Coach ,what if u don't have social media? How can I get her attention with no contact? By the way it's been a month and some change since the last time she and I spoke.
I saw your video once by mistake, and i came to an absolute conclusion that there's no better coach. Ever since, i have subscribed and followed all your videos.. cheers!
That makes two of us! Came across Coach's channel last night. I'm currently practicing 'ni contact' and didn't realize there's an actual term for it. I have been doing this over the course of my dating life. When I'm done with someone, I'm done. There's no coming back for that person. Ever. 'No contact' works every single time!
I really appreciate your videos because it’s nice to hear from a male perspective. It’s helped me learn how my ex may have thought and what I could learn from my situation moving forward (as much as it still hurts). Thank you for doing what you do 🙏🏽
📩👆Hi sweetheart I have got my broken relationship fixed with the help this great Love Spell Relationship spiritualists who brought Back my ex partner in 48 hours after 8 months of separation.
See if you understand no contact right firstly it's about finding yourself secondly even if your partner goes in no contact because it's human nature at some point they'll be trickered because they were the one's broke up with you.
@@kagamitaiga9167yes. Right. No couple dumps each other at the same time. They might both agree to the break up but it is one person’s desire to end it and the other person typically concedes.
👸they threw u away😤why they deserve u back🤷♀️ bc they desperate. self-pride self-respect, self-worth. stay NO contact! unless u want to get dumped again🙅♀️🤬by a lying 🤥pos.
Stop projecting Every ex is not a liar or threw you away Sorry that has happened to you but don’t project your stuff on others..my ex and lived 8 hours away and it was tough He is not a liar or threw me away but he wanted me to move to his state and I didn’t so he got mad and dumped me
Thanks. I needed to hear this. Been dating someone for 4 months now. Now is feels like a Rollercoaster ride that got stuck in mid air and can't get off. I don't know what I did..he won't talk.about it and it hurt. Very dismissive of my feelings and I think he's emotionally unavailable. 😕
Thank you so much I needed this sooo much your videos are also so helpful and on point, I really been hurting behind this breakup, your Heaven sent!!💙 I’m going in Nc!!
Hey coach, I'm trying to trust the process but it feels hopeless. We've been split 8 months now. She reached out back in September and I reached out in October after which we blocked each other but it's been a solid 4 months of no contact now. She said I treated her very well and has nothing against me but it wasn't enough. We live close by and I've seen her a few times, I smile and keep going, she barely aknowledges me, I can't tell if she's cold or indifferent. We were together 2.5 years.
Yep. I have my 3 year ex at work. He was my best friend/ only friend in highschool. I still have his highschool letters after almost 20 years. I am still friendly to talk in our lunch breaks. Even my boyfriend joins in to know everything wrong about me for 6 years of my life. Yeah I loved him. It sucked but I planned the break up for 4 months while pretending everything is all good to his face. I grieved the end of the relationship every alone moment in the car. To his face, I worked hard and I was nicer hoping he would make the necessary changes to be with me. When I was done grieving... I accepted and became optimistic about a single life without him. I finally expressed my need to break up. He felt like I should be begging for him to stay when I know he will never compromise to my needs and he is better off without me. I told of the problems once and he wanted to argue about it 6 months prior and other problems compounded in my head causing the grieving period. It took 4 months after he left the house for him to apologize for how he treated my mom and step daughter, say that he should have apologized to them knowing they are important to me, and they should have been welcome to come over for holidays and birthdays. I felt like I had to sacrifice my family to be with him and they will always see him as an asshole when I needed them to know why I love and appreciate him. I cried for the first time in front of him for three years because I needed that of him 10 months ago and sacrificing my family for him seemed too great.
You are an amazing soul Your words aren't judgemental at all.. They are very understanding and human...letting us understand how this psychology works makes it more bearable
My ex girlfriend dumped me after already being on a rebound relationship. 63 days NC and she was dumped by the other guy. Through a mutual friend I found out she is chasing the other guy who dumped her. I don't think she coming for me!
Thank you for the advice, we've been on and off, for 2 years, the man I've been with, my husband, my best friend, and my partner in life I thought was wearing more mask than I ever knew. I seen hate in his eyes last night before we split this go around. I need no contact, my heart cannot stand anymore!! All these years and I didn't even know the man I was married to. I feel like such a fool!
Coach I have been following u for sometime now and I must confess u're amazing. How I wish I know u earlier...things wouldn't have been the way it's 4 me now
Well you can do that but, in my experience it doesn't work if they are seeing different people to get over you. If they have DISTRACTIONS...they won't think about you at all.
Bingo👍! they don't want u no mo 🤷♀️bc they got yo replacement. if they breakup they may try to come back out of loneliness but not for the right reason bc they love u. 🙅♀️they threw u away 😤don't give them a 2nd chance to throw u away. learn to love 💕 yourself enough to stay NO contact
Sometimes they assume the grass is greener and try dating or talking to other people… by you not validating them and going “ missing “ they’ll think about you.
Why would you want someone who didn’t want you in the first place ? Maybe you’ll get them to come back, but they’ll leave you again. You can’t marry an unstable person.
Part of it is using others to get over you. However, do you really want to be with someone who acts like that? If that's the case the sucker is the one taking them back. Basically approving of that behavior....betrayal.
Please help 🙏 I have an ex who is also my kids father I want him back but I have never done no contact with him I find this is hard since I have to co parent 😔 he's in a new relationship and I know he still loves me what do I do
This work if your BPD ex girl seeing someone else who gives them validation who doesn’t give AF about them & your goddam family is on the line coach? Help me out here. She’s making shocking decisions atm coz I pushed her away 😣 we have to make this right for our family. She’s completely infatuated with this fool who has a partner & kid of his own. WTF surely this can’t sustain itself but in the interim I have to ensure contact is only for the kids & no you can’t ‘drop by’ for a swim if we’re not seeing each other. Am I doing the right thing even though the more I pull away the less she seems to even care & blame me more?
📩👆Hi sweetheart I have got my broken relationship fixed with the help this great Love Spell Relationship spiritualists who brought Back my ex partner in 48 hours after 8 months of separation.
I 📩👆Hi sweetheart I have got my broken relationship fixed with the help this great Love Spell Relationship spiritualists who brought Back my ex partner in 48 hours after 8 months of separation.
love your stuff blac, every situation is different in many ways, some of these videos are great and make sense, but there's many specifics that are not taken into account, especially my current situation with my ex of 5 weeks now. she's 60 just turned and has stress and other issues that caused us to break up, she's even said ive done nothing wrong, could be some hormone troubles thrown in as well. feelings have changed she says, but i believe they are still there masked under all these problems she has. so now going no contact, see if that helps.
I am korean and watching this video in Seoul with subtitle. I wonder if it does apply to me who broke with my boyfriend and it is the 3th breake up with him.
What do you though of its a long term relationship, but you broke up after one of their parents passed suddenly. Is no contact still appropriate or is that cold?
We met up after she reached out. It was fun at the end. She apologised and cried she said she missed me she loved me big hug and two short kisses on the lips before I left. Thoughts?
Yes , I do the chasing now coach but somehow I felt tired and feel so hurt . Even ignore all my msgs and calls.. I try to control myself and be strong and make the serious no contact rule .
My ex moved on to another guy she works with within a month of us breaking up. So she was already talking to this guy and had him on the back burner she aint coming back.
This work if your BPD ex girl seeing someone else who gives them validation who doesn’t give AF about them & your goddam family is on the line coach? Help me out here. She’s making shocking decisions atm coz I pushed her away 😣 we have to make this right for our family. She’s completely infatuated with this fool who has a partner & kid of his own. WTF surely this can’t sustain itself but in the interim I have to ensure contact is only for the kids & no you can’t ‘drop by’ for a swim if we’re not seeing each other. Am I doing the right thing even though the more I pull away the less she seems to even care & blame me more?
It has been 3 months and 2 weeks since I did No contact. I left many things at his house. I need my things back but I don’t want to break No contact. I don’t know how to get my things back.
Where were you a week ago?? I msg my ex abt a dream I had abt him. I contacted him twice after the breakup. We broke up October of last year. Listen, I will NEVER EVER contact him again whether he's coming back or not. Other than those two times, I'm on the NO CONTACT LIST fresh!!!!!! I'm glad I found you on the internet!!!!! Keep doing what you're doing.
📩👆Hi sweetheart I have got my broken relationship fixed with the help this great Love Spell Relationship spiritualists who brought Back my ex partner in 48 hours after 8 months of separation.
Mine was head over heals two years and one day she simply broke off and asked to remain as friends as she was cold and distant…. I said it’s time for me to move… if you ever feel the emotional connection hit my phone. and blocked her on social media.
It’s been a week and 2 days no contact 😢 but he’s the first one in my Instagram stories and liking all my vacation post. However he hasn’t reached out to me yet . It’s so hard. I want a text saying I miss you or something already 😢
Always keep them wondering where she stands. I made 2 text after 2 months. Now i gotta star over. But hey....5 years we think of each other from wa,e up to sleep time
. We had no mutual friends really. I met his mom & dad once and he never really wanted to hang out with other people because he’s an extreme introvert. So I’m not sure what advice you give for someone who does not do TikTok, does not do FB. How does what you’re saying, coach, black, help the situation like this ?
After 2 months no contact I lost interest in him and now he's going crazy.. we co parent and he's now using my our 2 year old to keep tabs on me he's been arguing with me for anything but I've not been responding. He's Turing me offff
What if you texted a spiritual message and i I pasted them on your health and you theirs and you got I love you and am praying for you stay strong emoji s? I left it there….
My ex break up with me but the problem is we have a child together and it's difficult for me to go no contact with her. What should I do cause we I need to see my children and must contact her first
Well, I'm thinking to start No contact with my Ex who's an introvert (I reply to her barely and then be like: I'm super busy atm, Reach me later) Coach do you think no contact works with Introverts? Would I ever be able to get her back again?
what if she is hanging out with a new guy that she gets along with and is excited being its all new and good with him? how can I get her back? I love her and I am heartbroken
Hello Coach, First of all thanks for making these videos! Second is that, My Ex reached me 2 times now during no contact with just a "Hi" Message and i replied after a few mins, I'm not leading the convo just giving short replies, I once asked her "what's up" Which she not replied yet to not let her feel that I'm ignoring her, What do you say sir? When should I ask her for face to face meet? It's been 3 days of no contact sir!
📩👆Hi sweetheart I have got my broken relationship fixed with the help this great Love Spell Relationship spiritualists who brought Back my ex partner in 48 hours after 8 months of separation.
This is all bs wen ur ex is also watching these videos. Don't let other people tell u how to do ur relationship. Jus go with ur instincts. Most of the time they're rite.
My ex dumped me 2 weeks now for a simple reason i tried to call him once just he didnt answer i have not been in nc since then i would really want to get him bk how long should i stay in nc for
She sees all my stories and asks friends about me. But she doesn't want to come back to me and from what I know her, I don't think she'll change her mind. She even told me that she didn't want to stop hearing from me. I am thinking of moving to another country, I am broken, what should I do?
I think I've had every single ex come back to me at some point. And they were prolly the most toxic break ups ever. I mean the meanest cuss words and things said were horrible. Time does heal and if there were a lot of good they eventually will think about that. Having said that I'm nervous about my current situation. She's had a horrible trama past.. Didnt wait very long between previous relationships and has been in a few all within short periods. I think I could of built things back with her as she reached out and commented on a snap post of mine. I kept it cool and said thanks. But unfortunately later that even I didnt like a snap of hers. It wasn't really appropriate and I feel it was possible to provoke me. I lashed out.. But we did chat and even the next day.. But the next day she was msging and we were having small chats about her son etc.. And then she goes. So I have a question can I have those tickets for the concert n april.. I said thats 3 months away and I got those for us. She said well they were for me for x ma's tho. I said true but I got then for us. Then I said the concert is this far away. Why don't we just try to fix this and go. She said so theres no way we can work something out? Like the only way I can go is if I go with u? I then said do u have like no intentions on fixing this. She said she has 0 Intentions on getting with anyone! Now if u wanna keep doing what ur doing and let me figure my stuff out then we will see. But for now I'm gonna stick to what i said and thats focusing on my kids and school.. Before this conversation she was telling me how she was happy in the relationship and she does love me but its not as much as I love her. Shes not where I'm at.. Whatever thats supposed to mean. During the break up she said the same as far as focus on kids etc.. She also said during that time she has strong feelings but shes not In love with me.. I have had similar things said n past and they came back. But she stuck to this even 3-4 weeks after.. But I am in total NO CONTACT now and were no longer friends on snap or fb etc.. I'm doing books now and videos for getting ex back etc every day.. Hours a day. Even watching same ones. I hope to have a success story and she comes back. I miss her so much
My ex told me she has love for me but she’s not in love with me. She said she doesn’t love me. She said she feels in her heart I’m not her person. But she also said if I need anything I can hit her up. That’s as clear as day that’s she done with me. But she still watches my Facebook. Also if I tell her to call me she will. I haven’t gone a full month with out no contact but I’m not sure that will make her come back. She’s been as clear as day. She also said if she loved me she would have never went to a friend for emotion support. It doesn’t get any clearer then that. My break up is different. There’s honestly no hope. I hope someone replies to my comment.
