Husband Doesn’t Care About My Miscarriage 

Don’t walk run to the lawyer’s office. The husband is a cruel, self centered, and childish man-boy. That look of love and empathy speaks volumes of his lack of character. Things will only get worse - partners support each other. He can’t/won’t cut your losses and leave ASAP. I’m sorry for your loss.

Run to the hills, he’s a monster

And where is the perfect man she spoke of?

​@@testaccount01336 yeah, there's not a single thing she said about him that made him a good husband

Yes, the "for his birthday" thing, apart from being grossly insensitive, means that he actually isn't someone who will be a good father. He does not have enough empathy for those around him, only his Johnson it seems. I've had two ectopics, and although I was not as deeply sad about it as this caller (only a little sad), I think I would have been grossed out by "but hey, it's birthday time!".

You are so, so, so right. She has no clue how much this is true, either. A threesome two weeks after a miscarriage and get over it?!?!? 😭

Her husband kicked her down to the floor so much for so long that she thinks it’s normal.

@@pandabear7177Equal rights. Not forced to stay anymore. Not a victim.

@@hillarybillary21You need to research the psychology of victims and domestic abusers. She absolutely is a victim.

@@hillarybillary21What an idiotic ignorant comment.

It’s called codependency

She won't leave. He's apparently perfect in every way except empathy, maturity, and respect.

Sadly many in USA is still so dependent on men for money. It is crazy

​@lindalund9621 No wonder 4B is a thing.

What is a 4B?​@@toomuchinformation

Uh yeah. Definitely.

Valid

Men have no clue what we go through

What?!!!!?

My ex made me get up and cook for our children on the day of surgery. Surgery I had to have because he brought me HPV. POS is still worthless, decades later.

That's terrible advice. If you slap a man, be prepared to be slapped back or worse. She should just leave and let that be the end of it. Do not put yourself in a position where you're inviting someone to put their hands on you.

I was thinking more like a tall oak tree . . . ;-)

​@@Chet_24 Calm down. I don't think she means that literally.

I hope that she finds a good divorce lawyer.

She needs a good attorney!

It's like 90% of all men.

​@@flyandshy00That's generous.

​@@flyandshy00 no its not

I had this exact same reaction to this call. Like what kind of mirage is she looking at if she thinks that is “perfect”.

This demon possession, bring other people your bedroom, is not health, he might be a good person but moral wise this definitely not a good humans behavior! Pray 🙏 put God first the center of your life! Then everything shall give to you!!!🙏🙏🙏

Feel worse for the kids she brought into that crappy situation with a mother with no self respect. There's no chance she's able to be a good parent to them. It's tragic and she needs help for their sake.

@@temposhop8739 I feel for the kids who have a shitty dad and a mom who seems to have little to no self worth, yeah

NAHHHHH SHES GOIN TO STAY!! THEY ALWAYS ALWAYS UGHHH ALWAYS STAY!!

Your re Absolutely right she was just a pick me girl so she has no power in the marriage. She's probably a SAHM with no financial resources of her own. She's definitely trapped.

Yes. It’s toxic “femininity.” Go along to get along. But at what cost?! 🤮

Yeah it's a shocker

It's more common than you know. It's time to stop making excuses for inappropriate behavior.

OK at literally another time I'd agree with that. BUT right after her miscarriage absolutely not.

Women CHOOSE to make miscarriages a big deal. 3 weeks? That is ridiculously unreasonable.

@@SarahConnor562 did you have kids afterwards ?

@@SarahConnor562 Glad to hear.

@@ineedhoez don’t talk about something you can’t even remotely comprehend. Even if it’s 3 weeks, it’s a life growing inside of you and it’s immensely upsetting.

Work is often a distraction for men so they don’t have to deal with emotions at home. That is 💯 factual.

You don't speak for everyone.

Her judgment in marrying him was way off

@@kristinrichmond8185be real it was probably for money

She's lucky they didn't got an STD, that's why I don't like open relationships, nothing good comes from that

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Why? The child was spared from this world. I dont understand why you people want to selfishly bring another child into this world. I wish women couldn't have kids. I hope this happens more often. The child is way better off not having to deal with this world. I say the child was lucky that he/she did not get born.

​@@user-jr7nb8bz4vWould you say the same thing to someone who lost an older born child? Have some compassion for people's pain.

@@rebeccahicks2392 As if people have compassion in this world lol...

@@user-jr7nb8bz4vyou need help

​@@user-jr7nb8bz4v You certainly don't.

Character: "the mental and moral qualities distinctive to an individual." He has mental, he is an idiot, that's a mental. Moral: "holding or manifesting high principles for proper conduct." "When faced with a situation where a baby is lost, it is essential for both parents, including the husband, to maintain composure and handle the situation with care and responsibility. Here are some principles for proper conduct in such a challenging circumstance: 1. Stay Calm: It's crucial to remain calm and composed, as panicking can hinder your ability to think clearly and take necessary actions. Keep a level head to support your partner and engage in effective problem-solving. 2. Support Your Spouse: Losing a baby is an incredibly difficult experience for both parents. Offer emotional support and be there for your spouse, allowing them to express their feelings and providing a safe space for them to grieve. 3. Communicate Effectively: Maintain open and honest communication with your spouse during this challenging time. Share your thoughts, fears, and concerns with each other, and actively listen to one another. Effective communication helps in providing mutual comfort and support. 4. Seek Professional Help: Losing a baby can cause intense grief and emotional distress. It may be helpful to consult with a professional counselor or therapist who specializes in grief and loss. They can provide guidance, support, and coping strategies tailored to your specific needs. 5. Lean on Your Support Network: Reach out to trusted friends, family members, or support groups who can offer empathy and understanding. Sharing your feelings and experiences with others who have gone through a similar situation can provide solace and comfort. 6. Take Care of Yourself: While it's important to support your spouse, remember to prioritize your own well-being as well. Ensure you're getting enough rest, eating well, and engaging in self-care activities that help you cope with the emotional strain. 7. Be Patient: Grief is a complex process, and healing takes time. Be patient with yourself and your spouse as you navigate through this difficult period. Everyone's healing journey is unique, so allow yourself and your partner the space and time needed to heal. 8. Honor the Memory of Your Baby: Find ways to honor and remember your baby. This could involve creating a memorial, planting a tree, or participating in activities that hold significance for you and your spouse. Remembering your baby can provide comfort and a sense of closure. Remember, everyone copes with loss differently, so it's essential to respect each other's unique grieving process. Seek support from professionals and loved ones as you work through your emotions, and remember that healing is possible with time and support." He seems calm, supportive as in getting money to the family (the wrong way thou), his communicating his wants and needs, seems like his not going to a professional, don't know if he's talking with his family, is getting enough rest, doesn't seem patient, and doesn't seem to honor it. Over all, as she describes him he seems like a mix bag. One that she chose and now she's going to have to sit and decide her course of action. With that being said, she is in grief and may be misrepresenting him. It doesn't seem fair to value judgments and identity judgment, asking for what hi "is", rather than what his doing, based on a single point of data.

@@SarahConnor562 Why do you feel that you nagging need to protect and advocate for men specifically trash men in public ? What do you get out of it?

Yet she keeps popping out his kids. There is a point when I'm tempted to blame her more than him.

​@@Shaara1agreed. Everyone's talking about how she puts him before herself, but what about those poor kids? There's no way she's doing right by them. A codependent ex friend put my life in danger pleasing her man. I don't even live in the same town as they do.

Well put. There are pieces of her poor heart lying all over the ground. It's a husband's responsibility to care for and cherish it.

That's EXACTLY what I was thinking. She's worth so much more than that.

They already have children together. They all have A names she said.

@@Luckoftheirish1 Yeah. I can't imagine their divorce being decent or fair with this guy. It's gonna suck all around. Praying for the kids.

the caller's husband is glad there was a miscarriage. a new baby will ruin his threesomes..

She needs to wake up and walk away. Her mom is useless too.

Agreed. I'm in her situation and I can honestly say I haven't seen the light yet lol

Women Who Love Too Much by Robin Norwood The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker Safe People by Henry Cloud Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft

Yea… but she doesn’t have one. So what is she supposed to do?

@@Gxport she needs to talk to a professional to decide that. I think she should leave.

NAHHHHHH, SHES GOIN TO STAY!! THEY ALWAYS ALWAYS UGHHH ALWAYS STAY!!

@@user-jr7nb8bz4vstop commenting so much on this video dude people can see how much you comment it’s obsessive :/

​@@marshmallowcereal718so what?

That's what I I was thinking, even though a miscarriage is painful, it was the best not to have a child with him

What a demented thing to say a child died it's a tragedy

@@cathalhendron3941as a woman who’s personally had a miscarriage and a rainbow baby (baby after miscarriage) there is Nothing demented about that comment, when I had my miscarriage is should have listened to what God was trying to tell me, instead I got pregnant again by the same man who is a demonic monster. I love my children but I should have took the hint when I had my miscarriage! Having a child with an actual psychopath is Not something to negate!

I’m so sorry you went through that all alone

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Oh my goodness. How absolutely traumatic. If no one else has said it, I really am sorry for your loss and the loss of whatever humanity you thought your coworkers had.

@ericabrown7354 because one is intentional killing of another human life and the other is a genetic abnormality out of your control.

@ericabrown7354 Because having an abortion is a choice and having a miscarriage is something that happens to someone completely against their will. Why even ask such a ridiculous question?

women are not all humans

Her man is a douche bag. For the fact that she allows for him to be with other women he sees her as a doormat. And he will get anything he wants . She has major self esteem issues .

@@gabrielamartiniuc6322 yep. It’s sad that these are the kind of guys us nice guys are losing to.

Just think she's helpless, she's probably a SAHM/has no job prospects soo that's a rough go during a divorce

@@mikenelson8377 The fact that your first thought is “sad that nice guys like me don’t get to stick our d**ks in them instead ” means that you’re a garbage human, and not very nice at all. You wouldn’t treat her any better.

It's detrimental to the kids, that's the worst part.

I guess we all do that, even my mom has done that even though my dad has never defend her from anyone

🎯 it’s funny that they only bleep out “hole” but not the A- word

Not every woman is interested in men

Sounds like you have an awesome husband!

Threesomes are yucky

When I had a miscarriage my husband took me on vacation

I hope she reads your caring and encouragement for her. I'm glad you're doing better in your Life.

Your comment touched my heart. What a kind person you are. You’ve been through a lot.

It's a coping mechanism

Yep. He needs to go.

No, there is nothing here to save. This has NEVER been a marriage, it's been a farce from the beginning.She needs to pick up her self-respect from the dungeon she's ALLOWED him to put it in, get her children, file for divorce and get him OUT of her life once and for all. This man is a demon and as such, needs to be sent back to his natural habitat-and we know where demons come from, so we know where that is.🔥👹👺👿😈🔥🔥🔥🌋

3 months isn't long

early miscarriages happen so often,3 months is enough time to get over it, i speak from experience

@petrap1769 a pain that is with you forever honestly. It was 3 months of feeling like absolutely nothingness

​@@petrap1769Just because you "got over it" doesn't mean everyone else does. Learn compassion.

Exactly! I see this in myself now that my romantic history is in the rearview window. Emotionally unavailable parents, emotionally unavailable partners. It's what I picked in relationships, even though it was completely subconscious.

It is not about how she sees him. It is about how she sees herself. Not deserving of anything better

​@@yhiontop It's both.

I don't think it's about character. Some people don't know how to handle loss, grief and pain. Many men want to help but they feel powerless so they dismiss things. Forgive him! Jesus is near. In Proverbs it's says that the Lord is close to the brokenhearted & binds up their wounds.

@@danilaroche1156 for me it’s character! This guy asked 14 days after and also, an ectopic pregnancy is traumatic so she probably was in pain as well! To have the audacity to ask says all about your character that I need to know.

@@flashthecorgi2053 I hear you but as stated, alot of people don't know how to be empathetic or handle loss. We are human and we miss the mark, constantly. I mean, years ago..I had no character. After I turned my heart to Jesus..I changed. I just don't want this lady to be divorced.

@@danilaroche1156 I'm a man who dismisses a lot of things when I feel powerless. Treating your wife like this is a massive character flaw and it is evident. If the "lord" is close to the brokenhearted and binds their wounds, he's got a lot of explaining to do for parents watching their children die in the hospital

@@danilaroche1156did you finish the call? Bc it took a huge turn 😭😭

I'm sorry that happened to you

They do have kids. She doesn’t want to blow up the marriage and her life.

@@Foxie770This pos husband has already blown up the marriage… And she’s trying to hold on to him 🤢🤮

That’s a good man.

What a weird and illogical reaction from your husband

​@@lilithowlwhat?? He was on her side, what are you talking about?? He knew this person did a horrible thing by asking a dumb question to his wife

I answered in my mind… as okay someone calling you can be…

I was watching this while having my period, I was so emotional I wanted to cry the whole time, this poor woman

She should divorce him and get a husband, who cares about her.

​@@kareenodum1734 First she needs to learn to love herself.

@@kareenodum1734the grass isnt always greener

@@funicon3689 Yes, she should do inter work. The green grass will come to her and she will be able to water it.

He never cared about the relationship, he only wanted a body to fu**

Why do you say he's mentally ill?!

Hopefully it was painful. She deserved it. Another child spared.