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How To Save Marriage After Infidelity And Lies 

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Marriage is always worth fighting for but how do you save a marriage that has been through infidelity and lies? I hope this video will help save your marriage. Here are some principles to help you get through.
Watch and Enjoy!
Dr. Paul Jenkins
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Комментарии : 78   
@kingbee1971
@kingbee1971 4 года назад
Thanks for the principles, Dr Paul. I've found that the opposite of love isn't hate but indifference. The 95/5 proposition is gold.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад
kingbee1971, thanks!
@lolikalopareva2739
@lolikalopareva2739 2 года назад
9 principles 1. Positivity 2. Values 3. Humility 4. Forgiveness 5. Respect 6. Love 7. Compassion/ kindness/empathy 8. Work (hard work) 9. Wholesome recreational activities
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 года назад
Thank you.
@micheledomin-jones4062
@micheledomin-jones4062 3 года назад
I’m have realised forgiveness means you no longer want revenge or to hurt the person that hurt you
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
Michele Domin-Jones, it is where healing begins.
@candyjohnsonmak
@candyjohnsonmak 4 года назад
Love "Forgiveness is giving up your demand for a better past". I loved that you acknowledge we are all human and we hurt each other everyday. And we have choices and the respons-ability to change how we were programmed. You are a piece of art. I can't tell you how much it has helped me from listening to your playlist. Thank you for sharing your passion, it gives us hope and directions for better relationships. God bless you for lifting up others.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад
Thank you for the very kind comment, Candy Mak. I love helping people become more positive - that's what this world needs: more positivity! I also love that you get it, you understand, and are proactive about applying the principles I teach here on the channel. It is truly an honor to be on your team!
@jasontwombly4049
@jasontwombly4049 4 года назад
I’m ready to be there for my wife, show her my true love. Even though we separated, we’re communicating better now. I’ve forgiven her, unfortunately it would seem she has trouble forgiving herself. These principles I’m going to apply. With patience, and positivity and compassion, I want to help her.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад
Wonderful, Jason Twombly, I think you two can make it. You will learn so much about each other and be there for one another. Let me know how it goes. Reach out to one of our coaches if you need help.
@jasontwombly4049
@jasontwombly4049 4 года назад
What is the best way to talk to a coach?
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад
@@jasontwombly4049 liveonpurpose.coach/ !
@rashidasikder6072
@rashidasikder6072 3 года назад
Beta simp.
@jasontwombly4049
@jasontwombly4049 2 года назад
Things are a lot better. We’ve both changed quite a bit. In the beginning there was a lot of pain on both sides, now the focus is on the kids. Making sure they’re not victims. We treat each other with respect. We’ve both made huge mistakes. Nothing is simple, and we both know our faults.
@ajithgopal9397
@ajithgopal9397 Год назад
Thank you for sharing
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV Год назад
Our pleasure.
@ELLAWARD
@ELLAWARD 4 года назад
My husband cheated and I cannot move past it because my dad was a serial cheater and I promised myself never to marry a cheat. My husband said I pushed him to cheat because of my attitude. We are still together but I just cannot forget and not sure I have forgiven. I sometimes hate him deeply.and then love him the next minute. Don’t know how to get over it
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад
ELLA WARD, love is strong, isn't it? You need to dig deep inside you and determine what you are willing to live with. Sometimes it is helpful to talk it over with someone; if that is what you need, we are here for you. We have a free 25 minute call with a Live On Purpose coach. If you would like to take advantage of that, please go here to schedule: DrPaulJenkins.com/breakthroughcall I don't know if these videos will be useful to you, but thought I'd put them out there in case they can assist you in making a decision: "Surviving Infidelity In Marriage" - ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-4wc9BrD0lCY.html "How To Forgive Someone Who Isn't Sorry" - ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-RxxmKXQKoOQ.html Thank you for watching Live On Purpose TV.
@igy648
@igy648 3 года назад
Each word you wrote is exactly how I feel every minute of the day for six months now. I've never been this lost in the weeds. Hope it got better for you. Igy6
@igy648
@igy648 3 года назад
@@LiveOnPurposeTV thank you we are seeing a local therapist for now. I'm holding onto hope , my Faith is absolute in my Lord Jesus and his healing and mercy.
@grayce6509
@grayce6509 2 года назад
My husband cheated on me for 23 out of 23 years together, his sister in law said I was a cheater and because she is his family it must be true. I would never cheat it's not worth it. I cannot move forward I am still stuck in shock mode 2 years later. I never suspected a thing I do feel cheating robs you of finding someone who would appreciate you. I feel every word you say cause I'm there too.
@evelynmarx6212
@evelynmarx6212 5 месяцев назад
I’m literally in the same boat! Omg
@jamesmccall7225
@jamesmccall7225 2 года назад
I’m two years too late but you pushed no one to cheat it’s been 20 years for me I’m still hurt but kids needed to be raised and I put them over me I’m glad I did. Not my fault but somebody had to be the adult no easy way out I had to sacrifice myself respect swallow my pride look in the mirror. It has been a long road but I’m still here. Let the past go. It robs you it never goes away completely but you can feel good about your accomplishments dispute your unfaithful partner
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 года назад
James Mccall, thank you for sharing your story. It couldn't have been easy, I hope you are at peace with your decision and things are looking up for you.
@bhepp344
@bhepp344 4 года назад
Thank you for all your videos! I have been watching a bunch of your stuff and it’s giving me hope! Your awesome! I have a up hill climb and messed up my marriage bad. I will do all I can to fix it! Better late then never! I hope my wife takes a chance and forgives me!
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад
bhepp344, I hope she does too. Thanks for watching.
@Lottieloves287
@Lottieloves287 3 года назад
I hope she does too🙏🏼 God loves you both
@yessicapeters9104
@yessicapeters9104 5 лет назад
Love all your videos. Thank you so much for your dedication to helping others!!
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 5 лет назад
Thanks, Jessica. Glad you are enjoying the channel.
@tinekahowell5801
@tinekahowell5801 3 года назад
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@abcisneros91
@abcisneros91 3 года назад
@@tinekahowell5801 a spell? That is not love. That is control and manipulation. 😒 How sad to have to manipulate love. Find someone who genuinely loves you. You are worth it.
@alissatorres5855
@alissatorres5855 5 лет назад
You're awesome. I've been learned so much with your videos. Thanks for that.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 5 лет назад
You are welcome, Alissa Torres. These principles are powerful when applied.
@joprinsloo7325
@joprinsloo7325 4 года назад
You make it so easy to find a path in the forest... thank you so very much for all the clear and concise plans of action for so many issues we need to resolve to have happy and healthy relationships!!
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад
Jo-Anita Prinsloo, honored to be on your team.
@mrsrejas
@mrsrejas 5 лет назад
You are amazing doctor Paul!!!!! Thank you for all your videos!!!
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 5 лет назад
You are welcome, Carmen Rejas. Glad you are finding them valuable. Let me know if there is ever a topic I haven't covered that you think would be helpful.
@donnawalker5673
@donnawalker5673 3 года назад
Who knows, maybe your partner is sincere and will change. After all, nobody’s perfect, right?They even promised to marry you. So is it worth it? Marriage after infidelity is a tricky proposition. But if you love the person, forgive and forget, move on and live happily ever after. Just like in the movies. Marriage can be a blessing, but it can also break your heart, especially, if you think you've reached the end of the road. There's no easy path to divorce. So is it worth forgiving someone who cheated on you? Of course. Do it, living with hate is not a good way to live. Is it worth forgetting about it? No. Your experiences in life make you stronger (and hopefully smarter). It's time to examine your feelings about yourself and your marriage. It is understandable that you are hurt by what your husband did. However, he has apologized for it and stopped his relationship with her for you. Now, it is up to you to forgive. Forgiveness is a gift you give to yourself. It gives strength to move on. At this point you might have tried marriage counseling and probably hire a good lawyer, to best find the truth for proof in court I suggest you google search" hubtechhack ethical” to help you get proof from your partners device remotely for evidence. Sometimes it's worth saving a relationship and sometimes it isn't. Only you know the answer to the question of whether you should get a divorce or you're better off staying married.
@amberthompson633
@amberthompson633 4 месяца назад
Thank you for this video first time watching you.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 месяца назад
Hope you enjoyed it! We have lots of videos to enjoy.
@jhunreyjayblase3654
@jhunreyjayblase3654 4 года назад
thnkyou 💓
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад
Jhunreyjay Blase, honored to be on your team.
@kasulewasswa1816
@kasulewasswa1816 Год назад
Good
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV Год назад
Thanks
@frederikvanderwalt9505
@frederikvanderwalt9505 8 месяцев назад
my marraige is falling apart she want to devorce how do i stop it
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 8 месяцев назад
Well, since you don't control the another person, I am not sure you can do that. You can work on yourself and have her see the changes you are making.
@sdo5618
@sdo5618 Год назад
-positivity -shared values -humility You can be right or you can be married focus on whats right together - Forgiveness Give up the demand for a better past - respect Respect people who dont respect you - Love not simply romantic but the choice of love no neutral option. ( Opposite of love is indifference btw not hate) -compassion show kindness -work Hard work elevation requires effort Dont put in the work a relation wont go up as the gravity of the transgrenssions will weigh it down if you go in default mode - have fun! With each other if possible or just spark the fun 95-5 Good luck everyone!! God may help and assist you in your path
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV Год назад
Thanks, SdO. Glad you are part of our community.
@sdo5618
@sdo5618 Год назад
​@@LiveOnPurposeTVthank you for your efforts and work to mend marriages and broken hearts God bless
@CarolynneSanchez
@CarolynneSanchez Месяц назад
My husband cheated. I want to forgive him. I want to work through it. But he keeps denying it. Even though he literally could not be more caught, if I walked in on them! Ive seen texts and heard voice mail messages. I've caught him in lies about where he was. What's worse is this woman ended up stalking and harassing me for weeks. But he keeps denying anything happened! How do I move on and forgive when he won't even acknowledge there was a problem?
@russellkeeling4387
@russellkeeling4387 2 года назад
Why would anyone want to save a marriage after infidelity and lying? People watch to much tv wherein cheating is portrayed as acceptable.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 года назад
Russell Keeling, some people say they are in love and want to make it work. There are dozens of reasons why someone would want to stay. Coaches just try to help people figure out what will bring them the most peach and joy.
@russellkeeling4387
@russellkeeling4387 2 года назад
@@LiveOnPurposeTV What is peach and joy?
@bepolite6961
@bepolite6961 3 года назад
Hurt me once shame on you, hurt me twice shame on me. Therefor you do not get a second chance.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
Bepolite, I can understand why you might feel that way.
@nickywaggs8672
@nickywaggs8672 10 месяцев назад
Have self respect and leave them.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 10 месяцев назад
That is an option when people see it as an option. Some don't.
@mamybamba3948
@mamybamba3948 3 года назад
Thanks again Dr. Paul your videos. Please I need your help. There is a 24 years old girl who’s really suffering from inside. In fact the problem is that when she newly immigrate in Canada after few months her mother felt sick of brain tumour. Since than her mom still in the hospital not talking , she loses memory. It as been five years now. It affected this 24 years old so much. Again she’s in the relationship with someone it also seemed not working properly. I am trying sometimes to encourage her so she accept the situation and try to focus and do something because she still have life, but it seems like it difficult for her to accept. She is affected and also her siblings. How can you help this girl please. Thank you.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
Iam not sure what I could do, Mamy Bamba, are there services that could help her?
@namboy2233
@namboy2233 3 года назад
Good video, but I'm wondering if these 9 principles are enough (?). IMO: After an affair/discovery, it is unlikely that either party (especially the betrayed) can easily operate genuinely with any of these 9 principles due to: anger, distrust, shame, anxiety, maybe some depression, defensiveness, fear, etc. For sure the WS will likely be in a deep, confused fog and will be trying to deny and hide facts/truth, etc. for obvious reasons. The betrayed spouse will be hard pressed to positively or empathetically approach the deflecting and defensive WS, in a manner that is certain to resolve the conflict. From the start, both people will have to possess good personal and moral character and integrity to commit 100 % to using these 9 principles and then effectively work toward resolution of the issues. Most cannot do this w/o counseling help if they seek it, and then all the ducks better be in a row for success, IMO. If they both had these qualities to start, maybe infidelity wouldn't have occurred? JMO
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
Namboy22, It would probably be more effective with someone to help them through the rough patches that will arise. Most people find they weren't 100% committed to the marriage before but realize what they have to lose now and want to change. It can happen, not easy. But worth it.
@namboy2233
@namboy2233 3 года назад
@@LiveOnPurposeTV I understand and agree. But, my point was that since most newly weds do not "know how to be MARRIED, and must learn/adapt on the fly", their efforts usually are futile (especially w/o professional counseling help). Resolving these issues will take a lot of really serious, hard work and dedication to succeed. Sadly, many people do not know how to do this or elect to not seek that help due to many factors (costs, availability, etc). Finally, do appreciate what you do to assist troubled relationships. It is very important work for sure.
@2311angelo
@2311angelo 5 лет назад
hi
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 5 лет назад
Hi, angelo privitera.
@organicita602
@organicita602 3 года назад
I disagree that opposite of love is hate. I think it is apathy.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
Darlene Beddow, I used to think that also and that is o.k. Thanks for watching.
@randommaxw4896
@randommaxw4896 3 года назад
What about children born from affairs??
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 3 года назад
Random max W, our responsibility to our children is not determined with how they came into the world.
@cv7357
@cv7357 3 года назад
@@LiveOnPurposeTV Perfect answer!
@frankzepp236
@frankzepp236 5 лет назад
Beta!
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 года назад
Thanks for watching, Frank Zepp
@brettpatetto6847
@brettpatetto6847 3 года назад
Infidelity saves marriges as the sex with my 50 yo wife was destroying everything. I found a younger attractive girl that refreshed things. Now were doing great and i dont have ed any more
@brettpatetto6847
@brettpatetto6847 2 года назад
@@momochihead3638 yes I think it is they are just quiet about it. We are all humans and in need of change. I don't encourage infidelity. It's just one of those things in life don't ask don't tell. I'll do what ever it takes to improve and save my marriage.
@LiveOnPurposeTV
@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 года назад
There are other ways.
@pereiraplaza222
@pereiraplaza222 Год назад
@@brettpatetto6847 Yes you are really making a sacrifice sleeping with a younger girl.
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