How Women Rate Your Value On A Weak Approach 

This video is a monster in terms of content, so I'll let it speak for itself, but a few quick reminders: 1. If you like this sort of deep analysis of game, check out systembytodd.com also I've just announced a world bootcamp tour... details at: www.toddvdating.com/live

In Todd we trust

I just listen to Todd for pleasure. His theories are so sequential and satisfying... i should probably go out and talk to girls.

This guy gives the best dating advice at the moment. Free of the fluff that RSD has put out for the past couple of years.

One of the best videos you’ve ever put out, thanks for posting

He is the most practical and realistic coach i ever learned , from him you knew its 0% bullshit LOL.

italians have a word for this...its called sprezzatura: it means "a certain nonchalance, so as to conceal all art and make whatever one does or says appear to be without effort and almost without any thought about it". trying without appearing to try

"The context, I'm interested; the content, I'm not sure marginally interested"....huge!

If a girl knows she can have you, your value goes down.

In a way, during some sets I've developed this voice in my head that goes "God, I hope this girl doesn't think I'm in love with her." I'm not sure why but I feel that helps with me giving too much of my power away or being nice 100% of the time. And real talk there's no way you should be in love with a girl you just met in the first place. Let her show you something.

This actually made so much sense comparing it to previous relationships and how they played out based on the very start of meeting a girl. Thanks a bunch for this video.

Wow, this video is amazing Todd. Definitely a "monster" when i comes to content AND the perspectives you want to be coming at game with.👏🏾👏🏾👌🏾

20 years ago when I started game there was nothing but infield practice, no you tube channels about pick up, just solid work. I managed to reach the master level to use the modern terminology. Nowadays after a very important relationship went south and all sorts of advice available on you tube I feel a complete wreck unable to get back on track. Damn it!!

First and most difficult step: finding a woman of value. Second step: cutting her loose when she shows she isn't one. Too many thirsty guys who'll accept single mothers, women with significant debt, non-feminine or one who's throwing out more red flags than a Chinese Communist parade with her immediate behavior/appearance. Willingness to accept any of that because they're horny or are nervous and already developed a scarcity mindset is what needs to be avoided and I would like to see more videos on how to quickly identify the most common signs so that higher quality women can be focused on.

This video explains so much of the levelling behaviour that guys learn on their journey through pickup - great stuff!

Great content here, save this one guys. Several of these ideas have been spread over many other videos, but the connections Todd's making here about everything that's involved and how to progress is really spot on. Thanks Todd!

"Jenifer Lawrence"😑 send him home😂😂

Little specific details like this is what makes this into art of itself.

Having her feel nervous as i normally am that whole part was incredible to hear. Thanks for that wisdom im gonna seriously evaluate my methods after that one lol

one of your best videos Todd, this is gold!! thanks man

The second a girl says “I’m not gonna fuck you” I’ve always gotten excited. In my experience, Todd’s right - it means you’ve at least succeeded in establishing a sexual premise to where she’s thinking about it. You just have to think of that statement of hers as a shit test and pass it. My response is often along the lines of “Who said anything about me fucking you? We just met.” with piercing eye contact and a smile.

"mistreated or ignored or whatever" Worst fear of a woman: go home with a guy and be ignored at his home. Worse than getting killed, getting no attention...

Todd, please make a video on your philosophy on learning! Like how you accomplished so much in so many diff fields. Thank you!!!!

Todd is the truth, I only listen to this man for social dynamics

Except that every 5, views herself as a 9 or 10.

2:57 You are the first guy to explain to me where this answer comes from. And the first to agree with me, that it is very condescending. Often followed by "and good luck finding other women who you find attractive". The last one is written somewhere, I get this so often it is always "good luck finding another woman who ".

Man I'm so lucky to have found Todd. your words are my religion. I don't question what you say I just do it and it's working wonders. I'm actually enjoying game now. cus even when I mess up atleast now I can breakdown why and fix it

Damn those subtle neg plus rebuttals part are smooth af... I’d totally pay 💰 for a list of those, lol

room chilly todd? ;)

All of Darth Valentine's game in a nutshell.

Todd, I have a clarifying question to ask about the delivery of "game lines". You often talk about making disqualifiers and negs subtle, because it makes them seem "accidental" and "more honest". However, I remember you also saying (I believe it was in one of the verbal breakdowns from women) that you sometimes draw attention to your game lines by saying "Honest question" or "Can I be genuine". In which context do you use each strategy?

Gorgeous thumbnail + 24 minutes of gold content = subscribed

Thank you Todd, it was a great video for me)

"Hi I am nice to meet you." What after that? Which tone to keep to not blow your cover? What is the place you are coming from?

Reality is often disappointing.

Attraction is one thing i always get physically attractive. but very rarely do i get attracted to her personality/character.

Guys this is a must watch, he is talking about very important stuff

Thats not a fancy thumbnail that is actually how people see todd

Hey Todd have you made any videos on how to not give away your power and grow it?

Hi Todd , I get the feeling that we've reached the top when it comes to game theory, so u think we'll be able to improve soon ?

HUUUUGGGEEEEEE!!! do more like this .....perfect to download and listen to on your everyday walks through life

"Hey, Im an 8!" Loool

amazing video for intermediate to advanced PUAs

Great stuff!

Great content! Maybe u should do a video on how to get back into game after a break up and after u lost some of the confidence u had. When I'm in a relationship I start spoiling girl that I'm dating and when we break up,some of that behavior gets stuck with me. I start being to polite with girls that I just met and everything else,that could be considered good game,feels wrong. How do we get the confidence back and how do we become cocky again? Yes,I have this problem.

Hi Todd, I want to ask a question. I have high consistency of keeping 8s, but any girl that I find to be 9s & 10s, I find that I'm often inconsistent. Sometimes I can keep them interested, sometimes I can't (even the same girls at different time). What do you think is tripping me up?

Love this content so much

This video is eye-opening

Thumbs up just for the Iron Man ref, great content!

Dude has the default Samsung ring and forgets to turn the phone off during capturing of the RU-vid video. Todd you're hilarious bro.

Todd, my game is at the point that i can get a solid number and get her at the phone. After the phone call however i mess it up. What kind of text should i send after the phone call and when?

Great insight as per usual Todd you boss!! 🙏🙏

Thanks man

Ringtone still haven't found what I'm looking for ;)

Todd why did you delete some vids from your channel?

The GOAT at it again

Her win mentality is still a thing if you two are in a relationship, or just when u first meet her?.

Todd is rockin that Silver back Gorilla bod.

Lmao the “you’re maybe a starfish in bed, but you’re very attractive” comment kills me. Great content Todd, serious gold from start to finish.

Ur a best ... know that i m listening from morocco africa 🇲🇦

Please what is he saying at 13:50?? I’m not understand Thank you

I've seen this girl at the gym for a couple months now, but I haven't got the guts to talk to her... how can I make that smooth transition and not be awkward about it since we have seen each other at the gym for a while now?

Todd, thank you very much for sharing the knowledge! I have a question related to video. I already told a girl that I like her and except her almost no matter what. And there's positive feedback, but she's not going on a date with me. How can I bring back this "I like you, but I'm not sure yet", so she feel that she needs win me? Thank you in advance!

I met a woman the other day and got her number. We started texting for a few days and it was going really well. My friend works with her, and he knew I was interested. So he decided he would be my “wingman” and begged her to date me. Now she’s ghosted me. He ruined my game completely. Literally gave my power away lmao.

I talked to a Polish girl yesterday but couldn't get anything done. I think I did do disqualification. There was a point where she showed some interest but I didn't act like I'm not interested. Should definitely do this next time.

This guy is genus.

this is EXACTLY what i’ve been doing for sooo long. I finally know why girls I want don’t want me back

He's so right about how women are suspicious if you're too far above them when approaching. I was practice approaching on very low rated women (0s to 4s) and alot of the time they felt like I was humoring them and one even asked me if my friends dared me to talk to her to play with her.

How quick do you have to speak to her? Is it okay to wait for a minute, or is this already tooo late

How to deal with LMR ?

Of all the RSD guys Todd is the one who really upped my game. I can't really explain it but now when I talk to hot girls I am able to just have "normal" conversations with them rather then having to put on some act. Thank you Todd!

write a book Todd!

The ToddFather is back at it again with another great video

Todd is like the Stephen Hawking of Game lol an absolute fucking genius!!

this guy is smarter than dalai llama, mahatma, confuscious, any big mind you can think of, Todd is on another planet.

Good video

What is your product "The System" all about?

So what would be higher value than saying "I like you"?

About the premise thing If you say something like "we aren't gonna get along" and she responds with something like "i dont care". What is the best save if a girl is being actively negative ...

“I am Todd”

This is all great, but no practice. It would be great to establish a simple coffee shop (Todd's dating lab:) or something as an experiment. Of course you would get the consent of people coming in. There you can see real examples of interaction and analyze them together with their outcomes

I find that pretending that the hot girl is actually ugly naturally will help Notice how it's easy to talk to and joke with ugly girls. If that same girl spirit switched with the hot girl, that same attitude may still get the ugly (now hot) girl It's kind of like shallow hall but in reverse Treat the hot skinny girl like the fat girl

Todd- Where did you get that shirt?

Why I got 90 percent of time flakes? I'm in Germany though. Plus if you don't speak German it's another issue. Anyways let's analyze my game. I try to make instant dates, if it doesn't work I'll set up a date during the initial set max in 2-3 days. Girls accept this. For text game I don't go deep conversations. So far I was trying to make solid conversations on text. I changed my behavior to not going deep text conversations. Because at some point girls feel bored and me too. I also watched text game guide thanks to Todd. When I saw interest I'm asking for a date. I got some dates but not too much. Btw I'm in this journey around 2 years. Let's say I'm an advanced guy, I have a lot experience but still, no lays. When the initial date day arrived generally they got something to do, even right after number exchange they wrote after my first message "Sorry, I'm not interested in bla bla". Why I have so much flakes? I don't understand. I tried man to woman. I tried push-pull. Instead of saying "Hey u are cute", I say "I feel something about you". To create that opportunity for a girl to chase me. Before Germany, I have been in Poland and started the journey over there. Poland was better. I think the best place is USA. On the other hand GAME is international. So everything should work everywhere but with Calibration. Btw another issue is unfortunately about the country where I came. Girls' general first question here in Germany is "Where are you from?", then I say "Turkey", they lose interest right away. I don't wanna say lie. I tried a lot to skip this question but at some point, it's a real issue. I don't know what to do. I'm open to your advice, especially for flakes. Thank you guys and Todd. GG. Greetings from Bonn, Germany.

I can't tell if she is feels nervous or a little creeped out by what I do, there's a fine line there. But she is definitely not relaxed and comfortable.

Damn i miss pickup

I gave my power away because I was smoking too much and became dull.. not sharp. So fuck weed now. Damn

Love the leveling framework from Todd but I've also heard that girls who are 9-10s get less attention from guys than 6-8s as they are seen as out of range. When todd levels girls is he talking about objective attractiveness or level of attention/demand from guys as I would assume the latter is more relevant to her pickiness

Just let this woman in the office next to mine. So hot. I’ve got his advice in the back of my mind. It’s all professional and she makes a comment about exercise that came out all wrong and started blushing. I said, “Well, now I know how you feel.” She blushed more. Was fanning her face and said, “oh just forget that.” “Hell, no girl. That red looks good on you.” Sounds silly reading it but it worked. Stay relaxed and lead the flow. Take advantage of their words and assume they mean the best about you. Seemed to work.

Shit so how do I open now?

Fucking gold.

Great take aways. Actually like the longer vids. Thanks Todd!

Reality is often dissapointing ✋😳

personal question bbb

Can you OPEN with a push pull?

*sees a student botch an approach* Todd: "Fine... I'll do it myself"

16:06 hear that siren guys? yea that's the sound that should blast through our heads every fucking day in life while hesitating taking action.

Legendary thumbnail!

How to say "I like you but I am not so sure"? Whenever I said it, they were supine about it.

So how do you know which approach to use when? If I find her attractive and in my world, she is an 8+, I approach her playing with her phone on the bus station with "Hi I am Benno, nice to meet you". If she is 7-... well why should I care. Therefore, being direct with your intent is never a good option.