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What did you think you were accomplishing when you made that video?

I would love to hear a radical empathy podcast with this man as I keep having a hard time understanding him.

Would it be rude to ask a Feminist, “Who hurt you?”

You guys should release all the footage you have. I'm interested to see what else was said.

All the woman who didn’t like his point of view

@@vieiradaniele4405 Not only women tho. 😂

he should of just asked her first

@@vieiradaniele4405 if you don't see the problem with the whole "control them lovingly" thing, you probably have some problems with your worldview, no normal person would look at that and think that's an OK view of how things should be

@@CuriousWanderer_ exactly

Actually same tho

Me too

Me too, just like the term ‘queer’

It means involuntarily celibate

Man, it's insane how you all are obsessed with incels and know nothing about them.

Literally. Like are we supposed to feel bad for him 🙄

@@Stella3014 then how do we solve it? By pushing them under the societal rug until they end up taking someone's innocent life???

Cake Cake Cake have you ever felt lonely in your miserable life?

You're really in touch with the memes. Did you learn this from twitter?

Cake Cake Cake so are we supposed to penalize him for being who he is?

People just freak out when they hear women and children used in conjunction lol, I think he just meant however one treats a group that you love/don’t want to see being misguided cause the they don’t really have the capacity to consider that for themselves

⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠@@att2075we freak put because women and children are grouped together and compared so much in society its genuinely concerning. We are praised when we have child-like characteristics, as grown women. And proven in your statement about misguidance, we are treated as though we don’t have the capacity for rational thought quite often. It’s exhausting.

⁠@@att2075women dont like being treated as if we have the life experience of a child. we are not as easily misguided nor should we be treated as such. we have the capacity to think for ourselves, opposite to the implication of your comment

@@att2075 you literally just stated why people freak out when women and children are grouped together - "they don’t really have the capacity to consider that for themselves". women will understandably not like it and get rightfully upset when they are consistently told that they don't have the capacity for rational thought or the ability to make their own decisions. it's infuriating to hear especially when there's zero concrete evidence of this being true.

​@@celestial260truth bitters

I mean it's easy to find with a quick google search. It's impossible to remember the source of every study you come across.

@@kat2282 i think he knew he was going to get casted in this video, he could have memorised a few of his sources

Okay L

Omg i love Ryuzaki 🥺

Steve Lauria Did they make the same study on men?

🤣🤣🤣

On God 💀💀💀

this the sound clip for the negative xp song lmao

you’re all mean. That’s why he has problems.

@@louvretreekay12_ cry about it

I mean, not that funny considering he actually was hurt as a child

Imagine a man saying that to an old single bitter woman. It would be misogyny.

Obama Bruh I didn’t mean it to be that funny. But there are healthier ways to cope with that. Both in this video and another video he was in, he was comparing women to children

Box Man Box Man I mean, I’ve asked old single bitter women sometimes “who hurt them?” Because they said some stuff that was really out of line. There are healthy ways to cope with a person’s past. And being rude and obnoxious 24/7 isn’t one of them

Sune Svett Yet you literally said “that sent me” he does need help, but people laughing at him and making fun of his appearance aren’t helping him.

“Pick up a useful skill, learn a trade, learn a language, improve your body, and take care of yourself as you’ll be more put together in the long run” That was the advice I’d give myself at that age even if it wasn’t that long ago

And as long as you continue to work on yourself, and you keep that mindset and don't allow extremist ideologies take over you, I have no doubt that one day you will find a woman who sees your efforts and will love you for you.

You'll just be lying to yourself then.

@@Recluse616 No matter what I'm never going to associate myself with the incel community. They tend to have a negative outlook on life and women, and I don't want any of that negativity in my life.

I would also want you to know that what you are stating is something very common. There is plenty of people who are 17 and never had a boyfriend or girlfriend. I actually know lots of people (both guys and girls) who are older than that and never been in a relationship. I don't know you, but I would never consider someone an incel based in such situation. It's normal and you still have a long life ahead, just take your time

The Awesome M ya that was kinda rude to just open a question like that.

Fluffy Tail I thought it was really funny, but probably not the best way to ask questions and figure out why he is the way he is

The Awesome M it would’ve been funny to me but her tone was really condescending.

Someone Special that doesn’t make sense. You can’t say someone is right from a question, you need the answer. That’s like “what’s your favorite color?” And then you say “well your not wrong” makes no sense

Someone Special how can a question be wrong?

@Ethan Slicer no thats literally what he said lol

@Ethan Slicer How is that wrong

@Luís Andrade then he says I don't think a woman should be able to make those decisions for themselves and without woman, we are left with men meaning we have to put our privilege, trust, rights in a man and that is submitting

nope

He's insecure

Love that.

nice, you quoted the video, awesome :)

i n t e n s e

Yes BRO , we live in a society . Stop playin!!

I think this says it all🤦🏾‍♂️

Looks is the determining factor for your dating life and that is simply true there is no way around it ugly means you are going to have a rough time in the dating market stop blaming personality for it

@@anass4109 it's always both looks and personality, not one or the other.

It's looks, personality, and social status

@Baldo Sometimes, and then other times I don't. But I try to be aware of when I feel small and feel tempted to take it out on others, so that I can stop myself. That way even though I feel small, I don't act small (most of the time). :)

@@woutertron women judge you based off looks

My favourite comment so far.

So true.

“I’m so mad, and so sad - I’m smad!” - Sookie St James

For me it’s more like pity.

He makes me proud

I dont think hes thought about this very much himself, and formed his own sort of mentality on the subject. These things he says seems like talking points you'd find online. Hes just repeating what he's heard, not what he's come to terms with in his own mind.

yo, he also said to one of the girls to be kind and make friends with them or whatever (when she asked of ways to support and help) and... in another video went on to say that men and women cannot be friends? like wtf??

@@thesleepydragon9780 same, I was so confused by that statement

Talk about some contradictions there

@@silversalmon9909 this, for sure. No doubt he romanticizes older eras when he wasn't even born, thinking of loving mothers who stay home all day baking cookies, doting on their men, and of course being sexually available at his every whim. Everyone wants to be the main character with the rest of life existing as the backdrop to our own personal story, blah blah blah.

Majin Gojira lol

IM SCREAMING AHAHA

@Feminism Is Toxic Femininity so illogical ,unscientific . you must be another incel.

Feminism Is Toxic Femininity while the guy in the video did not say much on looks (Could be wrong but don’t remember it). He did say he wanted men to be able to control women.

Feminism Is Toxic Femininity what ways do women control men?

that and basic hygiene and self care

this confused me too

I agree. Hes really misguided

i believe you can see him doubting his on words as hes speaking, but he is in denial. this video seriously made me sad, especially when he straight up said they just need help and loving support. its even sadder when you know they dig their own graves and praise each other for that just to feel like they belong somewhere

Well that's because he believes what he says. I fully disagree with him and think the incel community is dangerous, but he certainly believes what he says.

I think it's important to realize that the people you disagree with politically usually believe what they say, especially regular citizens. Maybe less so if they're getting paid to have a certain opinion. But I think generally, people are not going around deliberately doing bad things, like in a video game or a superhero movie. They think they're being reasonable and doing the right thing.

none of the incels would like to be exposed lmao thats why it doesnt happen

Its not just straight incels tho.. I met a gay incel the other day on discord and he was sooooo toxic

Y E S, destroy them incels.

Or better yet - incels and feminists

You can't find middle ground with irrational people. Stop trying. The fact that Jubilee has such a platform and doesn't realize that doing mainstreaming for fascists is an atrocious idea is mindbending to me.

honestly he was so back and forth on his beliefs. Especially when he said he wouldnt support a woman higher than him but has high standards for a woman but also they should do everything for him? what??

Well... I would argue his reasoning is actually in line with most mens, being in a woman's friendzone rarely leads to romantic realtionships, many men have been relegated to this area after being rejected. Women value connection and security so it makes sense they would value friendship as a stepping stone, which is why I think you are projecting somewhat (I could be wrong) in my opinion men value sex more than friendship w/ women..

@@kiklulu5149 He tries to restrain himself from saying what he truly thinks because it's way wilder than he let's on.

Your life partner should BE your best friend. I think if he were ever with a woman, his outlook would change dramatically.

@@kyecarlin7089 true dat

An incel is an involutary celibate, that's literally all there is to it

Pretty sure he was into ladies that looked like supermodels

Incels aren't an ideology lmfao don't ask people to define it correctly when you yourself can't do it

@@Chud-mb7gl Well that’s because they’re probably not an uncle themself 😂 also it’s a subculture mostly on the internet but they do share some kind of idea which is an ideology

@@Chud-mb7gl*incel

Wiser words have never been spoken

your username makes this all complete

I searched up the meaning of that meme jus to find out it was a joker reference lol. I thought it was from a feminist.

Hahaha funny

get a load of this society

I am a proud incel

@@blvckemo_ ew.

@@blvckemo_ Ew

i don't think he was he said "i don't want to be an incel"

@@blvckemo_ what zero 🐱 does to a male

I think thats why he laughed

WinterWonderland joker lookin ass lmAo

these kind of people wanna ruin the joker now

WinterWonderland how many women find a lack of confidence attractive? They just need to man up and behave like normal people.

@@arvidtonning6348 who behaves like normal people and who cares about how normal people behave?

Lmao he changed, his not an incel anymore but he still supports the community

@@---------c5741 this mean he got laid? Lol

He says his reason for participating was to shed a more positive light on the incel community. He wasn’t there to have his opinion changed.

I agree it was brave of him. I also don't see anything this guy said as wrong. I really don't get the hate for him in the comments. He just seems like a normal everyday guy who wants to be in a relationship.

@@mary7256 female folks hating him bcz he has a different opinion

LMAOOO

LMBOOO

What’s so funny?

@@imperatorscotorum6334 Its fun because it's true

@@imperatorscotorum6334 nah we're not laughing, we're just typing laughing reactions while having blank face irl.

When you add lovingly it’s just so toxic

Frr.... like why should men control women

not only that, she asked about other minorities too, and he straight up said they weren't opressed

@@1litreluna423 what other minorities are oppressed?

@@cheems4699 are you for real? people of color, LGBTQ people, Muslims (in many non Muslim countries), neurodivergent people, I could go on

@SIDDIQUE INTESAR No I think it’s could

@Florian but that still doesn't mean it's alright to hate almost half the population just bc of a few negative experiences 🤦🏾‍♀️

That, and "do you have a female figure in your life?" Are the key to all of it

@Florian That's true ngl. But that doesn't excuse anything. I've been hurt by women too and I am one, so what's your point?

@1:35 that question was asked and he got nervous and laughed it off

?

@@wisenotwise2676she meant on 2:50 not 2:30

@@KlaudiaShaefferr yes my bad sorry

risada de deboche é argumento de puta

I didn't even notice it when I watched because I was focused on words being said. Did she come there to get opinion or to laugh at him. Women don't seem to understand that such actions will probably increase the hatred that some of them might have towards women. Can you give an opinion on that?

and that’s on period. Btw I love your vids 💜

Ayy didn’t think I’d see you here 😂

lmaooo thanks aualhsisksbkl

Omg is that you.🤨

@@drunkonbananasmilk1497 and thats on period?

I guess he meant do this episode. Not sign up to be an incel.

Abdullah Habib astagfirallah

@Abdullah Habib well that was unnecessary

He wanted to sit here and be questioned, just like the Joker did in the movie. This guy wanted to get his message out.

You copied what they said in the video we all just watched. Brilliant. You deserve a like for this great comment!

*soyciety

"Who hurt you?" The underlying assumption in saying that is, all healthy and correct opinions are those that conform to my standard and yours are invalid because they pose a threat to my own. It's spiteful, immature and it's a belittling tactic used to derail and delegitimize any further argument from the other person. Awful talking point IMO.

@Hi, Nice To Meet You what do you mean by "normal person"?

@Hi, Nice To Meet You You're the one asking me to communicate like a normal person. I'm asking you what you what you think is wrong with how I type online.

@Hi, Nice To Meet You so how would you prefer me to communicate while I'm online? In memes saying things like cringe normie? Text shorthand lyk dis? It just seems like an arbitrary standard plucked out of thin air as an excuse because you disagreed with my earlier comment. I honestly don't get it.

over for einsteincels

i know many sub5s w/ girlfriends and extremely handsome men who are hated because of their personalities. the halo effect is real but up to a certain point its just ur fault if u are a disgusting person.

😔🥀⛓️ so sad. Sigma NPC soyjak L 💯

What about niggacels

Yes

So you're saying, that's staged?

Same jacket too Was it filmed the same day?

@van'd man Wut?

cursed pfp and username

I hope he never gets a gf tbh

I hope he gets a shower though!

@@danika9411 😂😂

@@mari0095467 I don't think you should worry about that 😂

Please please please don’t.

@Blessing Osamudiamen incels are few in numbers compared to femnazis 🤷‍♂️

for real the dude looks hurt

Same. Listening to him talks solidifies that.

@Bon Jovi that's true, but misandry is acceptable in society and misogyny isn't

@@lambsauce8172 I get what you're saying..and that's sad. But it's also no excuse for harming the innocent male, female or none. Extremists can never be right.

@Mabus Nero Uh oh, looks like I found the incel 🤣 Did my comment strike a nerve?

@Mabus Nero What did I say that was wrong? Can you answer that, "Enlightened One"?

"Just get a haircut bro" "Just workout bro" "Just touch grass bro" "Just see a therapist bro" "Just be nice to women bro" Bluepilled platitudes that are only theoretical but won't work for those at the bottom like us.

@@pyophyo8901 The truth is difficult to swallow, but the problem is you. Better yourself and you'll see a change. After you've done that, come back and thank me 👍

Lol the "enlightened one" never responded to prove me wrong 🤣 typical. I guess I scared him away by suggesting he fix himself.

Considering his mindset about women being treated like children just means that they should submit to their husbands, I don't think she's worried about it.

@@gemmiebear exactly

It's how Ricky treated Lucy in the show "I love Lucy" and IRL but fortunately they got divorced and the 1960s came to an end. He needs to realize what year it is. He's 60 years behind the times.

In his defence I think he was talking about he views the oppression of women historically and not how they *should* be treated today

@Nicolaus Volentius "women in general have been oppressed by certain system" you have a problem with listening to people

Yeah lol

nope an incel is a guy/girl who thinks that they're the victim because they got rejected and they feel that they deserve everything. some also feel that if they're nice to a girl then she needs to 'put out'.

DLIP DLIP damn....I mean....that’s how I would define a simp.

DLIP DLIP yeah I know that by the actual definition but honestly it works both ways💀😂😂

@DLIP DLIP yep same with girls incel can go both ways

I know! He compares women to children and then complains how he can't get intimate with one! Creepy!

We’re all comparable to children

and thats true! trans women beat women at everything

Свен Каллуров because your an Incel who hates women because you know they are too strong for u

Pete Holmes but they wanna be women which is funny 😂 and nobody is better than the other we are all equal and if u can’t get past that then your a sorry human being and the problem with today’s sexism

@alec probably not gonna happen, unfortunately

He is actually livestreaming his own suicide right now and I'm not kidding

@@patrisco8448 wHAT

@@patrisco8448 this can't be true wtf

@@rustyshackleford3428 i literally watched it live. he cut the stream after trying once which seemed legit but he cut the stream before trying a second time cause either it didnt work or he was lying or he got spooked. my opinion, seemed like the whole thing was contrived

The most he’s probably ever talked to a girl

@@crispychalk5966 thats ths type of pos comment that ruins people

@@spencerjcollector7958 have you read any other of these comments?

@@crispychalk5966 that doesnt matter at all, you just have to say some smart ass thing. your the reason people like that exist

@@spencerjcollector7958 also, hes opening himself up to comments by VOLUNTEERING to come out here

I'm sure north korea says that abt their people lol

Like forcing people to get the vaccine.

@@Kevin-qn2kw Nobody’s forcing you.

@@Kevin-qn2kw 🙄

@@Kevin-qn2kw who forced you to get it?

It is not involuntary. They should call themselves volcels because it is a choice!

Being a looser is voluntary. Finding hookups and even getting into relationships is so easy nowadays, they just don’t know how to, don’t learn and then blame everyone around. Like be so for real being a little funny and quirky is enough to get yourself laid even if you look like a chimpanzee, like the bar for men is down there for most women

@@seeker-gq4kc being ugly isnt a choice bozo

@@MikeJensen-w2vwell when you are overweight and have a bad haircut, then yes it is. a person can choose to be fit and look like the best version of themselves. i’m not saying it’s easy, but it’s definitely voluntary. now obviously facial features you can’t change much.

@@АскарТахиров-е2ч you sound like a rich person explaining a homeless guy why he's homeless. "The well-fed will never understand the hungry." -Irish proverb.

For real

@jaredleisure I mean atleast they get laid

It started as a support network created by a lesbian, and for a few years it was actually pretty wholesome, mostly being focused around self-help and forming supportive networks that could help people to get out of a situation they really didn't want to be in. Then there was a period where the modern incels were becoming more common, but they were still only just a small core within a larger positive community. Eventually the original community just decided it was a lost cause, and that their time and energy should be spent on helping people, not clinging onto a sinking ship.

@@RevOwOlutionary There are plenty of incel communities out there that just focus on loneliness. That's probably the vast majority of incel communities.

Like feminists right now

its kinda sad tbh

I agree. This dude seems intelligent, but I just get the feeling that he was ostracized in the real world. He found a community that accepted him, so he started indoctrinating himself. I feel sorry for him. He seems like a kind person that went down the wrong path.

Yeah...he needs plenty of healing

@@TundraTress He needs to go to therapy tbh, most incels project onto the world the hate that they genuinely feel about themselves so they end up being part of a community that is consumed by anger and bitterness, they won't start to have a healthier opinion about themselves or better self esteem because they've surrounded themselves with other self hating incels who reiterate their feelings of ugliness and bad self worth

@@piratesfan123 I agree with that. I don't think he is in ant healthy state to be a part of a loving relationship with someone at his point. I think he needs to understand that he can be loved, and that he ought to feel and be loved by someone, rather than feeling as though it is societies obligation for him to receive love from a woman.

This is the most important question really. Everyone has gotten rejected once or twice for a date and he just took that really hard

No seriously, that is the question of the year for every incel. Rejection is something that makes people feel entitled when it’s not handled properly. It takes a huge toll on a person’s mental process.

*Sounds like Rihanna to me*

Cindy in the 3rd grade...

Probably a few who's and also some 'why wasn't anyone there to teach you a healthier way?'.

Incels are legends

@@geraldtherat618 oh..

@@geraldtherat618 You're one?

@@Shortestcoment Yes

@@geraldtherat618 ooh it all makes sense now

n40798 i doubt his mom knows he’s an incel ... she prolly just sees him as a nerdy kid that stays home a lot and works out . With a lot of online friends.

Or his Dad.

i can already tell his dad was out of the picture his whole life probably.

@@rodgod82 yes

Yeesss

That was disturbing to me too. It isn't surprising that a young dude who keeps being continually rejected would gravitate to a fantasy world where women would have no choice but to be with him or they wouldn't have the free agency to deny him. It's really quite sad and pathetic.

@@shadelings I think the goal is to portray women as incapable of making decisions for themselves due to inherent lack of ability. This has been used to justify violence against women, unfortunately, as it makes it seem like women need to obey a man (who in this scenario would be the only one who understands what to do). I can empathize and understand why someone with poor self confidence would gravitate to this idea to feel powerful.

and he even says “they would be more happy” as if anyone is happy being “lovingly shaped” into something they don’t enjoy. Hell, why else would women in old times instantly stop doing mostly feminine stuff as soon as they weren’t at risk of being beaten cuz they weren’t in the kitchen? (I exaggerated a bit lol)

Omg ...correcting women?? Geez .omg ....

@@michah321 Yeah, it’s a problem. Equating oppressed groups to children in order to justify abusing them is super common. Think about how people used to call black people “boy” or “girl” and “correct them.” That was done to justify their lower social class.

Many Americans during COVID.

Wow. So brave.

Asian is not a fcking race

@@ahmadmaknunh.9420 😂😂😂😂😂

Wait sorry if i piss anyone off or any asians who see this (im not really educated that well with different races) but isnt being asian an ethnicity, not a race?

​@mabusnero5282It's true

COPE!!!

Tell that to Elliot Rogers. He was fairly attractive, he was rich, he had nice clothes, he worked out. It's the attitude that turns people off. Not appearance. There's plenty of less attractive men with girlfriends and wives, and the reason they have a successful love life is because they have an actual personality. They treat women as a *real* equal. They don't elevate men over women, they don't believe that women should be pregnant and barefoot; they believe that woman are capable of making their own decisions, and don't have to be "guided" by men in order to have a successful life.

LOL

Why? He’s not bad at all. The only thing I didn’t really get was the part about treating women like children, the whole control love part.

He has been in other interviews and he's actually an incel :(

Claire what a shame now he never finds out about love

gallonsANDgallonsofCUM no he doesn’t

Right??

Not me. I’m perfect.

@PEPE TRUMP bruv 😭 can you stop with the gender wars. We are all equal, we are all humans, and we all deal with injustice in our lives. You ain't special

@PEPE TRUMP women face rejection and problems\struggles men will never go through stop thinking that way or you’ll be the next guy on this RU-vid channel

Exactly. Dudes are not taught how to handle it, as often as women. Girls gear ‘don’t keep bothering him. You’ll seem desperate,’ and ‘well then you weren’t compatible. It takes a long time to meet the right person but waiting is better than dating the wrong one,’ when our first middle school crush asks our best friend to the dance. Not that it isn’t disappointing but it’s not soul crushing by the time we get to an age where we have serious relationships. Dudes get told ‘she’s playing hard to get. Ask her again’ by their dads, and bullied by their male peers. They get taught to keep pushing her until she breaks down, or give up on ever finding love, in middle or high school. They are told they are the only virgin on earth at a very normal age to be a virgin, like 14 or even younger. Girls know friends who lost it freshmen year, friends who lost it in college, and every age in between so we don’t assume there is a deadline that dooms us. We do get our own unhealthy messages about losing our virginity, but it’s not as outwardly destructive as the one that boys get. We just get told we are sluts for it, whether we are 13, 17, or even 20, but mostly from people with dated views. That phenomenon is dying. The message boys get is only getting worse.

Yes.

It’s stands for “involuntarily celibate,” so that’s basically what it is.

@Garett Crook ... What about the incels that really are unattractive?

No

@Garett Crook A lot of them also tended to bat way above their leagues and got their feelings hurt but lack the confidence and drive to make any personal changes

Women.

@@alas6260 you an incel? Anyway, no. Both genders. Thankfully most are nice and open for the answers Derrick might give. Gotta give it to Derrick. But i dont think he is a real incel. Just a young fellow not yet succesful with the lady's. Perhaps now after 3 years, he aint no virgin anymore. So i hope for him.

@Roy 🌱⃠ guess it depends on what you want from it. Do you want to play the blame game? Or you trying to understand him? He is still a kid btw..

⁠@@alas6260Gee I wonder why! Oh why would the evil women do this to the poor sexist incel!

There was never an intent for respectful dialogue except on the incense part. He's not going to change his mind, so it's much better to use the opportunity to satisfy your curiosities

@@dillo1594 incel

@@dillo1594 Lmao ok incel

I said the same thing

Yeah its like - women can see ugly. One night stand maybe for a hot guy but for a relationship? Nah, we want a cutie labrador guy

@@LunaMoon84 ever consider guys want to be able to get one night stands too?

it's a classic story actually, he might have developed hatred/insecurity towards women, reflecting every woman to his mother. Maybe his mom was abusive, irresponsible, an addict or neglectful to him and perhaps that created an image of women for him, that all women are like that, and he should be protected from them. Single mothers tend to have financial problems, unable to provide their families, and that could have created a "weak" image of a person for him. Notice he said "I love my mom, but I wouldn't consider her a role model" - a clear sign of dysfunction. Sometimes it can be a reflection of an abusive father - his dad could have abused his mom before he left, and he's influenced by his dads behaviour. Incels are a product of instability, very low-self esteem, daddy/mommy issues and loneliness. They blame their problems on a certain group, unwilling to change themselves instead, because it's always easy to move your responsibility over to someone else.

@@kamilyakadyr7063 This summed up their ideologies on a psychological standpoint PERFECTLY. Thank you so much for saying this!!

He didn’t have a father figure in his life and likely took out the anger of that on his mother. That translated into hating women. That’s my hypothesis

@@kamilyakadyr7063 in other interviews he was talking about how his mother was a good and loving parent tho.

​@@kamilyakadyr7063 It isn't some single factor analysis that covers the entire story. It's very clear he's been pushed to the margins of society for a long time and that led him down the path to these views, it doesn't just come from "mom bad I hate women now". Isolating it to "just one bad experience" is just dismissing people with an actual issue. They're tossed aside by everyone, whether you think that's justified or not, and then they think like this. He says it himself in this very video, it isn't just rejection by women, it's wholesale rejection in most aspects of life, he probably didn't do well in school, he probably wasn't able to get a good job, he was unattractive so he couldn't find a partner, and this led him down this path of slowly regressing to a more traditionalist worldview. If you want incels to get better, telling them they're bad people does not help, actually listening and trying to understand what they're saying does. I say this about every group of people that society just dismisses, whether it's incels or nazis, they didn't just become one over night, there was a series of events that led them there, and usually there's a very human and realistic reason they got there that isn't just "mommy didn't love him enough" or "he got rejected by his crush in highschool". If you think his traditionalistic worldview is bad, why not try to actually understand why he thinks that rather than just saying "you're sexist you hate women", or minimizing it to just him being a loser with mommy issues.

There were 0 actual incels in this video. This traditionalist swamp monster is not incel.

@@warrenbuffet5152 i mean they should do one of their odd man out videos with incels. not this video

@@warrenbuffet5152 sounds like he is an incel to me.

@@erikshure360 His racist, traditionalist, misogynist views don't stem from the inequality in the dating market, female hypergamy, or him not being able to get laid. I don't know if anyone can take anything he says at face value because he's a random person and we don't actually know if he's being honest or not. Or even what his personal life is like for that matter. People seem to be attacking the concept of an incel and assigning them all negative traits rather than incel ideology itself or traditionalism, which this guy follows. I don't think he's an incel follower, just ugly and socially/ mentally awkward, both of which are a death sentence for men trying to get women.

no they shouldn’t give them any more platform to share their bigotry

He doesnt hate women because theyre women, nor does he hate women. Females that value tradition still exist.

That kind of thing Never happens in Africa if you want to get married go to her father or family and tell them that's all and you get wedded.that's why it good to have a culture

Literally I dated this boy he was Hella ugly, not much tho, I liked him cuz he made laughed everyday,

@@dittery He does very much talk in a manner that suggests intense dislike towards women and please don't say females, you make yourself sound like a douchebag.

i definitely disagree

I think you just summed up everything that explains an insel

Nah, there totally is a problem. He's not giving anything back. This is pure entitlement at its finest. It's not like he would try to be nice to some girl he wasn't attracted to, to understand women more without the goal of sleeping with them. So no, fuck guys like this. They deserve to be alone until they change their attitude.

@@llIlIlllII I think we're on the same page dude, generally I'm saying that there's an issue with men having unfair expectations of women. I'm pointing out that this guy expects women to be kind to him as though women normally have some sort of predisposed vendetta against him, when really he's a hypocrite who doesn't understand that he is not entitled to his romantic expectations of women and he takes women's rightful rejection of these expectations as cruelty. So yes, he should totally be alone until he changes his attitude, because he has an outlook of "I DESERVE women's romantic attention whenever I pursue it," which is absolutely disgusting. And yes, I also agree that he probably wouldn't be kind to a woman he didn't find attractive

@@joshrees3413 The big problem is that they think that they are nice just because they did something for a woman. Just because you did something for a woman that doesnt mean anything. And you can be "traditional" but if you are a dick you dont get any girl at the end.

This is actually really helpful, thanks for sharing your thoughts

Ok loser.

Malik Zeshan don’t do drugs

@@malikzeshan1958 hello malik, how was your day? also where are you from, I'm just curious.

reality is a scam when you find out, slap them for me

@@cucumberhoney6243 xD I don't think they're comfortable telling me, unfortunately

I used to kind of look like him before I started working out. I’ve walked in his shoes. You don’t know what it’s like to be invisible to the gender you’re attracted to. No matter your personality, if you look like this guy the majority of women won’t even consider you as a potential partner

SnowFrog most women will consider you. There are ways to attract women without having good looks. Appearance is apart of it. We won’t want to date someone who doesn’t care about their hygiene. However, we also care about how we are treated and whether the person respects our boundaries.

@@omniomelet1472 hahahaha, nice one

(Respectfully) In Some circumstances that is what most "people in general" care about. I'm just saying..... I'm not that type of guy tho.

@@omniomelet1472 ur wrong lol there attracted to the top 20 percent of men and date men that look like what your talking about when they need to settle and live somewhere.

Not all the time.

Firelilly1537 definitely not. Unless it is some sort of board administration, teachers sit at the bottom of the education business. Progresses from there, new, tenured, etc

He’s just a kid that has been bullied by girls and he has found a way to block out the “hate”

Bc there are not alot of men teachers thats why nigabagerian

Baked and Red-pilled the Bible doesn’t say that lmao 💀

incels exist because of the patriarchy female puts on males because they know if males achieve their full potential they wouldnt need females so females use 5G and special gadgets out of space to control the mind of males and tell them they need females

@@bkmari45well that’s definitely an opinion. i can’t even tell if you’re joking or not but if you aren’t that’s genuinely insane. saying women are putting a patriarchy on men is completely ignorant since history and all time as completely favoured men in all industries and opportunities. the fact you genuinely have no reason to be saying this stuff so you resort to space machines that control men is kind of mental. seek help

"insecurity" is just noticing the problems you have that you cant change and pointing them out if i say im short i think thats a problem because it limits me in many ways and in dating how is that insecure its just being honest about your flaws that are legit problems and you cant change them

It probably feels more pressing for women to change an incel’s mind because incels literally hate women lol

Katie Johnson I died when it got to that part like wtf

Bro people were slaves

Katie Johnson yeah next we should put a Muslim up there and grill them about their views on women. Sksksksksks oop

@@SemenInvestor omg wow you are so funny and edgy!!!

Isn’t there a single English word for that? “Patronizing” or sth?

nice guys and incels are mortal enemies

@Young Pappy I've seen relationships that defy logic.

@Ellotherem8 They are either sugar daddies or just have alot of money

@@naydsoe27 not really, where I'm from, just about everyone gets the chance to be in a relationship, no matter how ugly you are

@@sakurafujioka9539 I think North American girls are more racist than rest of the world. Your name sounds Japanese. If you Google Asian men dating, you will see how Asian men are treated in North America.

And a discord one too

BitchChill true😂

Reddit no longer allows even slightly conservative people to speak freely. I suggest the girl with the notepad is probably a reddit moderator though.

@Andromeda T I think the same. While I do not agree with those people, the marketplace of ideas should always be free, only that way can people learn and become wise.

@Andromeda T Thank you.

Those aren't mutually exclusive, if you actually listened you'd hear his explanation why he doesn't think they're mutually exclusive. When all women want is the hot guy for a one night stand, why would they bother with a kind of overweight socially awkward guy like him? He thinks that if women were held to a standard of monogamy, there would be more realistic standards for men which would actually give him a chance with women. Whether you agree with that is irrelevant, the logic is there, you just have a bias and refuse to listen.

Are you Korean?

Pretty obvious. If you’re a hot guy you can get access to sex without relationship, if you aren’t you can’t. Some want to be able to because they don’t want relationships

@@garenthal9638 You can just...go on hookup apps? Everyone has a type, so someone would be physically attracted to you, it's personality that can skew people out of your favor. If you're an asshole people don't wanna sleep with you, not unless they're getting something worthwhile out of it. If that doesn't work out just hire a sex worker its literally that easy.

@@Cat-hz7yd Mariah, you are delusional, you have no idea the difference between the experience of men and women on hookup apps. I know you can install tinder and get a like in 15 minutes, most guys cannot do that, there's literal research on this topic, if you're a man and you want to maintain your self esteem, you should *never* use a hookup app in your life. Even when a man is physically attractive, they still get shunted on hookup apps, the data on this is very clear. It isn't as easy as logging on bumble and getting a quick fuck.

FreakyFigs she came strapped 😂

A lil too extra lmao

probably a reporter or somethin

anderson I’d feel safer around her than the incel

Lmao!!!

Guaranteed there were incels in your time too. You just didn't hear about them as much

@@keifer7813 I don't think the word even existed back then, wether or not those kinds of people existed back then, I wouldn't have a clue, it was just too much of a fun time to be staying at home.

@@raymondingram2539 An incel is just a person who can't get laid. So yes, they definitely existed lol. And it might have been a fun time for you and your peers but there were also very likely people rotting away locked in their rooms but again, you never noticed

@@keifer7813 Why would I, I liked to live my life and if some incel or whatever you want to call them wants to lock themselves away from living life then that's there problem.

@@raymondingram2539 I didn't say you should. I'm pointing out that incels existed in your day, as they have all throughout time, so it's not just a current thing as you suggested in your initial comment

...It’s kind of odd. The facial reactions seem to be extremely highlighted.

They cant handle his controversial views

Amber Robinson that's called the liberal face. It's a weakness and happens when someone is in an ignorant mode. Meaning not trying to comprehend or even listen to what it being said because the brain has yet to develop to behave like a mature human being. You do not have to agree, but have some decency to show respect to whoever it is you are having a discussion with without the temptation to make a face. Something a 5 year old usually does.

TooPlepsy It certainly is a subtle way to discredit what is being said. As the viewer, I find this interview process somewhat insincere. Jubilee is basically validating negative pre-conceived notions, despite multiple interviewers changing their own opinions by the end of the interview.

Cult Boy then again, only an incel would allow himself to be put on a wall of shame in the most unique however most toxic channel on youtube. Or atleast one that has a fairly judgmental, immature and toxic comment section. And I would not expect less from random people. Why anyone allow themselves to be made fun of is beyond me, but why Jubilee would knowingly do this while presenting itself as a medium where supposedly everyone is equal or try to reach a common ground. They know the people interviewing this dude would not go easy on him. You'd expect a team of content creators to draw a line on what is good content and what is just cruel. Or maybe allow people to discuss with each other if they have a emotional intelligence that is not equivalent to a newborn gorilla.

revelthot ً Lol

@@AlexA-qx9pn Ok Derrick we know it's you.

@@AlexA-qx9pn you're trying to drum up sympathy for this "kid" while simultaneously age-shaming women? FOH lol

Right!

This doesn't help the problem, you know that right?

@Jimmy based.

@Jimmy THAT IS BECAUSE OF PEOPLE LIKE YOU

Gay men too?Asexuals too?

@Jimmy based 💯

@user-zf7go1xs2q dude c'mon.

😂😂😂

when he means minority he doesn’t mean race

@Kyle Vapelinski Wrong. It's largely due to low birth rates and infertility in white women&men. You can also throw in the fact that interracial relationships between whites and non-whites are on the rise, creating biracial children.

Kyle Vapelinski that’s not true as far as I know

@@heatherhussler6709 Actually, it isn't wrong. But you're also not wrong.

99 times out of 100, I'd agree with you. However, it seems they found the one guy who realizes that a huge party of the problem was with him, and was working to better himself.

@@Meirstein The philosophy of being upset with women because you can't get sex is contradictory to self-improvement. I hope he gets the self respect to stop.

That’s exactly what it is. The first step to not being an incel is to stop identifying as one and start working on yourself. There’s a lot of problems with someone who puts their inability to get sex and to form relationships at the center of their identity

@@inamib.9786 ☝🏻 ☝🏻 ☝🏻 ☝🏻 ☝🏻 this

I love being single. Why is that so hard for some woman to understand? 🤔

Or a gay girl

Or Kathleen Kennedy

Or a lesbian.. He would lose his sh*t lmao

@@hajarsora3748 Or Kathleen Kennedy

Or we don't give this clown a platform anymore?

@Grundles Lair he isnt talking about parenting in this situation though. this is towards women in general. And putting it in that context just means he looks down on them

Grundles Lair Also a healthy romantic relationship involves mutual respect and for both members to put in work. And you guys wonder why you can't get a girlfriend lol.

hoooligans you’re just kind of close minded. No offense and I don’t agree with this guy at all, but you should maybe try understanding how they thing or what they lack instead of shunning upon them. You’re the type of people that simply reject them and wonder why they turn out so badly.

Spaceman No offense but he perfectly laid out his beliefs. He believes women shouldn't be treated as equals and should be "controlled". That says enough about him already. His toxic mentality is what's holding him back he's not owed a relationship. So I don't really feel sorry for him.

@William Levy What the hell

As a guy that has been rejected many times, I have to agree with your point

Woah, you've been rejected??who be rejecting you lol, you're drop dead gorgeous 😂

@quentincjr i think this is what you should tell incels

@@nctsgrass not all incles end up like this solely based off rejection

but I guarantee u hate men

Why is it a surprise?

@@smashmusique Bc i fee like incels would try to forcefully force their ways onto you.

Azura Forestglen same

@@COVID--kf3tx Is that discrimination? Like assuming black people would try to steal things?

That’s part of it- when people think like that, they tend to remain “calm and rational.” Then the other side seems more volatile than them.

She's probably watching this and thinking "that's not my son. Idk who that man is"

I watched a video I think it was TZReddit the son was an incel and the parents tried all they could put locks on his sisters door and kept him away from young family members even tried to get him therapy and all that but they ended up reporting him to the police the father said he felt like a failure

she made him like that

It's probably her fault that he grew up like this, narcissist mothers generally create incels.

@@feralves1 lets not just discredit the mother. The father also played a part in this in some way

Marie, Can you please give me a short meaning of an incel ??

Abdo Edd derrick

Abdo Edd An "involuntary celibate". Basically a bitter man who has been rejected a few times so now believes that all women are shallow and only date men for their looks. They long for girlfriends but don't understand that in order for a girl to want to actually date you, you would actually have to view them as human beings. They put down all women and other men out of jealousy and are, sadly, all quite depressed. However, they cannot get out of this depression because they perpetuate it by retaining the Incel ideology, meaning that they are unpleasant to be around so they have no friends, therefore they are lonely, creating a vicious cycle of their own self pity. It's quite sad really.

That would break my heart.

yeetus wheatus hey I’m just lonely guy who can’t get laid so I guest I’m a incel. I lot of what you said sound like me except I don’t hate women and I’m not jealous of anyone. I do treats them like human beings. I think I just have bad social skills and that’s why it’s hard for me to talk to people but I am sad lonely and depressed and I’m thinking about suicide so yes it is vary sad being a incel.

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HALF CURRYLET IS SENDING ME@@halfcurrylet

He equates women to children. Sure, he says he doesn’t hate women, but he has no respect for them at all. He wants a world where men are in charge and women are subordinate. We’ve been there and done that- half the world didn’t like it very much.

Based

Greasy

Has lice

Sweaty

Both

This is how dudes hair looks after a shower that usually don't.

When did he say that he hates women?

He was asked the question "Do you hate women?" and he said no. Stop putting words in his mouth lol

So he is the equivalent of a female feminist

@@erickcarvajal8180 wtf how is that the equivalent?

@@TeamWhatvr i never said that he said it... so in turn maybe dont put words in my mouth? Also if you read my first reply on here you'd see I corrected myself. None the less his stance and how he see women is pathetic and its amazing how you're defending him. You're kinda sus lol

Some of em are tho

@@hozza0411 pardon me... girls are kids woman aren't!

YeahThe Boyz women can be immature just like some men can. That doesn’t mean it’s ok to compare them to children who need to be controlled.

hoooho no

@@hozza0411 yes dear the ones under 18 are kids,not the ones above,but i see man nowdays are not even making the difference anymore ;)

That’s why they shouldn’t give a fuck about it. What he needs to do is focus on himself and change his lifestyle and views. That’s it. Like throw yourself into something you don’t like. Go do something fun, sleep outside, squat heavy weight in the gym, yell out to the world from a mountaintop, completely change the way you live by realizing you’ll never change unless you force yourself to get up and do something because it influences your entire mentality and therefor your life and lifestyle. Don’t be stuck in your house being coddled up in your moms basement in a bunch of covers away from the sun in an artificial environment with artificial lighting. Go shoot a pistol at a shooting range with no hearing protection. Play some football, basketball, go to the gym, get active, go buy some supplements for training at the gym, like some pre-workout, nootropics, creatine, agmatine sulfate, BCAA’s and a pump formula, etc. If you’re a man, live like one. Change what you already know. Talk to more people. People want to get out and talk with other people. Get a new routine and a job and gtfo that house. Do a push/pull/legs split in the gym with a strength exercise thrown in like bench, squat, deadlift, etc.

Women do that too with modern feminism.

@@MrEysox You clearly haven’t actually talked to a non-radical feminist.

Not all do this.

@Con Quistador How are they in a dire lack of masculinity?

Yes! People act like "feminine" qualities like patience and empathy and nurturing make people unfit to lead, and that's terrifying. I would hope that anyone in charge of a nation would love and care about them like a mother (or father or parent).

@@reharm_reality Yeah, aren’t good leaders encouraging, communicative, and team-oriented? All of which we bash because they are too “feminine”... 🙃

@@ladynoluck Dyam... you make a solid point.

It doesnt matter if a woman or a man is president, they just have to be decisive and not be to attatched. we want our leader to care but do whats best for everybody which shows more love.

No I don’t want any of that in a leader. I want someone who will intimidate foreign enemies

Literally, omgggg

Damn I miss those days

@@masteroogway2438 miss what days? The slavery days??🧏🏾‍♀️

@@masteroogway2438 what now 🏊

How about we changed roles and then we could talk. Let's see if he still considers it "loving control ".

@@vnolan633 bruh

Are you a psychiatrist?

Thank you. Men will rush to defend him as if there arent TONS of people who were bullied, hurt, etc and STILL did not become hateful assholes.

@@the_katerina Are you angry?

@@mikioni why would I be? Just pointing out the obvious 😘

This

That's so true!!

damn that's deep

True.

Dude… 😲 Put that on a plaque.

Yes!

That would be way too easy. Incels don’t exactly blend into the crowd

yess!!

The first thing they'd do is that they'd sort the best looking men out and then sort the men out who like/respect women most. But yes, I'd like to see if I'm right with my guess

Shai Gilgeous Alexander he said when theres incels and then one person isnt - "whos the odd one out"

I can't even begin to deconstruct his arguments because they are not grounded in any logic

I think he's kinda sick. Like Overthinking all of this, not being social (I mean it shows). Wanting to find a woman based on his standards("weak" obedient housewife) just to make him feel better to be a mAaan. It's disgusting buT I won't deny that he needs therapy.

maybe just maybe you are programmed to think in a certain way and not for yourself.

@@enaeberg no

Enae Berg no

Yeeeeeeeeeeeh Boiiiiiiiiiiiiiii You just got DeREKT

They're important for sex.

B a n e z are you being serious right now or was that some sort of twisted joke that was phrased very incorrectly? Women are not objects to succumb to your sexual desires. We are humans with hopes, dreams and a broad intellectual ability. I am disgusted that people still have this warped way of thinking. True feminists, like myself, advocate for the rights of men and women. We believe in the equality of all sexes, regardless of race, religion, wealth or political beliefs. You are the sort of person who causes the societal problems we are working to fix. As much as I respect you having different beliefs, the way you are implementing them is plainly rude and unnecessary. In other words, kindly take your misogynistic views and shove them up your ass.

@@amrit3883 The person could be joking. Calm down.

AmritTheSlytherclaw do you have a sense of humor?

This!! This right here!! Thank you!!!

There's no problem with that. The problem is when people think that's what women SHOULD do, that's absolutely not okay

I hope you find a good, respectful man! Live how you want 😁

Good for you queen :) I hope you find yourself a good man that respects you and treats you right

Exactly that’s your choice and that’s perfectly fine it just shouldn’t be forced on all women