HEIDY NUÑEZ I hear ya Heidi...it gets better trust me..you’ll be just fine...Leo doing things that take your mind off it while striving to be your best self
Accept and express your emotions. Accept it’s over. No contact. Cut them off. Hobbies. Friends. Ask yourself what it’s really about? Why is it hard to let them go?
timmy yusuf honestly my man! give this a go and I can promise you you'll feel better and you will grow from this! If you feel like you want to talk or you have questions drop me a message on insta @ jchizzy23 and I'll be able to clear up any questions you may have :)
Ergge Bfdfd Don't worry about it man! you'll definitley grow from this experience and thank you for watching and commenting man, i appreciate you sharing that with me :)
Thank you so much. My husband is leaving me after 15 years and it's so hard to let go when we've made a life together for so long. Your voice is calming and reassuring
JesusLovesMe2 + Thanks for the encouragement...I'm still healing. I feel like I'll never find the right one. I've been alone most of my life. I've tried looking nice, praying, staying busy, dating sites and nothing seems to work. I just want to not care about love if I'm not going to have a love life. It hurts also that people around me seem to find someone with little effort. I've even asked God if I was cursed or just destined to be alone. I'm grateful for my health, job, and the few friends and family I do have. I would just love to have that soulmate to spend the rest of my life with. I hope your doing good and hopefully your heart is joyful.
May Phoenix I know that’s how it seems now but God knows all things. I was just in a courtship with a Christian man who really broke my heart. He put his hands on me and hurt me. That ended and now I feel very much alone. God made a man to be strong to protect us- the weaker vessels, not to hurt them 😔. Many days I feel that way too, but keep the faith in God and allow him to transform you from the inside out.
This has been a constant struggle I go thru. Rejection has been so crippling to me that at the age 25 im considering celibacy for the rest of my life. When you been rejected as many times as i have, you wonder if its even worth it. And if you do manage to find someone, you feel like; "well nobody else wanted me, so this guy is going to date someone nobody wants". being single isnt all that bad anyway. Giving your heart to someone is a huge risk.
Kennedy Antoinette i wish that were the case for me:( my ex left me yesterday and our 2 years is in 2 weeks :( he said i was clingy and annoying and he couldn’t lie abt his feelings anymore. i thought he was my person and it hurts so much
sofia aguirre and yk I was dealing with a guy who said we were exclusive but he was ready for a relationship for a year. Then found out he was sleeping with someone else. So sometime things don’t go the way we want but you learn to deal with the hits and keep rolling
Alex Roman hey man! big respect to you for having the courage to tell her how you feel! that's not always easy but don't sweat it man, this experience will make you stronger ☺.. and I appreciate you commenting man, im honoured this made you feel better :)
First don't try to have strong feelings for the person. Second don't keep asking the person out. Third if they like you as a friend but not romantically get over it. Four think of what you want in someone special. Five don't settle for anyone.
He broke up with me the day before Valentine's day 😭I felt so dumb on Valentine's day 🙁 I cried in school in front of everyone thanks to God he wasn't there at the moment bc when I saw him my heart sank 😭 and I tried staying strong in front of him but I just couldn't. I ran out of the class and cried on my own😧😭
May Phoenix oh I’m sorry to hear that but yes I found the perfect person and it’s my bestfriend . I can’t believe I didn’t see it earlier. But hope you feel better
For four years. I've been in love with a woman who doesn't give two shits about me and i was even still in love with her even though I knew the truth. This video makes a whole lot of sense and maybe I'll take this advice to heart.
@@Mrshoottokill I'm doing excellent, thanks for asking. Met a few more girls and eventually got really close to one. I stopped chasing and hoping for the wrong girl and moved on. It ain't easy, but they're are many good people willing to talk out there.
I enjoyed the video!! Life sometimes just doesn’t make sense. Especially, the people that are in it. People will hurt you , and act like you hurt them . 💔😢
I've been seeing this woman for 9 months now, I put more time and energy into her than any other woman in the past and she told me she wants to be friends and heal herself. Thank you for this video. Every single day is a struggle to conquer my emotions. It's no easy task and your video is a good guide. Much appreciated!
all of the steps you said I did them before watching your video and it helped but what caught my ear was when you said about enjoying your own company,making you happy
I met a guy that had every quality Iv been looking for. We clicked instantly, talked laughed! I wanted to make us official but he didn’t want a relationship. Days weeks then months of back n forth of be my BF and me trying to b his friend hopefully he will finally date me. Well long story short I blew up and told him how I felt, now I’m blocked from everything on his side. And I’m hurt hurt! Was his feelings just lies? If a man likes u and wants you around then what’s the issue? I can’t stop thinking about him!
Lauryn Chandler hit me up on instagram or on snapchat and we can talk. I'll be more than happy to help you :) ( insta: jchizzy23, or snap me @ yochizz23)
I understand that completely cause I'm in the same situation. But I had to walk away completely cause it was breaking my heart. I lost 50 pounds, I was crying myself to sleep and I was becoming bitter. I finally told him, I couldn't be friends with him anymore. But I'm glad you still have a friendship. Only you know what's best for you
My girlfriend just broke up with me. This really does work and honestly just realize that it is over and move on look forward to what is in the future and don’t look back in the past
All of this sounds so easy but its the hardest thing in my life right now. I just don't wanna hurt anymore, I don't wanna be sad anymore, I don't know how to pick myself up.😔
So you cannot be completely happy.. until you're happy by yourself. You know what man, that's the reminder I needed, I use to enjoy my own company until I was too dependent on this special girl. But now I remember how happy I was on my own. I appreciate that.
Look man, im 3 years late to this video, but I appreciate you big time bossman. Ive been hurt countless times by people i couldnt get over and honestly i just needed to realize that i need to find my own happiness. Youre working wonders my guy thank you fr
It's hard to move on when you see them moving on in life and with someone else. but you can't, due to unemployment and having life kick you down constantly. Sometimes I wish life can just fast forward till the day I die, so I won't have to worry about these things.
Fell in love with a married women whom I started to adore & the feelings felt mutual. I haven't heard from her in a few months. It's best to leave her alone and do my best to live my best life.
And what if you work at the same place with him and when he always acts like nothing happened before and starts to talk to you every time he sees you??
*I'm dealing with my emotions and have accepted this coward's choice to block me out of nowhere and move on after you just said he so called loved me, wow... He's heartache don't need him...*
This was amazing.. This is perfect. Thank you so much. Every word you said was so helpful, I took so many notes. Hopefully in the future when I come back to re-read this comment again, I'll have moved on from my lover x) thank you!
ReplayzJinxA hey man! props to you for having the courage to tell her! 🙌.. and ayy don't worry about it, hang in there man, you'll grow from the experience :) .. and thank you for commenting man, im glad the vid has helped you in some way :)
Joshua Chisambo i shut her out of my life cause i feel like i have Bipolar cause i get a moment where i start to think of onw thing and all my sad feelings for her attack me (i start cryin
It's amazing how we fantasize about that special someone and the entire time, it's just an illusion in our minds. Slang term for Illusion is a "Fools Paradise" Then the music does nooooo Justice 😂😂😂😂😂
Dude, she led me on for 5 months, then her friends told me she never really even cared. I would sing her to sleep. Write songs for her. And just be everything I could. And she never cared in the first place. Thank-you for this video
i have been through this recently and it worth guys don't stuck to people who don't want you,move on there are lot of fishes in the sea...even better one..once you meet them,you will laugh out fresh..once you are over you will never want them again😉
This is great and spot on. I have been trying to move on from a guy i grew to really like at work but he doesn't feel the same way. He now has a gf. This advice helps both with the self reflection and dealing with the hurt with not making the cut with him. Thank you :)
Dani Marie thank you! And you get it, it really does make a difference. We learn so much about ourselves through self reflection so you have really hit the nail on the head there
This guy said he liked me back and now he's distancing from me and it hurts a lot, I always check when he's online or if he's talking to someone else and he usually is. I'll do the best I can to distance, thank you, man.
I just came to the realization of what a horrible friend I was to this person but I also know that it want fully my fault and this really helped me thank you
Thankyou I won’t get into another relationship- the emotional destabilising and complete rebuild of your self takes time - you do get there - it’s painfull and the amount of people in this world suffering heartbreak- seems like people are flippant about staying in a relationship. Things get a bit hard, they walk , rather than work it out. Wider community net working now - thru out world - opens more choice of people out there. People don’t stick it out in the hard times - they just drop and pick up elsewhere. Partnership / marriage use to mean something once.....
I fell in love with his spirit and soul. I have never been able to stop loving him. I’ve been in different relationships and have enjoyed life I have 3 kids i didn’t let me not being with this person stop me from living but deep down I always hoped he’d come around and give me a chance. I’ve tried everything to let go but I’ve been unsuccessful. We have not talked in years we have not seen each other in years…yet I’m still in love with him.
I am glad I watched this. Thank you for helping me and others who are going through this. I appreciate it so much. I liked this person for about 3 years now and I'm learning to get over them. Also pointing out things you don't like about the person can actually help you get over them. I watched so many videos because I'm just desperately wanting to move on. But I'm learning. It's strange, it kinda makes me nervous trying to move on. I don't know why. Maybe that's just me being overly emotional. But anyways, again thank you so much. I love you man🌹
I want to thank you so much this is going to help me In the future and now let god bless you on the teachings you have taught these many people who are heartbroken
Me and this girl used to have a thing about a year ago and it didn’t really work out. Then a month later we started talking a lot and now we’re best friends. To this day I still have feelings, and I’ve never felt such a way around a girl before. I really like her and i finally told her how I feel and she just said thx for telling me. Ik she replied well but ah I thought I’d get something out of it. I’m just lost right now because I keep getting rejected and don’t know where to go. All summer I’ve been upset and sad about the whole thing and it’s got me down, I don’t know how to get my mind off this mess. I’m trying to move on but it’s so hard..
Thank you so much for these advices, I think they are very good and you focus on self esteem instead, that was so cool because it's inevitable to think that ti's something wrong about me. I was looking for something that made me feel better and your words did it after being rejected at a company party by a girl who I liked since like six months ago and honestly I needed to hear that it's ok to sorrow for some time
dimitarie It's all good! im just so happy you got something out of it and I really appreciate you taking the time to watch the videos! I can't say it enough but honestly thank you :)
So thankful to find your video. I’ve been having a hard time letting go of a guy for at least a year now. We talk but I don’t know if he’s replying to my messages out of respect 🤷♀️
Going though it right now, I know I deserve better and that he just isn’t capable or being the partner I need or the father our unborn baby needs. He wanted me to get an abortion and thinks I’m being selfish by going ahead with it. He is just afraid of child support , the crayY thing is he told me to not take my BC and that it would be fine if I did get pregnant. After I was, he changed completely and screams yells and cusses at me . My low self esteem allowed me to stay and grasp for any love he would occasionally throw at me. I deserve a lot more and even though this is heart wrenching and will raise my baby alone. It must be done. I can’t wait until she comes next month and I can be distracted by my sweet daughter.
I’m even contemplating not listing him on the birth certificate and letting him just sign his rights away because he has made it clear the only thing he is worried about is child support and the only thing I was worried about was having him be a great father and be there emotionally and to help raise her. I kept hold in my head a fantasy that is just that, unrealistic and something he won’t ever do. Mainly I feel bad for our daughter who needs a daddy 🥺
@@lindseylindberg6287 I'm so glad to hear that. I hope you are doing well too. Heartaches are rough. This momma wants you to remember that you are beautiful, precious and valuable.
Joshua from all the so called life coaches on you tube ur video has made the complete sense simple n practical especially the part where you say that one needs to spend time n be happy with themselves n that draws the right people to u as ur picky n choosy rather than wanting a relationship having a relationship with yourself first...amazing stuff helped me much more than the life coaches out there definitely was a sign for me great work have subscribed love ur video☺👍
This is actually what I've been looking for! :) I mean I am already letting go of her and this actually confirmed a lot of stuff tht I've been telling myself.. Tnx :D
Thank you so very much you delightfully honest, humbled and vulnerable handsome and with a beautiful spirit! It's awesome to see a video made from a masculine perspective. I feel like we are truly all "ONE"___🌎 and 💔 is the human condition....😭😥😮💨🌹
Thank you a lot brother for your clever advices, I'm having hard time trying to forget her because she meant everything for me.. now it's all gone 😪💔 I'll try to stick to your precious advices bro.. Take care.
I always think there's a new beginning in my life this is not the end of the chapter this is not the end of the book cuz I'm writing a brand new one in my life with the help of God life must go on anything dead must be buried pass or whatever
I was in a Relationship with an ex that only wanted to be with me to show me off at the beginning. Afterwards they said they only saw me as a friend and showed me other guys they thought were hot and it hurt me so bad. It’s been three years and I still see her on tinder but I feel so worthless not matter what I do becuase they never cared for me the way I did. I worked so hard on myself alone but I was an object and I feel like i can never love like that again.
😔 I'm going through this right now and I've been isolating myself from life and my body feels like super tensed. I miss work off n on. I can't stand this feeling. 😥
What if you’ve had a recent trauma and said person makes you feel happy and makes you forget about that recent trauma. Is there anyway to get over someone but still staying in contact with them
I had a friend who liked me and I didn't so I told them and we got in a fight. But yesterday I saw them again and I like them but they are still mad at me. But I always need to come back.
Hello, and thank You for your video. It sounded like from someone who has taken some of these issues in consideration in a mature way. Some good advice. I appreciate your way of putting forth information on the topic.
me and girl was friends for 2 years I had feelings for her but she was in a relationship then they broke up and the feeling became strong I finally told her and she didn't feel thse but we was still friends but then we became more distance and there was wall between us and I was gonna ask to prom but they was talking so I didn't then to find out that she going to prom but didn't know alone and then I saw pics of her at prom and I started thinking ehy didn't ask her why wasn't I there with her why am I so scared I have try so much regret about her but she meant world to me I just can't get over her