If a man ask you what are you looking for in a man just say be yourself and the more i get to know you and spend time with you then ill know if youre exactly what im looking for.
In other words, dont play victim and ditch the attitude (sex, religion, divorce, single parenting, etc)--yall just met, it's nothing personal so don't make it personal
Lol men wanted you 2 talk. But after we talk 2 much. They run away. If we don't talk they like us more. 🙄 I guess nothing has changed. People act modern. But is like is in human DNA women must stay quite and act perfect.
At last, someone who has something intelligent to say on these YT posts. The women self-help books generally say keep up with current event, don’t be an airhead. Men like good-looking women, but dull women who have little to say or demonstrate their lack of real world learning will soon be cast aside.
If I was on a date and asked these silly questions I would answer. My weaknesses when asked are "pink jelly beans and fine houses. Why me and my ex's broke up - we shared different dreams, Next, tell me something that makes you special? Hello. Traumatic, things that have happened to me in my life- Only, having the opportunity to visit two countries in my life. Best, to talk about cool TV shows, music, schooling, charities, and fashion. Wear, a bracelet that reads "I am worth it" if you have a low self esteem to remind yourself you are worth it, when you go to the restroom to look at the words on the bracelet. Never, let your guard down with a man's questions. Big questions to ask, family connections, what types of stuff do you usually do throughout their week, listen to everything they tell you like relatives passing, ex's and previous children as to who has they time and money. Someone, who asks personal sex questions I will tell them they are rude and out of line. Talks about the ex or asks about your ex's tell him I like to talk about the further not the past. Solving problems, cost money and time, so giving advise to a man is a huge No. Counselors, do not give therapy, or lawyers do not give advise for free, so why should we give free advise especially on first dates.Just saying.
I never stay on the phone longer than 10 minutes w/ a man if that. I am always the one that gets off the phone first & im not about to be texting you all day unless you’re talking about money or initiating plans
thank you for some examples of what to talk about as well..I was once on a date at this beautiful high end restaurant and it was so awkward we both just kept saying ..."this is wonderful" "oh yes so wonderful" and a few other words to describe how wonderful it was THE WHOLE TIME..😂 it started getting weird. and a silence between then back to the wonderful comments lol
my ex was shy and to get him to open up I made alot of jokes and he said it is fun to be with me because my jokes entertained him,. however he did mention later that he felt sad because he felt he can't make jokes like me. I was like OK but you are good at everything else I can't do...so IDK if jokes are a good tactic with a shy man...probably not very feminine..like I didnt allow him enough room to feel like he was getting the opportunity to impress me.. .but I have been told that is one of my stronger points
pretty and young I used to do the same thing until I met my last ex. I decided to let him lighten the moment because I like my men to work for my interaction. I received better treatment from him in part because I learned to stop making it easier for men. They’re men. They have no problem going hard for what they want.
warmcozy I completely agree with you..looking back that's what would've happened and he would've felt better by doing the work. Good good advice💛 thank you
I think as shera says a man should be the one trying to impress you and entertain you, if you have to entertain a man and make them open up sounds more like they'd be a friend. Personally I'd like someone who leads the conversation and it's confident. I'm kinda done with shyness.
Never talk about serious problems or skeletons in your closet - abuse, mental illness, drug/alcohol problems, rape, money problems/unemployment, serious illnesses, criminal record, etc.
@@maritza.lovessred flag. Run. Men tend to be even more emotionally reserved than women do if he's sharing his deepest darkest secrets with you on a first date he's a nutcase. Get out before you end up cut up into parts in his fridge.
I don’t like talking on the phone. I always laugh when I’m going through my phone bill monthly to see I’ve sent over 2,000 texts but spoke for a combined 50 mins if so much for the entire month.
12:50: what are you looking for in a man. well i don't know yet, i haven't found it. 19:00 are you seeing other people: always say no.27:15 don't attempt to solve the problem
I feel like religion important. I cant mesh with ppl who don’t have the same beliefs as I do. But Id prolly save that talk for another date I guess 🤷🏽♀️
We should just be our self. Our best self. And if we not a match. We not a match. Nothing we can do. No point in all this games lol🤔😒😤 wow this feels like work. Some men do love intelligent talk.
Loook I here is how this is going to work I’ll will say ask whatever I want and if you want answer fine if not fine but nobody going to tell me what I can or can not say period and if I’m forever alone then it’s whatever so 💅🏾
Today i was on a ice cream date at the park. We spoke about alot of things but the cherry on top. We spoke about any and everything except topics i didnt want to touvh on like dating or sex... told him we can be friends but he doesn't want. Shame he is a seemingly nice man and he didnt touch me nd read boundries very well...
I have sisterlocks and yes. Men do love them because you love them. When your confident in yourself and dress and style yourself to be and feel your best, there’s no wrong
I seen videos with your cat and I'm not really a cat person so I never really paid it much mind but that dog is so cute what is he as much as I love you girl I will snatch your dog😄😄😄
Things to never talk about on dates....cute little clip I like in your hair gives a smooth little cute posy look soft look in your over all ool in your hair with moore look
Mmm it’s for his protection. I know of some high school underage girls that had tinder & other dating apps. Maybe he thought you looked really young. If I were a man I would absolutely protect myself from jail bait!
@@luckyluckylucky2261 yes I do look young. This is a good point. Unfortunately this guy was carrying a fake id and kept pressing for my id so he could see my address. Psycho man!
impossible not to talk about education level if they say theyve graduated from this and that university. what are you even supposed to say? just stare at them?
Having bits of paper to your name is not quite the deal breaker it once was. As a European guy I don’t have any formal qualifications at all, but I could communicate in 5 Asian languages and 5 European languages including Russian. Time and time again I bested monolingual English speakers who were more qualified, younger, richer, taller, better dressed and better looking. Remember knowledge is power. The other thing is I have no education debts or any debt weighing me down (no one wants to marry debt 💸). My advice? Don’t stare at them, don’t be intimidated either. Apart from developing some skills or party tricks of your own, have some snappy retorts prepared, i.e. Mary Ann from Gilligan’s Island was only a farm girl but she got more fan mail than any other character on the show !! The other thing is most men don’t care what academic qualifications a woman has, but they like a woman who is intelligent but not a complete show off.
