1. They laugh at youre jokes 2. They wait on youre phone calls 3. They love being around you 4. They include you in their plans 5. They discuss their future with you
The guy I was interested who I thought could potentially be the one ended up moving on to a different girl.. lol. So whatever. Right now imma just focus on being prepared for when Jesus returns, it could be soon.
You have a desire to meet the right man and you pray about it. God will direct and guide you to that man but he'll expect you to act at that time. You don't need to ask him out but show you're interested and if it's mutual he'll ask you out provided he isn't painfully shy.
I haven't been in many relationships. I have had many crushes in the past. I'm 27, and not a single guy that I have been interested in, have ever reciprocated those feelings. In the past, I've dated guys that I had no desire of being with long term. I just got tired of no one ever asking me out. I have to say that I am a follower of Christ, but having guy after guy, tell you that all they will ever see you as a friend or that you're ugly, not skinny enough, don't make enough money. It's frustrating because I have been praying since my 12th birthday that I would eventually find a Godly, Christian man to marry one day. My 28th birthday is in 2 months. Frankly, I am not sure I should keep praying for this. It seems like a waste of time. I have yet to find a guy, that I am interested in that is willing to pursue me. I only seem to have guys who aren't Christian, don't have good morals or guys that I am not interested in, seem to pursue me.
@@ashleydowney1222 I've read the entirety of your comment and would like to help you spiritually because that to me is a spiritual problem , Are your parents together?
1. If this person acts different around you compared to how they interact with other people 2. If someone is giving you their time 3. If you two spend lots of time together
1. You catch them peering through your bathroom window. 2. You notice them collecting your hair from your hair brush and putting it in their pocket. 3. You wake up in the morning and they are standing beside your bed staring at you.
Most situations do not take all these signs...just common sense. If a man is into you women are pretty intuitive and can spot their interest a mile away. I have quite a few believers in my inbox now! I put them in the friend and brother zone...cause I don't want to lead anyone on. In most cases men and women have a pretty good idea in what they desire in a mate anything less should be left alone. The reason I say this is our father in Heaven says he'll do above what we could ask or think and I believe this in all areas of my life...Including my future husband.
I had a rare occasion where I ran into an old friend via Twitter. This young lady was someone I used to E-mail back in the day, and cried on each other's shoulder on personal issues, which started w her leaning on me. I never took the relationship in any sort of romantic way and vise versa, just friends. Then I shared some of my struggles, and w/o saying too much, I know to an extent, it jolted her awake, seeing what I was going through. Now I believe it was last year, some time when I said this - I feel our relationship is much more of a brother/sister thing, and she totally agreed. Sure is funny the way life turns out sometimes, I love that gal to death, but for a very different reason,.....
@@wshelby83 It will happen! I found mine when I least expected him. I don't have him yet, but I believe I know who he is. Keep an open mind. He isn't the type I thought I wanted at least from what I can see on the outside.
Mark, make a video on marriage restoration. There are many of us out there fighting for the return of our prodigal spouse. Those of us who stand and fight against the enemy and his attempts to destroy the family. This is the fiercest battle I've ever faced, I need encouragement and wise counsel from godly men and women! Thank you brother
ROFL!!!!!!!!! Someday Mark, I will tell you how hysterical this one is. GOD has SUCH a sense of HUMOR!!!! I LOVE IT!! Thank you so much for all you do!!!
I'm quite certain predicting what someone thinks or predicting what someone might do isn't what that passage on judging is talking about. It's a very common thing in social situations to think about what someone else is thinking based on facial expressions and tone changes. I think that passage is referring to thinking about someone differently because of something they do.
Amazing video, thanks so much for sharing, you inspired me to start my own channel about" relationship and marriage advice", having been married fr 7 years .God bless you
Hi Izzy well done, just checked out your channel . I have been searching for true love for years now, I hope I find the one I have subscribed to your channel
I secretly like a guy, then tell him I secretly likedhim, and then stop acting normal around the guy, and then he stops being normal around me.... yeah..
What when you don't trust your own intuison/gutfeeling anymore. Been single for all of my adult life, then a guy (says he's Christian) start to show interest and I started falling for him - just one problem, he forgot to tell he was already married... Ok I broke it of and concentrated on healing and forgivenes. Guy 2 comes around, we date for a while, feelt so right.... and then the ugly monter of jealous and mistrust popped up and made all contact very toxic. He piled so much false accusations over me that I almost drown. It came to an end and it took me like a year to heal and forgive. -Thank you Jesus I came away from that intact. It's all by your grace. - Guy 3 start showing interest and somehow there is like a big fire alarm goes off inside, I do see the red flashes going in my head. I just couldn't go against it even if I sure tried. People say give it a chanse, learn to trust.... I agreed on a date but couldn't come away from the fire alarme inside. It was impossible to ignore. But my problem is not to trust the other person, it's more like can I trust myself. If I was sooooo wrong the 1st two times, am I right this time? Or am I just not ready jet, or just not interested in this particular guy? Or is it not time jet? Maybe I should look at other options than marriage. Confused but quite content for the moment. (By the way, this was those from church, telling that they were believers... there have been others earlier but they weren't Christians so that was easier to not even think about) Thank you Mark for your messages. Some of them have helped me a lot over the last 2 years.
Yes, but a lack of love is a hurt in itself. Singleness is a gift when used to glorify God but singleness sought because of the fear of being hurt leads to more pain.
This is a confirmation that I was right about everything. By how this girl was treating me differently because she likes me. But when I confronted her about it she would denied ever having those feelings... talking about I'm being toxic, like what?
They like me a lot, I'm slowly putting boundaries because they're starting to flirt lol what makes it weird they dated my bestfriend which who we met through. Its just not a good situation. I have faith in God that he'll find a gf and we'll become better friends. As for now boundaries it is.
Here's a quick funny story concerning your first point: I am talkative and extrovert. But there is this one guy in my community who I do not socialize with. I would get so triggered by his behavior and any offer of friendship led to an awkward dynamic in our relationship, so I just try to avoid him so hard by not talking to him or trying to minimize the contact. As he is the only guy in my community I treat that way (sadly), I really hope he get's all signals and just leaves me alone. I am not interested romantically and I made that very clear a couple of times (like very clear! With blocking him after his third attempt, only because I talked to him as I usually do with all guys). Sometimes you just don't click with people and I unfortunately sometimes do not have the emotional patience to change that. I bet though, we would get along well as soon as one of us get's in a relationship, as I am just over here avoiding to get into his fishing net. 🙈
Unfortunately you're looking at the outside. Physical attraction is important but so is a person's character. I'm tall but not attractive and get overlooked all the time. If a women spent time getting to know me they may think differently? You and many other women are missing out because of what you think your ideal man should look like.
divine providence i totally in total rely upon mere physical appearance trust me if a guy has bad energy and is immature or inconsiderate i no longer find him attractive. i find guys a little less model looking but cute more attractive than actual models a lot of times bc of personality
@@mazzystar5342 Personality always wins against physical appearance. Men who are immature or inconsiderate are not worth the time. They're looking to manipulate women for their own gain. I'm 39 and have been single my whole life. I got fed up of asking women out only to be rejected. I've prayed in excess of 10 years for a wife and marriage but I know God is faithful. I feel I have missed out but I know when God wants to bring people together he will in his time. My advice is give people a chance. I'm a loving. compassionate and caring person but women don't see that. They see my physical features but not the person I am. Sadly many women will miss out on decent men because they went for the more physically attractive man who is probably boring and who will most likely be unfaithful. God bless. 😀
Thank You Jesus for the Woman I Love Queen Robyn. I Love You Queen Robyn! Your the only one who haves the key to my heart. Queen Robyn You are the Woman who I want to Marry. ...... Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate. Matthew 19:6 --- Sweetheart, I Love You Forever Queen Robyn. I'm holding Your hand. Queen Robyn, You are my only Woman in the world Queen Robyn. God bless our Love. Amen. Ephesians 5:19-21 speaking to one another with psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit. Sing and make music from your heart to the Lord, always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ. Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. ---- I Love You Honey!
Talk about the future, and ask her if she sees herself married to you one day. If she responds right away with, "Yes," she likes you. However, if she hesitates with an answer you are really, really screwed, and time to move on buddy. You can never force anyone to love you. Either they do, or they don't.
No women is ever romantically interested in me. I chat with women and they're polite but there isn't any obvious interest. God will bring the right person in his time. He brought Eve to Adam and Ruth to Boaz.
31I have to say, sometimes singleness is God's will for a person's entire life. My adoptive mom is 59 and still unmarried. She never found a good, godly, Christian man to date or marry. She didn't ever have Christian guys, show any interest in her. The only guys who did weren't Christian. She gave up looking for that type of guy 31 years ago.
What if s man addresses your opinion when you walk in the room, and you weren’t involved in conversation Also if they repeat you, when they are not involved in conversation
I am curious. I went to a christian event in the theme park (two days).. He's from my church. We went with his roommate and later that night I fall while ending up in a wheelchair. I have never heard if he's done something like this since he moved to Florida and he was quite quiet with me on both days. He talks to everyone. The first night, I got in his car and he was texting another single girl from church. I am jealous now.. but at this event I was nervous (never had it this bad) and had so much peace while I was with him.
Without giving any specifics to my situation personally, can you clarify for me just in a general sense what it means by regarding sin in my heart? if I'm truly repentant about my sin and trying to actively pursue clean relationship with God where I have not had one before am I regarding sin in my heart if i happened to fall back into my particular brand of Temptation?
How can you tell if people are trying to say things to keep to people away from each other because for some odd reason I am starting to feel like this could be true if it’s someone you like
I found out that I’m attracted to one of my co workers at work but I don’t want anyone else to know about it and he’s a Christian but a few years ago I dated another guy through work and he cheated on me after he just became a Christian. And I keep asking myself if I’m ready to date again or not. What should I do?
I have a question... Do I have to like/feel attraction to the person God might have for me? There is a guy in my congregation who is a really nice person and loves God. He is my friend and only like him as a friend...but one of my bible study leaders keeps telling me I should give him an opportunity. I really don't like him cause I am not attracted to him at all and don't have any feelings for him in a romantic way.
I'm no expert on this but like how marked implied, you should get to know him more, pray about it, and see how things work out. As you get to know him better, who knows? Your feelings might change. You might find some godly qualities that he might have that you're attracted to. The real purpose of marriage is that of two individuals coming together to glorify God. So, if you feel that you can glorify God together with this person once you know him better, then I suggest that you give him a chance. But above all, Pray about it. The Holy Spirit can help you. Hope that helped a bit. God bless 😇
I think it's worth being open to it and getting to know him more because you may be more attracted as you get to know him. But if that does not grow then I would move on/not try it any more
I have a question: What if you are a woman and you know a male likes you more than a friend by his actions, (i.e. time and attention). But the woman states to the guy from the beginning her clear intentions of not wanting a romantic relationship (i.e. I am not looking for a romantic relationship at this time) and she puts up healthy boundaries (e.g. I don't want to touch or kiss) But the guy persists in kissing the girl and persists in wanting to do things for her of his own volition? What would you suggest is a wise course of action for the female in a situation such as this?
And dont be suprised if it changes after that. He Will need time to heal. But rather that Then him Holding the maybe in the future thing inside his mind. And wasting time
DIDUKNOW7777 I think a guy that is sincere about wanting to be with you isn't necessarily in a hurry to kiss you. I don't think I have the right answer, just do what you have to to get through the situation. Journal or go to a quite place to pray and so you can hear that still small voice. The answer is in you.
@@bensev991 He shouldn't be thinking about a "maybe" because my words were clear and firm. However, he feels he can somehow change my mind (which I find strange that he would think that). The foregoing behavior is an indication of haughtiness.
I've heard of these points from other people, this must be true! I don't know if he interacts differently with me than other people. I can't quite tell. We don't spend a whole heck of a lot of time together, just when we see each other at church. In some ways he gives me his time, such as texting. I don't know what else will count as "giving time" though, so I can't say. TBH the one about sitting in the same row actually happened to me the other day, I put my stuff down at a random seat, and when it was time for the message, guess who was at the end of that same row! 😂 IDK if I put my stuff down first, or if he did and I didn't see it. I guess only God knows, and maybe my sp as well!
I'm omnisexual which means to have an attraction towards all genders & have preferences & is regardless of gender so we do care about the gender. Since I'm a male 14 yr old omnisexual, I'll search for a male this time instead of a female. I seem to be having trouble with females so I'm going with males instead. Males understand each other very deeply more than females do. I would date a male instead of a female. My dad will hate it but he has to learn to not he homophobic.
I am familiar with the term omnisexual. At one point in my life, I was attracted to both men and women. I knew what the Bible said about same-sex relationships, sp I knew that while I might be attracted to other women, I wouldn't ever date a woman because it was sinful. But I believe that same-sex attraction isn't wrong, acting on that attraction is wrong. I am no longer attracted to women and haven't been in many years. Just because you're attracted to men, doesn't mean that you have to act on it. I know Christian guys who are attracted to men but are choosing to stay single and not date at all. They believe that acting on their same-sex attraction is wrong and that being in a relationship with a woman is wrong since they aren't attracted to women. They would rather be alone forever than be living in sin.
