Have a nice weekend!❤️

@HowDebbieSaves 3 года назад

@@TrishLee Trish are you on Instagram? I’d love to connect.

@serenerelax2334 3 года назад

Very good tips for protest family inner peace and mental well-being. The Love and forgive Is most important. Thanks for sharing.🙏

@TrishLee 3 года назад

You are so welcome Serene, so glad you like the video! Have a wonderful day!❤️

@lovingchannelmusicproducti8493 3 года назад

Wonderful tips.. So inspiring my friend.. So beautiful sharing.. 🌹🌹

@TrishLee 3 года назад

Thank you for the lovely words, means so much! ❤️

@golsathisewing 3 года назад

Wonderful tips, i love listening how to protect one's mental wellbeing and inner peace

@TrishLee 3 года назад

Yes, it is in important thing we should know how! Thanks for dropping by! ❤️

@kennyssaladmaster 3 года назад

This is such an amazing and helpful way of handling toxic family member. Thanks for sharing dear

@TrishLee 3 года назад

Happy to hear that it is helpful, much welcome dear! ❤️

@JoyEro1 3 года назад

very important to find the right time to speak to them...this is so packed with wisdom

@TrishLee 3 года назад

Yes, so that you could talk properly and avoiding some problems! Glad to know Joy, thank you! ❤️

@khardonsadventure7790 3 года назад

Thanks for the advice and this is helpful when you have a toxic family.. Buti sakin happy and love family lang, walang stress sa family.

@TrishLee 3 года назад

You have an awesome family, glad to know friend! Most welcome!❤️

@TheOldMayfieldPlace 3 года назад

Great advice, Trish! Fortunately I haven't had these problems with family members, but I know families that haven't spoken for years and that is so sad.

@TrishLee 3 года назад

Thats great that you dont have to deal with them, cause its will burn you out! Thank you for the visit dear, hope you could have some contact with your family members! ❤️

@wandermai 3 года назад

This is really interesting.. Its true there are sometimes toxic FAMILY Member, ibe experience that. But I choose to forgive, Let Go and forgive.

@TrishLee 3 года назад

Forgiveness will let you be in peace, glad that came over this problems! Thank you so much for watching Mai! ❤️

@patriciawalters959 3 года назад

Very impactful, holding on to the past is not good it can even hurt your health ❤❤love your content

@TrishLee 3 года назад

Absolutely, the past is in the past and we should move forward! Thank you Patricia, so glad to hear that! ❤️

@fatememirhoseini5369 Год назад

In my country, Iran, today is begining of new persian year(Nowruz). I feel alone and upset becuase such a problem that you mentioned. Thanks for good advices, I am going to try them.

@TrishLee Год назад

I really hope that this video helps! You are much welcome! ♥️

@beverleybrangman2191 Год назад

Very helpful, all these things make sense if we are dealing with someone who is not also suffering from a mental illness, thank you

@TrishLee Год назад

Thank you for watching the video! Stay well! ❤️

@emilyjoansmith 3 года назад

Great video Tirsh, thank you for talking about such an unspoken subject. I've struggled with this in the past!

@TrishLee 3 года назад

You are welcome girl, glad you came over it! It could really be stressful to have them near us!

@BanshanMarwein 3 года назад

absolutely great conversation and important topic, keep sharing Trish

@TrishLee 3 года назад

Thank you for coming, will do! ❤️

@annscustommadejewellery6676 3 года назад

Omg your natural light is so awesome.And you speak so much truth 👀 yes but hopefully the other family member won't be ignorant to accept what you are saying from your heart .Toxic people hurt people tfs hun

@TrishLee 3 года назад

Well said, family should try to understand your points! It could definitely hurt and thats why we need to be far from them! Thanks for watching! ❤️

@PoloCapalot-jy2oj Год назад

Thank you very much for this. I’m going through it right now and it’s really hard emotionally

@TrishLee Год назад

Sorry to hear about that, I am wishing you well and I hope thay you could get through this! Hope this video helps in any way too!

@PoloCapalot-jy2oj Год назад

Definitely does! I feel less alone@@TrishLee

@Dare2danish 3 года назад

Great topic, I think one more important thing we need to accept and be mindful of is that as you stated, nobody is perfect, so being mindful that in some situations we are the toxic one.

@TrishLee 3 года назад

Well said friend, yes nobody is perfect and all that we could do is be better and always be mindful as to what you are doing! Be aware of what is the situation always! Thank you for watching the video!❤️

@luckyjin 3 года назад

Wow, I love the channel! Good opinions, good content! I share your thoughts.I always support your wonderful channel.I hope you're always lucky~~~^&^

@TrishLee 3 года назад

Thank you so much for watching this video Jin, hoping the same to you! Have a lovely week! ❤️

@goodlifewithjin3102 3 года назад

I'm excited for this dear as I always experience. Waiting here 🤩

@TrishLee 3 года назад

Yes, me too! Uploading tomorrow, thanks for the support Jin!❤️

@BrightBishnu 3 года назад

Very useful....... You are about to slove problem of many people

@TrishLee 3 года назад

Yes, and I'm glad to be in help! Thank you for watching the video! ❤️

@minifoodies9448 3 года назад

I enjoyed ur videos 👍 Happy to see u friend and good luck

@TrishLee 3 года назад

Its great, glad to hear you enjoyed this video! Thank you for dropping by! ❤️

@KiahLopez 3 года назад

Girl you are so pretty ❤️ making videos like these are so courageous 💜💜💜💜💜

@TrishLee 3 года назад

Happy to share and to be in help through my videos, thank you for your appreciation Kiah! ❤️

@KiahLopez 3 года назад

@@TrishLee 💜💜💜💜💜💜

@michaelcooper7154 3 года назад

Absolutely masterful and insightful session Trish. thanks for sharing such inspiring words ❤️❤️❤️

@TrishLee 3 года назад

You are welcome Michael, so glad this video resonated! Stay well~!❤️

@beautifulquotes012 3 года назад

Another good video topic! Thanks for sharing.

@TrishLee 3 года назад

You are so welcome Annie, have a wonderful day ahead! ❤️

@sophiayuna 3 года назад

so true Trish! you've made some great points - I love this topic bc it's so relevant to my life ❤

@TrishLee 3 года назад

Thank you Sophia, really nice hearing that from you! My pleasure to share! ❤️

@GLOWwithTrinh 3 года назад

Thanks a lot for such an awesome video Trish, this are so insightful! Yes, we can't choose them but we could choose how they would treat us, be that in mind all the time! We could confront them if both of you are in the right state of mind and the mood is also a setting factor for how the outcome will come! Thank you for sharing! ❤️

@TrishLee 3 года назад

Thank you Trinh, you are so right about all of this! Hope you are doing well Trinh! ❤️

@hitapaudio6959 3 года назад

Thank you my friend for making this video and this important topic which is quite controversial. I can´t say I share your experience in the same way but I´ve had some disagreements with family members for sure and I therefore recognize that feeling you describe.

@TrishLee 3 года назад

Yes, sometimes we just need to approach them properly for this kind of things and make sure you are both in good terms when it comes to family problems! Spread love! Much welcome dear! ❤️

@PragmaticEmpath 3 года назад

Thank you for bringing up this vulnerable topic. I definitely needed to listen to this. 🙏💙 by the way I love the setting you are in!

@TrishLee 3 года назад

I am so happy you like it, thank you for appreciating dear! Some of us might really be in this situation now! Welcome much! ❤️

@TrishLee 3 года назад

You don't get to choose your family, but you do get to choose how they're allowed to treat you❗ Watch next➳ How I built RESILIENCE against people who try to put me down: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-dq2e1pg_DBc.html

@RoastedStudios1 3 года назад

Excellent work 👍

@silviyegurung7357 3 года назад

Loved it! Thanks for sharing, Trish.

@TrishLee 3 года назад

Thank you love, glad to know! ❤️

@DENTOSTORM 3 года назад

I hope I could safely apply this to friends and colleagues also. Otherwise I could just wait for that video 😁. Insightful video as usual, Trish....

@TrishLee 3 года назад

Hoping for that too friend! Thank you for watching! ❤️

@morefifacollege8971 5 месяцев назад

My dad forgets his HUMBLE beginnings and my mom lacks WISDOM actually all of them at my home....

@TrishLee 5 месяцев назад

Sorry to hear about this, there are just toxic members and we cant really choose them we just have to choose how to overcome it and have the love and peace that we deserve! ❤

@MARKRIDERph 3 года назад

wonderful advise as always sister. thank you

@TrishLee 3 года назад

You are welcome, glad you like this video Mark! ❤️

@scottunkefer3753 Год назад

This was helpful. Thanks Trish.

@TrishLee Год назад

Glad to hear that! Thanks!❤

@PatriciaAbijah 3 года назад

This is really helpful, most family members can be your bane

@TrishLee 3 года назад

Yeah, and we should be careful because they are just near us! So happy to hear that this is helpful! ❤️

@Why_Knott_Me 4 месяца назад

I'm here because my fathers side of the family (not my dad) has judged my poor life choices and talked about me behind my back instead of to my face. They come up with their own conclusions without having all of the facts. I have the majority of my family support but I keep getting hung up on the two people who are negative to me. I was betrayed by these people and still feel it lingering all these years later. I wasn't innocent in this particular situation but I was also 19, being manipulated negatively and didn't realize I was in an abusive relationship with a particular person until over 5 years later. All my family saw was that I messed up and didn't care why.

@TrishLee 4 месяца назад

I am really sorry to hear about this dear, it’s completely normal to feel hurt and betrayed. Those emotions are valid, so don’t be hard on yourself for feeling that way. Have you considered having a direct conversation with those family members? I know it might be difficult, but explaining your side of the story and how their actions have affected you could bring some closure. Even if they don’t change their opinions, it might help you feel better. Being manipulated while you are still at such age is terrifying because they control you and you are not aware on it, Im glad that you are over those hardships and free from the relationship as well. Its nice to know that you have the support of your family as well at those times, thats really important. Their positivity can really help balance out the negativity. Maybe spend more time with them or lean on them when you’re feeling down. Setting boundaries is also crucial. Protect your mental health by limiting interactions with the judgmental relatives. It’s perfectly okay to do that. Remember to focus on your present and future. Letting go of the past can be hard, but try to set personal goals that excite you and give you a sense of purpose. Practicing gratitude can also shift your focus from negativity to positivity. Think about the good things in your life and the people who love you. Positive affirmations can boost your confidence too.

@Why_Knott_Me 4 месяца назад

@TrishLee these mistakes happened 10 years ago. And I don't think my personality is liked so that could also apparently be a problem 🤣

@Why_Knott_Me 4 месяца назад

@TrishLee I spoke my piece to one of the family members I felt were believing false rumors about me (read previous comments) and although I may never get a response, I spoke up and stood my ground. I feel much better.

@shradhadietontip 3 года назад

We can’t choose family members but we can do best for self peace and protection 👍 waiting for this one

@TrishLee 3 года назад

Well said, focus on yourself and be happy! Excited for this one as well!❤️

@shradhadietontip 3 года назад

Be kind and respect everyone is best way to handle relationships. Well said. Genuinely very helpful. Thanks 😊

@Insightology 3 года назад

Trish I love this video so much! Thank you for sharing your story and your vulnerability. It’s so relatable. This topic itself is very close to my heart and this video is appreciated. Xx

@TrishLee 3 года назад

You are welcome my dear, so glad to know that! Appreciate you as well! Keep safe!❤️

@ابوخالدعبداللطيفابوالشيخكن-ب3ع 3 года назад

May you continue to succeed, success, and progress, progress and prosperity in every good Your channel deserves the best like and deserves Your channel deserves the best post Your channel deserves the best followers Your channel deserves all the love God maintains communication between you and us duty pink Translation from Arabic to English

@TrishLee 3 года назад

Thank you so much for dropping by here, have a great week!❤️

@rrocketman 3 года назад

Solid advice, thanks for this👍

@TrishLee 3 года назад

Thank you, much welcome friend!❤

@dr.suezettealoysiaandcarla1664 3 года назад

Excited and waiting 💫🤟🏽

@TrishLee 3 года назад

I appreciate you, thanks a lot!❤️

@SKETCHUPARTANDCRAFT 3 года назад

Awesome topic my friend 👍 Nice tips 👍

@TrishLee 3 года назад

Glad to know that, uploading this soon!❤️

@hamidkochtschnellerezepte 3 года назад

Das beim Frühstücken zu beobachten und was für ein toller Start in den Tag wir können am besten für selbstfrieden und schutz tun

@TrishLee 3 года назад

Self peace is important, glad that you are here and watching the video! Thank you friend! ❤️

@FlourEggsYeast 3 года назад

Reminder set 😊

@TrishLee 3 года назад

Thanks my dear, premiering now !❤

@FlourEggsYeast 3 года назад

@@TrishLee what country are you in? I realized that this premiered at 3am where I live in the US. I’ll be watching this AM.

@IamMartinez 3 года назад

Choose to forgive 💜 I love this :)

@TrishLee 3 года назад

Absolutely, be the kind one! Thank you for watching ! ❤️

@IamMartinez 3 года назад

@@TrishLee you're always welcome 💜

@MeutiaMalahayati 3 года назад

Hi, nice sharing😍💕

@TechLidBull 3 года назад

Family is usually a slippery slope sometimes. I think they mean well but their expression towards us can be off. When I started my YT channel I didn't tell any family because I didn't want my idea shot down, instead I'm just doing what I'm doing with my own vision.

@TrishLee 3 года назад

Thats true, just let them be and work towards your goals in your own way, they might not really support you over it and bring you down! Thank you for this response! Keep safe! ❤️

@adventureawaits5003 3 года назад

Good advice thanks for sharing

@TrishLee 3 года назад

Welcome much friend, glad this one helps! ❤️

@raisa_cherry35 7 месяцев назад

It’s hard being around a toxic family member. You can neither severe ties with them nor run away from them. But it’s not ok to keep offending feelings of one’s blood,i would say people who are not blood related tend to be much better,for instance my acquaintances and neighbours with whom i have healthy ties if not getting along frequently but our tie is intact even if we meet irregularly. Unfortunately every family in this universe has that one villain in their family who always try to set fire to their own blood’s happiness and envy that they are leading a peaceful good life.

@TrishLee 7 месяцев назад

Very true, there are some family members who would really want to destroy things and broke the relationship within the family, sometimes its better with strrangers! Thanks a lot for watching! ❤

@tc4583 23 дня назад

What you're saying works for people who want peace with you. This can't apply to toxic family who gang up against you and only want to hurt you. They don't want to understand and they don't want peace.

@TrishLee 21 день назад

"I hear you, and I understand that not all family situations allow for peaceful resolution, especially when it feels like people are actively working against you. In cases like this, protecting your peace may not be about finding understanding with them, but rather about setting boundaries to safeguard your mental and emotional well-being. It’s true that we can’t control how others behave, but we do have control over how much access we allow them to have in our lives. For some, that might mean limiting contact or creating emotional distance, even if they don’t want peace. It’s never easy, but protecting your peace is always worth it." Thanks for watching! Hope you are well!

@hifriends3607 3 года назад

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@TrishLee 3 года назад

Thanks a lot for dropping by friend, happy to see you here!❤️

@CelesteLaura 3 года назад

Can’t wait for this one!!

@TrishLee 3 года назад

Thank you so much Laura, premiering today!❤

@caffeinated7352 3 года назад

Very interesting tips! ❤️💜

@TrishLee 3 года назад

Thank you so much, so glad to know that!❤️

@sonaligagneja6893 Год назад

what to do when someone in need of a psychologist refuses to take professional help and continues the toxic behavior creating hurdles for other family members.

@TrishLee Год назад

Having professional help is absolutely needed but if you cant force them to do that then all you can do is cut them of and put some distance cause they could affect you too!

@Demi_God423 9 месяцев назад

Im 26 and moved with my family because of financial hardships, my mother has always been physical and verbal abusive. Though I am in the same situation right now but I will get out of it soon. If I can you all can. Have a lovely day everyone :)

@TrishLee 9 месяцев назад

Nothing is permanent, Im sure that there is a beautiful life waiting for you and you will get out from all of the pain and hardships! Always take care there and I am wishing the best for you!

@SingleOnEarthTarot 2 дня назад

Thanks dear!

@TrishLee 3 часа назад

You are much welcome! Thank you for dropping by here too!❤

@feliksbatara 3 года назад

Thanks for great sharing my friend

@TrishLee 3 года назад

You are welcome my friend! Thank you too for watching the video! ❤️

@reenaverma3295 Год назад

But if your mother is like that what can we do because we have to live with her only as i am 13 yrs old so i cant go any way

@TrishLee 11 месяцев назад

We need to talk to them and make them realize the right thing because a mother should love her childrens! You are a child yet had to experience this, I hope that this could help in any way.

@reenaverma3295 11 месяцев назад

Thanku for helping me ❣️

@OnlineToolsTutorialsEighteen 3 года назад

Waiting for the premier.

@TrishLee 3 года назад

Thank you so much dear, premiering in a while! Excited for this!❤

@EuniceMontana 3 года назад

Theres family like that. But choose to be peaceful

@ema8413 2 месяца назад

My sisters don't put me down by what's said to me, more like what they say to each other about me or by excluding me from everything. Sometimes feels like they want nothing to do with me. I'm just inconveniently there. I'd be there for them but they can even share a picture to help me promote my art. Hell they don't even give so much as a casual glance or a oh that's nice. It hurts, especially when I have done things for them. They just don't want me to be part of the family.

@TrishLee Месяц назад

I’m really sorry you’re going through this. Feeling excluded, especially by family, can be deeply painful. It’s understandable that their actions would hurt, especially when you’ve tried to be there for them and they don’t show the same support in return. You deserve to feel valued and appreciated, not only for your art but for who you are as a person. Family dynamics can be complex, and it might help to express how you feel to them, if you think that could lead to understanding. It’s also important to focus on your own well-being and surround yourself with people who uplift and support you, whether they’re family or chosen family.

@thanhhuyenchu378 3 года назад

so beautyful my sis

@TrishLee 3 года назад

Thank you dear, happy to see you here!❤️

@camon_op Год назад

Thanks a lot I'm a 18yr old girl from Pakistan and all my relatives and grandparents keep mentally and physically harassing us but my parents are still willing to live with them in a joint family because of financial issues that they can't afford a separate house on rent. Despite the fact that already they have wasted 5yrs just in conflicts and doing nothing else productive. I have this sense of peace of mind because before coming to Pakistan my parents and I lived in Kuwait for 13yrs and were leading a luxurious and peaceful life but now I grief every second just thinking about my past and suggestions for me anyone?

@TrishLee Год назад

I am very sorry to hear that it is happening to you, you dont deserve that kind of treatment because what we deserved is to be loved and treated with kind! Those kind of family should be talked to and know what their problem it, you gotta voice out every pain you are having because of them in order for them to understand you! Financial issues really is tough one and theres so much you can do as an 18 yr old, hope your family sees what you are going through! Always take care and wishing best for you! You can go past all of this!