You are speaking facts!! I did it off and on with my sons father for almost 13 years! Everything you’re saying is true. I became addicted to him and it was so toxic! This breakup was the last breakup! 5 months strong!! I only communicate with him when I absolutely have to since we have a 7 year old. Other than that, I want him to stay far away from me!! I am healing and at peace and I’m never going back!! He can keep his other exes in rotation because I’m done!
Uhhh I went two years and was staying strong for the first year and a half and then the last half of the second year he was on my mind a lot.. it was weird.. I went from hating him to all of a sudden thinking of him and missing him.. I fell for his shit again and that was two years down the drain.. we started talking in October and already ended it yesterday ☠️.. I was like damn now I remember why I hated your selfish ass
You’re strong! It was 14 years for me but no children. I’m almost a year out from seeing him. Definitely a toxic cycle of emotional abuse and trauma bonding. Smh I’m so happy now. I’ve gone completely no contact and he still reaches out.
@AmandaCC88 you go girl!!! And don’t ever accept him back because he wants to try to destroy you! They are so evil and they hate to be ignored and hate feeling like they lost! I have realized so much over the last year or so and I’m so happy I broke the trauma bond. That’s why I kept going back and didn’t understand why. I studied what a trauma bond was and decided to go thru the withdrawals but I knew what I was feeling wasn’t love so that helped me. I knew it would get better and I finally realized and accepted who I have been dealing with for all these years. This Man didn’t even respect me, but wants me to believe he loved me so much! I’m so happy and free and he tries to be nice but I see right thru the fakeness and I know he is just trying to see if I’m having a weak moment so that he can get me back in that toxic cycle! But that’s exactly why I don’t communicate with him unless I have to, which is rare. We have our parenting schedule and we stick to it. Other than that, he no longer exists to me. I never want to be his friend and I mean that.
Me too… Ace’s personality is so much like my father…He was too funny I miss my father so much…😊 He would always tell me “To Hell with them fucking nuts!”😂🎉👍🏽🌟💯
I think the strong question went over your head. We're not talking about strong in terms of independence We're talking about strong in terms of boundaries, not allow a man to hit us or cheat on us so he runs to a woman he can do those things to and who will allow him to and stay
I think us women got used to certain behavior from men because most of them showed us this behavior and we normalized it and accepted it. Cuz it kept happening over and over snd again from different guys. So wr thought oh this is just how they are and we accepted that. Nope Needs to end and not be tolerated anymore. There are good men out there that are good people. Not just selfish insecure ones. And they are the ones that deserve attention. Hopefully the selfish ones will work on themselves and the majority of them will be better men one day
2002 I went to his job to pick him up🤔 while waiting a man ask can i help you? I said im waiting for my fiancee. He said DAMN HE DOESN'T ACT ENGAGED. 😜THE WAY HE ALL UP ON FEMALES😜. I RAN HOME CHANGE THE LOCKS. HE NEVER KNEW WHY I DUMP HIM.😂🥳🤷🏽♂️
Me and my man gas each other up constantly. You should be willing to stroke your partner's ego (healthily). Of course there will be people who will take advantage of those they see as lesser to feed their own egos, but you don't have to stay with that person in that toxic relationship. But you should also not withold compliments and affection from a good partner worrying about if it's feeding their ego.
I know my ex won’t even come back! I was savage at the breakup, not too bad. 3.5 years now. He come back, crickets will be chirping. Loving my single self. NOTHING for all these years! Loving JUST ME!
A lot of men are just looking for sex with no strings attached. They can see you’re a good woman but that’s not what they’re looking for. I’m truly waiting for a good man with himself and life together…mature and healed enough to have a healthy relationship.
And men aren't even your your friends like your girl friends are. They want to sleep with you if you give them the chance or slip up. They're actually dangerous to be alone with. Men are rarely your real friends! They're only "friends" with women they want to sleep with.
My friends have told me men don’t approach me because I’m intimidating…. Nope!! I’m not intimidating, they are intimidated by ME. Obviously they feel inferior in some way and that’s not MY problem.
I’m with you we need to make each other feel so much love and support ! That’s the best part of loving someone. Helping each other grow in confidence and connection and love 💕
Yo a@@ is hilarious!! But on some real spill, you are truly dropping gems. The main thing I am willing to do for 2024 is let go of having a victim mentality and choose living a peace & abundant life. Thank you for your commentary. I truly appreciate you and your delivery. #Raw&Uncut #BigFactz
I tried to co-parent with my toxic ex-husband these last 3yrs since are split. This is the first year that I have realized we can’t coparent, at all. He only cares about him and loves to continue to disrespect me in front of the kids. He doesn’t help me with the kids, I’m too nice and I keep lying to myself that he is going to treat me with respect and kindness like I do. I am at a point this year. I only want to focus on my peace and future not anyone or anything in my past. Don’t do it ladies, stop moving backwards. Start Loving yourself more and caring less about that ex.
I just simply do not back track obviously there was a reason we broke up nothing is going to get better I move up &forward backwards doesn’t make sense if you won’t take a job that pays less because you moved up why back track with an ex it just simply will not benefit you.
❤❤❤❤❤ amen I didn't want to believe that I needed a lot of stuff to work on myself I kept saying that it was all these sucky ass men that I was dating but that's not the truth I was a not so nice person I was selfish and a lot of other things I've been single for over a year and I've just been working on myself to be a better person before I can give myself to somen else.... I had to learn what makes me happy and what I wanted a relationship before I can tell someone else what or need, it's always easier to point the finger at someone else instead of looking at yourself in the mirror. I can honestly stay out right now couple good men off out of my life,
I honestly don’t know because this happens to me all the damn time..My son calls them Cockblockers.. My Daddy used to say if he really wants you then he will come to you regardless of what others say/think.. Hopefully this helps you..
