The fact that she said at the beginning 'I struggled making a video for this because I don't struggle with this,' when she totally NAILED it like she spoke so clearly and truly about it! Thankyou
Just letting you know that I rewatch this video everyday because i have such a hard time with expectations, slowly changing my mindset. Thank you Isabel.
I agree with this! I'm 51 and recently almost lost an amazing man by having expectations of him. I also spent so much time in the future worrying...ie self sabotaging. I feel he is in my life for a purpose. This is my life lesson to learn in order to be the amazing healthy happy woman I'm meant to be ❤
As a man obsessed with perfection and success, your energy is such a breath of fresh air. I'm used to the hustler's advice of toughening up in the entrepreneurship/self-help community that I forget to take care of myself. It's a weakness of mine, so thank you.
I just applied for a job and I had such expectations , I was working myself up hopping it would work out I got turned down this very same day and your words made it a whole different experience.Thank you 💕
I really needed to hear this, thanks so much! In the past year, I've been diagnosed with a chronic illness, and I have found myself often saying things like, "This isn't fair", "Why can't I just be normal?", and "Why me?". But I'm learning that I should still be greatful for everything I DO have and try to accept the things I can't control. Love your videos! 💙
Your videos always come at the right time for me! Every time I need advice on some situation, you are there to address that situation! It’s amazing, but that’s kind of the beauty of it all!
I'm loving your channel. I used to stress out because of my parents strictness, limitations, and future expectations. One day, I removed myself from the anxiety inducing atmosphere to breathe. I went outside just to breathe more often and I was able to think properly.
AMEN to everything you said! You have no idea how much my life has changed for the past few months and i'm genuinely happier than ever, thank you Isabel.
I suffered from depression because all my life was perfection, achievement. I feel so empty after every applause, but I don’t know why but I feel pressured to go for the next achievement. When my mum passed, I realise I spent too little time with her for the achievements that didn’t even matter to me. I felt so stupid about it, but I stayed in that toxic cycle of having higher and higher expectations.... your videos help me to see hope to get out of it. I don’t want these expectations anymore, the expectations I put on myself and others. It limits me, and make me suffer. I stop doing things because I’m scared of failure. Thank you isabel, you’re like a sister to me.
Greetings from Germany 🇩🇪 you helped me through the darkest hours of my life. I am gay and I was like so attached to someone but since I know you I detach so good and I care more for myself. I love you for helping me. Because of you the lawn of attraction works for me now. It's all about letting go of the lack
Thank you Isabel, I've been in this weird limbo lately where I am taking accountability and actions within myself and being independent but also caring what other people do or think it feels VERY uncomfortable and scary sometimes but I know that it's all up to me and no one else is going to do it for me so I have to stay on course. Your videos inspire me to never give up, your absolutely awesome 🌟🏆
You know I made it a routine to listen to you every morning after I woke up since you give me energy and motivation for my life And believe it or not I found you a couple month ago and at that time I felt depressed and down and now I am the most positive person I really really appreciate every single video I love you Isabel ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
You made me think that being in a relationship or having a family is not a priority to become happy, to expect that at a certain point we are happy when we have family and that the present is sad. All these pressures have got to go, i'm going to focus on allowing friends into my life while i focus on things i want to do to achieve my dreams, if that means being single forever then so be it. A girl's heart is a blessing something i can't control, hope to find me, might as well focus on the things i can control, like my emotional and academic intelligence. Be happy now.
This video is literally stardust. I’ve been in such a rut with my emotions this week (I think it’s to do with the super, blood, blue moon) and put so much pressure on myself. This video has given me light at the end of the tunnel. Thank you so much Isabel, I really appreciate every beautiful word said in this video ✨❤️
this is my weekly motivational self-love video! whenever I expect too much from myself or from others, I come here, listen to Isabel's wise words and accept everything as it is. thank you!
I ABSOLUTELY LOVED THIS! This is exactly what I needed and my favorite video from you yet! Thank you so much! I especially love tip #3, I feel like a lot of us need to hear that we must take responsibility for everything in our lives even if it's not our fault. Sending good vibes and love from southern California!
ISABEL! Love having breakfast and watching your videos in the morning. You set the positive tone for my day. Keep doing what you're doing. YOU ARE APPRECIATED! xoxo
So glad I came across your videos. They have helped me understand things in a better way & answered questions I couldn't find the answers to. I have definitely changed how I manage difficult events! Your videos are so uplifting, relatable & honest! Thank you so much!!! XX
You have helped me so much through the different thoughts that go around my head, because there's always gonna be bad thoughts, and negative ones that let me down about everything. But i always try to remember your words and your advices because they empowered me SO MUCH. And i will ever going to be gratefull because i had the opportunity of knowing your channel, and i believe that was for a reason. Please don't ever stop doing this because you help so many people ♥ THANKS FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART
Thank you so much! I was expecting to pubblish a book but now i know that i have to work with the Heart and not too much on expections. Thank you again😄
I come back to this video every once in a while whenever I want to remind myself 😂 it just takes a lot of pressure off of me for some reason. I feel light and I’m giving control to the universe trusting that the universe has the best plan for me anyway :D
Thank you for this video. I have been so worried about my boyfriend letting me down. I'm giving up my expectations of him. This video has given me the courage to stop expecting anything from anyome but myself cause people will let you down.
i really felt you put so much more time into the editing of this video with the words and I think it empasises on what your saying but maybe have them less pretty or big because it could distract people from the message your trying to send, personally i love it though because it gives the message more structure and like a layer out message or info we can receive easier, whereas if you don't put words its more like a chit chat or rant and this makes it clear like a this is what you need to do to let go of expectations to be happy. Was surprised others didn't like that effect you put but i kinda see the point, maybe edit it a little bit. But truly Isabel your videos are so amazing and i love how preach and send your wonderful message, i have learned so much about the LOA and manifesting what i want, you have helped me so much to now in the process of my manifestation coming, i trust it will be here and while it comes into perfect timing i let go and love myself!
you are like one of my idols with my mom, my grandma😇, and others, and I would like to have your mentality and your strength. I will have them. you are helping me so much with the confidence and everything, just love you
Thank you so much for your motivational girl talk videos please keep making them they help me to be more confident and love myself. There is so much truth in what you say. whenever i find myself crying or having a bad day i watch your videos and it literally makes me feel so much better.
This is a sign I needed this soo much love your videos I was so upset yesterday for silly reasons please never stop making these I watch your old videos nearly everyday to keep reminding myself of your positive words and I just want to say a big thank You!!!
I wish one day I would meet you it’s crazy how life works ... I’m going to though so much right now and I type how to be happy and your video came up and honestly I’m so happy I came cross from you I need a friend like you it felt like you were talking to me I’m so stressed and alone I’m 24 years old and just got let go from my job and don’t have family support and stress if I will be eating the next day and look for a next meal I feel like my life is not coming to want I want it to be but you open my eyes and I know I’m going to be okay . Want has hurt me more I have always been there for my family and I can’t be selfish and I never think of my self but on others and I know I’m going to be something amazing in life and one day I’m going to happy ... I just can’t wait for that but I promise you I’m never going to give up don’t ever stop doing what your doing bcuz honestly change people life or a eye open ... the day you have a meet and greet or a book I’m there bcuz your so amazing may god bless you 🙏🏼😘🥂
Many thanks Princess ~ I really appreciate your wisdom. What you have taught here reminds me very much of an ancient philosopher's words which have always resonated with me. "The Master's power is like this : she lets things come and go effortlessly, without desire. She never expects results; thus, she is never disappointed. She is never disappointed; thus, her spirit never grows old ~ The words of Lao Tzu, author of the Tao Te Ching.
You deserves to have a millions of subscribers and a millions of viewers because you can inspire and change someone elses life just because of your words that was very inspiring and a lot of people deservesbto hear it to give them a hope in life specially the one that needed it. I love you so so much and continue growing and sharing this kind of positive thoughts 💓💋💋
I have watched you since day 1 all those years ago and I want to say Thankyou for all the help you've given me ! Please do a video on friendships and how to get the balance between being besties and wanting to do everything with them to being able to be fulfilled in your own ! Xx
Thanks!! I needed it so much.. All the words you said.. just attacked my subconscious and I am filled with positivity and motivation. Thanks !!!! Love you Isabel ❤
Isabel your videos helped me alot in growing up as a confident girl....you always give me that positive vibess....you are an inspiration...muchh love❤❤
Your videos have changed my perspective on SO many things. You’re truly a role model to me... thank you so much for what you do and for being you! ❤️ much love
Your videos me so much clarity and peace. I can't wait to start my RU-vid Channel to share my life stories and positive advice to the world. THANK YOU FOR THE INSPIRATION.
Thank you so much for making this video! This is relatable to me! I believe this video is meant for me to watch and be put in reality check! Thank you for putting your raw truth into this video! You said a lot of things that are difficult to swallow, but it puts me in check to know that I deserve better only if I let go of the expectations I have on other people and focus on what I can do to change and improve my life!
First video I see from your channel. Gonna make a marathon of it. Thanks for all the light and advice. You’re very realistic but also positive. Love it.
Actually I never comment. I always loved your channel and your videos. I even saved a playlist for later because I want to watch your videos while sitting in a calm space and maybe with a paper and pencil in front of me - because such good quality has to be captured haha ❤️ however now I saw this video and clicked on it because I really needed it. This video was so helpful. All your advice, all your tips. Thank you so much for counseling and helping us to improve in order to become a way better version of ourselves. I always loved watching these kind of motivational, inspiring videos. I always wanted to „start all over“ with a blank page and really act upon those „rules“ or new mindset or living standard. In some days I‘m about to turn 19 and I‘m so happy that I saw this video now because from now on, I really want to rebuild my character, leave bad habits and focus on the relevant things in life. You motivated me so much! Thank you Isabel, stay blessed! Love you!! ❤️❤️❤️ from Germany 🇩🇪💕
thank you soo much for the tips and the talk was definitely open my mind and my heart to love myself more. i really hope you are doing so well in this life. god bless you.
Ahh this was so refreshing to listen to. Thank you so much Isabel for those reminders 💕💕💕💕 you are so concise and clear with your thoughts and messages. Love from Vancouver, Canada!! 🇨🇦
Love you so much Isabel! Yr videos help me so so so much!!!! Everyday I check if a new video on happiness, confidence, self esteem, self worth, success etc is out Keep them Coming Fast! Mwah! Hugs
I don’t have to say anything but thank you 😊 You video changed me as a person. I will hopefully have less anxiety with my expectations thanks to you 😘😘❤️
Congrats on your subscribers, you deserve it. You don't how much your words of encouragement and advice has already effected my life in such a great way, thank you please keep sharing :)
What you say is all true but it is vert hard to live in a relationship without any expectations. That is very hard at least for me. But you are right. My anxiety main factor is expectations.
I love watching your videos over and over because I learn something new every time. The truths you're talking about sinking in more and more, and sometimes it's like you're saying exactly what i needed to hear in that moment. So thank you, I appreciate you so much! Happy 100k and looking forward to your next video! 😄😄😄
Thank you for this video. It reaffirms and reminds such beautiful pieces of wisdom. I also love the colours. Such good vibes plus you're such a beauty!
