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How to respond to the bullying threats of criminal psychopaths 

RICHARD GRANNON
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@Rubylove48
@Rubylove48 4 года назад
Free yourselves people. Never ever be a slave to anyone or anything.
@joannebohan2243
@joannebohan2243 4 года назад
A A if they have your child you have no choice
@carmel-wayfinder5401
@carmel-wayfinder5401 4 года назад
@@joannebohan2243 So do you think it's a good option for you to let your child be a slave too...
@just2_sharew_u526
@just2_sharew_u526 4 года назад
@@joannebohan2243 That is exactly why I love our 2nd Amendment.
@ua2381
@ua2381 4 года назад
@@joannebohan2243 You always have a choice. You just may not like the consequences.
@joannebohan2243
@joannebohan2243 4 года назад
Carmel- Wayfinder if I take her they can arrest me
@leosmith8596
@leosmith8596 3 года назад
Who else is becoming overwhelmed with the realisation that in fact the MAJORITY of people are so easily manipulated? I genuinely never thought there was such a high percentage of emotional people out there.
@kellyyork3898
@kellyyork3898 Год назад
I think most politicians ( and some pastors of churches ) understand how easily people are manipulated. ; )
@taraarrington2285
@taraarrington2285 Год назад
@@kellyyork3898 yes people also need to realize that the people who want so badly to be at the top of the power and money structure tend to be Psychopathic and sadistic and predatory
@setbyyah5637
@setbyyah5637 11 месяцев назад
Stanley Milgram experiments. Most people will administer shocks to innocent people at the behest of authority figures. Was done after WW2
@candyheartsart
@candyheartsart 7 дней назад
@@kellyyork3898 everyone has emotions. To deny your emotions is to deny your humanity.
@lorraine8306
@lorraine8306 4 года назад
Please do more talks like this Richard. I have not felt this normal in weeks. Love to all who had enough.
@PetitHibou72
@PetitHibou72 4 года назад
Seriously. And thanks!
@neverwhere1391
@neverwhere1391 4 года назад
☮️
@b11nladen
@b11nladen 4 года назад
Best video he's ever done. Are the Wilderness Years at an end?
@Marie-mg7zp
@Marie-mg7zp 4 года назад
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@Marie-mg7zp
@Marie-mg7zp 4 года назад
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@Anita_She
@Anita_She 3 года назад
Love it!!! Just say NO to everything that’s against your morals, principles and will. God bless you and God bless freedom at all cost 🙏🏼 🇱🇷
@g.mmcloughlin4964
@g.mmcloughlin4964 4 года назад
Wow Richie .... you tell it as it is. "If you tolerate this, then your children will be next". 💚
@nickieglazer33
@nickieglazer33 4 года назад
G.M McLoughlin 💗 I have been listening to Tolerate this, by Manic Street Preachers for the last few weeks. Empowering songs are helping me, more than ever now, in; Times like these (Foo fighters) and This is not a love song (P.I.L) Stay strong 💪 everyone. Love to all 🥰😘
@petalparker5
@petalparker5 4 года назад
I went back to listen more closely to Silent Running by Mike and the Mechanics. I recommend highly!
@deborahrice1520
@deborahrice1520 4 года назад
'our' children, those who went to college, have been brain washed into this already. :(
@jadehalliday6636
@jadehalliday6636 4 года назад
YES! 💃 I've always believed that there is a ripple effect when we stand up. The buck stops with us!! ✊
@jartotable
@jartotable 4 года назад
@@kibby5774 hi karla. If you click on my face. It will show my comment from this post on how childhood bullying effects how we respond as adults in bullying situations. I don't believe Richard is pushing political narratives. He's highlighting a worldwide phenomenon that's too good an example not to be used to teach why some unquestioningly obey whilst others question the narrative first. Are we taught as children to trust our instincts and intellect or are we taught to bugger all that and do as we are told or else. If the latter, we set ourselves up to always do as we're told... or else. He's asking us to question... "what is the 'else' that we fear that is worse than the consequence of using our own mind?
@gabigabriela2802
@gabigabriela2802 4 года назад
I grown-up in a ruf environment. When something really bad happened to me, i think, I turned psihopatic. No fear, no emotion, ready to die. And then they pulled back... I was lucky to escape, but I still have the psychological wounds. I wish you all a good life. Thank you for this video!
@thirdeye9106
@thirdeye9106 4 года назад
He who obeys the bully for safety or security of the moment gets more seriously screwed in the end. Domestic or government issues alike. Generally speaking.
@carmel-wayfinder5401
@carmel-wayfinder5401 4 года назад
That's a Facts 💚
@forpersonalreferencingonly2536
@forpersonalreferencingonly2536 4 года назад
Nicely said! Valid point! 💖💖💖💖💖
@desiree2773
@desiree2773 4 года назад
Not in my case
@ChiOxyH2oZen
@ChiOxyH2oZen 4 года назад
...then again, me and my kids are still alive. I live in wonder at my parallel universes where I said No and either died or lived a far better life free of fear. I have no way of knowing if this current half-life is better or worse than my "what if" alternatives.
@tim3854
@tim3854 4 года назад
satan doesn't spare anyone
@jartotable
@jartotable 4 года назад
I react like such a sheep in certain circumstances. I've realised that my childhood fear and thought processes of "don't make matters worse" as a self-protection strategy against bullies, no longer works as an adult. Sooo difficult after 50 years of cowering to the bullies to shift gears and face the confrontations. Damn it's hard. This whole 2020 hasn't been about the stress of illness. It's been about the stress of making a stand when everything inside is screaming "don't ruffle feathers". I've learnt a lot about myself and others in 2020 and one important thing is 'my life matters' and stop seeing every authoritative figure as my psychopathic parents. 'When you were a child you acted like a child, when you become an adult you should act like an adult'. The quickening and awakening of 2020 for us has been a rude awakening; forcing those who have the inner eyes to see, to make huge shifts in our mental, psychological and spiritual states. My childhood taught me "you don't matter". 2020 is trying desperately to teach me "yes, Rachael, you do matter, stand up for yourself, no one else is going to do it for you".
@marie-ramaghurburrun9204
@marie-ramaghurburrun9204 4 года назад
Beautiful Rachael. That's exactly what this time is about, taking personal responsibility, awakening our spirit and raising our level of awareness/consciousness of the true self. Know that you are NOT alone. Much love.
@vickyeahoh
@vickyeahoh Год назад
Same here! I feel what you say. We deserve to be protected by us. We can support ourselves💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
@RobotronSage
@RobotronSage 8 месяцев назад
sheep need to protect eachother from wolves somehow. I have said that perhaps the sheep need to become wolves to avoid being prey But i'm not sure how that works out tbh
@mateiualina2216
@mateiualina2216 4 года назад
All the narcs use bullying to manipulate the victim.
@HeLpLOstGOdAny1
@HeLpLOstGOdAny1 4 года назад
No, some are spineless cowards, so use victim narratives, traingulation, projection, gas-lighting and other covert methods
@ImSimplyAHuman
@ImSimplyAHuman 4 года назад
And some use passive-aggressive guilt trips leaving the victim feel “crazy”
@louisegarner8888
@louisegarner8888 4 года назад
@@HeLpLOstGOdAny1 As the definition of bullying is to "harm, intimidate or coerce" it follows that more covert tactics would fall under the same umbrella term as well.
@DaveGIS123
@DaveGIS123 4 года назад
Narcs also use bullying to manipulate the other people watching. Narcs love to be big shots.
@louisegarner8888
@louisegarner8888 4 года назад
@@DaveGIS123 You're right David!! It gives them an opening to play victim, manipulate and sabotage others as other's telling about flaws and vulnerabilities are like chum to sharks. What's the answer to this I wonder? I guess they show themselves over time, mostly in how they respond or not to others and if their compassion is fake and self serving or not? I watch for serial pests, you get a gut feeling and give them a wide berth. Have a good day!! 💞
@colleenwilson1152
@colleenwilson1152 4 года назад
The most sensible perspective I’ve encountered to date.....thank you Richard for unraveling my fear in this situation & reminding me that I can say “NO”!!💜
@oli230
@oli230 4 года назад
What I learned about Narcs in my very unpleasant relationship is that the more you give in and comply and show fear the more they come for you. Control is what they want and ultimately they want to squash the life out of you. There has to be resistance and non compliance. Drama isn’t needed because they like drama. Just quiet non compliance. Just get on with life, this is what I have done from the start. I’ll just add that if you watch TV you are letting them control you.
@freespirit9806
@freespirit9806 4 года назад
Speaking up is important because people need to understand what is happening
@carmel-wayfinder5401
@carmel-wayfinder5401 4 года назад
Exactly 💚
@MsSedonan
@MsSedonan 4 года назад
I stayed in a hotel and watched some tv. It’s been too long so I find it intolerable. It’s creepy like Craigslist; somewhat useful if you have powers of DISCERNMENT, otherwise it’s a shitshow.
@SC-gw8np
@SC-gw8np 4 года назад
Yup! Words I abide by: “The only way to deal with an unfree world is to become so absolutely free that your very existence is an act of rebellion.” Albert Camus
@notyourblonde
@notyourblonde 4 года назад
@@SC-gw8np great quote!!
@ambraabate
@ambraabate 4 года назад
thank you for stirring up this difficult point. People shrink back instead of accepting the risk of personal consequences of fight back ALL TOGETHER, which would annihilate the threat. Distrust and ignorance make room to the psychopath. A cohesive response against threats should be taught as 'good manners' in life. Thank you again.
@GT380man
@GT380man 10 месяцев назад
Yours is such an important point. Let me say, it’s THE MOST IMPORTANT POINT. I’ll go further. There are NO OTHER SOLUTIONS. Two scenarios at a population level, when the authorities threaten us. Which THEY WILL. We can be CERTAIN of this, because the entire situation has as its goal to seize TOTALITARIAN CONTROL of the entire human race. Nothing that’s happened & continues to happen is accidental or inadvertent. It’s exactly as the presenter says. The threats, carefully thought-out, have as their goals to get you to comply with their absurd demands. Does the threat merit the response? Absolutely not. The narrative has the scenario of a respiratory bug going around & killing a fraction of the most frail and elderly. Not younger and more healthy people. So why the dickens is there this relentless propaganda and pressure to get multiply jabbed? I know, but most here wouldn’t accept it if I was to elaborate. But it’s bad. Very bad. I think of it as sat*nic. That’s where this global drive originates. If enough of us say “NO”, and mean it, the bullies’ power evaporates. Because what are they going to do? Beat up, shoot or even KILL the non-compliant? I don’t think they’ll do that. There are not enough people willing to do the implied “wet work” for that path to be effective. So though the authorities may make examples of a few, they cannot to that to the majority. If sufficient of us say “NO” & mean it, they lose. Provided we haven’t already relinquished our autonomy. If most of us comply with the threat, because of the “…or else”, we’re essentially being TAKEN TO A SECONDARY CRIME SCENE. You will lose all your freedoms, permanently, because that is the agenda of the perpetrators. Once they have totalitarian tyranny over every individual, what then do you think will happen? They’re obviously going to continue to insist you get jab after jab after jab. We know this because huge manufacturing facilities are being built everywhere. Also, our governments have already agreed to purchase sufficient jabs for ten (10) MORE injections per citizen. Nobody will survive ten more of these injections. Now do you understand that the equivalent of fighting & risking dying, as in the speakers example of a gun threat in the street (“Get in the car, or else”) is less bad than going along with the demand? You’re essentially allowing yourself to be taken to a secondary crime scene. Never, ever, allow that to happen.
@silentminxy
@silentminxy 4 года назад
"Give me all your money" "I'd prefer not to, have a good day and goodbye" 😂 that couldn't be anymore British!
@sonnyca
@sonnyca 4 года назад
You forgot to tip your hat and tuck your cane under your armpit.
@carmel-wayfinder5401
@carmel-wayfinder5401 4 года назад
@@sonnyca 😂
@silentminxy
@silentminxy 4 года назад
@@sonnyca that's true, I'll also tug at my gloves and let my coat tails swash you in the face as I spin and leave. GOOD DAY TO YOU SIR!
@gcjpcrowder
@gcjpcrowder 4 года назад
😂
@Chopsyochops
@Chopsyochops 4 года назад
In reality it would be more like “GTF” and him punching them in the nose. I think Richard was being polite for the camera. The northern temperament is not ‘good day sir’ lol I know. I live a few miles down the road from him. In Manchester we’d just launch the b@stards, no questions asked. Down south however is much more ‘good day sir’ let me lick your boots! In Scotland they’d just headbutt you. It gets tougher the further north you go in the U.K. 🤣🤣
@mmercier0921
@mmercier0921 4 года назад
I was bullied about when I was a kid. I found if you basically attack them like a roman legionarie and get your ass kicked anyway... they generally leave you alone. They use threat of violence because that is what scares them most. They assume it works on everyone. Break their nose... they stay away. This guy puts too much thought into the subject. Be willing to be as violent, at the moment notice. Learn to become situationally aware and you can avoid these encounters. Half the people you meet on any given day are mentally dysfunctional, 1% are dangerous/pathetic.
@kellyyork3898
@kellyyork3898 Год назад
Absolutely! You hit the nail on the head here. Bullies only understand ONE THING! Take them down HARD, THE VERY FIRST TIME. They do not “negotiate” and neither should you. I would also add, get witnesses’ names and addresses and, if possible, get them on tape. Make sure it is evident you were defending yourself against an attack the bully initiated. Then hire an excellent attorney/firm of lawyers-preferably one who plays golf with the local judge, and sue the bully, his parents, the employer or school system who allowed this to happen. Go get ‘em.
@dark7angel456
@dark7angel456 Год назад
I agree completely with you, most people are still mentally dysfunctional they need to put you down and feel better about himself, and then they cover it up with a fake mask and pretend perfection in their dysfunctional life which is actually just full of garbage and chaos and misery two other people because they can't control their own emotions so they try to do other methods to make themself feel better in this world and in reality they are next to trash. Example is say you run 20 miles and they can't run at all well they're going to try to make you look like the dysfunctional one because they can't run but yet you can so you can see why they are so ugly to you it's because they are so low
@Rubylove48
@Rubylove48 4 года назад
It’s true, people feel super threatened when you stand in your power and freedom. Their fawn response is challenged and rather than stand up to the bullies and abusers, they scapegoat you cos you have the guts to stand up for what’s true and good.
@carmel-wayfinder5401
@carmel-wayfinder5401 4 года назад
Bravehearts don't fawn they stand💚
@just2_sharew_u526
@just2_sharew_u526 4 года назад
@@carmel-wayfinder5401 "FREEEEDOM!"
@fionam3735
@fionam3735 4 года назад
A A I’ve been scapegoated by my parents and ex husband for various reasons! I guess I must be a threat as I don’t comply to them 🤷‍♀️
@borealiswan2363
@borealiswan2363 4 года назад
@@carmel-wayfinder5401 So well said ! I've taken so much bad wrap for standing where others just fawned in the face of abuse, and then when the outcome was positive they thanked me for it, when the outcome was status quo or bad, they looked down on me. At least I felt like I stood up for my convictions
@nomdeguerre8926
@nomdeguerre8926 4 года назад
@A A I experience this frequently on forums, but never had a name to refer to it. Now I do, so watcht out you goddamned fawns! lol
@sayusayme7729
@sayusayme7729 2 года назад
I saved myself by fighting until I got away, took some huge pain physically. So true. Thank you
@forpersonalreferencingonly2536
@forpersonalreferencingonly2536 4 года назад
BASICALLY, dont voluntarily embrace TORTURE... In an effort to not be... TORTURED...! 💖💖💖😊😊😊😊😊
@carmel-wayfinder5401
@carmel-wayfinder5401 4 года назад
Exactly 💚
@forpersonalreferencingonly2536
@forpersonalreferencingonly2536 4 года назад
@@carmel-wayfinder5401 "raise yo vibeee" 😋💖💖💖💖💖💙💙💙
@thejazzmonastery9541
@thejazzmonastery9541 4 года назад
& at least try to take one or more with you if they're going there.
@thedarkmaster4747
@thedarkmaster4747 4 года назад
Torture hurts, torture is worse than death. Sometimes after a successful torture session death follows anyway. If you fight you MIGHT die. If you comply, you WILL BE tortured. After torture you may become sucidal, as the intire point of torture, is that it is worse than death. Don't get tortured, it wont be worth it. Fight for more than your life. 😁👌👍
@shkuurt3
@shkuurt3 4 года назад
What Rich is saying is :not to accept torture even if we are being pressured,not voluntarily 🙄
@poppydaisy4828
@poppydaisy4828 4 года назад
Somehow I feel like this will save a lot of lives. It's getting worse out there. So appreciate your wisdom.
@tim3854
@tim3854 4 года назад
yep, no-touch torture weapons attacks will escalate on anyone with integrity
@nervousdog6907
@nervousdog6907 4 года назад
This is a good refresher on some common sense knowledge. Common sense is being wiped out for some reason.
@carmel-wayfinder5401
@carmel-wayfinder5401 4 года назад
Totally common senses is not common
@youtubingbabs
@youtubingbabs 4 года назад
Never had it... Just learning in my late 30's. It was programmed out of me at a very young age. Getting to the bottom of it all though. I have eyes, ears, nose, mouth, a body and yes a brain. And they function quite well! Don't like other ppl telling me who I am, how I feel, what I see, what I perceive etc any longer. I am me from the inside out, no longer outwardly in. So... What Should be Common sense sadly is not to many who were trained from birth into emotional and mental blindness! Thanks for your comment! Makes my quest worth it to know the sense I'm gaining should be common...sorry of like saying it's my birthright. It's our birthright to honor our perceptions and conclusions and brainpower and feelings. Yes!
@youtubingbabs
@youtubingbabs 4 года назад
May have been a stretch on my part in regards to your intentions with common sense... But that's my Takaway! 😌
@nervousdog6907
@nervousdog6907 4 года назад
@@youtubingbabs no brother you are on the right path. Go within, discover spirituality, who you are. Don't listen to the news or organized religion. GO WITHIN. Trust yourself and your experiences. You just said you have eyes nose and ears. TRUST THEM. Trust what you see and hear trust what your body is telling you. They want us to feel like we need to confide in others what we feel in order for it to be true. And yes like the last guy said they are trying to rule over us. Across the world I'm watching people realize, people taking these messages more seriously. I guess I learned at a young age because I've been through hardship and I come from Chicago. I'm nineteen. All my friends have been robbed before, caught by police smoking weed, not me. Easy situations to avoid. Shit when I open the door for the mail man I have a knife on me at all times. Some people say I'm paranoid and it'll never happen so why are you worried, but you aren't paranoid when your car carries a spare tire or med kit. It's called being prepared. Just because waking up is an uncomfortable, harsh reality, doesn't mean sleeping through it and just being a drone/pawn is the right choice. Nothing good for you is easy. Think independently. Trust yourself. Go within. I know not what more to tell you, for I am just a young adult from Chicago. But I wish to share with you these lessons I find useful. Stay safe in this time of economic devastation. I hope everyone is doing well. 🙏🏻
@avalonmist254
@avalonmist254 4 года назад
@@youtubingbabs well then you are like me a critical thinker because I know the horrible things that can happen next and prevent them
@curiouserandcuriouser5554
@curiouserandcuriouser5554 4 года назад
Loved this! Every new voice I hear that speaks up about this gives me so much hope. More people are waking up but we can’t wait for everyone to wake up before we make a stand. We can’t underestimate our own power in saying NO! We are powerful beyond measure!
@notyourblonde
@notyourblonde 4 года назад
NO And the response is most detrimental to life and liberty. The social shaming and "forced" quarantine is tyranny. Thank You Richard, most refreshing message.
@LeAndraLWomackLMT
@LeAndraLWomackLMT 4 года назад
Agree!
@doraymeandyou
@doraymeandyou 4 года назад
Two thirds into this I realized what he’s talking about, lol. Great way of avoiding censuring.
@simpletruths5322
@simpletruths5322 4 года назад
No no no! What’s happening now is crazytown!! I’ve lost my business! I have zero income! I would be shut down immediately by the bullies if I attempted to work again! I refuse to clap like a seal every Thursday! I’m positive that someone has noticed and has shamed me privately!! I simply don’t care!! The consequences of this disproportionate response by government bullies can’t be measured. The collateral damage it will create in human misery is immeasurable. And for what????
@meghanworkman6449
@meghanworkman6449 4 года назад
For control. It's what bullies always want.
@avalonmist254
@avalonmist254 4 года назад
Depopulation
@mkfh912
@mkfh912 4 года назад
Global control by a few elite.
@marymary-vg2ts
@marymary-vg2ts 4 года назад
They said no more black and white. Only white. Business has to shut down because of their narcissistic false god complex. They don’t believe in anyone, just this mass cover up of truths they couldn’t swallow. Your western imperialism has debt owed. No more abuses to other nations until they pay up.
@benvergus1573
@benvergus1573 4 года назад
For human lifes maybe?
@neinei5558
@neinei5558 4 года назад
When i was a kid one kid keep bullying me, i though this will never end and next time i will fight him. I thought, i will get beaten but i will get beaten anyway, hopefully i can hurt him. Surprisingly i was so full of adrenaline made me much stronger that i though, i literally tear his shirt off and he run away and never bully me again. This event was a big eye opener in my life.
@laughteraddict1003
@laughteraddict1003 3 года назад
Cool. My buddy growing up had a three strikes rule. One kid was bullying my friend and he went to the principal told him what was happening and his rule. Kid bullied a fourth time and my nerdy buddy knocked out a portion of his front tooth. Principal knowing situation did nothing to my friend and bully got in trouble
@TinaLouise73
@TinaLouise73 3 года назад
there's a toxic tart I know that is trying to push me to my limits thing that bothers me though is that I am VERY capable of "losing it" with her one day if she pushes me too far and that did be VERY stupid on her part to provoke a victim of a forced adoption as a baby and subsequent childhood abuse so bitch had better back off me before it's too late for both of us!
@giannis321giannis321
@giannis321giannis321 4 года назад
It annoys me that my own close people seem to support the bullies whenever I say no.
@sage9836
@sage9836 4 года назад
Yeah. I'd say horrifying. They take the side of the bully. I've seen this. They tell you that you should feel sorry for the bully, that if they harm you its your fault or you just didn't understand, then they tell you that you're the bad guy if you don't forgive. I think bullies pursue groups of enablers who will hand over a victim. Its one of the hardest thing to deal with.
@jorgepeterbarton
@jorgepeterbarton 4 года назад
@@sage9836 and some will be high profile and know how to get social approval to a tee. Exaggerate things and appear to only have to repeat the lie: 'that didn't happen' to get by
@sage9836
@sage9836 4 года назад
@@jorgepeterbarton I like ypur explanation of their formula. Its so frustrating how they look awesome ans leave a trail of destruction. But then, I guess they never really get away with it because they have to deny things constantly. . .
@DrogoBaggins987
@DrogoBaggins987 4 года назад
I've had this experience as well. The people who you think will be on your side just seem to automatically turn on you and take the side of your enemy or just turn into non entities while the bully is in the room.
@sage9836
@sage9836 4 года назад
@@DrogoBaggins987 I'm glad I got involved in this conversation. I thought it might be unique to a small group I know who forms a welcoming committee for a bully or even criminal who targets one of the group. Perhaps its entertaining for them to watch an outsider put the scapegoat down because they find it affirming. I am so eager for sociologists to do analysis of this common problem.
@WindQueen
@WindQueen 4 года назад
Try to explain this to 'stay home stay safe' crew.
@lavamapiaegologica9668
@lavamapiaegologica9668 4 года назад
happening now!
@deegeo3659
@deegeo3659 4 года назад
Double NO!!! " When injustice becomes law, resistance becomes duty" - Thomas Jefferson None of this makes sense. I've experienced that situation when I was 19. Gun to the forehead, demanded I get into my car, etc. I told him No! I am here today to speak about it.
@carmel-wayfinder5401
@carmel-wayfinder5401 4 года назад
Braveheart I hear you
@Lionofthelovinggod1
@Lionofthelovinggod1 4 года назад
dee geo good for you
@offthecuff454
@offthecuff454 4 года назад
Wow, that's incredible, thank you for sharing that! Glad you are here!!!!
@Ingerid772
@Ingerid772 4 года назад
Resistance group yes . As in the war . Sabotasjes , what can we do ?
@viviancaulkins5858
@viviancaulkins5858 2 года назад
I completely agree.. Never be compliant with your own life.. Unbelievable that anyone would not get that
@para4436
@para4436 4 года назад
I completely understand what this video is saying. And personally that's what I've been saying to myself, I'd rather fight and risk my life than obey some thug.
@patriciagriffin1505
@patriciagriffin1505 4 года назад
Unfortunately some of these bullies aren't " thugs" they are most of our govt..legal " thugs"...
@kktowne6992
@kktowne6992 4 года назад
patricia griffin... and the neighbors, the people on the street who think it’s their duty to force your compliance also
@SheenaRea
@SheenaRea 4 года назад
Excellent video. The world seems to have unleashed its bullies and it has become unnatural. Stay strong, folks. Many thanks for this precise and very powerful message, Richard. Greetings from Cincinnati!
@johnnyutah6056
@johnnyutah6056 4 года назад
I get where you're going with this! How awesome is Richard? This video sums up everything better than hours and hours of other youtubers can. WE MUST RESIST!
@danrothenhoefer4634
@danrothenhoefer4634 4 года назад
Always Question "authority". Things aren't always what they seem. Ask yourself what's in it for the Bully. You make some excellent points!
@donwill1926
@donwill1926 4 года назад
Mass non-compliance is always the solution to tyrannical government’s.
@zakariyaadeel2862
@zakariyaadeel2862 4 года назад
Absolutely!
@cartsy3032
@cartsy3032 4 года назад
Unity?
@mtlicq
@mtlicq 4 года назад
refuse the injections
@avalonmist254
@avalonmist254 4 года назад
Amen we must not Divide. We are more danger being 6 feet a part vs Safe precautions and forming a Collective with mass amounts of No we don't comply based on our Constitutional rights
@donwill1926
@donwill1926 4 года назад
Karla Bradley K Gandhi lead the Indian people to the sea to collect salt by mass which was illegal, it worked, there are thousands of examples in history where noncompliance on a Mescale has defeated tyranny, you can look it up yourself.
@Jen.K
@Jen.K 4 года назад
Wow! I didn't see where this was heading. Well done! One of the frightening things about bullies, and being abused by them, is sometimes they are not recognized for what they are and what they are actually doing. Our government, like our parents, only want the best for us, it's all for our own good, no matter how bad it feels....yeah right!
@gigantopithecushominoidea8779
He said it's already happening, yeah right! Like, what's the explanation for not teaching taxation in school? If you don't pay your taxes, the police will kill you if you refuse going to jail. That's reason. Bullies and psychopaths are the outcome of that reality.
@HzFvr
@HzFvr 4 года назад
AMEN! You are truly a voice of Sanity. Thank you
@macarona3467
@macarona3467 3 года назад
Another great video, thanks to your hard work , Richard. People who are bullied can doubt that they are actually the victims, especially if they have suffered abuse from a narc parent when they were a child. It's crucial they see themselves as THE VICTIM. The bully can usually " scan " someone quickly and won't hesitate to play with their mind.
@nelumbonucifera148
@nelumbonucifera148 4 года назад
Bullies feed off their targets’ fear and uncertainty. Establishing boundaries is important to disarm them. Identify the bullying for what it is and be proactive. Be empowered and stay safe!
@louisegarner8888
@louisegarner8888 4 года назад
In my case I can't get rid of my psycho DA DV neighbours, believe me I've tried every legal recourse and then some and it's made it worse if anything, and I dont want to relocate after decades either. I'm subjected to crazy stalking, serious death threats, name-calling, extreme music and foul vocals, etc., and nothing seems to have worked, they just keep going and have a mafia type gang of druugies in and out random hours, unpredictable... It's who they are and I'm the opposite, quiet alone, a tortured considerate anxious empath feeling like I'm switching characters with them I feel so triggered but I don't react as I've learnt theyre sadistic and love to torture you for any possible or perceived fear or weakness like not wanting to go deaf or be killed or sent crazy by them. I'm not a victim, THEY act the victim!! but I'm not surviving very well like this although I'm working on myself more and documenting any standouts next door, and I'm not sure what to do next. Any ideas? 🙏🙏🙏
@formepvp
@formepvp 4 года назад
@@louisegarner8888 Get some power in your relationship with them. They blast music at your house when you try to sleep? change up your sleep routine, find out when they sleep and blast them with music. If you're in america, show them your carrying arms. They won't stop if you dont give them a reason to. Maybe the above advice is bad. Consider moving. Basically, move or change yourself. Don't try to be a decent person they will do everything to destroy decent persons.
@louisegarner8888
@louisegarner8888 4 года назад
@@formepvp I'm in Oz and police recovered all their weapons but you never know... At least landlord and police are on high alert and I've backed right off pretty much as it triggers the main offender while I'm going higher up at the same time to the Housing Minister to see them moved on. As it's been almost 3 years now I think it's probably more bluff, just extreme nuisance and harrassment and other neighbours are on watch but don't want to get over involved. I'm over it and I've been doing a few pattern interupts on them lately where another neighbour and I play ABBA, Elvis, Kenny Rogers, etc., loud front and back whenever they start up, set off smoke alarm strategically, loud on phone to get them wondering type of thing and one of them said sorry to me in driveway so maybe things will change or they'll destroy each other first? It's the drug minds I dont trust uno can get dangerous, so I'm extra careful just very tired and do switch times and places I sleep to cope. I was thinking moving may be best if nothing changes I'll see what the Minister comes up with first. Thankyou for caring to reply, it means alot!! 💞
@Balaganbetty
@Balaganbetty Месяц назад
@@louisegarner8888 I’m so sorry to hear this!!! Im dealing with a multi-year Psycho in business. Different scenario but maybe not so much. I also tried the legal and other avenues, and it just made the main character escalate. The best I’ve found is to completely “not give them supply” in any way, as this person feels empowered when I am reacting in any form. Finally after years I follow another psychologist who helpfully said, just think and act like “you are dead to me” to this person, even if they speak to you. They hate when you are happy and living your best life and act like you don’t even see them. After years he finally moved on to another main target and source of “supply.” It really sucks. So sorry
@gailasgreatdanesandmanes1042
@gailasgreatdanesandmanes1042 4 года назад
You are BRILLIANT! Title is keeping this from being taken down!
@GippslandCNC
@GippslandCNC 4 года назад
Sooooo agree. Great video. My go to response now is if the situation allows it is " i don't make big decisions whilst I'm emotionally fuelled, i need to calm down and be rational and think before i make big life decisions. "
@collinf714
@collinf714 4 года назад
In my opinion, movies have conditioned us to accept that getting in the car or doing what the terrorist asks is the better choice when in reality the opposite is true. As you said, it usually only gets worse after you leave the first scene.
@bellakatrina5560
@bellakatrina5560 4 года назад
Yes Richard the longer we leave it the worse it gets NO THE THREAT DOES NOT WARRANT THE RESPONSE
@iawtc
@iawtc 4 года назад
Put it the other way around - does the threat from response warrant the response? Because I see very little in term of response to the real threat arising from manufactured one, or that people are even able to conceive what their response might be. The threat that asks you to do nothing in response is always going to win over the one requiring action.
@junegerber4028
@junegerber4028 4 года назад
@@iawtc it's all a big fat lie - and they are hoping we find it out so that we riot. Riots give them a reason to bring martial law and total control! They can't wait!!
@marymary-vg2ts
@marymary-vg2ts 4 года назад
Covid 19 is there standing for all those who refuse to respect others🇦🇮
@nancyw8341
@nancyw8341 4 года назад
And now it's August 30th and it's still going on!
@ajlasmarin
@ajlasmarin 4 года назад
Wow. Didn’t expect the twist but THANK YOU. So relieved to see I’m not alone in my outlook on the current “matter”.
@tim3854
@tim3854 4 года назад
it's the towers
@PleaseNThankYou
@PleaseNThankYou 4 года назад
Question one: NO. The threat doesn't merit the response. Question two: YES. This level of response and acquiescence is much more destructive than the original threat. We have already allowed the bully to take us to a secondary crime scene. Economic fallout, food chain disruption, vitriol towards neighbors, STOCKHOLM SYNDROME. I can not tell you how sick it all makes me to think there are other humans who share my planet that will perpetrate this crime on their fellow man. Who do they think they are? Or, maybe, W.H.O. do they think WE are?
@bonnie1097
@bonnie1097 4 года назад
100%
@habanero6332
@habanero6332 4 года назад
I know someone who does that. Shocking.
@carmel-wayfinder5401
@carmel-wayfinder5401 4 года назад
Totally inhumane..1💚
@red-pillphil3060
@red-pillphil3060 4 года назад
We are all in the same boat Globally and its become a floating prison for many. The mainstream media perpetrating an act of mental piracy selling their B.S story, repeated repeatedly. And the masses are buying it daily!. Malcolm X ......Oh, I say and I say it again, ya been had! Ya been took! Ya been hoodwinked! Bamboozled! Led astray! Run amok! I might get that printed on a T-Shirt. Titled Plandemic.
@hoosierdaddy7219
@hoosierdaddy7219 4 года назад
Right?! The mandatory vaccine for public school or work is not just unconstitutional, its criminal. Violates God's law like no other.
@barrjensen
@barrjensen 4 года назад
It’s sad that so many have been bullied their whole lives and feel comfortable under the bully’s threats, dare I say, loved and protected.
@mateiualina2216
@mateiualina2216 4 года назад
Talking about bullying is also talking about narcisists.
@lynnv8501
@lynnv8501 4 года назад
I really appreciate how this guy gets to the point. I just realized I've been bullied most of my life. I was taught to be nice, and not stand up for what I realize is the right thing to do. I eventually did learn to stand up for myself. I learned the hard way.
@popkultureentertainment324
@popkultureentertainment324 2 года назад
I have a similar experience.I was uncomfortable with conhlict and being seen as aggressive because I'm a woman of Color and I didn't want to live up to stereotypes.Unfortunately I allowed myself to be treated like a doormat and no one respected me.
@private_soul
@private_soul 11 месяцев назад
​@@popkultureentertainment324I think many have been through that experience and holding it in then comes out....I am currently trying learning to stand up for myself 😊 its a WIP
@Lionofthelovinggod1
@Lionofthelovinggod1 4 года назад
Yep - economy IS lives. Yes - we ARE being forced. And I am raising my voice against this enforced tyranny on as many platforms as I can. So far many of my comments have been blocked- but I continue.
@lorraine8306
@lorraine8306 4 года назад
I hear you!! 😉
@carmel-wayfinder5401
@carmel-wayfinder5401 4 года назад
Way to go I'm with you ..💚
@jocelynamtower9508
@jocelynamtower9508 4 года назад
Amanda Brisbane Bless you from Texas I do not consent
@conservativehippie9736
@conservativehippie9736 4 года назад
Me too....im ready to walk away from my business of 22+ yrs....dont know if it/I will recover 😢✌
@gcjpcrowder
@gcjpcrowder 4 года назад
Keep sounding the alarm. Its keeping the few of us going.
@Michelle.1111.
@Michelle.1111. 4 года назад
What I love is that you morphed the content of the advice to a generic application, so clever and timely 😊
@grimsbymariners
@grimsbymariners 4 года назад
So well said, there is constant fear being put out by everyone on you tube but even though I have researched and listened to all points of view and decided where I am within it all, it seems around me everyone is doing what they are told, this can create fear in me that I am pretty much alone in my convictions, it's only when I come and look at the comments do I feel a bit encouraged. Let's hope there are enough out there who will stand up and be counted and not leave it to others
@SingularForce
@SingularForce 4 года назад
When you are strong in your convictions and the time comes to act upon them, the courage will arise. It's best not to look to your right or to your left. Stay focused on what you know is right. Your WILL, will follow. ❤
@carmel-wayfinder5401
@carmel-wayfinder5401 4 года назад
@@SingularForce excellent advice as courage does not come from others courage comes within
@camaalgal
@camaalgal 4 года назад
Sad that we need a video for this but helpful. Thanks for that!
@Rubylove48
@Rubylove48 4 года назад
Richie, I hadn’t seen one of your videos for a couple of years, then the one you did in Ibiza saying you were going to do more philosophy and less narc and abuse recovery popped up on my feed. Then didn’t see anything until the last few days. The series you are doing now is really good, useful, clear, concise, and compassionate. I’m not sure what changed your mind back to doing these videos but they are useful for many many people. I’m also glad you are doing your own thing rather than clubbing with Sam. All best 🤞🏽✌🏽
@maretijewel1470
@maretijewel1470 4 года назад
I followed the same order, only the Ibiza post that drew me in, was the 1 with the meditation sunset!.. I also agree with the rest in your comment..
@lanal.4093
@lanal.4093 4 года назад
Richard is his own man. He has his own style. Please do not confuse "clubbing" with professional collaboration. At the end of the day the common goal should be to educate as many people as possible on how to protect themselves from any kind of abuse and Richard is doing an awesome job at that.
@junegerber4028
@junegerber4028 4 года назад
Richard is amazing! Sam is open and honest (maybe). Poor thing. Richard let us all see just how "human a narc can be" with Sam. Did I say poor thing! Yep - poor thing! If nothing else - we can all be glad we are not Sam!
@elises2537
@elises2537 4 года назад
@A Nation of Shipwrecks: At World's End Sam Vaknin
@knowyourlove5613
@knowyourlove5613 4 года назад
June Gerber Sam at some point in his videos, once or twice, gaslights , or does something to garner narcissistic supply. When he does I out loud make a “no” comment. LOL. This keeps my muscles sharp, to see abuse and manage my nervous system in face of boundary invasions. Then I take the GOOD Intel, without the offense. Watching him feels like being a spy, like I’m reading communist Intel while protecting myself from the propaganda. I don’t necessarily recommend him for people who are new to recovery. But I am very thankful for his contributions to society.
@julielarotta9812
@julielarotta9812 4 года назад
This is the best description to all this nonsense I’ve seen so far! Thank you for putting it so clearly for people to just think about it, they don’t have to agree but just thinking about it. I am on the side of saying “just shoot me!” because I will always choose death over going through a worse scenario (in this case oppression and totalitarianism)
@architexturalchaos1862
@architexturalchaos1862 4 года назад
Thank you, Richard. In these days you are a source of validation if not courage outright. Reading the comments though is slightly scary as much as it is consoling, makes me think you are preaching to the converted... But makes the day brighter to see there are people who have their wits about them.
@carmel-wayfinder5401
@carmel-wayfinder5401 4 года назад
Many brave hearts in a tribe is a great source of empowerment. 💚
@sdmackpictures
@sdmackpictures 4 года назад
Excellent. The days of being victim are way over. Thanks for this advice. NEVER, EVER get in the car. Even my children know this!
@Lioness_of_Gaia
@Lioness_of_Gaia 4 года назад
Yes!!! We're at the point where we all need this drilled in our heads! Thanks so much.
@Kristin-mt2jw
@Kristin-mt2jw 4 года назад
It is so important to be objective as well as compassionate. Wise yet humble. Balanced.
@MsSedonan
@MsSedonan 4 года назад
Having been bullied into submission is the source of my frustration most of the time, I’ve let bullies into my head out of sheer habit and need for community. I’m grateful to have escaped the chains of other folks’ fantasy for actually reality and true emotional security. Our culture depends on stereotyping, marginalizing, and isolating creatives and interesting individuals, while simultaneously parading their corporate/establishment “ENTERTAINER”, Flavor of the month”, or “Playmate of the month” if you prefer. Capitalism depends on your choice to embrace OBEDIENCE, and FASCISM will demand it outright. Be prepared for things to degrade quickly. By now you should know who your friends are, and more importantly, who they aren’t. Get real or get dead. 💪🏼🌞👍🏼
@orchidisle1
@orchidisle1 4 года назад
Thank You Richard, your truth about bullying is needed more than any advice right now.
@KrunoBaraba
@KrunoBaraba 2 года назад
This is second time that I am listening this . It affected me deeply . Not to be taken to second place alive is imperativ . Thank you Richard .
@janejago9825
@janejago9825 4 года назад
Could not agree more. Thanks for being a commentator that has some damn guts. No the threat does not merit the response. Yes the response iis worse than the threat. AND the lies and deceptions being put out should be enough to have us all on alert.
@salgar1234
@salgar1234 2 года назад
That was seriously enlightening. Especially in light of a work colleague or boss, which is my experience. ‘Obeying’ their demands and threats led to FAR worse consequences than me saying ‘No thank you’ and seeing it in a rational unemotional way. But without knowledge and awareness I just didn’t even know what was happening to me!!!!
@martistankowski1792
@martistankowski1792 4 года назад
I agree..Never let a threat take you to a 2nd location...That is where the real horror is! Compliance is not always best!
@martistankowski1792
@martistankowski1792 4 года назад
@German Videos You can't trust the cops either!
@Yusuf-kn6tg
@Yusuf-kn6tg 2 года назад
2yrs on now , thoughts ?
@martistankowski1792
@martistankowski1792 2 года назад
@@Yusuf-kn6tg Yeah My Thoughts...I Fucking Called It!
@Yusuf-kn6tg
@Yusuf-kn6tg 2 года назад
@@martistankowski1792 Same , just still amazed how 90% of people are willfully blind/ cowards .Lost my faith in majority of society etc. Maybe gave too much credit before
@martistankowski1792
@martistankowski1792 2 года назад
@@Yusuf-kn6tg But Sometimes It's Just Called Financially Stuck..Not Blind To Or About Any Abuse Or Who The Hell People Really Are
@Gooshytgoose
@Gooshytgoose 2 месяца назад
That applies to your government as well. Such a genius this man is. 👏❤
@cynnya54
@cynnya54 4 года назад
I told my teenage daughters to never let anyone force them into a vehiclie. Finally, I hear someone else with the same mindset. Better dead than tortured and then killed.
@jartotable
@jartotable 4 года назад
I'll never forget a police officer saying this 20 years ago. "Imagine what they want to do to you when nobody is around to witness it? And at least being shot or stabbed where you are gives you a better chance of receiving medical help quicker". Best advice ever.
@karly6120
@karly6120 4 года назад
Yeah it’s specially useful with women, girls. here in Mexico you get raped tortured and videotaped for fun. It’s horrific
@musmebravo1540
@musmebravo1540 3 года назад
my mom always taught us that, too, growing up...
@Burdetski
@Burdetski 4 года назад
Richard, well done not just about Covid, but about explaining the natural fear when confronted unexpectedly by an assailant, one of the first things I was taught was to hit first when attacked no taking, no thinking get in first. Also if a few of them always attack the biggest and loudest first the rest melt away.
@kingsix2000
@kingsix2000 4 года назад
I love to hear these things that are not directly related to narcissism (even though much of it applies to all situations where a 'NO' is a good response and could be used to maintain any set of boundaries.) Ok, I am probably one of those who has consumed thousands of hours listening to you trying to figure out how to exit a toxic relationship. Not there yet, but this video moves the focus to en entity outside of the relationship and I think that it for some odd reason is easier to grasp what action I would take if threatened, but it is the same I internally want to with all and any relationship with toxic persons. I have over the last few months noticed a change in my relationship with the self and this is a good thing. Less fear for saying no and less anxiety for the response when doing so.
@andrewtopping7543
@andrewtopping7543 4 года назад
saw this at the end of the crowhouse video, then the crowhouse was wiped, after much search I found it again as forgot his name. This is the video with a different approach to make folk realise what's happening, Absolutely gold my man!
@lexylex1000
@lexylex1000 4 года назад
Bang on Richard. What is going on at the moment is truly terrifying. I didn't think it would happen in my lifetime but here we are. I will be saying NO!
@Michaelgracon
@Michaelgracon 4 года назад
I hate to make this comparison, but it's like they are running off the "Mein Kampf" and Nazi playbook. I see so many similarities of how Hitler slowly took away peoples rights and freedoms for the "greater good" as we are seeing now. Using fear and terror to get people to submit and comply which is starting to happen by the threat of arrest for simply not wearing a mask and all of the things we can no longer do until our government gives us permission once again. They seem to keep changing the narrative and the data to extend this and it could be for years.
@lexylex1000
@lexylex1000 4 года назад
@@Michaelgracon yes. People say "we learned from what happened" but l don't think we have at all. The vast majority of humanity is not awake and seeing things for what They are. I wish lt was different
@lavamapiaegologica9668
@lavamapiaegologica9668 4 года назад
@@Michaelgracon I see it too, i told people that. the slowly trying to tell that all what goos against human richts now is suddenly forbidden to ask do or talk about. i spoke about it in a full bus with the driver of the bus: just asked questions, the repons was lovely. hilarius!
@loishendricks9720
@loishendricks9720 4 года назад
"Men occasionally stumble over the truth, but most of them pick themselves up and hurry off as if nothing had happened." Winston Churchill
@carmel-wayfinder5401
@carmel-wayfinder5401 4 года назад
COURAGE DOES NOT COME FROM OUTWARDS COURAGE COMES FROM WITHIN 💚
@johnedwardtaylor
@johnedwardtaylor 4 года назад
Never saw a video that made me want to read the comments right away more than this one! Great stuff.
@rutholdfield1356
@rutholdfield1356 4 года назад
I am a partner of a company and I am saying no and keeping the business going, much to the disapproval of my other partner and employees. They are purely led by fear not facts. It’s been a real eye opener to see who would just “get in the car”....I would have been them before my ex npd dumped me. Finding this channel has helped me recognise my codependent ways and my way of healing is fighting this economic narcissist 💪🏽
@tricksyhandalf9533
@tricksyhandalf9533 4 года назад
I didn't watch this vid initially because of the title being inapplicable to my life.....OR SO I THOUGHT! Nicely done sir. Good job.
@cathimorgan
@cathimorgan 4 года назад
Thanks Richard, well put, it's so clear the data shows the response overall is far more damaging than the threat... therefore it is a psyop. .
@lightfighter36
@lightfighter36 3 года назад
"Give me your money!" ... "I would prefer not to. Have a good day." Always be considerate.
@simpletruths5322
@simpletruths5322 4 года назад
Thank you for making me a feel little less crazy today!!
@bodymindsoul60
@bodymindsoul60 4 года назад
Thank you Jesus , I haven’t listened to you in months . Started out with you in 2012...took your courses, felt likeI’d graduated, but having these same thoughts... Noticing Very few around me, see or hear these truthsThank you , again for your willingness to speak truth to power, I know how much bravity that requires. Additionally, although I felt I had graduated, I realize I haven’t been laughing as much and miss your ability to be silly in this crazy world. I’m 57 & some still look at me oddly for this trait, however, when I’m not serious most seem to enjoy it. Thanks again for validating exactly how I’m intuitively feeling!
@caliblue2
@caliblue2 4 года назад
Universal law states whatever you give permission to happen can and probably will. Submission is permission and we must establish our sovereignty and say NO. But in order not to have karmic repercussions we also need to send them love and release them back towards the light. We ain’t sheeple we people❤️
@delmarayjr
@delmarayjr 4 года назад
Solid, sobering advice . . . a way to find your way. Thank You with all my heart and for the people I stand up for as well as the Power Elites I stand up to, often alone . . . you are indeed a friend in my time of need.
@peaceserenity940
@peaceserenity940 4 года назад
No !!its become ridiculous at this stage !people are grassin people up for going out 🤔
@hannuorn
@hannuorn 2 года назад
This is spot on and relevant even two years later. The fawners now have a very strong need to believe that things are getting better because and ONLY because of their compliance. The destruction had to be necessary because the alternative is unthinkable. I don't think there will ever be an appropriate public discussion on how catastrophic the response has been. Young, previously healthy people suddenly having heart issues is only the tip of the iceberg.
@VDJ4500
@VDJ4500 4 года назад
Right on Richard! I woke up with this thought today: Fear.. less... => fearless. 👍🏼
@timverburg414
@timverburg414 4 года назад
Oh my goodness! A light bulb just went off in my head! Thank you thank you!
@artbyleighmurphy7699
@artbyleighmurphy7699 4 года назад
I think what you say here is spot on, and definitely tactfully said. I took a basic urban SERE course from a former Navy Seal who also did personal security for two US presidents. He said the same things, but here you did it far more succinctly and easy to understand - something I think you have a rare talent for. Btw, I saw another tactic used locally. I don't know when it was started but now in my city you cannot get a virus test without first downloading a telemedicine (tracking) app. So not just threat of violence or shame, but confusion/uncertainty is definitely a tool of coercion. As if anyone here didn't know that one already.
@7bookem
@7bookem 4 года назад
Brilliant. Not what I was expecting but actually very pertinent considering not only the situation now, but where this is headed
@nickieglazer33
@nickieglazer33 4 года назад
‘How can you have pudding, if you don’t eat your meat ?!’.
@phylvalen9991
@phylvalen9991 3 года назад
Strange thing, watching your videos is so calming thanks Richard for a whole lot of sense. Love your videos
@majorkade
@majorkade 4 года назад
yep, the biggest con: I am only here for your money and your car. Just let me tie you up and you'll be alright.
@carmel-wayfinder5401
@carmel-wayfinder5401 4 года назад
As the saying goes give them a inch and they'll take a yard💚
@mlkekennedy5602
@mlkekennedy5602 11 месяцев назад
Richard I am taken aback by your emotional intelligence and quiet courage, you are the polar opposite to the narcissist. Not sure what "your thing is" mine is Christianity and you put almost every Christian I have ever met, including me to shame! God bless you.
@mrorahilly
@mrorahilly 4 года назад
only watching this today Richard but it is truly topical. Thank you. The protest in Dublin last Saturday had people screaming NO NO NO - it's such a powerful word! Thank you
@Santi.delanoche
@Santi.delanoche 4 года назад
Thanks a lot Richard for this talk, it is so good to hear people that speaks like this!
@karenturner20
@karenturner20 4 года назад
Yes Richard I hear the message. Responses right now are similar to how we were raised in disfunctional families. Go along to get along;, dont do as I do, do as I say; don't you know the more you stir up sh$t the more it stinks. All this in the name of love and your own best interest. It's all unspoken messages, and if you don't comply you're called defiant, hard headed, argumentative. Our parents did a good job training us this way and it fell right into the government's lap. Thanks Mom and Dad for the valuable lesson unfortunately or maybe not! Warmest regards.
@carmel-wayfinder5401
@carmel-wayfinder5401 4 года назад
Reprogram yourself to be in the Now it's a process in the now for the now were your empowered Now it's up to YOU...1💚
@mazloum2283
@mazloum2283 4 года назад
Bravo Richard! Just sorry I didn't see this five months ago when you did it. This vid is extremely potent, and valuable to potentially flip the switch in people's minds to what is really going on, where endless conversations are futile when minds and indeed hearts are frozen. Delighted to have fallen over your channel. You have a clever ability to solidify what I try to explain to others but often fail. Succinct, to the point and easy to comprehend. I chose to watch this one as I have been bullied in one way or another my whole life. Only now learning to say NO! It has been like magic so far for me. Thank you! 🙏👏🌻
@pkaboo7832
@pkaboo7832 4 года назад
My gracious!......👀.... I am so grateful! You just gave me something quite major! Certain people think that I'm cold and analytical because I say "before we get all (insert appropriate word), let's logically look at the data"; and instead of looking objectively, they have this fawn reaction you were talking about at 15:38.....(!!!) I was trying to figure out their thinking processes; just subjective, and not objective..... I want to say thank you, thank you, thank you again, because you stated some words of wisdom that I very, very much needed to hear! The voices of fear and fawning and confusion, are getting louder than the voices of reason and so it takes more effort to maintain objective thought.
@PBTT-qp8st
@PBTT-qp8st 4 года назад
Wow. Thank you. I hope everyone hears you explain the truth of the current situation and start saying NO.
@roxananasturas
@roxananasturas 4 года назад
Beautiful! So well structured that you wouldn't think anyone can miss its clarity and truth but... Many would answer the question with the "official data" being provided and under the emotional response already elicited in them. "Of course the measures are worth it, don't you see how much the numbers are decreasing or stagnating since we are in isolation?!" It's like supporting an illusion they were coerced into buying and now they are fighting to support it out of the strong sense if identity invested in it - a different response to the situation is a direct attack to their sense of self, to a very strong mental position. That's how wars start, all in the name of love, justice and safety. I had nurses furious in their response to my posts and other strong verbal attacks where I simply raised questions and invited to critical thinking and use of discernment.:"This is a REAL thing. People are actually dying, you should see what is in the hospitals!! This is irresponsible." As a wise man said: If you have bought into the first lie the rest come at half price.
@carmel-wayfinder5401
@carmel-wayfinder5401 4 года назад
Now an't that the Truth keep using your voice cos I'm sure listening to it and I appreciate it very much💚
@sheilayagodzinski5747
@sheilayagodzinski5747 4 года назад
Nurses, doctors would gladly say things are better when they are better , this is real and this is bad. It spreads very easily , is very contagious. People sick all over the world and still dying. Are you that afraid you can't except this is real, the whole world is dealing with this and we need everyone to try and help get it under control, you should do your part, all of you that think this isn't real. It is, even President Trump knows it is.
@dianadoltu3627
@dianadoltu3627 Год назад
I like clear clear explanations. Schemas are helping a lot for transmitting the info.
@krazydreamer
@krazydreamer 4 года назад
Very thought provoking. I have a lot to process. Thank you! (Sincerely, not sarcastically.)
@seckhoffable
@seckhoffable 4 года назад
This is crazy interesting and useful. Thanks, Richard.
@elliemunro3165
@elliemunro3165 4 года назад
This is great....I'm from New Zealand and the bullying is in technicolor here... loved this video..have been following you for years. Thanks!
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