SHE'S PERFECT! I've been learning English and here I can practice my English and get more information about humans behavior, which I like!! Thank you from Brazil 💛
Vanessa, another great video!!! I love your bullet points. I will first be using the self-evaluation for myself and also suggesting our leadership team add this video to our leadership training!
As always a fantastic and extremely helpful video, thank you Vanessa. Also loving your book at the moment. Keep up the valuable work your doing. Sending you good vibes from the UK. 😃
While it bums me out that people judge on a first impression & hold onto that. I still like the tips. It is just a matter of being more self aware of your body.
That's why I've pretty much given up on finding a girlfriend. I have the posture, walk and stance of a soldier; the presence of the 11th doctor, and Harrison Ford's tired eyes and half smile. I can't say that makes a great first impression.
Thanks Vanessa for sharing it. I try keeping your insights in mind when I carry myself around at work. I need to practice controlling my hand gestures but for some reason I end-up putting my hands together on the table, in pockets, etc. Any tips on how to improve hand gestures during business communication to exude confidence, get acknowledgement, and be likeable? Thank you!
nice research and tips given thanx it was quite helpful ..... but i believe at the end being yourself is very important, do not try to impress go with the flow naturally other wise it might be suffocating trying to remember all those gesture. but being your self does not mean be arrogant or cocky. just be generous , compassionate indiscriminately and be a deep listener and meditate. peace
Surely, I agree with you about your experience with the people who are looking for the perfect place to stay with me, I replied that answer tomorrow morning at 9:00, Dt 29/08/2019 about my last two years ago experience, what I was doing, and in which struggling I was passing through this process of making a good thing and how I was working. Thanks for sharing your thoughts about me that what people are thinking about me.
This video is more about externals that, while valuable, are not as important as internals and how someone genuinely interacts with others to make a good impression.
First impressions aren’t the strongest impressions though. But sometimes people won’t give a 2nd chance, but if they do and actually take time to get to know someone. Also, first impressions do not stay with us, because this one woman’s first impression was incredible, but now I’m not so sure about her character at all, after all this time.
Your recommendation: People sitting with their toes inwards always signalize shyness, weakness, (already we see this by kids a lot and its then also true) On the stage we have never thought not he's/she's pointing with his /her shoes to the audience ?
Here are a few articles that should help answer your question! :) www.scienceofpeople.com/how-to-make-a-conversation-with-a-girl/ www.scienceofpeople.com/how-to-flirt/ www.scienceofpeople.com/conversation-starters-topics/
@@freeyou2000 omg im sryXD i didnt think translated: most people like the colour blue it also makes peole calm and i think its her favorite colour so blue is always a good choice^^
"If you're depressed or in an anxious mood, people will pick up on this." Well f***, that pretty much kills it right there. It seems like I'm in a constant low-key depression. And what if you're not feeling calm, confident or powerful? What am I supposed to do, fake it? I thought I was supposed to be myself. This channel is not for people like me.
Mmh I often hear the statement "at first xx appeared a bit yy, but when I got to know him/her, he/she was lovely". Would everyone be a massive hypocrite?
I'm great at first impressions. It's once people start talking to me for a prolonged time and they realise I'm actually an anxious wreck underneath all of the superficial posturing that the problem arises. You can look and sound as confident as you like, but if you don't actually feel that way underneath all of these little tricks are effectively pointless.
So is the world split into two groups of people? The ones who are trying everything they can think of to make a good impression/not be boring/seem confident and happy... And then the people that group are trying to impress, who sit back and live their lives and simply judge the first impression/interest level/confidence of the people around them? Or, are we all in that first group and we're all just trying to impress each other simultaneously?
@@Zwitterion17 Forgot about this comment but still wonder about the answer lol So you mean we are split into two groups or you think we're all in the former "trying to impress each other" group?
The first impression I got was not authentic. Too many over exaggerated hand gestures. This whole thing seems way too dramatic. Factor that into your algorithm.
I’m thinking voters would look at the track record of a politician rather than how they look or talk. For me, actions are all I care about! I don’t care what someone says.
I'm sorry to be a hater, but these tips seem kinda ... arbitrary. I'm not a rider on the non-verbal hype train (though I understand the comment about "ornamentation"). If you could provide some links to the actual sources, Vanessa, that would be helpful to me in understanding why these tips actually have the positive effects you describe.
