How to Know if Someone is Ready for a Relationship

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How do you know if this person is really ready to be in a committed relationship with you? How do you know if and when that person is on the same page you are if you do want a relationship? Do you check everything on the list?
If you're ready for a relationship, you may relate to this video: • 7 Signs You Are Ready ...
Writer: Kristina Orrego
Script Editor: Morgan Franz
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Faye Miravalles
RU-vid Manager: Cindy Cheong
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@valenwyrm 2 года назад

For number 1, it may come off as malicious but some people don’t want to commit long term relationships. Some may be polyamorous which is a thing, that still requires communication and maybe it might not be your thing. 3 and 5 is all about giving the other person time. Friendship should be the first step if that hasn’t been done yet. That way it’s easier to get to know each other better without being burdened by romantic expectations.

@justabird7882 2 года назад

nothing wrong with poly relationships, but the point is that the person should present their intentions at the very beginning. you don’t go on a date with someone and make it seem like your looking at something exclusive when you’re actually talking and going on dates with multiple other people, that’s just bad communication.

@JenkemSuperfan 2 года назад

Friendship as the first step? I've been told people feel like you've been dishonest if you do that, like they never had a friend. The general consensus seems to be that if you develop feelings for a friend, or befriend somebody you have an interest in, you shouldn't act on it. Getting to know them is what dating is for, and so on.

@rymreaper 2 года назад

Im a one way poly hypocrite person. Only thing that will agree with would be a robot, just grinding for that amount of money

@fear_trixx 2 года назад

If it is ok for you to be in a friendship, that may never develope to something more and may end in the friendzone , then go for it. For me I could never be in a friendship when I have romantic feelings for the other one but she can’t give them back because she is emotionally unavailable due to their ex… Make yourself clear what you want and don’t put too much energy in someone who struggles with him or herself.

@tammyryan225 2 года назад

It is simple, either they should decide to be in a relationship or just leave you alone and stop been selfish jerks. Playing with the heart of anyone that develops feelings for you is no fun. Eventually karma will come around to teach those who played others for fools when they decide to have a relationship after realising what they want but by that time it is too late when could had it with the person they had hurt and left.

@JustJodie 2 года назад

Nothing hurts more than seeing the person you have feelings for have feelings for someone else

@Jornanfuentes 2 года назад

It depends she loves me but, he can solve what she feels about his ex dispite she wants to forget him, be with me and don-t hurt me.

@butterfly.exe.7690 2 года назад

I agree. I'm suffering through this comment right now

@Bharat-qe8pp 2 года назад

You know what hurts more, when you like your friend and you have a strong feeling that she is in love with you....thus you propose her but she reject your proposal and friendzone you..............

@Bharat-qe8pp 2 года назад

@Niphyra Read my comment above again...... so, I liked her but when I proposed she rejected it but become a friend of mine. She was the first one to whom I said 'love you' 'Proposed' in the sense that I told that 'I like her' not marriage proposal

@UwU-ok2jr 2 года назад

the person i had feelings for had feelings for my cousin and said shed never like me ;-; but now she likes me and i am confused ._.

@womenwhodate7643 2 года назад

Many people break their own hearts by loving a fantasy not the person that stands before them.

@Psych2go 2 года назад

Do you still go through that?

@retiredmichaeljackson4950 2 года назад

@@Psych2go yes

@kenny-nk5db 2 года назад

5 signs that someone isn’t ready for a relationship 1. they’re going out with a lot of different people 0:48 2. they bring up their ex often 1:52 3. they don’t know what they want 2:34 4. they’re flaky 2:45 5. there is a lack of progression in the relationship 3:31

@sonias9722 2 года назад

I did those when I just didn't love him enough.

@userm180 2 года назад

@@sonias9722 aw:(

@sonias9722 2 года назад

@@userm180 oh, I didn't do 2. Talking about ex's is just disrespectful

@userm180 2 года назад

@@sonias9722 thats true. do u love him more or less now?

@sonias9722 2 года назад

@@userm180 I still love him kind of the same amount. He didn't support my dreams and the sexual chemistry wasn't one hundred percent which are both very big deals for me. I don't regret ending the relationship but other than those two things he was a pretty good boyfriend

@shazam1490 2 года назад

Psych2go knows me so well. I’m over here bawling for someone and I wonder if they think of me the same.

@639Oshawott 2 года назад

Me too :( these vids helped me a lot but this man was basically just playin with my heart lol it’s fine I guess :/

@daniellegathings7651 2 года назад

Bro sameeee I’m like psych2go constantly reading my mind

@tha_muffin_mannn1955 2 года назад

I don’t know how they be reading our minds… 😭😂

@fictionalweirdoz3115 2 года назад

Me too! I’m like bingeing these videos for advice

@elenamyers3821 2 года назад

Omg sameee 😭

@bc.relationships 2 года назад

Heavy on the "they don't know what they want"!! Sometimes when people give us mixed signals or don't know what they want, we have a tendency to stick around hoping that they'll figure it out or they'll eventually want what you want-- but this can cause so much more heart ache down the road :( getting emotionally invested in someone that doesn't want you sucks. You deserve to be with someone that makes it CLEAR that they want to be with you. You deserve healthy, safe, strong relationships

@NathalieLazo 2 года назад

Magnificent person reading this… The truth is you are confident and good enough already with who you are, where you are at and what you have right now to have the success you want in life. Don't let others define what “success” is for you. Get up, learn that skill and go after it! I believe in you so much! Have an awesome day! 🌟- Love, Nat ❤️

@HOSfamily989 2 года назад

Same wishes goes for you *Hugging you tightly!

@G_B0824 2 года назад

Why thank you miss nat 👌💫

@HOSfamily989 2 года назад

Cuz you're such a kind heart, and I just wanted to thank you for your sweet words: you deserve it! (*＾3＾)/～♡ Thanks for being the way you are. Stay safe/healthy/happy and smile ( ꈍᴗꈍ)

@NathanDavis508 2 года назад

Stop with this cheesy ass comment on every video. Too much of anything is bad for you, including positivity

@yeastofthoughtsmind9623 2 года назад

I gotta be real, this is not good message for everyone. Some people are not good enough and really do need to improve a lot about themselves. For instance, I drink and do drugs on a daily basis (trying to quit). If I decide I'm good enough as is, and continue my current habits, I'll be dead before I reach 40. Sometimes people aren't good enough, and that's OK. The good thing is that it's never to late to choose a new path.

@womenwhodate7643 2 года назад

One thing I know for sure, if a man is emotionally closed off/ unavailable to himself, I know he won’t be emotionally available to anyone else.

@lukeadger 2 года назад

1. They're dating a lot of other people 2. They bring up their ex often 3. They don't know what they want 4. Bail often last minute or late 5. Lack of progression or growth

@John-ih7gp 2 года назад

1. My Mother, Grandmother and even Auntie have told me I'm the most Super Handsomest 2. I'm extremely punchual with my taxes 3. I will never talk about Ex- Girlfriends 4. I have a calculator built into my watch 5. Fridays is World of Warcraft raids Now that I have shown what my caliper is, why don't yawl go ahead and slide into my DM's. I may not be able to get to all your messages right away, as I'm still using dial up internet, but I'm saving up for a better Internets. You'll be looking forward to hearing from me. Please. I'm ready for a relationship.

@userm180 2 года назад

@@John-ih7gp :))

@lay1735 2 года назад

I don't about if they're ready but I'm ready to be in a relationship..... WITH MYSELF #SELF-LOVE 🥰

@rymreaper 2 года назад

Self love is a first necessary step before going into a relationship.

@rymreaper 2 года назад

ALSO F LAY'S CHIPS FULL OF AIR

@coasterb1 2 года назад

I'm with a couple others here, 4. flakiness is part of depression and anxiety. As we get used to being in a relationship, and grow more comfortable with the person, the flakiness subsides. Given this channel's primary mental health content, I'm surprised this was a major point given without a disclaimer.

@khalilahd. 2 года назад

You guys have been dropping gems lately I love it 🙏🏽💜💜💜

@Psych2go 2 года назад

What was your favorite video?

@melon_breadmay 2 года назад

1. They are dating a lot of other people 0:50 2. They bring up their ex often 1:36 3. They don’t know what they want 2:36 4. They’re flaky 3:01 5. Lack of progressions or growth 3:34 Hope this helps

@StaticCollapse 2 года назад

2 WEEKS

@manface4095 2 года назад

2 weeks ago?

@Jay_Reyes 2 года назад

@Dooblevoo-cartoonist ohhhhhhhhhhh

@StaticCollapse 2 года назад

@Dooblevoo-cartoonist they're time travelers

@rymreaper 2 года назад

hold up

@nissachavez23 2 года назад

I’ll never get over psych2go’s perfect timing. I needed this! 💚

@Psych2go 2 года назад

Perfecto!

@aleuhnuhh 2 года назад

Same sentiments. The video notifications always appear at the right moment!

@anangrywendigo7075 2 года назад

Step 1: get flirty text Step 2: flirter asks "can we talk?" Step 3: delete text/contact/block number Step 4: Throw the whole damn thing in the trash and never worry about it again.

@kayla_scarlettthe_k9466 2 года назад

that sounds easier said than done, I abandoned my feelings for my crush cuz well, he never acknowledges me, and probably didn't think anything of it when his friends bullied me, that's the sadder part, I had a crush that's friends with my bullies

@NathanDavis508 2 года назад

@@kayla_scarlettthe_k9466 then you should've bully them tf back! If you just sit down and admit defeat no wonder he ignored you. You don't have to be physical but stand up for yourself, and If things do escalate you go down swinging! The guy would probably admire you rather than you looking pathetic being a laughing stock.

@userm180 2 года назад

@@NathanDavis508 theyre not pathetic for that tho. different people will react differently and it may take some time for some people to fully be able to stand up to their bullies. its really not as easy as it seems. plus, you kinda just assumed that they didnt do anything ab it when nowhere in the comments did they say that

@kayla_scarlettthe_k9466 2 года назад

@@userm180 I did tell my parents, I don't even wanna fight anymore cuz well, I got in trouble from it.from.grade.2.till.6 before I left my school and transfer to a new one, the ones here are worse, they don't only bully me, but also mocked my parents, I take my anger out on my pencils, tho, the amount of pencils needing to be changedis uhmm, yeahhhh, I think I need to stop breaking my pencils, pens, and even correction tapes cuz uhmm, yeahhh (from how my life is, I have anger issues, I wanna jump off a roof or smth and can't get any peace unless I just hide)

@userm180 2 года назад

@@kayla_scarlettthe_k9466 im so sorry :( do you have friends that are nice to you?

@steepyt 2 года назад

1. Both must address what your date is heading to, either exclusive or casual, then that's where you stand. 2. Cases prove that exes can be friends especially if you're both close to each other's fam and circle. Insecurity rises here but hey, you're not yet there to demand so simply ask their real deal first and trust that. 3. Give time, especially for first timers and undecisive by nature. If you really need answers, keep asking the same question, soon they'll answer. 4. That's what I thought when I decided to end my relationship - I'm beyond priority list. Nope. People who just started with new endeavors take a lot of time to adjust and control their sched. What if it takes a month? Yeah, that was my case, and just as I thought, I had to leave, but I was wrong cause by the time I had my own, I understood well. Now? We both can manage our scheds, have plenty of time, but not each other anymore. 5. Agreed.

@sugar_fairydesu9313 2 года назад

Thankyou. Its such an eye opener. Truth hurts. But rather than pushing myself on him maybe I ll just let him loose. I can love him from afar. Until he's ready to come to me.

@bc.relationships 2 года назад

THIS. Continuing to get emotionally invested in someone that can't reciprocate those feelings and attention is so heart wrenching. one of the worst things we can do for ourselves is sticking around, getting more invested while we wait for them to change their mind or figure out how to treat you right. it can be really difficult to step away from that situation, so I'm proud of you for recognizing that's what you need to do. rooting for you

@DaestrumManitz 2 года назад

Its called, sit down and have a serious conversation about where things are going.? If the walk doesn’t match the talk, move on. 😎🔥

@Psych2go 2 года назад

Yes, how would you go about initiating those conversations?

@brandonporter2321 2 года назад

I saw the the title and almost immediately yelled the word no. I know myself well enough to know that I issues. (Mainly self esteem and depression). And I also know that I am not in a good financial standing to enter into one. Yes, it would be great to be in one, and it may certainly help with some of the instinctual cravings one posses. But I know it not for me, and it scares me to think that It never will be. Sorry for the vent. I just felt the sudden urge to share this.

@eud64_ 2 года назад

Going through something similar, I feel you bro.

@heyst13 2 года назад

Shows a lot of maturity for you to know that you shouldn’t be in a relationship rn, despite wanting to. I really hope you find healing and that, when you’re ready, you find someone amazing. Best of luck x

@hawks7738 2 года назад

i am very sorry to hear about your struggle at mental health and financially. but let me tell you this. you don't to reach a certain financial level to deserve love. you also don't need to heal from all your mental health to finally deserve love. you deserve love all the way. if someone loves you, they will love you through all the way regardless

@Wind_Cursed 2 года назад

@@hawks7738 I have anxiety and I can't get over it and I know I likely never will because my mom was like that. With my anxiety, however, I always worry about things, even if it is very subtle, which prevents me from having high self esteem. Does that mean I'll never be in a relationship? Edit: I always worry about that, I'm sorry, but your comment has made me feel better, thank you!

@NathanDavis508 2 года назад

Get your ass running or out to the gym! Learn about investing! Work hard at something you enjoy! Fixes that depression and self esteem thing REAL QUICK

@epicencarnet5297 2 года назад

I really relate to number 3. I want to be in a relationship but I don't really know what I actually want from the relationship.

@bennekin 2 года назад

Why did I get the notification for this video while I was literally watching it LOL

@seathealchemyst 2 года назад

This just helped me feel a little bit better about myself. I honestly thought I wasn’t capable enough to even bother someone else with trying to date them. (Not that I’ve been meeting anyone to do so anyways), but seeing this helps me realize I’m more ready than I thought… Now to just actually get over the fear of actually going and meeting people…

@userm180 2 года назад

im glad u got over it!

@mxrlss 2 года назад

This came at the perfect moment. I needed this video

@enbywithamassiveshlong 2 года назад

mannn I feel really bad 💀💀 I definitely wasn't ready for a relationship and I fit all these signs back then when I was in one .. my ex deserved better

@jacksonwaldon 2 года назад

*reads name* Yea.. I have to agree

@enbywithamassiveshlong 2 года назад

@@jacksonwaldon HEY

@rymreaper 2 года назад

Lmao your name

@ChocolateWhispersx 2 года назад

The important thing isn't all the mistakes you made in the past, what's important is what you do now in light of your mistakes to prove you've learned from them. c; Also oh yeah, love the name btw, haha ;D xD

@amjadalsoliman7728 2 года назад

OMG.... i needed this video from more than 3 months ! I moved on from a relationship and didn't know why i did that... the reasons wasn't clear for me at all back there! Now i semyfully understood why i was acting so weird in that relationship! It made me release alot of pain in my chest.... and all thanks to you psych2go.... thank you💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙 Thank you soooo much💙

@rymreaper 2 года назад

Very good video, will save a lot of people from pain that comes with dating.

@rachaels7546 2 года назад

Loved the video

@ellaoutlaw3472 2 года назад

love love loooooove these cited sources ✨

@Singer95ify 2 года назад

Straight facts from this video. Felt I was ready to date again and from the get-go saw a few signs of my new partner not really making me a priority or not knowing what they wanted because of personal conflicts they were going through. I was so ready for something new, and I had to end it a few weeks back when I realized that they were confused with themselves and couldn't commit emotionally.

@userm180 2 года назад

i guess you could say that u got out of an ugly situation pretty fast.

@marquendra 2 года назад

Welp, I got my answers. Time for me to move on and not keep my feelings stuck on one that's showing practically all of these signs.

@scxrlxtt 2 года назад

Stay single until you find someone who will make you single again

@jacksonwaldon 2 года назад

So stay single until you find someone that will break up with you? Or stay single until you find someone that brings you joy similar to that found while still single?

@aero7848 2 года назад

Hey man, I feel you on that one

@thomasmunroe4976 Год назад

I believe more people need to see this video, it helps to clarify thought process

@Jornanfuentes 2 года назад

I...I was... I was definitely needing this video!

@Lucas-tq3lb 2 года назад

God bless y'all i hope everyone is doing well 🙏❤️

@olivia729rod 2 года назад

I knew all this. I hoped to hear more subtle signs that show someone isn't ready

@AaronMetallion 2 года назад

The art-style and colors are phenomenal. I'm an Artist too, and dang, this is simple, yet so pleasing to look at.

@crucifymeh9241 2 года назад

You've helped me realise so much about the girl im interested with this video, I'm very grateful for everything you are doing

@ANDER01D 2 года назад

It's not a question of not being ready, it's that she doesn't want to... always in my case so far.

@simp.4477 2 года назад

This is so ironic showing up as my recommendation. I just got out of a relationship with a person who didn't know what they wanted and took me for granted.

@Xisyera 2 года назад

Oooo this may be needed at some point!

@samanthajade0024 2 года назад

Can you do a video on signs you're the toxic friend?

@s.beccari4678 2 года назад

Needed to see this

@FungiFootsie 2 года назад

Where life hurts: The heart and the words

@lonewolfnergiganos4000 2 года назад

My day is finally made 💙

@wene9962 2 года назад

Animations are soooo good again i love ur team guys realy great work of art!!!- Please use this font more it works so good

@Ajax420 2 года назад

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months and i’m now realizing, thanks to this video, he’s not ready for a relationship yet. Idk what do to.

@m2pozad 2 года назад

Easy... dial back the time you spend together, and observe.

@John-ih7gp 2 года назад

@@m2pozad That sounds like sound advice.

@meow1397 2 года назад

you forgot one: emotional trauma, i know this because I'm going through it currently, and its really not fun😭

@userm180 2 года назад

are u ok? :(

@grim_dave 2 года назад

All good advice

@eli879 2 года назад

I love that first article. It was well written, and the author wasn’t afraid to make those stark contrasts between the sexes. Definitely a good read for anyone wanting to do just that.

@heatherfulmore3412 Год назад

I love the article too. I know that I have some definite decisions to make very soon.

@neslieapal5883 2 года назад

Broke up with someone weeks ago because he often talks and thinks of his ex even we are in a relationship already. He doesn't usually message or calls for days and it bums me out. Took me many tries to understand but i've reached my limit and broke up with him.

@bc.relationships 2 года назад

this is so much easier said than done. proud of you for recognizing how you deserve to be treated. rooting for you

@ralamations2061 2 года назад

40 seconds gang! Again great video

@cindyhernandez2887 2 года назад

This is actually me rn... I'm so scared to be in a relationship. And there is a friend that told me his feelings towards me and I was scared and ashamed because I am not ready, or be in a relationship with him or with anyone... And now I feel sad and guilty about it, that I let him down... And I don't want that and I still want to be friends. I just don't know what to do...

@userm180 2 года назад

you didnt let him down just bc you arent ready yet

@bc.relationships 2 года назад

ahhh this is such a tough situation to be in :( it can be really hard to not feel guilty when it's someone that you do care about, but let me let you in on a little secret... if this person really does like you and have feelings for you then they will actually be proud of you for recognizing what you need and voicing that, even if they are a little disappointed. you should be proud of yourself

@allesdurchprobiert Год назад

Show him this comment

@ragnrokofdwar3028 2 года назад

Spent 8 months working on someone who I realize now had a hard case of #3, amongst other issues they had. Now we have nothing to do with each other thanks to those problems. Funny, I noticed in class last night they seemed unhappy for the first time since, maybe its finally dawning on them that they lost someone who was once more important to them than they are willing to admit. But I'm moving on, they ever change and want to reconcile as friends I left that open, but it's on them, I did enough.

@userm180 2 года назад

would u say theres a possibility they could change?

@ragnrokofdwar3028 2 года назад

@@userm180 it's always possible, but in this case it's doubtful they will change or reach out. Sometimes a decent person deserves a second chance, I had already given them one, and they made the same mistakes. Depends on the situation. Ultimately you have determine what the best choice is for both of you, as long as you carry yourself with honor.

@userm180 2 года назад

@@ragnrokofdwar3028 that is true. i hope ure ok xx

@enbywithamassiveshlong 2 года назад

Purple Place reference? Niceeee

@crimsten 2 года назад

I would have said that they treat you more like a friend than a partner, but me and my hubby has resolved that , still treat eachother as friends , but we make sure to remind each other thar we love each other

@userm180 2 года назад

good for you

@Absolhunter251 2 года назад

Omg!! I was just thinking this!!

@peternincompoop9553 2 года назад

Yay, the end credit dancers are back!

@hanako-seo510 2 года назад

Ty so much

@awelshperson306 2 года назад

this helped me get over my ex a lot

@userm180 2 года назад

happy for you

@fictionalweirdoz3115 2 года назад

Psych2go ligit is predicting the future. I am going through this rn. 😭 TYSM!!!!

@kasperkjeldsen2294 2 года назад

Nice video i am not ready yet i just take my time and wait 🤗

@love_bug. 2 года назад

I think another one for this check list could be they look more at your faults rather than expect you as you are or could be

@cooksiesmiraculous-world4823 2 года назад

„He, she or they“ Wow thanks I feel valid🥰

@kuitaranheatmorus9932 2 года назад

Thsi was so nice

@tylerfrizzell3319 2 года назад

Literally just split up with my partner of a year on vday and I thought I would marry this girl.. but seeing this video made me realize she wasn't ready. The only difference was instead of flaky she'd always be ever so slightly late and would pay more attention to her phone during times when we were watching stuff together. I know exactly what I want and she couldn't figure out what she wanted to save her life. It sucked and it hurt, but I figured she would move past it but it only ended in heartbreak regardless

@NathanDavis508 2 года назад

Never get married amigo. It's a risky risky maneuver to your wallet and mental health

@userm180 2 года назад

im sorry ab that :/ i wish u both the best

@hollowblack42 2 года назад

So I’m ready?

@tammyryan225 2 года назад

It is quite simple. Cut ties with them and walk away. Don't stay with them to satisfy thier needs and neglect your own. I say this because this is how I always keep myself from misery. I always tell it straight and expect straightforward honesty in return. Sometimes I don't but I don't stay with anyone that I sense that isn't ready for a committed relationship as I'll immediately say straightforwardly, that I'm not interested in nonsense or mind games. Especially silly high school games. Either be honest and straightforward about if want a relationship or just play the field because I can't stand lies. And can't stand been played for a fool. It irritates me. As why I struggle finding a healthy relationship because I don't much about on what I want. They must have the same interest as I like to have in a relationship or just don't bother to approach me as I don't want to be a rebound girl. It is no fun.

@userm180 2 года назад

im sorry you've been through that :(

@Agent-Spider 2 года назад

Can you please make a video on people that can't leave you alone, it's for me so I know what not to do next time

@aurielanderson79 2 года назад

It's so weird bc in my experience they come to me first but they always say they aren't ready for a relationship but they are ready to have intercourse and when I leave them alone for whatever the reason maybe they pop back up. It's exhausting. If you aren't ready for a relationship leave them alone and don't lead them on thinking you are ready for one. This goes both ways not just for men.

@bc.relationships 2 года назад

THIS. Dating in 2022 is hard. There will always be people out there who will see how much they can get out of someone (whether it's physical or emotional) without having to commit :( sometimes all we can do is be as honest and upfront about what we're looking for and not settle or lower those standards for temporary attention or affection. sounds like you already got that part figure out. rooting for you

@diaphrenia3707 2 года назад

I just have a fear of being in one and don't know how they work

@Cheios-Demiose 2 года назад

thanks for the advice Psych2Go.

@jennifersimonian2103 2 года назад

Seriously seriously I relate to you so well SHAWN MARCUS whoever you are I hardly ever comment on here but I watch these videos like everyday and I wonder if there's anybody else like me and I think you there can't be and then I actually hope that there's not I feel like the biggest softy I ask myself why the hell do I want to hang out with somebody why do I miss somebody why do I want to be with somebody who doesn't even care who doesn't want the same things it doesn't make sense it literally does not make sense it is not logical there is nothing about it that I can understand

@John-ih7gp 2 года назад

We often want the things we can't have. When there is a really hard challenge to something, we tend to strive even harder to try and obtain it. People can also be excellent at bread crumbing another person as the keep them interest in a game. This is still all basic human psychology

@Mickeewin 2 года назад

I just got the notification.. what the hell RU-vid

@BethFebbo 2 года назад

Not showing up on time doesn't mean they don't care. Some folks have issues like ADHD and they can care for whatever it is and still be late.

@External2737 2 года назад

It depends on how late. If they're constantly late, it implies the person they are seeing is not a priority.

@BethFebbo 2 года назад

@@External2737 I think it's safe to say, everything has a variable. 🙂

@External2737 2 года назад

@@BethFebbo Everything is a variable. I care for someone who is always a little late, I can live with that. But I have adapted. We are also just friends, so easier to handle. 😉

@bethanyvollmers7305 2 года назад

can you do one about knowing if youre ready for a relationship? I struggle with mental health a lot and I want to be in a relationship but Im worried Ill hurt my mental health recovery in the process

@Devlinator61116 2 года назад

Based on the title, I was expecting a video about how to tell if someone *was* ready for a relationship.

@Aerosmithy728 2 года назад

Sometimes, I feel upset when they fall inlove with someone else, but I had to let it go.

@jorgeabaezp9365 2 года назад

great vod. but is this a reupload?

@user-ti2rq4zc6j_LLP 2 года назад

Checklist if two ppl r ready for relationship, may u make vid that video??

@geraldinemillena3938 2 года назад

When you explicitly pointed out that you are not ready to be in a relationship due to financial, emotional, etc reasons but the other kept poking for a relationship and reassuring things will go fine... DONT. Just dont. It will not work fine at all. Take it from me.

@Wind_Cursed 2 года назад

So... I will never be in a relationship because I have anxiety and always will because my mom was like that (she is still with my dad, they haven't divorced or seperated)? I've learned ways to control it, but it's still there. So I can't be in a relationship or it will end horribly?

@geraldinemillena3938 2 года назад

@@Wind_Cursed oh I see, please dont say like its final or the end for you. Just because your mum has anxieties doesnt mean its impossible for you to be in a relationship. Its all about management or how to work or deal with what you have (anxieties). Also this is just based on my experience dear, dont go into relationship if you are not confident enough to handle another person in your life. List down what you are in life: finances, work, study, emotional, family/friends, etc. then weigh in how these factors can be managed while in a relationship. Can you handle it? How to manage anxieties? Is it fair for your partner to present yourself right now? Will you have the capacity to deal with their problems too?

@sillyman1709 2 года назад

The typo in the title confused me for half the video...

@hawks7738 2 года назад

i am currently seeing someone and she doesn't have any of the signs except the last one: there is no progression. i am struggling to feel emotionally fulfilled by her. yes our dynamic feels like stuck in a limbo. we've known for over 2 months but she is still not ready to take the leap. yes i can confirm she is not seeing someone else and me neither. another fact the she has never dated anyone her whole life also astounds me. i have been in several relationships throughout my life but of course i have moved on from any past exes because i too have been single for quite some time. should i move on or stay with her until she's ready?

@shy_Mittens 2 года назад

I've never actually been on a date before. So I know I'm not qualified to give you advice. But idk if anyone else will respond. I think you should explain your issues with her. It will make sure they get addressed. It could be that she doesn't understand what happens in a relationship. But if they cannot get resolved and the relationship ends. You guys can always stay friends. I hope your relationship works out.

@andreimoga7813 2 года назад

watching this, but for myself *am i* even ready?

@golgothapro 2 года назад

I'm not going to live in CA under any circumstances.

@mariomaster101official 2 года назад

Nice another video

@tigerx36 2 года назад

I never had a gf so I'm good on that part. I don't really see myself with anyone else. Maybe that special date will help move things along?

@jacksonwaldon 2 года назад

I used to think the same thing. We had an amazing relationship and nothing was really wrong other than a couple arguments we had but everyone argues and it wasn’t even that serious of an argument. Anyways, she left me on read for 8 hours. 8 HOURS!!! Then she finally said she wanted to break up. Nothing bad happened the day before or the week before. Hell nothing bad even happened the month before but she just let go. She easily “moved on” which means she simply shoved her grief under the rug. She didn’t improve her character at all from the situation, she is still as immature as ever. Don’t trust your feelings. Blissful feelings lead you astray when things do eventually go wrong.

@graveyardsoil 2 года назад

Is this the same as the how to know when someone's is not ready for a relationship

@G200064 2 года назад

Continue???

@KS-qp2ml 2 года назад

I just finish screaming my heart out.... Gave so much energy after two years ... He was not ready a nd never will b. Just a relationship... Or at least a conversation. .nope not hing. So I literally curse yelled cried and then finally walked away. It too much hurt. I can't take it.

@userm180 2 года назад

are you ok??

@bc.relationships 2 года назад

this sounds really rough :( i truly hope you find people who treat you with the love and care you deserve-- whether you find that in a romantic relationship or a friendship. just remember that you deserve a healthy, safe, strong relationship. rooting for you

@flowercrossing1501 2 года назад

can you talk about ptsd i will love that

@johnbakasmoothhotchocolate 2 года назад

I think they may have talked about it some time before, but it couldn't hurt to ask still. Cute pfp you have, btw.

@mintastic1506 2 года назад

Why does the title says someone is ready but the video says someone isn't ready?

@CarolinaKilla 2 года назад

this video 5 mins old, but some comments are two weeks old ? 😭

@jagoaqasha 2 года назад

Do any of these apply to someone who's struggling mentally?

@jorgealbertoop7952 2 года назад

I'm not. And I don't see myself having one until I'm almost middle aged.

@alleyghozally3901 2 года назад

so just today I let go the person I fell in love with. we seeing each other for 4month. then broke me off without specific reason. and has all d sign like in the video. try to move on. but it's not easy 💔

@caseyhawthorne7138 2 года назад

Some of the people at my previous place interfered with somebody I really like and they've lied to other people that they're my friends I don't understand it 😕

@malphite8797 2 года назад

Soon I'm turning 20, never been in a relationship, I can't trust anyone and I don't want to interract with other people. Is it bad if I never get into a relationship?

@indridcold8433 2 года назад

Wow! This video really does not apply to me. I question why it was in my suggested video list.

@maahidiwan3359 2 года назад

I really like a boy in my class, and he even says he likes me too, sometimes out of nowhere starts acting like my bf...but he tells me to wait, because we have our exams for college... He tells me to wait until it's over and then he'II tell me exactly what he feels🤷🏻‍♀️...

@userm180 2 года назад

how long until u guys finish w ur exams?

@Wind_Cursed 2 года назад

What about having some form of mental illness? I've never dated, so I don't know, but it seems like everyone says if you have a mental illness your relationships will never work. However, my mom has had anxiety pretty much all her life (she learned ways to control it, though) and her and my dad are still together and haven't divorced or separated. They have been together for 21 years and had 6 children, including me, together. Now, onto the main point, I have anxiety and I worry I won't get in a relationship because I have anxiety and everyone says you aren't ready for a relationship until you get over your mental illness. However, I know I won't get over my anxiety since my mom hasn't and I likely got my anxiety from her genes. Does that mean I'll never be in a relationship? Even though I have learned ways to control it?

@AnimeLuver0604 2 года назад

It's not about getting over it (IMHO), it's about managing your mental health and not being codependent or toxic with a partner.

@Wind_Cursed 2 года назад

@@AnimeLuver0604 Ok, thanks for the clarification (or opinion, I guess). I had a rough idea before and considered that it may not be the mental illness, but somethng else that usually happens with most mental ilnesses. However, my anxiety wouldn't leave me alone so I just wanted someone else's thoughts on it judt to make sure