I’m Not Curvy, I’m Fat: Olivia Campbell 

this girls hair is fabulous

her personality is a breath of sunshine

fat is not an insult, just a descriptive word. what an amazing message.

One time I was talking to this chick and, in the course of our conversation, I referred to myself as "fat." She said, "oh, honey, don't say that, you're beautiful!" to which I replied, "I didn't say I was ugly, I said I was fat." I've never seen a more explicit revelation of the hidden prejudices we have about size. I mean, talk about connotation, amiright? Hear "fat," think "ugly." Interesting, no?

When she cried I know what she means. I cry for my younger self and how lonely I was and how worthless I felt. I'm upset for that young girl not for myself. It's weird isnt it. 😔

Finally someone accepts that fat is NOT a bad word

"If I have relationship problems it's not because of my size, but because of my mind" made my day: the thing that I needed today

The fact that these random strangers had the audacity to tell a twelve year old girl that she was a "fat, ugly, b%*^h" is not only uncalled for but sickening! Then the racism that she had to internalize and deal with at the tender age of six until even now, makes my heart sorrowful. I read a lot of the reviews that people wrote but unfortunately they completely lacked substance. Also, I applaud any woman who realizes the detrimental backlash that could occur by exposing a child to numerous personal adult relationships. My aunt exposed every man she had ever dated to her 3 young daughters. Consequently, one of them ended up raping my cousins and since he was a cop no charges were filed. I am not saying cops are rapists, I am simply saying that as women we cannot expose every man that comes into our lives to our children.

I hate how everybody calls fat people curvy. There are fat curvy people and thin curvy people, is has to do with your breast/waist/hips/booty ratio, not with the amount of body mass. It is also bad, when fat people say, they are better than thin ones, because the thin people have no curves. Its bad to take other people down, ony that you feel better, no matter in which way.

I got called buffalo too when I was a girl. The boy never let me have a day off. He always made fun of my weight. Then when I went home as an adult I ran into the same guy and he was doing nothing but hitting on me. He seemed to not remember me from school. I didn't remind him and ignored him.

What a strong woman, she fucking slay it.

God damp she's attractive.

OMG this is tearing me up... She's so beautiful, inside and outside.

one of the most real, honest, and powerful women i've ever seen this was so so beautiful inside and out.

True that why the fuck do people have the need to tear each other down instead of building each other up??

i just wanna give her a big hug. what a beautiful person.

The more open people are, the more all of us can feel safe to share our vulnerabilities. In the end, it turns out the struggles are similar for all of us. Thanks for this channel.

when she described depression it gave me chills because it is extremely accurate

People can be cruel, and to a child...terrible. She is so beautiful. Excellent video.

I've always thought that childhood trauma causes one of two results; the victim either becomes abusive, angry, and toxic themselves, or they become extra empathetic, compassionate and perceptive. Ms. Campbell inhabits the second result beautifully. This was truly a pleasure to watch, and I myself consider the word "fat" to be completely judgement-neutral as well. It's just a descriptor; if it makes you gasp or cringe when I use it to describe myself, you are the one who holds a negative view of people who are larger. Thanks, Olivia. You are amazing.

In love with her personality. This is a brilliant series

You know what. I lived my later childhood and teen years (9-17), I thought, "I'll get down to this size, I'll look like all the other girls" however, it wasn't until I was like 18 or 19 that I realized... I'm 5'11'', broad shouldered/hips, as some people have said, "She's built like a tank." There ARE different bone structures. But that doesn't mean you can't be healthy or maintain a healthy weight for YOUR body type. I gain muscle super easily, so I lost 80 pounds and did that (not like...weird buff lady hahaha) and I still wasn't fully happy...........I lost 80 pounds, had great muscle definition, I could walk into any typical fashion store and wear anything I wanted--and I was still 30 pounds heavier than the average size woman. I was pretty much an athlete. 36 km bike rides a day, hours and hours of trail walking a week, hiking, sports, I had stamina people would kill for......but it wasn't until I accepted my body type that I stopped beating on myself for not looking exactly like the women in magazines. I can't tell you how often people would stop me in the street or at the mall and say, "Are you a model?" or ask to take a picture of me........but I wasn't happy with that--because I still picked on myself the way everyone picked on me when I was over weight. I'm not a small girl--but I can choose to be HEALTHY for my stature. Losing weight won't make me shorter, or my shoulders smaller. But, it will keep me healthy to be a healthy weight, and that's what I've learned to care about. If I need to run, I can. If I do a workout, I can, easily... This woman in this video is beautiful. But most importantly, it's her life. If she chooses to live her life any certain way--fuck off and don't judge her.

I cried when she cried, this is so pure

all the things this girl used to hate about herself I genuinely think is beautiful. She has beautiful african features and hair and she is fat, which is beautiful. people should stop using the word fat in a bad way.

She is so strong and inspiring, damn

She's so inspiring. What a beautiful woman.

I hate that people just go randomly to other people and comment about their appearance. like did someone asked about thier opinion?

The fact that she went through her childhood and came out stronger, shows how amazing she is and how amazing other people have the potential to be amazing

I'm so proud of her.

Its crazy. You have big boobs and you're confident? Let me just oogle from afar. But... you have big boobs and you're trying to hide? Let me take advantage of that for my own pleasure. Humans are crazy. So so so sad and so happy she shares her story.

love her she has such a powerful story. shame on those fools in her past.

When do you feel the most vulnerable? - When I'm in love.

"i'm happy with my madness" PERFECT final statement

She's had such a tough childhood but turned it around in the best, most inspiring way. So many women would crumble under pressures like those, and it's amazing to see women that are so strong that they can recover and flourish and become such amazing people.

That was... one of the most beautiful, heart wrenching videos I've watched on youtube in a long time. I didn't even mean to watch it all because I have to study but I just got sucked in. Truly beautiful xx

I love this woman she is so beautiful and Brave.

This series is saving lives probably right now.

This was very emotional. How much will and dedication and strength it must've took for her to change her narrative, embrace herself and be happy! Wow

she's so strong!!! lovely woman. soul inspiration

U brought very old tears on the surface again! I wish I saw this video 20 years ago!

"I get upset when I look back at that girl, because these people don't affect me now. But I cry for the years and years I spent thinking that I was worthless and useless." I relate to that so much. That feeling of separation from, and sadness for, your younger self... she said it up so well. Amazing, thank you Olivia.

She's so right about the quicksand/depression thing.

Nichole Arbor should watch this video

Holy shit, bullying in England is serious problem! This is just tragic!

Thank god someone finally said it fat is NOT and should not be used as an insult

Love how she is such a great mum despite a lifetime of challenge- strong woman, beautiful inside and out.

This was beautiful, sad, empowering and awesome!!! God bless her.

I wish I was as confident as she is, beautiful soul x

This is an amazing series!

You are SO BEAUTIFUL! Had me in tears...inspiring story!

omg she's sooooo beautiful!!!!

I'm in awe! She has guts to be this honest infront of so many people and possibly thousands more online, sharing such personal stories of a painful past. She is soo sooo BEAUUUTTIIIFULLL!! Inside and out. Like I adore everthing about her. Her courage, confidence, vulnerability, Hair , body, outfit...just wow! Thank you Olivia!!

Bless this smart woman

im so confused why this has so many dislikes, i was watching and waiting to see if anything bad happened. but nothing did, this is a really lovely video

Can we just talk about this woman's style! She looks amazing and I really love her voice!

I am glad she is brave enough to talk about depression. Most people don't believe you when you tell them you are depressed or that you been struggleing your whole life trying to be happy. Trying not to let depression beat you down. People don't understand. Even when everything in life is going good you still have that feeling of what's the point. Why won't it end. But you carry on and pretend.

Wow! What an amazing human being! She is beautiful

I really hate kids that have no respect for others. Parents of some of these kids clearly do not know how to handle them and just turn a blind eye or give in to their every whim, which only makes the matter worse.

This series is medecine for the soul🙌

gosh, I wish I had her mindset

I'm in love with this project. The way they share their deepest feelings is so touching!

I needed this today. You know how sometimes, when you're depressed, hearing other's stories gives you the strength to get out of bed? To stand? To rise above that sand? She is beautiful, inside and out.

Beautiful ... I teared up....not going to lie!

I cant stop cryin!! She is so brave!!!

This is the most amazing person I've ever come across.

Such a gorgeous woman, kids can be so mean.

So beautiful. That was a very powerful interview.

I am so happy I came across this channel!

SHE IS SO COOL! i love her spirit and your genuineness

What a STUNNING and STRONG woman.

Heart breaking how many of us feel this way and carry this low self worth because of society's value with the idea of a certain kind of beauty.

Beautifull strong lady !!! So proud of her. I can't imagine what's she's gone through!! Some people can be so mean. I guess bullies bully because of insecurity, jealousy, boredom or peer pressure. It's Nothing to do with the person they are bullying!

I'm glad I found this channel

Such a strong woman.

I just want to give her a hug. Words can't describe how empowering it makes me feel to hear her talk.

This has been recommended to be like, 50 times... but I'm not complaining!

I discovered these videos a few days ago and I've been hooked! They are amazing

You are an amazing woman, Olivia!

such a strong, cinfident awesome woman. so much respect

I love this. Keep these interviews up people need to see this, it's helping so many people!

This is beautiful

wow this women's courage and honesty is beautiful..i love her openness and vulnerability it's heartbreaking and inspiring at the same time... you go girl! xxx

This hit home for me in a big way. Thank you for sharing.

This video made me cry I really needed this it's so close to home xx Thank you xx

wow i cried so many times watching this. this is amazing, i wish i can give her a big hug!

This is one strong, fabulous women, I wish more people (including myself) could learn to love themselves more

This made me cry. Thank you for this video. It is great. She is great.

So Real, thank-you, much needed.

She radiates beauty from the inside out. I love her beautiful soul.

I'm so glad you guys make these videos.. I feel like they're NECESSARY

Just discovered this channel but I am blown away! Loving these videos! Thank you for sharing these stories 💜💜💜

That was so inspiring, just what I needed, thank you.

this really hits home, so much love for Olivia 💓💓💓

I hope this new generation of parents can teach their sons to respect women and to not objectify women, they need to be taught this from an incredibly young age

I've been waiting for this kind of video.

"I'm happy with my body, I'm happy with my madness". Honestly so beautiful, something I will put on my wall as a fellow fat woman who has struggled with depression.

I could listen to her talk all day!!! That was a great interview!!

You are very kind to share your story. Thank you. I can truly relate in every aspect, I'm older, but still can relate. God Bless you and your son through out your journey.💓💓

I've been a fan of her work for a LONG time. This was just brilliant! Love this tube!!!

there are some channels and videos that you come across on youtube that are true gems. this is one of them. peace & blessings to you sis and thanks for sharing your story.