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Husband’s Bipolar Disorder Is Out of Control (What Can I Do?) 

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Husband’s Bipolar Disorder Is Out of Control (What Can I Do?)
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@tiffanynicoley
@tiffanynicoley 2 года назад
My mom when she is manic will do extremely toxic and abusive things and not even realize she needs help. She thinks she’s perfectly fine and I’m the one who needs help. Only after her brain comes back to “normal” does she even see the damage. But then because of her shame she still refuses to acknowledge she needs to do her best to control the situation. She recently went off her meds thinking she’s fine. All of it has absolutely destroyed our relationship, this is not easy. I feel for this woman.
@ilyesbensaid66
@ilyesbensaid66 2 месяца назад
When it comes to relationships sabotage, we think more about borderline than bipolaire
@amydoran9987
@amydoran9987 2 года назад
If he refuses to get help for his condition, I would consider leaving the relationship. The fact that kids are heavily involved and getting verbally abused is very bad. Hiding behind religion in this case will not help her situation.
@wLBlue
@wLBlue 6 месяцев назад
Play that out...she leaves him...then what?
@jackieg.seventee
@jackieg.seventee 3 месяца назад
Leave.
@jackieg.seventee
@jackieg.seventee 3 месяца назад
​@wLBlue It's not her problem, dude
@theclockworkcadaver7025
@theclockworkcadaver7025 2 месяца назад
@@jackieg.seventee Yeah it very much would be her problem to solve if she left. Where does she go? It's extremely hard to get by as a single, working mom. It's not _your_ problem, which is why you have all of the easy answers. But if it was your life it wouldn't be so easy.
@branver1172
@branver1172 Месяц назад
We don’t know her financial situation. She Might not be able to leave. If she does, there’s a good chance he will get partial custody, meaning kids will get unfiltered dad without the protection of mom.
@Ksee89
@Ksee89 7 месяцев назад
I'm bipolar. Found the right meds. Now my wife and I are back on the same team working through baby step 2. No mania in over a year and a half now. It's been a rough journey but my wife is starting to trust I can lead us through the baby steps finally.
@jackieg.seventee
@jackieg.seventee 3 месяца назад
What a real man.
@christianjeffries75
@christianjeffries75 2 года назад
From someone with bipolar, there's a big difference between saying "I am bipolar" and "I have bipolar" or "He is bipolar" and "He has bipolar". You never find healing until you seperate the disorder from your identity. When I used to see it as I am bipolar I just accepted that this is just who I am and I don't need to change. When I started seeing it as this is what I have I started realizing I actually had control of this beast. After a few years of following the treatment plan I'm working full-time, in my masters degree, go out with friends and family often, play sports, living a normal healthy lifestyle. But just remember you can't change a person who just accepts that bipolar is just who "I am" and makes excuses for their actions it's a choice to live that way.
@216trixie
@216trixie 2 года назад
Interesting. I read an article by a guy who accepted that he "was autistic", rather than " having autism". He felt by claiming it was part of his identity, helped him make friends with his condition. The opposite of your experience. I've often thought about this.
@christianjeffries75
@christianjeffries75 2 года назад
@@216trixie yeah I guess it's really just however you want to look at it. The big thing is really not letting yourself just accept that this is just the way it is and nothings going to change. Once you get in that mindset you can't get better. Many people with bipolar don't try and it gives a bad name for those of us who have it.
@c.f.6005
@c.f.6005 2 года назад
100%%%%
@ceciliajohnson8812
@ceciliajohnson8812 2 года назад
Exactly right, Christian! You 'have' bipolar. You are not, and never have 'been' bipolar. A world of difference.
@216trixie
@216trixie 2 года назад
@@christianjeffries75 I agree. Either way you look at it, you are making friends with the situation. I have an affliction, different though, but I had to learn to make friends with it.
@charlottemuracka4302
@charlottemuracka4302 Год назад
Speaking as a devout Roman Catholic, I would remind the caller that marriage vows do not oblige you to endanger yourself or your children. "Till death do us part" means that endangerment, financial, physical, and emotional, is a legitimate reason to leave. I consulted with orthodox priests, not modernists, before I left my children's bipolar father. I don't know if I qualify for an annulment, but I'm not going back to him. He actually found someone else after 8 years of being a bad husband and father. I was exhausted running the house and shielding the children from his narcissism and indifference. Now that we don't live with him, the children are free to love him from a safe distance. Also, bipolar can be hereditary, so shielding the children from trauma is vital to keeping them safe from the disorder, too.
@jackieg.seventee
@jackieg.seventee 3 месяца назад
Thank you.
@rebeccadank859
@rebeccadank859 Год назад
I can relate to this. We don't have any children but it's taking a toll on me. He's untreated and no medication, he's been in a manic episode probably all year. Recently I have been accused of cheating with my best friends husband, which isn't true at all...but he won't stop accusing me. I haved loved him for 25 yrs, and he wasn't always like this. I feel like I am grieving someone who is still alive. I am starting therapy for myself and I want him to get help, but he refuses and thinks nothing is wrong. He has been emotionally/verbally abusive, and I know it's the mental illness, which he didn't ask to have...but I am probably going to lose him, can see this moving forward to divorce. And what will haunt me is that he'll be out in the world with nobody, as he stopped talking to friends and barely speaks to his dad. Spends all day on social media and thinks that celebrities are his friends...I would help him and support him if he were treated, meds etc. because I love him, but I can't survive the way things are now.
@lindabluma
@lindabluma 10 месяцев назад
Your story is eerily similar to mine. Down to the small details. However we’ve been married for 4 years. I am now seperated and moving towards a divorce. Staying with him would mean giving up on my dreams of having children and taking on the role of caregiver at 32. I felt like the most selfish person, but I walked away and have not regretted it despite the pain. I do grieve a lot, feeling like the widow of an alive man. Hopefully it gets better.
@TheLKel89
@TheLKel89 10 месяцев назад
Bipolar has now been found to be a degenerative disease, after many years of no treatment symptoms get worse and worse and then cayuses brain damage to the grey and white matter in your brain, screws with neurotransmitters and serotonin levels, and in older age basically becomes dementia. If that doesn't scar him idk what will. Tell him he needs to see a doctor and get on meds and start treatment or he will end up a crazy old loon in a home, and no one wants that for their loved one.
@Stephanie-rv7wm
@Stephanie-rv7wm 4 месяца назад
Same here. Been married 21 years, together 23 since I was 18 years old. Our 2 teenage girls can’t take it & neither can I. His started on Nov 2019 & has been going back & forth but never fully saw him back to “normal”. This past week has been hell & I can’t do it again! We have no money bc we still haven’t caught up since it started a few years ago. I’m so worried for him to be alone too! I know it won’t end well. But I can’t put myself or my kids through it anymore. I would never wish this on anyone! It’s absolute torture!
@jackieg.seventee
@jackieg.seventee 3 месяца назад
Get the eff out. Hypervigilence is a killer.
@COINsimp2024
@COINsimp2024 2 года назад
He sounds like a danger to her kids and she needs to leave.
@Samantharuddell
@Samantharuddell Год назад
Its hard to love someone and be a spouse to someone who is bipolar. Its not easy at all it takes time, love and patients. You must take care of yourself
@wiseowl2020
@wiseowl2020 2 года назад
See a divorce lawyer and get your legal questions answered. Separate your finances, get all your documents together, and get ready to file for a legal separation to protect yourself from his bad financial decisions. I have friends who intervened when their daughter started dating a man who was bi-polar. She naively believed she could "cure" him with love. Mom and Dad stood firm and said she needed to break off the relationship for her own (future) sanity. She did albeit she was angry at her parents for a long time. Thank God they intervened. She married a healthy man and learned her ex is now in and out of psych wards.
@leigh4326
@leigh4326 Год назад
That’s good and she’s lucky to have known the diagnosis beforehand. I think in her case he probably got diagnosed after their marriage. No one can cure such and I’m happy it ended well for her ❤
@wendygoddard6610
@wendygoddard6610 Год назад
My husband was in mania for 2/3 years before he was hospitalized. He has been on meds for 2 years now and Has been In psychotherapy. He has good days but then he spirals out of Control with anger outbursts that can be very hurtful verbally and wants to be physical he rapid cycles daily
@christinao8877
@christinao8877 2 года назад
Also have a consultation with a lawyer to see if she’s responsible for his property purchases and debt if something happens. His spending is out of control. Is he going through savings and retirement for impulse purchases?
@Cathy-xi8cb
@Cathy-xi8cb 2 года назад
A lawyer is a good suggestion. Lay the foundation for what could come.
@kaseydey4651
@kaseydey4651 6 месяцев назад
My husband is literally a hundred times worse than this. It’s living hell. I deeply regret marrying him as he has broken my soul from the inside out with his abuse. Save yourselves and run! I’m unfortunately trapped, but if I was a wolf I’d chew my own leg off and run! Go! Don’t look back! It’s NOT WORTH THE TORTURE
@wendygoddard6610
@wendygoddard6610 Год назад
My husband has been in mania for a year! And he has become aggressive verbally and physically and is out of control
@lorrettaf160
@lorrettaf160 Год назад
I wish there were programs to help families affected. It's traumatic.
@jenfer411
@jenfer411 Год назад
Physically? Time to save yourself. Verbal abuse is devastating but physical is deadly. Leave
@michaelmiami
@michaelmiami Год назад
He needs a new med management doctor. The one he’s seeing isn’t doing his job.
@JB-xm2wh
@JB-xm2wh Год назад
Have him 302’d wish I did
@apophis2129
@apophis2129 Год назад
I have bipolar myself, didnt know for a long time, I was diagnosed as a young man in my 20s. While it has effected my life, I find that the best solution for me is to hold myself to the same standards as anyone else. Not make excuses and say "oh its my bipolar." Its hard, and feels "unfair" at times, but its a sickness, so i remind myself to be grateful that i have my physical health.
@jillgott6567
@jillgott6567 2 года назад
I have an ex cousin in law with bipolar, obstinance disorder, etc. It is horrid. She used to drink, use drugs and it is hard to be around her. She has excuses for most everything so sad.
@alittlepieceofearth
@alittlepieceofearth 2 года назад
He's already indicated that he is not interested in getting himself together. He thinks there is nothing wrong. Right now, he has no reason to change. If his wife leaves him, he loses his kids and he goes into bankruptcy while "nothing is wrong," then maybe he will decide something needs to change. Right now, however, all the wife can do is accept that this is just going to be her life until one of them dies or she has to untether herself from him.
@ESumner
@ESumner 2 года назад
1000% truth. My current situation as well.
@vonderloo3184
@vonderloo3184 Год назад
Who says he loses the kids in divorce? The court gave my son to an anti-social psychopath. 😂
@branver1172
@branver1172 Месяц назад
He probably won’t lose the kids. The kids will partially lose the protection of their mom.
@breakingbolts7621
@breakingbolts7621 2 года назад
My wife cycles 3 months depressed 3 weeks manic. She cheated on me her last manic episode, trying to leave me and 3 kids starting this depressive episode. Our marriage was hanging on by trust. It’s now gone and I’m broken and feel alone.
@jenfer411
@jenfer411 Год назад
😢 You and your family will be in my prayers. God bless you
@JB-xm2wh
@JB-xm2wh Год назад
Time to leave but that’s your decision
@samv7487
@samv7487 Год назад
I feel you and in a similar situation....i feel so alone right now
@heidiwright1797
@heidiwright1797 6 месяцев назад
I am in this same boat. My husband of 10 years has an undiagnosed bipolar disorder and during the last episode of mania he cheated on me with two woman and now that he is caught he immediately went into his depression
@Truth358
@Truth358 Год назад
My husband has been manic for 8 months. If they smoke marijuana they will stay in mania.
@JB-xm2wh
@JB-xm2wh Год назад
I worked in mental health and confirm this!
@heidiwright1797
@heidiwright1797 6 месяцев назад
I do find marijuana makes the mania worse for my husband as well.
@tycerxyz7534
@tycerxyz7534 3 месяца назад
Mine smokes a lot and has started taking other drugs! His mental health has completely declined. Especially with an affair partner that promotes all the drug use.
@twana79brown
@twana79brown Год назад
I unfortunately understand this and struggling with my husband. I don't know what to do.
@sarah29880
@sarah29880 Год назад
I’m sorry ❤😔
@chrysiarose
@chrysiarose 2 года назад
This sounds like a man who is using the bipolar as an excuse for living another life. I am willing to bet there is another woman (hence the 'rental' property) and that he is just wearing her down so she files. Waking up so early to leaves, harping on his kids, he checked out and is doing his own thing.
@probablynot1368
@probablynot1368 2 года назад
I was thinking the same thing as the caller was describing his actions. If he’s stepping out on her and leading another life with another woman, eventually (usually at the one year mark in the relationship), this ‘other woman’ will push for a more permanent relationship. He won’t commit, so she either leaves him or he backs out, because he can’t face the possibility of divorce when his wife discovers what’s taken place. Then, he’s emotionally drained for a year after having lost the distraction provided by the other woman, and the reality of having a wife and children who need him to be present and accountable. Sadly, this caller may have ignored some significant red flags in his behavior, and chooses to accept the status quo of his claiming to have manic-depressive disorder. She’s afraid of a proper diagnosis because she’ll have to take a pro-active role in their relationship, rather than maintain the passive, ‘oh, whoa is me’ role.
@kathaleenmason4518
@kathaleenmason4518 Месяц назад
I believe you hit the nail on the head here!
@tammymonaghan1114
@tammymonaghan1114 7 дней назад
Ive been married 19 years to my husband who is BP and I can tell you his cycles circle around different things. Like seriously when football season is going on it triggers something in him and every addiction he has comes roaring in and he is extremely abusive. I'm here during this season. I'm disabled and I'm not okay with this anymore. I love football but I can't even enjoy it anymore because of this.
@Haidi533
@Haidi533 2 года назад
This is my life also, I do not know what to do
@sarahporter9541
@sarahporter9541 2 года назад
Ive been there....am there...live it daily. Will be praying for you.
@bethbennett317
@bethbennett317 2 года назад
Leave your spouse.
@annabanana2928
@annabanana2928 2 года назад
Leave
@kimberlybardin6949
@kimberlybardin6949 2 года назад
Vit b12, niacin, vitamin d3 with k, loooots of vitamin c, lions mane mushroom, and lithium orate if he's willing. If not, leave if you can. Especially if you have children.
@korab.23
@korab.23 2 года назад
I had to leave. He isn't interested in taking any responsibility and continues to be underhanded in the way he treats us and at one point I feared for mine & children's safety. If someone isn't willing to take care of themselves, you can't force them.
@Glitterbombz
@Glitterbombz Год назад
Im in a similar situation and I can’t do it anymore. He refuses any and all help. I don’t know what to do anymore.
@littlewoodchopper2659
@littlewoodchopper2659 3 месяца назад
I can tell him yes it does happen. My mania lasts a year sometimes longer. I eventually crash and the depression last months. I finally got help when my 3 hours of sleep turned into no sleep. After 3 weeks no sleep, I was delusional and hallucinating bad. All I ever did was alcohol and weed.
@Ja50nkAt
@Ja50nkAt 8 месяцев назад
No shane in leaving if he will not take medication or get counseling, not her fault.
@heiders8488
@heiders8488 Год назад
I agree! If I care more about someone's health and well being, more than they do...we have a major, major problem. I had to come to terms with what I will and will not accept going forward.
@User20bdbdhd388
@User20bdbdhd388 Год назад
My husband is bipolar as well. Currently manic in a irritable way. Not fun. Pushing my buttons whenever he can. After 19 yrs marriage still difficult but I learned to deal with it better. He secretly stops medication every now and then. I keep on laying responsibilities for his actions by him and it works well. I’m Christian as well. And he now has less severe behavior. Still hard but not hell anymore.
@DrELewis2014
@DrELewis2014 5 месяцев назад
Wow! TWO decades of this sounds HELLISH 🥴
@User20bdbdhd388
@User20bdbdhd388 4 месяца назад
@@DrELewis2014 after so many years you learn to deal with it. I don’t take everything personal anymore. I see it as a gift, it thought me how to keep my cool in difficult situations. It helped me a lot as a entrepreneur.
@User20bdbdhd388
@User20bdbdhd388 4 месяца назад
@@DrELewis2014 after so many years you learn to deal with it. I don’t take everything personal anymore. I see it as a gift, it thought me how to keep my cool in difficult situations. It helped me a lot as a entrepreneur.
@marionantoni8375
@marionantoni8375 3 дня назад
I’m 16 years married to my husband with bipolar 1. We have 6 children together and he was only diagnosed last month after a hellish manic episode. I hope to be where you are one day as at the moment it’s breaking me into a million pieces
@DrELewis2014
@DrELewis2014 5 месяцев назад
She needs to RUN!!!! 🏃 Really fast!
@Truth358
@Truth358 Год назад
Bipolar gets worse with age.
@lorirogers9304
@lorirogers9304 7 месяцев назад
If it’s not treated. I was diagnosed in my forties and I’m stable (not perfect) at 58 years old.
@jackieg.seventee
@jackieg.seventee 3 месяца назад
I know that. I had to flee at 70.
@willnadauld
@willnadauld 6 месяцев назад
bipolar1 here. I have a 2 year cycle. Bipolar1 often has long cycles.
@jadez7802
@jadez7802 4 месяца назад
My husband who has bipolar 1 also has very long bouts of both hypo, mania and depression. Longest time manic once was 8 months . Depression almost 2 years.
@JessicaGwin-wf6kf
@JessicaGwin-wf6kf 23 дня назад
I have the same problem. Not married, no children. He is not on meds and is abusive mentally and physically. It is like living in a cage with a bear. My soul and spirit is dying
@wendygoddard6610
@wendygoddard6610 Месяц назад
My husband is bipolar and has BPD and he leaves the marriage all the time and has affairs or just leaves for a weeks to months at a time his impulsivity is out of control!
@julieclark32
@julieclark32 9 месяцев назад
I have begged cried and screamed and nothing works. I begged him to try meds
@lizbeyer4696
@lizbeyer4696 Год назад
Scripture does allow for divorce and this circumstance qualifies. A good resource is the book. Divorce and Remarriage in the church by David Instone Brewer.
@rosejones2932
@rosejones2932 Год назад
Meds can turn this guys life around. It is sad that he is so adverse to medication.
@LBright4444
@LBright4444 6 месяцев назад
Sounds like the husband needs treatment badly, first meds then counciling. YES! They do cycle. It is seasonal to my current understanding. Their worst time of the year tends to be winter, when there is less sunlight. No treatment is hell on wheels for everyone and anyone close to them. And sometimes, dangerous! Going without treatment for long periods of time can lead to a worsening of the condition. This condition has a range or spectrum. I have 2 family members with severe bipolar disorder and one parent with narcissistic personality disorder! The healthy family members need support, tools and prayer! This morning I was reflecting in prayer about the trauma and abuse my father and siblings faced at the hands of a severely mentally ill family member! Tears streamed down my face. Anything you can do to protect yourself and kids, DO IT! Also, I was reading somewhere that bipolar is 80% hereditary!! The focus needs to shift to the mom and especially the kids at this point, as she watches for signs in the kids and gets them help early!
@leslielonglegz1
@leslielonglegz1 2 месяца назад
My husband has exactly those symptoms he is on drugs and does a lot of stupid stuff
@minervagalvez4748
@minervagalvez4748 2 года назад
Nagging him doesn't help his symptoms AND THREATENING HIM DOESN'T either...MOVE OUT WITH THE KIDS...
@ESumner
@ESumner 2 года назад
True, learned this after a decade of trying to reason with ab undiagnosed, unmedicated bipolar 1 man... I’m finally leaving him now that I know it’s NOT ME! 😳 I’m exhausted, burnt out, tired, drained on every level you can imagine. I feel guilt because ‘In sickness and in health’ but I’ll die if I continue with him. I really will. This is taking such a toll mentally/ physically but especially emotionally....
@authorleboyd3481
@authorleboyd3481 6 месяцев назад
Leave and don’t come back. He doesn’t want you.
@camcam221133
@camcam221133 2 года назад
God ... Poor children
@jessenashvillejames150
@jessenashvillejames150 2 месяца назад
When it comes to Bypolor. Why is it that you alway want them to be reevaluate? Mabee you should become educated about Bypolor Disorder.
@9liveslisa
@9liveslisa 2 года назад
She needs to leave him to protect herself and her children.
@houtbay9
@houtbay9 6 месяцев назад
Yes yes yes
@spockthevulcan
@spockthevulcan 7 месяцев назад
I love and appreciate Dr. Delony but I disagree with his advice on this one, it's just rainbows and unicorns. The hard reality is the marriage will most likely crumble. We don't want to be bad people, we just don't realize how detrimental our decisions are until we crash, and then the hurt from whatever dopamine hit we took along with the anxiety and depression that's triggered by absolutely nothing, the weight is crushing, damn near unbearable. Here is FACT. Bipolar is a cruel, cruel disease and that's the reason people suffering with BP have around a 15 years shorter life span. I'm very familiar with longer cycles, mine being more like a wave, or the underlying baseline mood is either elevated or depressed and the waves last for 5-8 years I'm guessing. While on these "baseline waves" the cycles bounce like a ping pong ball. Every day at some point I'm bouncing on my tail like Tigger the Tiger and then fall into humiliation and sadness like Eor. As far as "bad" decisions, when I make them they are 1,000% justified. So I know others may think I'm making a bad choice but that just because they don't understand my perspective on it. Anyway, I very much sympathize with both of them.
@Klake-bk2dp
@Klake-bk2dp 7 месяцев назад
I’m in the middle of divorcing my bipolar wife of ten years… unfortunately she only got diagnosed and treated after our marriage was destroyed. It turned me into a person that I never wanted to be. It turned me into a bitter resentful man… I’m healing but I don’t ever think I will have an intact heart again. I was also raised by a narc mother so I took all her mood swings personally.
@spockthevulcan
@spockthevulcan 7 месяцев назад
@@Klake-bk2dp I'm so sorry you're having to go through that. I know that I am know good for anybody, I'm not good for relationships...but I'm as fun as a barrel of monkeys sometimes. I am married but we are just 2 people sharing a home. My wife acts as my care giver and treats me like a toddler, and I hate that,. We are not sexual. I just can't bring myself to hurt her because she is a good woman. At the same time I went throuh a mania that lasted a year maybe and cheated numerous times, totally justified. And if we get a divorce I'd be taken to the cleaners. She'd get MY house, alimony, 401K and I don't think I'll be able to work much longer, I think I may have to go on disability as my BP has gotten worse with age. Sorry for the rant, I'm a pro and ranting. Good luck and God bless you.
@ksmith7402
@ksmith7402 7 месяцев назад
It is possible to have cycles to this degree
@lealea6020
@lealea6020 Год назад
You should split up. This guy will bring nothing but sorrow to your kids and damage you psychologically. The problem is that you would like to please him and accommodate him but where is the boundary. You need to also see love for yourself and your kids. Please separate. It does not mean you can't love him from afar. But if you don't separate he will behave selfishly and not address his problem.
@nomg563
@nomg563 6 месяцев назад
Can we learn to simply focus on the individual and not bipolar in these show titles? There a ton of amazing relationships and people with the disorder who do not inflict harm or live up to the awful stigma thrust upon every person with this illness or any mental illness for that matter.
@jackieg.seventee
@jackieg.seventee 3 месяца назад
Please. You are splitting hairs. She's talking about her. Not you.
@wendygoddard6610
@wendygoddard6610 Год назад
He is often changing meds and therapists and doctors
@AnnaWitte-f8f
@AnnaWitte-f8f 4 месяца назад
He a danger the kids and she need leave before something bad happens
@davidmilhouscarter8198
@davidmilhouscarter8198 2 года назад
3:12 Are you he’s sober?
@MelissaGonzalez-cj4cd
@MelissaGonzalez-cj4cd 2 года назад
Omg this sounds like my husband
@lestercaldera3776
@lestercaldera3776 2 года назад
I hear I’m afraid to be alone And won’t protect my kids because I’m Christina 😅
@jackieg.seventee
@jackieg.seventee 3 месяца назад
How rude you are with the laughing face. Get off this you troll.
@dianefoster3059
@dianefoster3059 Год назад
Could she pursue a conservatorship?
@erbjp
@erbjp 2 года назад
Get out. You’re married to another child, not a spouse.
@minervagalvez4748
@minervagalvez4748 2 года назад
Easier said then done to tell a person that is struggling to GET BETTER NOW...he is scared, he doesn't know how to help himself, he doesn't have a support system that truly understands his struggles. The Wife needs to be in counseling to know how to properly deal with having a husband with bipolar and have the skills to set her boundaries to be safe with him.
@korab.23
@korab.23 2 года назад
He has known for years. He's using it to justify his misbehavior. It's part of who he is and he doesn't know who he is without it and isn't willing to learn or change to find out who he is without it. She said he found out 9 years ago.
@minervagalvez4748
@minervagalvez4748 2 года назад
@@korab.23UNDIAGNOSED MENTAL ILLNESS IS THAT ILLNESS...WHEN YOU ARE THAT SICK YOU DON'T HAVE A RATIONAL MIND KORA. HE IS SICK! BLAMING A SICK PERSON ONLY FURTHERS THEIR RESISTANCE IN RECEIVING HELP.
@beccamillae9602
@beccamillae9602 Год назад
She's been dealing with his bipolar for 9 years....
@willowmorst8861
@willowmorst8861 21 день назад
90% of bipolar marriages don’t make it.
@alezandradavila2581
@alezandradavila2581 2 года назад
Me too
@RiggyRonnie
@RiggyRonnie 2 года назад
I think she’s just tired of who he is, doesn’t sound like he’s bipolar, and this rental was the last straw
@jackross7633
@jackross7633 2 года назад
The ROI is infinite with no money down, you got to look at the deal and ignore the world sometimes
@BitterComments
@BitterComments 2 года назад
Until, say, there’s a rent or eviction moratorium, at which point you’re stuck with loan payments and no renter. But it’s not like that’s ever happened, right?
@juniorgod321
@juniorgod321 2 года назад
The thing with bipolar disorder is that is not an actual Illness. It actually is the symptom of another disease, and this disease is called "having a life way too easy!". People who live in countries where they are starving to death or getting constantly bombed, or being massacred by some crazy dictator don't have time to have such nonsense. I myself grew up in a 3rd world country and never in my 30 years of living there, have I met anyone who have the so called bipolar disorder and ever since I moved to the US 9 years ago, at least once a week I hear about someone who have the so called bipolar disorder...
@CincyO1974
@CincyO1974 2 года назад
Wrong!
@COINsimp2024
@COINsimp2024 2 года назад
You're talking about countries where people live off the land, the food quality in the west in pretty bad so we have these strange problems.
@siobhans
@siobhans 2 года назад
@@COINsimp2024 yes, this is another component of bipolar disorder. Diet can worsen the condition majorly. Sugar is the main culprit and we have high fructose syrup in more than half of our processed foods. As humans it is unnatural to have that much every day, so I bet that people who live off the land are way more balanced in that respect.
@dayanacba
@dayanacba 2 года назад
What 3rd country are you from? Bipolar disorder is well known in the medical field, so if you live in extreme poverty it doesn't mean people don't have mental illness it only means they are suffering other more prevalent, treatable and obvious diseases.
@siobhans
@siobhans 2 года назад
@@dayanacba exactly! And many times bipolar is triggered by trauma… there are so many undiagnosed people in “third world” countries since they don’t have the luxury of access to a psychiatrist.
@takeastandorbeenslavedby-left
@takeastandorbeenslavedby-left 2 года назад
Vitamin D will help his bipolar
@pjdurkin8582
@pjdurkin8582 2 года назад
Vitamin D. Is so important for many things Drug companies won't talk about it cuz they don't make any 💵 off it
@alezandradavila2581
@alezandradavila2581 2 года назад
Yes
@faithofamustardseed8198
@faithofamustardseed8198 Год назад
Fermented cod liver oil mixed with butter oil is the perfect supplement for bipolar. Has absorbable forms of vitamins D, A, and K. Also contains omega 3's, which have been shown to help reduce symptom severity. Isn’t a cure all, but is worth trying. Green Pastures brand has been a life changer for me, and helps my husbands bipolar symptoms somewhat (it’s better than nothing, when he doesn’t eat, drinks a lot, and generally treats himself horribly).
@wLBlue
@wLBlue 6 месяцев назад
Isnt everyone bipolar?
@trentcrawford3020
@trentcrawford3020 4 месяца назад
No bipolar disorder causes psychosis and the mood swings last weeks to months and is degenerative. Bipolar is nothing like the stigma everyone believes it destroys the white matter in people’s brains over time causing more psychosis and mania and worse depression.
@Kitaap
@Kitaap 3 месяца назад
everyone has ups and downs but not in the severity of bipolar disorder that it interferes with life. And trust me, it's severe.
@jackieg.seventee
@jackieg.seventee 3 месяца назад
Are you fucking kidding?
@wLBlue
@wLBlue 3 месяца назад
​@jackiegseventee you ok?
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