I’m so glad Filly finds the cheating situation funny now, it’s clear proof that he’s healed from that trauma, and proof that he’s an incredible comedian.
Ex got a personal male trainer they are friends for over 7 years. They both talk about relationship advice etc,.. I said i was not comfortable with their friendship and she gyming with a Male. Everyone was saying that i was insecure. But she now got STI Trichomoniasis it was not from me. Again everyone is still calling me mad and controlling. Wtf world are we living in ? The STI was enough to show that she was cheating. I rather alone than continue with this madness.
This is real. People who cheat do damage to those they cheat on. I was the most trusting dude but since being cheated on I have been suspicious and kept one foot out the door because I don't want to be fooled again. And I 100% realize that is negative energy that you need to let go.
I actually think the negative connotation attached to a prenup is that the person who asked for a prenup is thinking the marriage will fail but I understand why someone would ask for a prenup because almost 50% of marriages end in divorce.
Makes sense to have one cos it's like well as long as you're with me whatever mine is yours, but if not then it ain't. If we are together there's nothing to worry about
70 to 80 percent of the divorces are initiated by women, so it should be mandatory for any wealthy man out there to put in place a prenup, since women abuse the law to take as much as they can from a man after a divorce. Never offer a contract that rewards a woman for breaking it.
I was in a relationship for 6 years, was about to pop the question only to find I was being cheated on. Totally blindsided, I was played like a fool. To anyone going through something similar, just know it gets better. It hurts but you will be okay.
These guys are so lovely. Respectful as they talk. Conversations that guys need to be having. I hope they find wonderful women that make them happy and feel loved for who they are.
I live life with appreciation for what I have in my life, for myself. I never hold on to something close to my heart because at the end of the day, I can't take it with me, because there's more than what you believe to have. I'm secure in myself to know if my girl was to ever wrong me to the point of separation...I'd leave with my head high and my heart light because I know ima be ok with time. Like Drake once said "Her Loss" 🤷🏾♂️
In the prenup bit, I don’t think it should ever be an issue. A woman that truly loves you I don’t think would bat an eyelid bc her hope would be that she has you forever, someone who’s intentions aren’t 100% above water might feel a type of way about it and use the whole argument of lack of trust and bad way to start off
@@mucktown thing is, in life there's high risk high reward, getting into a marriage with no prenup is high risk low reward, you gain nothing from entering a marriage without a prenup, any man or woman can change as life progresses just because a woman/man may be amendment that she/he wants you for life and would never leave you doesn't mean those feelings wont change as years goes on. and me personally i don't want to hustle for 20+ years building my wealth to have it halved by a female, whether it happens or not, i don't really care id rather just not take the chance. each to their own though i aint judging
The thing is, Filly said himself that the situation was funny before explaining it (ofc he wasn’t 100%) serious but I don’t blame his friends for laughing. It’s one thing if friends initiate the joking of one’s trauma vs just laughing to lighten the mood. On top of that, I can bet money that Chunks and Harry are there for Filly off camera which is why Filly is fine with them laughing 😂
Everyone needs friends, your partner should be your friend, but not your sole friend. Friends are important to stay in touch with the population. Humans are innately social animals after all.
@@delakayi6286 100% serious. Our divorce outcomes are so biased women literally fly here to get divorced. Google the term “divorce tourism” if you dare 😂 it is eye opening stuff
The prenup situation is simple. You should get it to protect your assets. People change everyday. Good or bad, it’s still change. Also, your views change as you get older. So in that case it’s in your best interest to make sure you’re protected. Same as the woman. Both came in with their own money and leave the same way.
Legal marriage is a business. unfortunately a lot of men only realize it when they get divorced. if you got more than a 50% chance of getting shot as soon as you step outside your door.. are you going to walk out without any protection and hope for the best and hope a positive mindset will protect you?
You know you got real friends whn they can laugh at you this much over a girl. They don’t enjoy it but this laughter will always remind you she’s for the streets
I think its a wild that a person would go in a relationship knowing they aren't gonna commit to it , like if people wanna sleep around you can do that without destroying others and but what filly walked into was awful cause its rough really knowing someone can really look you into your eyes and say nothing is up when in reality she was getting her back blown out people can be mad selfish if she didn't want to be with you anymore why didn't she just leave I think people over complicate things when it doesn't have to be that way, I said all to say this , Filly don't worry brody she was just not the one chin up and push forward a woman that truly cares about you will never be so selfish.
Prenup-wise, do what works for you. My husband and I didn’t do one, it is not for us. But then again we grew and built each other up, not like you lot who will meet someone after you’ve attained success.
I really respect Chunkz for saying that if a marriage break up (in shaa Allaah it won’t happen to him) is his fault, he’ll happily give a share of his wealth as he’ll feel like he owes the woman. Kudos! I divorced the narcissist, rogue, vile person I was married to and due to his nature (which is why I had to divorce him), he gives me not a penny and gives for the children as little as he can get away with. Funnily enough, within literally a few months of the separation, he moved in with another woman and her two illegitimate children from two different dads. Which is weird because when I was much younger and we were married and I said I wanted to divorce him, he told me, “who’d want to marry you when you have two kids!” That’s the face of narcissistic abusers for you!
A man doesn’t you owe a single pound after a divorce and especially less so if you are the one asking for it. You may get a compensation in proportion to the money that he makes and how long you’ve been together (subject to agreement) according to Islam, but no substantial payment. The property and resources acquired by the man before and during the marriage are in his ownership and you are not entitled to any of it after a divorce unless he wants to give it.
Cheating in a past relationship is one of the worst things iv ever done but i was hurt multiple times by multiple women in the same way... Im happily married with 1 child and one on the way and this relationship i have given my soul too. It still eats at me i hurt a woman how those hurt me. Now i live with a simple rule, if i ever have even a tendancy to cheat... Ill just tell my partner and end it honestly first. Be better men.
After 5 relationship i caught her cheating the worst feeling ever and like what the fuck i am suppose to do now? She is blocked and pictures are deleted. The hardest thing is that i really loved her family and they were like my bonus parents.
I love that friend ship it’s exactly how my friends and I talk Real raw but nothing taken in the wrong way. I got cheated on and all my mates cracked me a cold on patted me on the back and said “Damn Stevie wonder would’ve seen that one coming” 😂😂😂
Prenup is very simple and basic. All you do is set what's and when it is yours, what and when it's theirs and in what conditions it is shared and you communicate throughout it. It is, considering 50% chance of divorce, a cheap and simpler way afterwards.
As a women I think it’s a good idea to have a prenuptial agreement before getting married. It’s better to have those conversations when you are in a good place together. You decide how to co-parent if you separate, alimony, child support and etc. It’s similar to creating a will, you don’t plan of dying anytime soon but you want a plan in place if something happens. It’s better to have those discussions when you are not emotionally and at the beginning of a relationship than the end when you may have emotions ruling your decisions.
From someone who lost EVERYTHING after a long-term relationship, you MUST have your own things and protect them at all costs. You also can not trust women with male friends whilst they are aware it's a no go, these slimey people will attempt to cheat and take advantage. Sorry ladies, but you need to change your views on men or stay the way it is.
