How To Let Go of Resentment and Anger | Secret to Happiness in Life 

Finally someone understands. I'm having the same issue with my household, I finally turned 18 a few weeks ago and am now thinking about a way to move out during this whole pandemic shit, the thing is just I have no clue about all this, apartment renting, finances. I don't mean something trivial like that is gonna stop me, just that I have to do my best. Sadly I'm on my own and have MASSIVE anger issues. So u are prolly like how I'll be in a few months after moving, alone, and still angry just quietly now

Tara D Dear Tara, first and foremost, welcome to the Coffee with C community. We are very grateful that you are here. It’s OK. It’s normal to feel the anger, pain and resentment. You’re not alone. In fact, everyone goes through it. The only difference is how each person deals with it. Now, you acknowledge it and it’s up to you how to go about it. I am glad this video helped somehow. I encourage you to watch my other video titled, How to Forgive Someone who Hurt You. I wish you nothing but peace and happiness.

Coffee With C I will watch your other videos. I just hope also that I will be able to totally let go and move on

Tara D My friend, you can and you will. It doesn’t happen overnight. It will take time but you can. I would like you to keep reminding yourself the reasons why you are moving on and letting go. You’re doing this FOR YOU not for the person who hurts you.

Hello my friend, you are absolutely correct. Keeping resentment is like drinking poison and wishing the other person to die. It's better to let go for your own sake.

What if the same person keep hurting you over and over and you have no power to get away from them ( for some or other reason)

Keeping It Real With Keshia As always, it is my pleasure to get this message here on this platform. It may be common sense for others but its easier said and done. I have learned to rewire my brain to think this way. It’s the most freeing feeling I have ever had. People will never understand until they try and do it for themselves. It’s OK to be hurt, be angry and be in pain for a time, but how long will you stay in that condition? That’s something we can decide for ourselves.

@@CoffeeWithC Exactly, and this is so true! It's all about reprogramming your mind, my next video will be on How to Get Out of Your Own Way and like you said, it's easier said than done, however it can be done unless we put in the afford and try! As always, love your videos C, you inspire me!

Keeping It Real With Keshia 😱😱😱 That’s a great topic. Thank you for letting me know. I am so excited! Definitely looking forward to that.

Hello my friend! I am happy to hear from you. Yes, I am back to planet earth. I have been all over the world, and most of the time, it was challenging to have a stable internet connection. Anyway, I am back. I am glad this video helps.

Hello there, my friend! All is great with me! I hope all is great with you as well. I am not back to planet earth. I am making up for the lost weeks for you guys. I will be uploading videos every single day this week. Thank you for being here!

One question. When was the last time you gave her a hug? She’s not acting like this for no reason. Curses don’t come without a cause. The absolute best thing to do is to sit her down and have a heart to heart conversation. First question to ask is “what can I do to be a better mother to you?” Encourage her to say whatever it is she’s got to say AND DONT INTERRUPT HER, even if she’s making you uncomfortable. Don’t defend yourself AT ALL. The point is is to get to the root of her contentions. After she tells you what you can do to be a better mother, make every effort to do so and TELL her I am going to do my best to follow through to be a better mom, and I’m sorry if I failed you. When she sees you following through with your best efforts to fulfill her (reasonable) request, expect a change in her. Even if she doesn’t change, the point in all this is is to do your part so you can say I did my best to better myself as a mom to her, and the ball is in her court at that point. I’m an expert at this technique because I do it all the time. It’s the psychology of changing yourself to help change other people. Also, it sounds to me that she may have suffered some sexual abuse that you may not be aware of.

Thank u 👏

I do t like the phrase "let it go" because I do think it does a disservice to minimize any wrongs ppl gave done to us and act like to forget and forgive is to move on. I prefer to "put down" a grudge rather than let go. You put it down, so you don't have to hold onto it, but it isn't just randomly lost somewhere. You remember what the person did, and you put the event in its proper place in your brain but not weighing down your heart.

I know right. Literally, long time no "C". I am back, and I promise to make up for the lost weeks by uploading new videos every day this week. I was filming. I just didn't have the ability to upload. Thank you for being here.

@@CoffeeWithC Whatever you do..take it easy..

@@Victory..I Thank you so much for the reminder, my friend. It means a lot to me.