How To Stop Caring What People Think Of You 

It's surprising how much depression and anxiety leaves you when you stop caring what other people think of you. There is over 7 billion people in the world but there's only one of you. Always be yourself.

Better to be rejected for who you are than to be accepted for who you are not

*Your opinion of yourself matters more than other people's opinions of you. Focus on being nothing less than the best version of yourself and you are on the right path.*

Caring what people think seriously affects your mental health😩

The older I get, the less I care about what other people think

The easiest way to not care about what people think of you is to understand they don’t know anything about you 🔥

Anxiety is what brought me here... anyone else? Cuz it hurts, and I feel alone. No one talks about it

" I don't need the approval, of those who don't approve of me. - George Michael quote. 👏👍😎

I learned years ago to not care about what people thought about me. People will say crap about you just to bring you down to their level of low self esteem. My parents, especially my mom, were toxic. Nothing I did was right or good enough for them. Getting them out of my life was the best thing I did.

This is true. Most people are absorbed in themselves and don't think about you. Doesn't hurt to listen to loved ones and family but evaluate what they say before just accepting it. If you're honest with yourself, you'll know.

I think it comes with age. I’m in my 40s I do my best I can. I’m a good person. If people don’t like me I truly don’t care.I have my children and my family to worry about.

I’m the black sheep of my family because I’m not traditional, religious or even think twice about what they have to say about me. I don’t follow the crowd because I don’t like crowds.

"The greatest fear in the world is the opinion of others and the moment you become unafraid of the crowd, you are no longer a sheep, you become a lion.A great roar arises in your heart. The roar of freedom." I used to care what others thought of me. I changed and compromised my authentic self.. wasn't true to my soul.. just to fit in. I pretended I had a big network of friends when I didn't have any. I did things which made me unhappy and uncomfortable. I wanted desperately to be accepted. To be "normal." I just wanted to be loved. I spent years chasing after the wrong people. Screw "normalcy." I would rather follow the music of my soul. Do things that make me happy than live by other people's standards and expectations. I realized that some people won't like you no matter what you do. When you are true to who you are.. the right people will come into your life. If people like me then that's great. If they don't, then so what? I like me. That's what matters in the end. What I think of myself and it took me years to get to this stage in my life where I love and approve of myself.

Just know that there are people in this world who will love you just the way you are. And there are people in this world who will dislike you just the way you are and you aren't going to change their minds. Most people are ambivalent. Just so accept this fact and move on real freedom.

‘What others think of me is none of my business’ 👌🏻

Ive had the same problem for many years, my family has been so critical of what i do, what i say, what i dress and more, i always hear their past critical statements in my head in social situations and the constant fear of doing something wrong in their eyes and the scolding afterwards made me feel like nothing but a mistake, i wanna end this harming cycle and by doing so, listening to this video is the first step.

Don't worry about what people think. Make sure that what you do is well thought and don't be hasty. People are never satisfied no matter how good or bad you do whatever it is that you do.

'Do you' always, it's your life after all.

Remember: People don't care about what you do... for the most times

Haters are your Motivators. People who judge you are incapable of Judging themselves. Yiu cant plesee everyone. So just please yourself and let them know you walk alone in the opposite direction to them. They cant think for themselves so they just follow the Sheep. Be Proud you are not in their Flock.

Five Finger Death Punch says it pretty well "I'd rather you hate me for everything that I am than have you love me for something that I am not"

I used to but this year I’ve finally adopted this attitude only took 43 years!

Wow, I see no dislikes for the first time. Positivity flows❤ (478 views so far)

I care ALOT about people's feelings but I learn from those actions every day! Learning from people has made me who I am! THANK YOU for your amazing content!

Stop blaming people who say Im sorry. Their hearts are in a good place

Not caring what people think of you comes with age. In their youth people are so concerned with what others think. The older you get, the less you care. It’s the great thing about getting older.

So on point. Stop internalizing things that don't have a relevance in your life. Right you have a limited space in your brain that you can access right now (with know and patience your mind can be unlimited but that's another topic) do you really want to fill it with things that don't have meaning in your life. Daily I have to remind myself of this. Don't dwell on unimportant matters that others have long forgotten. Not caring what others think is a world away from not giving a damn about anything.

I struggled with caring too much and learned I needed to work on my inner world every day and "awaken the giant within" (Thanks Tony Robbins). Build self esteem and confidence aligned to a well crafted vision for yourself is the backbone to stop caring or allowing other opinions

Total bliss and total freedom when I stopped caring about what others thought. I react to my thoughts about me. I speak positivities to myself. I hug myself. I question myself. We think more about ourselves than anyone else. Why not love myself? Why not laugh at myself and infinite quirkinesses? I will and I do. Life is so much better now. holding my head up high and conquering myself.

People will talk about me to my face right beside me or behind my back I’ve gotten used to it it’s happening to me all my life I’ve been bullied I’m a grown woman now and it still happens when I have something good going on my life that’s when they tend to get worse because they’re unhappy with themselves and jealousy is a very dangerous demon but I’ve learned to walk by them because most of it where I live is from my neighbors so I walk with my head held high and I don’t let it bother me anymore they do it to me at work people just generally do not like me they don’t even talk to me and they assume They know exactly how I am or who I am but they don’t and I would give the shirt off my back to anyone if I had money and they needed it I would give it to them yet nobody wants seem to get to know me as a person they listen to other people instead of finding out for themselves and it’s their loss not mine

The best lesson I learned in life was when I stopped caring about what other people thought about me. Unfortunately, I have had to learn this lesson more than once in my life. I appreciate the great content this channel offers. 😎👍👍

This needs to be, *"How to be Self Aware, With a Stable Personality"*

I don't care what others think of me but it's hard to be myself with my family who I live with.

Jeremiah 1:18 Do not be afraid of them, for I am with you and will rescue you," declares the LORD.

The expectations u are waiting to receive from others act as bars used to build your own cage, don't care what everybody think about u ....

I use to really care what others "think" not any more ,All of us have a right to live your life as you see fit,The older I get I don't care who likes me,I treat everyone decent and polite if a person does not get who I am move on....

I use to be this way in my youth to worry and be self conscious of other people’s opinions and comparisons and it only brought me misery and even my race which I cannot change. Decades later, it is very liberating to be yourself regardless of what your parents, acquaintances, and co-workers, think about you.

I'm sick of people putting me down behind my back. I found out (accidentally) about that they are wrong about me (lies). I would never do that to them😡

Never be cruel, never be cowardly. Remember, hate is always foolish & love is always wise. Always try to be nice, never fail to be kind.

Great video. Too many parents want to live unfulfilled dreams through their children, vicariously. If kids succumb and the dream is not theirs, then real emotional and mental problems begin for these kids, and the resulting depression and anxiety can follow them throughout adult life. People oftentimes never figure out "what is wrong with them." Nothing is wrong with you! Follow your passion. Get unyolked from all the crap that society dumps on you and really LIVE. It will then be much easier to love and find love and ultimate joy.

people are mostly interested in saying their opinion when they judge you, so don't think they genuinely care; only those who says something positive about you, or give you an advice cares

I'm not happy and content with my social skills. That's why i feel very self conscious and stressed in social events because i think they can feel my flaws too.

For me, only be concerned about how God sees you,people do not know your Spirit, the one who made you most certainly does. 😎

Realtalk & F-what they think. I often think what if I never even knew them to begin with and also if you knew how little people actually did think about you, you wouldn't care anyhow.

I don’t care what people think of me I care what I think of people Watch how people treat others to see what type of person they are If you are eating or drinking with people - observe how they treat bar/wait staff That is a good indicator

I honestly appreciate this advice.. because this was written all over me. I'm not observant of other people and not "exposed" to the world per say. And even if, I forget people's problems and didn't "believe" or "connect" to what they were saying. I have this chronic feeling of caring about what others think of me.. and it's crippling me to the core. Fortunately, there's RU-vid with a bunch of strangers to relate to one another-to make it more realistic.

Negative people take energies from positive people. Its when you become neutral, you block the energy flow, that saves your positive energy.

One of my favorite things about myself is my ability to accept others as they are. I’m ok with someone not liking me... even the ones that hate me. What causes me grief is some of those that hate or dislike me seem to have a need to prove just how much they don’t like me, rather than moving on with their lives. It’s the vindictiveness thing that has at times worn me down. ☀️

Back in the Day I use to care almost too much what people thought about me. But the older I get the easier it gets. That I really don't care.

I like number 2 it’s a freeing thought. I have also been thinking that when a person dies a lot of people won’t be effected by that passing which is maybe also a freeing perspective to live your life the way you want to because aside from a few close friends and family once your life is over all the efforts, achievements, troubles and triumphs will go unnoticed by everybody else that wasn’t in it. Enjoy your day.

You just have to stop thinking about people. When you go outside of your house, do what you need to do, enjoy it and be reasonably kind. Others opinion towards you doesnt really matter, they don't live yhe life you living. People will always gonna have an opinion of you no matter what good things you've done. Once you have focused on yourself, you will know yourself much better which gives you self respect and kindness and peoples opininon will not matter at all.

It's very important to replace negative thoughts with positive thoughts. If you just tell yourself stop thinking that way and and don't give yourself a positive thought to replace the negative, you'll slip right back into a negative thought process.

I was totally meant to hear that 😊 Thanks for the fantastic upload 👌

I have always been a people pleaser.. still continue to be .. life has only been miserable..thank u for the valuable pointers .. I have always been running away and hiding myself ..not gonna do that anymore

The more people put you down raises them up , it makes them feel good to have you as a good foundation .They are weak you are strong .

Take 100% responsibility!!!!

Iv found out that some people I thought were my friends are actually enemies ,jealouse and full of deep hate ,IV watched a female try to switch personalities with me. This female would get angry and tell others I caused problems. Iv had stalkers that would do whatever they could to destroy me Im so afraid to go anywhere or met any one. Within a month of becoming friends she flilp out. This was straight up truth thank you

I cried my heart out in public yesterday, and because it was me I really don't care what they thought. If anything I'd like to think they thought I was only being 'human'. 🍒

That's true. Most People don't think about you that much not even family. So what does it matter. lol. I need to be my authentic Self. That's true to people don't judge you like you think. You are your own Universe You invent what you want in your life. I am one of those who doesn't want to go outside to exercise cause I think people would be watching. In reality they could care less. lol. Most the time it's you who are thinking bad about yourself. You think others are. But it's you. You Create what you think. Your Critical of yourself. Make the Choices you want to make. Do what you want to do. Take full responsibility for who you are and what you do with your life. Love that....

The only thing can toxicating your mindset is your own mindset. Some people will force to spread toxic thought in to your brain by puroose, some just leave toxic and see if you bite the bait, some (good people) by accident/not on purpose make toxic and spill it. Just ignore and keep swimming. Survive from all those toxic !

There was a period of time in my life where i let others' thoughts and ideas shape my personality and actions Whenever i say/do something it was like another person saying/doing his ideas using my own mouth That completely changed when i read an article that contained the following quote:- "I'd rather look at my past and say "i can't believe i did that" than saying " i wish i'd done that"" I was afraid to do things cuz i'm very different from the society i live in and from my so-called friends I said to myself "that's enough!" Imagine how horrible would it be to look at your past and be sorry for the lost opportunities you were given and not taken And the worst thing about that is... You can't change that. since it's already in the past, there's nothing to do about it. You'll just have to keep feeling sorry about it and do nothing. Just ask yourself. If someone who has a different opinion than yours tells you who you should be... Will you enjoy the life that they chose for you? So for anybody reading this who had a similar problem, i hope it helps you with your life "This world hates those who are different. Do not let anyone tell you who you should be and what should you do."

All I care about is staying true to myself.

I really care about wat people think of what I do,wear and walk in public....And this makes me really uncomfortable in public

I totally understand the purpose of the video and it was done really well, but it bothers me when people say don’t care what people think. You absolutely should care what people think, you just shouldn’t care what certain people think about certain things. I just wish people would clarify this more often

This is so true. I let others make me feel like crap and like horrible person, because I think they don't like me, or they make it obvious that they do not care about me at all. And that makes me feel sad and rejected even though I don't need those people and their approval at all. I am bullied at the office but instead of just ignoring it, or trying to solve it in creative ways, I let it get to me, a lot (sometimes, I cry). Sometimes I suffer because a stranger on social network called me stupid or irrelevant, that is ridiculous what we let others do to us. We don't have to.

Awesome and very important topic. Great perspective! 👏👏👏👏✨

I tattooed *"OWN YOUR SHIT"* on my arm so I can remember to be me regardless of what people think and I love some new perspective you've given me I this video. Thank you. 😊

Acceptance is the key! If you accept yourself for who you are then people's opinions about you are irrelevant. When you prioritize yourself then you will gain enormous happiness. When you know your worth then you start accepting the fact that everything happens for a reason not to harm you but to uplift by all the lessons from challenges. To conclude, accepting yourself will set you free.❤️

I have been told many times that I just don't seem to care about alot of things. The thing is I care about certain things. But, if it has no lasting affect on my life. Then I honestly don't stress about it. I just enjoy the little things in life and try to enjoy every moment cause tomorrow isn't promised.

Yes, it makes a lot of sense to ignore other people’s opinion of you. What matters most is what you think of you.

I've been told that the best response to someone's opinion of me is "I've been called worse by someone better than you!"

*2. Stop Apologizing* BOOM 💣 💣 💣 💥💥💥💥💥 That hit me hard💖😅😅😓😓 Edit: That fact that I always apologize is because I thought: - I've being misfortune - Not smart enough - Not good enough - Anti-social - Forgetful - Weird But most importantly is: *MY EXISTANCE*

Good advice, but whatever the cause, the solution is the same. How we think impacts how we feel. Epictetus said, "man is not disturbed by things but rather the views he takes of them." This is the basis of cognitive-behavior therapy. We all engage in cognitive distortion such as catastrophizing, labeling, mind-reading and minimizing good things and maximizing the bad. These are all irrational,unrealistic and distorted thoughts that need to be challenged. The behavior part does include being more assertive and having a good, close group of friends and associates as well as developing social skills.

Just be yourself... Take the jump and if someone doesn't like it? You've got it right 💥

My colleagues exclude me in conversations. I'm always the last to know. I am working on no longer interacting with them too much and distancing myself to avoid disappointment

I needed this video. Thank you Brainy dose 💖

I am afraid of rejection. It is not pleasant. But I keep trying to approach people in a positive way. Hopefully I meet the right kind of people at a certain point

I find that other people are a disappointment

I could've used this decades ago. My life would have been different.

When you care about what others thinks of you it alters who you are and who you become. Work on yourself because all your positivity will flow to others. This will make a better world.💝🌎👍

Very inspiring video. I enjoyed the images. U can do it. Give it your 100%. Great video. As always u did a wonderful job. Thank for this video.

Thank you. I needed this. Not going to feel sorry for being myself!

I don't care what people or think about me as long they don't hurt me and I don't hurt them! I want to spending time with those people who had cares in me and I choose to go out with small circle of friends especially those friends that totally knew me!

"People spend the majority of their time worrying about their own lives." Yeah, one would think that, but a lot of people spend most of the time gossiping and making up lies about other people.

Theoretically, everything you said is true. We should not care what others think about us. I don't, but that disturbs others. So, they try to destroy you by creating gossip or giving you looks. It hurts of course, because you can not understand why this is happening . Rationally you don't care, but emotionally you do. You become a loner and that is not good either. But yes, there is still a lot to learn in life.

Be balanced. Be REASONABLE. BE NEUTRAL.

I really needed this. Thank you Brainy Dose. This is so helpful 👏👏👏💗💗💗

You always give us nothing but the best ❤️❤️

Omg I’m shook this information has really made me think twice!!!! 💯🙌🏽

When you value a negative person's opinion about you, it will never end until one of you past away.

I don't give a dam of what anybody thinks of me because I know the life I live is mine and I am responsible of what and what should become of me and again I love myself and I don't apologize all the time except is necessary. People judgment is always bad so I don't pay attention to what anyone has to say to so I allowed things flow because I am the master of my life anyone options doesn't matter to me anymore I complete myself. Thanks so much for sharing great and love video God bless.

Job very well done! It’s also just the beginning. There’s more and more to learn every moment, for eternity. May Sparky Bless and keep you and your loved ones! (Put the sparkle back in my eye!)

Love your background music, it's so different, especially in the chord changes. Awesome video, too, so helpful for me♥️Keep up the amazing work!!!🥳🎉💖✨

I started caring soooo much because I was bullied for YEARS and somehow got soooo insecure about EVERY LITTLE THING I do!! I even find my voice weird and I think everyone is better than me and I think everyone hates me 🙄 before I was bullied I was so free, but now I'm just stuck in a black hole

👂👂😦😮😓 YOU RIGHT CAUSE PEOPLE ALWAYS GOT SOMETHING TO SAY !!!!

Thank you for the Video - I still am stuck in the vicious cycle and trying to get out of it - Now I might have a chance to be myself. Keep up the good work.

Believe it or not! I got rid of 4 very close friends and 0ne youngest Son! I hate the losing of my son. But he waits until I'm over 60 and he is 35 to decide that I am a "No good " Mother and Grandmother! This is so far from the truth! I am fed up with apologizing to him or anybody else! I have decided to live my life in as "Positive" way as possible! I'm a kind and loving person. But if you don't accept me as I am, " Oh Well! Life goes on.I'm far from perfect but I don't know any (Perfect People). I like me and it would be nice to love everybody but its just not realistic. So lets just be happy! Thank you very much for the information. Very helpful.

Stay away from negative people they are miserable and you know misery loves company IN YOUR BRAIN WHEN YOUR INSECURE ABOUT SOMETHIN CLEAR YOUR MIND AND THINK ABOUT NOTHIN AT ALL THEN WHEN YOU GET THAT ONLY THINK POSITIVE. And hang around positive people that want to see you doing good!!

So glad you posted this very informative info.. Thank you:)

This came at the right time for me. My only new year resolution was this. Now I know how 🙏🏼