I've watched this multiple times already, and I decided to watch it again tonight. It's 4 am, and my emotional self regrets this decision 😂 this is such a heartbreakingly beautiful story.
I saw this on Facebook last month and searched forever to find this video. This woman understands, in all painful clarity, the meaning behind, "If you love something, let it go.". My heart...
I saw this video two years ago too, and I searched forever to find it and after two years I finally typed the corrects words to find in RU-vid. I could not agree more with your comment. If you love something or someone let it go. 😥
This story is same as me..when I met my husband he was 29 and I was 45..just like her I have 2 grown kids and don't want any more kids..but my boyfriend say it's ok we love each other don't need kids..yes we got married in november 2022 Now matter how much we fight to be apart we can't fo that.. love is strong And I saw it on Facebook too and keep searching.. I want to see his picture
I cried so much after this. I went through exactly the same thing because I wanted to have Children. I understand her reasons to leave but how about the person who stayed? How about that guy? I loved that Woman with all my heart. She cut me out of her life, like I didn't exist anymore, left me completely out, no more contact anywhere. I wrote her in vain every single day, it's been over 4 years now. You know what's the saddest part? Is that she doesn't know I'm still waiting.
Sometimes it's better that way. You're future life goals will never be compatible. Being in contact will only hurt more, but I understand that it hurts like hell now as is. But don't chase it. There will only be stress and more pain and sadness trying to pull her back in when she's trying to pull herself out. Waiting for her to change her mind is foolish because she won't. You need to let go of that hopeful, selfish thinking. Heal your heart and move on. Let her be the one that got away and have the family you want with a woman who wants to live that life too. Maybe no one will ever compare to her, but it was never going to work out in the end. Let her be a memory so you can have new memories to make.
This was my first Moth Video about 2 months ago. I love this story! I keep coming back to watch and still choke up at the end even though I know how it ends! I can't believe I've never come across these stories until this very one. I can't stop watching them all. Thank you for sharing this beautiful, wonderful story! There is Book, Movie in this story!
My boyfriend of almost a year and a half broke up with me today and is moving across country he is 29, and I am 47. He is my everything. I've never loved like I love him.💔 He told me that regardless of our conversations about having kids, he can't stop thinking about having children of his own. He said it's nothing I have done that he loves me very much in every way and that I have a huge heart. I do love so hard! We had talked about adoption in the beginning, and it was an option, but has time goes by, he can't stop thinking about carrying on his name. There is no lack of love thats for sure, but sometimes love is just not enough.🥺 I have to let him go. I feel as if I'm dying inside. This pain is almost impossible to bear. I am madly in love with him. I guess the only gift I can give him is the freedom to follow his dreams that I can not make come true for him. I am broken and don't know how I can go on. 💔 He gave me no choice he put his 2 weeks in before he told me. He leaves in 13 days, and I'm dying inside. I can't understand why he would want to bring children into this world the way it's going, but that seems selfish to me.I have 3 adult daughters so I have no right to judge him for wanting his own kids. For me, I am sealing up my heart from here on out because I can't put myself out there again because I cannot endure this pain that I am going thru right now ever again. How is this going to be possible? How will I go on?! I'm going to go crawl into a hole now. This is one beautiful brave lady! ❤️
every so often I think of this story, and it makes my heart feel such a combination of emotions. it's such a real, pure story. this is what being human is. 😭
When I'm telling you that I have never heard anything more beautiful and that I cried so hard that I couldn't stop for 4 minutes straight, please believe me! This is the most beautiful thing I have ever heard!
I have a very similar history, my boyfriend is 16 Younger than me, I'm 49... I today we just decide to think more about the relationship, and give a break....unfortunatelly not because of love, but because he plans to have his own kids...I have my son already, but unfortunatelly my biological clock doenst help us anymore....So i wacthed this video and couldn't stop criyng 😢
I’ve seen this a few times but keep coming back to it because it’s so heart-breakingly beautiful. What woman doesn’t want that kind of love with a younger man? And then to have to let it go? What a romance! What a story! Someone said there should be a movie about this and I agree!
Mrsjacksonwang me too as I can relate to her in al aspects and made me realized how selfish i've been. I as well, cannot give him children and if we stay together i feel im robbing him from that opportunity. This is very hard
Jessica Portalatin I have never been in love so I don't know the feeling but I can't imagine Falling in love with someone and having to let go like she did, it sounds terrible and painful.
Brought tears to my eyes when I saw this on Facebook especially when she mentioned Toulouse because I know how absolutely beautiful that place is! - This is true love.
I have listened to a hundred Moth stories and this is the only one that brought tears to my eyes. This is true, selfless, love. We should all be so wise.
I saw this years ago and couldn’t stop thinking about it. I’ve been searching for this. As a person in her 40s who doesn’t want kids… it’s so powerful.
When I watched this for the first time few years ago, I couldn't stop crying. I've been watching this every now in then. Today I still cry watching this. So much love at a wrong time. She's such a great story teller.
When you love someone , sometimes due to the circumstances you have to let it go 😔❣️🥺🥺 .. #TrueLove .. I will never forget for so many reasons .... 😓❣️🥺
Karmela Amanda i married a man 14 years younger , we love each other . I can’t imagine not being with him . We were both married before , he has 3 kids and I have 2 . This is our second chance at true love 💕
DayOneNoob ... awe, if you really like each other , you will make it work . It’s hard to tell though because you’re so young and still have a lot to live . In this cases the age difference might matter , as the years and and experiences lived only come with age. Enjoy it for as long as it last . There’s no book to follow in this cases .just enjoy 😉
@@melliza122 in my case, he is 20 and im 29...we dont talk much about our age gap...but, when we do, he tries to talk me out of the feeling of im taking away his freedom and makes me understand that if we want to be together, we can make it work!!! * . *
Beautiful story and I imagine the author mom had a lot to do with the "fairy" tale :) However, I met a younger man -- we're only 7 years apart. I'd love to have a child with him and we want each other anyway. ❤❤
I have lived a love story similar to this for one and a half years and the pain of letting him go is unfanthomable. A part of my heart is frozen and it haunts me still.. no one can know the bliss I felt being in his light.. he knows I will always love him for everything that he is.. the good , the bad, the secrets..
Why did she feel the need to pick out a woman for him.. is that really fate/love.. It was sad to listen to her sadness but setting him free isn't choosing his path for him.
I wasn't sure on that either. I'm guessing she saw that as the only way to help him move on. I'm a pretty kind person but I don't know if I could do that. On the other hand sometimes the people who know a person are the best at picking a good life match.
I dont judge, she knows better what she felt... Its just...she didnt set him free/let him go...she forced him into that... Yeah, selfless love, yah...big heart....but, was it worthy??? I dont know really... * . *
I don't think she was trying to pick out a woman for him I think she was trying to help him along the way. But she let him go because he wanted to have children and that is the biggest gift of love.
They were always running back to each other. Maybe the only way for him to free himself was to fall in love with another woman. For what it's worth, the young lady could have just been a stepping stone on that path, but they hit it off well and had a kid. And maybe she wanted to make sure he had somewhere to go, instead of just ghosting him without a fallback.
Selfless...and beautiful. I have met many people who walked away from relationships as much as it hurt them..they did it... however, I have never heard of finding love for the person you love and then walking away :'( Even though she knew that their love could've survived it, she loved him enough to set him free ...
This story is same as me..when I met my husband he was 29 and I was 45..just like her I have 2 grown kids and don't want any more kids..but my boyfriend say it's ok we love each other don't need kids..yes we got married in november 2022 Now matter how much we fight to be apart we can't fo that.. love is strong
Emotional story...love,love n just love totally an undefinable feeling...some feelings doesn't have any name n nobody will understand what that feeling really is...
Hmmm. I am 48,my husband is 31 :) We met 6 years ago. He was a priest, I was a devorcee. I have 3 adult children. But- we love each other very much. So- we are together!!! We are family. We have two small children! I did it for him. I gave bitrh to children . And we are very happy❤️❤️❤️
I’ve seen this on fb multiple times and just randomly thought about it cause it became my favorite love story. I cry every time... That’s a very selfless woman. Why waste someone’s time when you know what you want at the end of the day. I love her and I pray she finds/found a beautiful love again!
This made me sob my heart out. My fiance is 20 years younger than me. He is Moroccan. We planned to marry In November or December. I had contemplated on allowing him a second wife if he wanted kids, its allowed in Morocco. He said he did. Yesterday I decided no I could not do this. I could not share him I love his so much. I could not lie in my bed knowing he was lying in the arms of a younger beautiful woman. I could not take away the chance for him to have kids. I have been silent all day and he hadnt noticed. I shared my fears with a group of friends and one of them just posted this video.
What a beautiful, respecful , inspiring story! Congratulations for sharing and its adorable to known there are amazing people like the two of you in this world yet
I seen this video one time, and I've been searching for it ever since. Seeing this again it Still stings. As a man who was on the opposite end of a similar situation... she was 15 yrs my senior and she was Everything. Different scenario though. This video hits everytime, she almost favors her and same nationally too. 😔 ❤️
i saw this years ago and it haunted me … now, i’m living a very similar circumstance and the heartbreak is unlike anything i have ever experienced … i try to remind myself “the last act of love is letting go” … it’s torturous, but i will, too
this is so beautiful 🥺💔 that’s what true love is.. even though he married and she moved on - she will always be his ultimate soulmate. maybe next lifetime will be kinder to them - but I’m sure in the spiritual world they will always be together 🙏😌
Annalie Hamilton I also would like to be able to use this as a monologue, her beautiful story just needs to be shared for the world to see a love in the purest and most selfless form 💕
Apart from all those sacrifices you made challenging your own heart. And when the third girl entered in between both of you..though you were happy for him. You slightly felt bad and you still do. I have been through this. I was 21 and he was 17...
I really love this one ,it means a lot to me . Many thanks for this beautiful story often I come back to listening .every time it means more than before really thank you for it😍😘💜💜🤩
Been there, done that. Well..fell in love with a much younger guy and had to break it off because he wanted kids. I certainly wasn't enlightened enough to actually find his future wife FOR him. Watching this hurt.
I'm just 18, and Im in love with a 24 year old girl. I've lied to her that I'm 20 amd she said that's not a problem. Tomorrow I will be confessing the truth to her, idk if she will accept me or dump me. I'm totally heartbroken and dead from the inside
@@lifetobelived9102 she said she loves me a lot but is worried about my age. She says I'm too young for her and is worried about what her parents might say. 😭😭 I'm just too much into her. Idk what would happen
@@pradeepb6428 I guess the age gap problem would depend on where in the world you lived. In the U.S. it is less of a problem for the most part but most men mature later than women so that can be a concern for a parent. On the flip side it makes more sense for a woman to marry just a bit younger because men die for the most part than men so a couple can be together longer if nothing unusual happens.
I think the same happened to me, but in reverse… he knows I (32) want children, but he is still 20… at the beginning I resented him, but after two months I feel this anger fading away… and I am happy he is enjoying university life as I did at his age. We can love some people only from a distance… and I realized it yesterday, when I saw him again. He is always happy to see me, lightens up like a Christmas tree, he gave up his food for me even if he didn’t tell me… I will cherish him forever.
hi. what was the other thing you saw from her? Ive been looking and have not seen anything else. Would appreciate it if you could tell me what you found. Thank you.
Now i cant stop thinking about a little fairy statue in the little girl's room, or maybe a painting on the wall of a fairy that her dad loves so much and now I've made myself cry
