I'm 24, Make $170,000, and Still Not Happy!

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@PInk77W1 2 года назад

I make $50k. I’m 61. I have no debt. I paid off my house. I’ve never done drugs I’m a high school drop out I travel the world. Life is good.

@luchadordecocina5106 2 года назад

No one cares...

@steveclark7957 2 года назад

Well done, sir. Life with no debt is the key.

@geo865833 2 года назад

@@luchadordecocina5106 shut up. Take your negativity somewhere else.

@jonathannavarro9048 2 года назад

@@luchadordecocina5106 i do

@adamseidel9780 2 года назад

Time to try a drug or two, live a little

@m2gautam 2 года назад

When there’s no struggle, there’s no satisfaction. He should probably start volunteering and donating to realize how to be grateful for what he has.

@Winnie-Kay 2 года назад

Yes! Volunter at a homeless shelter, a soup kitchen, or a boys club, just to name a few. And, not just donate as writing a check, donate by making it personal such as giving extra tips, or paying for someones vet bill. Also, having a hobby that will take him outside such as fishing or golf.

@undearwearman654 2 года назад

I feel like when u get rich, u lose purpose in life

@anthonyfaucy2761 2 года назад

Seems like his a narcissist to me. He is living a better life than majority off the population yet still not happy. If anything seems like his a psychopath as he says he "wants to make changes" i.e fire people and ruin their lives by being VP

@Hvspecter1 Год назад

Wow very wise words 👍

@fanesxx Год назад

I wish he could donate to my charity

@freedomring3022 2 года назад

Clearly what drives this young man is not money, it's having a fulfilling life.

@Just.The.Next.Step. 2 года назад

Maybe spiritual evolution?

@moisescarrillo6991 2 года назад

dudes clearly a hard worker

@aaaaii6511 2 года назад

Should have a kid

@rickhibdon11 2 года назад

He hasn't learned contentment. Money can never, EVER "fulfill". He should try going in a spiritual direction. Try donating and helping the world around him. Nothing is more fulfilling than helping others.

@randiaz95 2 года назад

Clearly living in california is expensive and you need to work alot to even have basics

@Gruuvin1 2 года назад

Making $170k in LA is like making $100k somewhere else. The cost of living in LA is almost twice as much as most other places.

@chuckyyes 2 года назад

he has the money to just simple move somewhere cheaper, unfortunately not many people have that privilege to just simply MOVE somewhere else, unlike him

@taylorsmith9629 2 года назад

@@chuckyyes if he moves he might not make $170 k a year elsewhere maybe it’s only with that company in that peticular city.

@genxtechguy 2 года назад

Yep, $170k is not rich in LA. It’s just semi comfortable living.

@will_rr1 2 года назад

Didn’t hear anything during his call if he had any kind of debt. Also after taxes he’s making about 105-115. Living in LA that’s just enough to be comfortable.

@MrBlakman1988 2 года назад

That was before remote work, now it's great that you could possibly take an LA salary to smaller and cheaper city

@mrcr125er 2 года назад

This is so so true for so many people. My brother and I have had this conversation multiple times. He lived in an expensive town in Colorado while I lived in Chattanooga TN making much less money. I loved my job and he hated his. I was so much happier than him. Money doesn’t buy happiness, although it does help.

@kagnewcobra5228 2 года назад

Money isn't everything but it's way ahead of whatever is in second!

@tabathia7633 2 года назад

It sure beats living on the street corner, but that is not happiness, either. My X H was never happy, either, but he wasn't making any money, either. Some, just aren't happy, so watch out for those people, that's where jealously comes to play,

@morm2173 2 года назад

And money doesn't necessarily buy good health either

@katherinesproat1081 2 года назад

Chattanooga, TN is a wonderful place. I love it

@Aggie4life77 2 года назад

I don’t think money is the problem, it’s the job that your brother didn’t like lol!

@dialac1 2 года назад

I know how this guy feels and it’s a horrible feeling. I think he just needs to find hobbies and take some times off

@youngswoll3 2 года назад

“Our hearts are restless until they rest in Thee” St Augustine

@sunnydaze1185 2 года назад

@@youngswoll3 everyone needs to read the book of Ecclesiastes.

@lilcajunqueen888 2 года назад

@@sunnydaze1185 ecclesiastics = real life timeless advice

@oliviaonairwinsteard9922 2 года назад

That and maybe a little more living to do. He's young and probably still discovering purpose

@nellybelly623 2 года назад

We all have a God sized hole that can’t be filled with anything but God. Until we realize this we will always be yearning for more.

@seanjean9677 2 года назад

You have the kind of personality that will never be satisfied. You enjoy the process of getting to a goal. When you get the goal, you need another goal because you enjoy the act of accomplishing something. It’s a thrill.

@mariabuzo7569 2 года назад

Wow so good

@adamg5108 3 месяца назад

People like him need to be told a enough is a enough and gain some prespective.

@jamess.2491 3 месяца назад

That’s the hallmark of a hyper-successful individual

@PInk77W1 2 года назад

“Lord my heart is restless and will not rest until it rests in You” St Augustine

@jakespianomusic 2 года назад

Exactly. Peace is "the tranquility of order." Man is never fully at peace without offering to God rightly ordered worship, through the means he established: the Catholic Church. Come Holy Ghost, fill the hearts of thy faithful and enkindle in them the fire of thy love. Send forth thy Spirit and they shall be created, and thou shalt renew the face of the Earth. Oh God, who instructest the hearts of the faithful by the light of the Holy Ghost, grant that in the same spirit, we may be truly wise and ever rejoice in his consolation, through the same Christ, Our Lord. Amen. Our Lady, Seat of Wisdom, pray for us.

@addyfilm 17 дней назад

@@jakespianomusicgotta move those catholic pedos around to save the kids

@BrokeMillionaire1 2 года назад

At this point in my life, I have no desire to manage other adults. So I’m setting myself to be in positions where I can best utilize my strengths through collaboration with others and not necessarily leading others. Being debt-free allows us to not worry about seeking job titles because of the money. That’s a great feeling.

@videostoviews2262 2 года назад

Very well said!

@luccianoblock5127 2 года назад

It's good because you know you can afford things "rich people can" but you don't because your smart and save/invest and make lots.

@Gruuvin1 2 года назад

It's important to know when to stop moving up the ladder of success. Don't go beyond your level of competence or enjoyment. An old saying: companies promote people to their level of incompetence. "Hey, he's good at what he does, so let's promote him" until eventually he's no longer that good and therefore doesn't get the next promotion. You need to know at what level to NOT accept another promotion.

@BrokeMillionaire1 2 года назад

@@Gruuvin1 wow, so much truth!

@oliviaonairwinsteard9922 2 года назад

I feel that! "I have no desire to manage other adults" agreed!

@thesongofthelord4830 Год назад

“Happiness is not a line to cross…” Thank you, Dave, for your wisdom and godly care for others. Those words touched deeply… 6:47

@daraghmorrissey 2 года назад

Yep, this is great advice. Take a breath and smell the coffee. Instead of chasing promos, lateral moves are also great to learn how other parts of the business work. I went through this myself, once I stopped chasing it, I was more content - but I actually worked better and ended up getting promotions.

@walkietalkie1973 2 года назад

Young guy he has a lot of life to live still. As he matures and seeks wisdom in his life he will come to the realization that life is like a subway, always stopping and going, on and off, but always having the realization that each stop and go is a stepping stone in his pathway of life 👍

@harrisonbailey9884 2 года назад

I found peace in Jesus. I'm praying for you, brother. This sounds like a bright sincere young guy.

@nahomesimeneh1640 Год назад

pray for me!

@grahamcarmichael6567 4 месяца назад

Has Jesus ever splooged in your mouth?

@Jamezar 4 месяца назад

🙄

@chipster3394 3 месяца назад

You found peace in nothing? Good for you lol.

@meddlin 2 года назад

I feel very similarly to this guy, and it's such an exhausting place to be. John's right, and Dave is breaking it down well. The key piece is to dive deep down inside your driving motivations, and like John said--stop for a bit. It's so hard to find someone you can talk this sort of problem through with, because most people think it can be solved with a flippant: try this company, take a vacation, "just be happy", or finding yet another hobby. No, this is driven by deep convictions to achieve...sometimes in seeking a sense of self-worth. Jobs don't answer that.

@jackcoleman5955 Год назад

I KNOW, right?? Every time I try to talk with an older man about being hurt, or needing direction, they dismiss me. “You’re making X, so stop whining.” “Just set goals and go.” etc.

@bertiekq Год назад

The questions and internal dilemma from this caller is very relatable, and Dave and John's response seemed spot on. Great segment.

@nessapalmer5316 2 года назад

This is so true. My ex husband had the same issue never satisfied. Then one day it was his marriage that wasn't enough. They are never happy in the moment and always searching for more. Devastating for us as our two girls are now in a separate parent home and he is still searching. 💔

@amandadean3948 2 года назад

I dated a guy like that. Nothing ever satisfied him, he eventually grew bored with everything. This was with every single area in his life. He had so much to be thankful for but still complained nonstop so I broke up with him because being with someone like that is mentally and emotionally exhausting.

@HOLDXSTEEL 2 года назад

Poor kids

@soonermagic24 2 года назад

I bet you collect that child support though

@MrMlbfan6 2 года назад

It was your time .people have to learn that people aren’t property

@qendresaful 2 года назад

@@soonermagic24 😂😂😂😭😭😭

@keithhendrickson8522 2 года назад

I've known people who made hundreds of thousands a year, had beautiful lives and mansions, yet hated their jobs. And I've also know people who had nothing and hated their jobs. The problem is not the job or where you are, it's deeper and closer to home than that.

@MrMlbfan6 2 года назад

There’s jobs that are trash

@biolife3274 2 года назад

I remember hearing John saying those same words when i was at a job i hated, drowning in anxiety and depression, and wanted to quit. And so i did quit. And he's right, all of that followed me, but it was different this time, the change in environment inspired me to change. The best decision i ever made was quitting. So many things changed that would have never happened had i stayed.

@han1218 Год назад

Sometimes you're in a toxic workspace and there are lessons to learn there, if you hang in there for a while until the "phase is complete". Then you're ready for the next phase. Leaving too early may rob you of some new skills which will be useful in life, but staying too long may also be a waste of energy. Perseverance is healthy and not persevering may become a pattern of quitting when the going gets tough.

@FloppedPizzaParty 2 года назад

This was the best one I've seen so far. Clearly an ambitious kid and great answers/advice. Great job Dave and John!

@Euphorica 3 месяца назад

Who is paying this kid 170k for supply chain work ? That makes no sense . At all

@jimk2988 2 месяца назад

If he doesn’t own the business I don’t believe it. 24 is 2 years out of college, no one pays that money to a greenhorn.

@johnpulawski35 Месяц назад

@@jimk2988 if youre good u could get it. see pay in high finance, tech, big law etc

@user-qn4rp8wh1h Месяц назад

People can Make millions working in supply chain. It’s just on the consulting side or software side, not actually working in the supply chain.

@pureluckscratchers7384 Месяц назад

you Must not live in California Los Angeles mostly a lot of jobs out here pays 100,000 so 170,000 is not a ton of money out here in California. The taxes out here in California is the most in the world that's why we get paid so much he probably takes home 110,000 have to pay almost half of it back.

@Euphorica Месяц назад

@@pureluckscratchers7384 'most in the world' ..... Not.even.close. You should do some more research. California may have high taxes compared to other states but its still nothing compared to a huge list of other countries. I'm also fully aware of salaries , so unless this kid is a software engineer in 'supply chain ' ....no one is paying this kid that much money for traditional supply chain work especially with that low of experience. Just isn't happening.

@amandadean3948 2 года назад

Unfortunately, never being satisfied is part of the human condition I believe. Learning to be content is the key because there’s always more money to be made, a better job, a hotter wife/husband to marry, more cars, bigger trips, etc…

@johnlewis8934 2 года назад

Nope that’s a lie from the devil. When you truly learn and are happy where you are at because you created peace there with yourself and God when things come around that bless you then you will find satisfaction there too. That’s what Dave Ramsey was explaining here. We can be satisfied when we stop chasing the ghost of thinking we need more when all we need is already with us

@dyancelne 2 года назад

@@johnlewis8934 Amen John :)

@ana10g 2 года назад

one of the best calls in a long time. and great advice too!

@patrickclark4456 Год назад

Powerful. 28 and did not realize this is the lesson I am currently working through. Thank you for the realization.

@RustyJudgment 2 года назад

This was a fantastic conversation that more people need to hear!!

@gabyszabo9615 2 года назад

All this advice was super-helpful and thought-provoking. Thank u!

@Kevin_Zed 2 года назад

Dude this message is what I needed to hear.

@MrPrentissDJones 2 года назад

8:07 Mind blown 🤯 , I needed to hear that! “Don’t look for healing in movement, it’s not there.” - Dave Ramsey

@JoeyNYSDnomad 2 года назад

The main point of having money is to not worry about having money. The peace of mind is priceless. That being said friends, hobbies, relationships and interests make you content.

@tiffanya4556 2 года назад

He's equating his happiness to his income level and money. Not degrading him but to me it sounds like that. Maybe it's from his upbringing, personal life or people he associates with?

@wadeharris348 2 года назад

Yea that's how I currently am. I'm trying to fix this mindset.

@soogasooga 2 года назад

Yea, I would bet that his friend circle is full of CEOs, directors, etc. all making 2x, 3x, 4x+ what he's making, and he feels like he has to keep up with the Joneses.

@wadeharris348 2 года назад

@@soogasooga Yea that's too much. I grew up poor so there were no Jones's around lol.

@Tunechi65 2 года назад

@@soogasooga it's tough because they say surround yourself with successful people so u also are..my mom always said "show me your friends and I'll tell you who you are" .. this guy has unfortunately been surrounded by success so now that's all he wants.. too much of everything is bad. Need a balance of it all.. Mental health is the most important thing.

@Jay-om8gr 2 года назад

That’s how the culture values men

@Aggie4life77 2 года назад

The thing is that he is only 24. Most 24 year olds are hungry and trying hard to climb the corporate ladder. He’s already gained a salary that most will never see. His instincts is to keep climbing due to his age and probably lack of responsibilities. He also could be a bit of a workaholic. Hard to tell now, but he will find out when he gets older and have a family.

@Hello-iz9hl Год назад

Man I wish I could make that much money I would be so happy

@user-zu6fe9nk6u Год назад

170k? That's not enough money to live off of. With gas prices and car prices and parts increasing?

@Hello-iz9hl Год назад

@@user-zu6fe9nk6u that's not bad for a single person

@Hello-iz9hl Год назад

@@user-zu6fe9nk6u if it's a family of three or more that's a different story but for one person that's not bad at all

@Ink30 Год назад

He's just ambitious nothing wrong with that

@bychrxss8617 2 года назад

He needs to find his own peace this dude sounds hurt and is using these job roles and ambitions to move that fast to fill a void that he may or may not be aware of. Best of luck to him

@victoriab.6601 2 года назад

this was a really interesting call .. I think it should be about wanting more responsibility because money itself doesnt satisfy ambition

@jameserickson5372 2 года назад

Money doesn’t buy happiness, it can just make it easier to be happy. He needs to worry less about position and focus more on life outside of the company. Donate. Do some volunteering. Travel. Do what interests you or helps other people.

@le5314 2 года назад

Amen James

@KryptosChain 2 года назад

100% amen James !

@EarlyBirdCraft 2 года назад

Money does buy happiness. It’s up to the individuals whether or not they’re happy with it. If you’re an internally unhappy and miserable person nothing can make you happy. Many ultra rich people commit suicide.

@TDBurrow 2 года назад

It bought me happiness

@glory2god4infinity63 2 года назад

Sheeit it would make me happy

@peerguy 2 года назад

Kudos, amazing advice. This is the kind of unsolicited advice youngsters need

@Fgp4991 4 месяца назад

John knocked it out of the park on this one. Really motivated me to look into more of his work, what an amazing advice he gave to this guy.

@NavySealTactic98 Месяц назад

TLDR: Finding fulfillment in work will not come unless you feel fulfilled with where you’re at now

@RicardoFinnigan 2 года назад

This is a great clip, I would like to see more like these: unpacking life and money together

@blueboat9581 2 года назад

Six figures doesn't buy happiness. When you realize there's more to life, that's when maturity starts.

@ginoturano6821 2 года назад

It buys you misery

@blueboat9581 2 года назад

@@ginoturano6821 it can, depends on how you handle it

@97I30T 2 года назад

I would absolutely love to make six figures, but I also have to consider what lengths I would be willing to go to in order to earn that much. If making six figures means hating my job and hating my life in general, then I'm not willing to go those lengths to earn that much. I could easily earn more money if I wanted to, but I really like my job and I don't think I'm willing to give it up for more money and a job that I'll probably like a lot less.

@JL-cw9sm 2 года назад

Incredible piece. I was him not too long ago and when finally stayed put in grew in more ways than I ever imagined. Powerful piece.

@chuck197 Год назад

Love the advice. Gotta work on yourself first in order for everything to work for you! That is true happiness!! Incredible, Fantastic gentlemen!!

@mr.financial 2 года назад

I think it is universally acknowledged that money isn't everything. People are what make life. Money is just a necessary tool in this life to enjoy time with the people we love.

@luccianoblock5127 2 года назад

It depends if you need money or trying to get out of debt then money is very helpful but for example you need 60k to live good and happy but want a 70k Job and live misrable do what suits you the best and not for money

@collinblackwell3259 2 года назад

John is by far the best Ramsey personality that isn’t Dave

@zoukchata 2 года назад

I'd rather listen to John

@kavikaa9192 3 месяца назад

Thanks for what your team does Dave! Thank you for sharing your gifts with the world

@titus4792 2 года назад

“Happiness is not a line to cross…” Dave spittin truth bombs

@DailyMeditation365 2 года назад

I went into Healthcare for this reason. I always thought I could do more with my life at almost 30, so I decided to become a doctor. A decade later, I have a ton of job satisfaction, and ultimately happiness. I'm not rich, but I don't have to be. I care about my time, my freedom, relationships, and opportunities to continue to learn.

@getchertified 3 месяца назад

This is so interesting... Do you mean you studied medicine at almost 30? Then you became a doctor 30+? Amazing! Hope you could share more...

@carson911 Год назад

Great to hear people like this with that much drive at that age. That is inspiring to all of us. I'm 30 and that really just inspired me to do better.

@NicolasMoy Год назад

This one spoke to me. Thanks for taking time to answer this question.

@jackcoleman5955 Год назад

Great great wisdom from Dave n John here. Don’t seek value from work role. Slow down, face what you’re running from. Then, ambition and drive find their place/limit, and you work from a core of pease, not a hurting hole. I needed to hear this, too.

@TitoMolina604 2 года назад

Such good advice, great job guys. God bless.

@Midoricakes143 2 года назад

“Beware of destination addiction, a preoccupation with the idea that happiness is in the next place, the next job, and with the next partner. Until you give up the idea that happiness is somewhere else, it will never be where you are.” - Robert Holden

@cocomarineblu993 2 года назад

This is my issue.

@Midoricakes143 2 года назад

@@cocomarineblu993 I think everyone struggles with this. What I find helps is defining what “enough” means to you. If your glass is bottomless you will always fill it with more but if you are limited you will choose more wisely.

@justinh8055 2 года назад

This is all around great advice. I found all of this in every aspect of my careers. I had a similar path.

@johnyhernandez3876 4 месяца назад

This one is the best Dave Ramsey clip I’ve heard. Great advice.

@ANGELCRYPT0 2 года назад

It's hard to be happy when you are surrounded by many that want to tear you down.

@kagnewcobra5228 2 года назад

These boys nailed this!

@Jamesaepp Год назад

I love this call. Just three men chatting about what's important.

@davidreeder1259 2 года назад

Sound advise. Words of wisdom I needed to hear, too.

@2boxergirls9604 2 года назад

"Don't look for healing in movement." Good advice that applies to jobs as well as other areas in life.

@highentropy2468 2 года назад

Money is not everything. Time is all we have. Spend your time focusing on making long lasting friendships. Remain close with your siblings and parents/wider family. Money comes and goes. Those you are closest to, do not.

@fotismichael1877 2 года назад

"Happiness is not a line to cross." What a terrific line & visual.

@TheHoriginal 2 года назад

Ya food for thought 💭

@ericonca Год назад

This was a wonderful segment. So important to understand what John and Dave are saying here.

@Rachel-zc8ur 2 года назад

A job, a spouse, nor a lavish lifestyle can fill a God sized hole in your heart. This is what lead me to Jesus. Went to church and heard about Him as a kid, but I learned who He was when I spent the first 30 years of my life chasing everything else and never found true peace. Hope this caller finds God, it's the only thing that will give true peace.

@ezequielrojas2828 Год назад

Just write a poem already🤦🏽‍♂️

@Excalibur2 Год назад

Doesn't really sound healthy. You can't love God, or anyone else if you don't love yourself first.

@devineyourlight Год назад

Amen 😊

@wolfalpha2862 2 года назад

Fantastic video!

@maxcohn3228 4 месяца назад

This is solid advice. I also had this growth mindset, but way to speedy. A lot of the most powerful lessons aren't directly learned, but more so absorbed by osmosis over time. Nothing wrong with taking your time before progressing in your career.

@DoWorkExotics Год назад

Fantastic message. Keep pushing but enjoy the ride and find a balance.

@jimroscovius 2 года назад

What's the problem? Just go with the flow and keep the income coming in. Don't worry about being a VP.

@ginah.864 2 года назад

Who told him having that salary would make him happy?! Someone misled him. Celebrities who make millions commit suicide as money does not and never will make you complete or happy. It does however IMO add security to your life and you can bless others.

@StoneAgeWarfare 2 года назад

Truthfully, the cultural messaging at all angles is that more money means more satisfaction. In reality, many people, are satisfied with being with where they're at. The chase for "more" only ends making one feel even emptier. It's a depressing cycle that has no definite conclusion.

@ginah.864 2 года назад

@@StoneAgeWarfare Very well stated! 👏

@MrBacon-ou1kw 5 месяцев назад

To be fair, most celebrities are nut cases so it’s hard to judge off that. There’s a reason they’re famous in the first place

@claubit32 2 года назад

Dr. John, your advice was great!

@yourmarketingbuddy20 2 месяца назад

The guy is too young to understand that a job title and money won't make him happy 100%, I had the same problem with my first 10 years of adulthood and realized that 14 years later.

@zyzzuschrist3410 2 года назад

Happiness comes from within. Gotta enjoy the present tense

@happylistener4628 2 года назад

Yes. Exactly. Happiness is innate. External events and people are just icing on the cake. As a debt free and stress free retiree, I’m grateful for all my blessings. No more commuting to and from work in horrid, time consuming traffic. Not to mention owning a Toyota Prius Hybrid. Saving myself a ton of money on fuel consumption and expense. Saving money while sharing home cooked meals and connecting with my family and friends; enjoying delicious food with good company just can’t be beat. It’s a comfort having the cash to buy what I need when I need it. Retirement is good. Stay safe and God bless.

@kagnewcobra5228 2 года назад

True happiness comes from what we enjoy not what we have or how much money we make

@nickm4662 2 года назад

“Oh do you want to talk Dave?” 😂😂

@TheHoriginal 2 года назад

@ Nick yep first time I’ve seen Dave let the person speak! Epic 😆

@FranciscoFlores-pc2dd Год назад

One of the best videos on this channel.

@brucefredrickson9677 Год назад

He's still very young and trying to figure it out...he will get maturity and settle into his values. No need to worry too much about this young man.

@Jo-vu1me 2 года назад

And here I am battling with the exact opposite 😂 I don’t want to promote in my department because I’m content in my current position, Those above me seem miserable, and I could really care less about stressing more on work. I have enough to worry about outside of work. Is this wrong?

@EarlyBirdCraft 2 года назад

No, not wrong at all. I got promoted at 23, that’s a year after in a company. They promoted me out of desperation and lack of other candidates. I was miserable. I had to switch companies so I can be back to a normal (non management position) for some years to be content with every aspect in my life.

@glowiever 2 года назад

a colleague of mine bribed the hr to delist his name from the pool of promotions lol. he made more because of commisions, and promotion could possibly reduce his income and flexibility

@andrewsmith8715 2 года назад

I've seen managers above me come and go. The extra pay isn't worth the stress and eventually getting fired.

@mdel310 2 года назад

I'm in the same boat as you, my management is grooming me to become the lead for my shop when the current person retires. I think they gonna be disappointed when I say no thanks 😅 I see how stressed out he is all the time from having to fix everyones problems and he gets none of his own work done as a result, why would I willingly put myself in that situation?? No thanks

@robj577 2 года назад

Same , I want to stay in my current position for a while, finally realized that I make enough and want to do things outside of work that satisfy me. I did however just become debt free except my house so that helps

@Babugee9 2 года назад

3:48 - LOL that was my initial thought 🤣

@raqlionchaser 4 месяца назад

"Don't look for healing in movement - it's not there." - powerful line

@Vencarter 4 месяца назад

So much great advice (lack of a better word: wisdom) from Dave in his short turn to reply.

@Billyrex500 2 года назад

This is probably the best advice I have heard John offer in a while! Good content

@kingambler8950 2 года назад

John usually gives really odd advice, like telling someone how they feel

@truegrizzlesfan2292 2 года назад

Making 170k in California is equivalent to 60k in Texas.

@evelynherrera-gonzalez1474 2 года назад

Spot on 🤣

@UnixBro 2 года назад

Not true. More like 90-100K in Texas.

@mando2.049 2 года назад

????

@rg7315 2 года назад

Nope. As one who lives in CA and works in HR, he’s doing very well! And I don’t see that salary in fulfillment and logistics often. Agree he needs to be content with where he is, especially if he hasn’t been in that role for very long. AND most people who leave a job like that, will find other reasons to not be content with their next job or company. He sounds young. When it’s time to make a transition, it will come naturally.

@PInk77W1 2 года назад

I spent my whole life in calif. border line homeless. Moved to Texas 4yrs ago. Now I feel rich.

@anikevin Год назад

I've been in a similar situation and I can say that it can even be detrimental to your physical health. I've been working on changing myself slowly and stop focusing on the goal and start appreciating the process instead. Mental health > Money.

@enginaliosman4491 4 месяца назад

What a beautiful message, Dr.John Delony

@untouchable360x 2 года назад

BS call.

@UnknownUser-fg3fs 4 месяца назад

This kid is 24 and probably grew up in a rich household. 170K at that age is crazy. Some people are just greedy.

@webguy943 4 месяца назад

Father prolly owns the company

@sarahescobar4828 Год назад

Amazing advice and so applicable to many.

@countessstevens63 4 месяца назад

“Don’t look for healing in movement” This was a GREAT clip! Amazing advice

@alladreamwedreamed 2 года назад

He speaks like a future philanthropist. Son, put in some years of work, build your estate, and you can do so much in your future like start a foundation or grand endowments to a school....like Dave says, live like no one else now, so *later* you can live and give like no one else.

@cocomarineblu993 2 года назад

Not in Los Angeles

@redbunnyclassic 2 года назад

No good sensible words come after the phrase "I feel like..."

@PanamaWoods 3 месяца назад

Incorrect

@JMKrech 4 месяца назад

Good advice Dave and John!

@repboy1 2 года назад

So true as soon as I got promoted I thought I’ll be content but wanted more and then got more than wanted more

@privacyplease1556 2 года назад

“Fulfillment and logistics in e-commerce.” He is a dropshipper lol he’s not working in supply chain.

@MBihon2000 Год назад

$170k income is like a family doctor's income! Still not happy? There is something wrong with him.

@MrBacon-ou1kw 5 месяцев назад

That mindset is the reason he makes 170k.

@whifling Год назад

Wow. "Don't look for healing in movement." This whole clip was really, really good.

@MsAdsdf 4 месяца назад

Dot look for healing in movement! I needed to hear this one, thanks Dave!

@CrappyProducts 2 года назад

Why want to be a VP? The kid clearly is missing the point. VP is just a job title. If he really knew what he wanted he would say: I want to be a VP because this would mean that I would have a bigger impact on my decisions and would achieve greater things and do better for the world

@safye4 2 года назад

Sounds like he was just having trouble actually putting his feelings into words.

@glowiever 2 года назад

probably watched american psycho and wanted in on it. they were all vps in that movie lol

@ProtoMaxoid 2 года назад

I needed this. I may not make as much as him, but I'm always chasing the next certification/degree for 'happiness'.

@Tunechi65 2 года назад

So difficult to always want to be greater. I'm that way too. I've made my goals of being an aero engineer and now 6figure salary. I'm afraid I'll never be satisfied since I always have a next goal I'll obsess over

@CarpalMute 2 года назад

Man, this resonated with me. I am in a similar boat as the caller.

@jomontanee Год назад

This young man’s manner is so gentlemanly.❤

@djpuplex 2 года назад

Happiness is fleeting.

@adamsaldana5462 2 года назад

I love the humble brags I hear on this show. Im glad he isnt happy, its never enough for people. Life isn't about being happy all the time. Its baffling that he can get to this point without understanding that.

@maryeverling8238 2 года назад

Dude he is only 24….

@MattyVice 2 года назад

I dont think its a humble brag. I think hes just being genuine

@bbtank3000 2 года назад

When I was in my 20s, it wasn’t about the money. Now in my 30s, and it’s all about the money. Perspective changes a lot as you accrue more responsibilities and bills.

@jml9550 2 года назад

@@maryeverling8238 yep. He may have just graduated not long ago and still learning about life in general. I was 24 once as a young grat and life was just too busy to think about happiness. :)