I'm detransitioning 

People listen to you because you come across as genuine, kind, and wise beyond your years.

As a mother, my heart breaks for you. I wish I could give you a big hug and take all of your pain. I will be praying for you sweet girl. You are so precious in God's eyes.❤

2:49 “In order for me to help people, I cannot lie to myself” You have my support sis, the medical system must be ripped from its greedy roots. Godspeed on your journey back to self love ❤️

No one is EVER "too far gone", in any sense. There is always room and the ABILITY for hope, and change.

I'm really happy for you. You're getting out without a lot of the potential more-serious health issues. In terms of voice, facial hair, etc., don't feel the need to fixate on it. You're already a woman, free to just exist without having to change anything about yourself to fit some stereotypical box. That said, do whatever helps you feel more comfortable. Good luck on the wild journey that is life.

"In order for me to help people, I can't be lying to myself." That is so wise and so powerful. Praying for your journey. Stay strong ❤

When I learned she is 21 I gasped. I am 21, and I biological woman just like her. I cannot imagine doing this to my body and then regretting it. My heart aches for her. I will be praying for her healing over her soul, mind, and body in Jesus’s name.

We are here. Silent witnesses, standing firmly beside you, holding your hand and cheering you on. Praying for protection over you and wisdom as you are led to the correct answers for your healing.

" in order for me to help people I cannot be lying to myself " Best quote ever!

The hate comes from the scared. You are a breath of fresh air. And you are not alone in this decision to detransition. The numbers are climbing. I'm proud of you. Be good to yourself. This journey will not be easy, but it will be worth it. Keep telling your story....truth feels great!

I absolutely love this realization you came to. “In order for me to help people, I can’t be lying to myself” 💯👏 I wish more of the so called therapists who have transitioned themselves would also come to the same realization. The truth will always, always set you free

Im so sorry this happened to you. I can't imagine the heartache, but I am so proud of you for choosing to be honest.

You’re 21 you have your whole life ahead of you, it’s not too late for anything. Good luck on your detrans journey.

AS an older lesbian with an open heart and an open mind, I say to you...Courage my sister! Welcome home! We stand with you!

I hope that the people who supported you to transition will be just as whole heartedly support you to de-transition. As a Social Worker, I agree with your assessment of yourself to be honest and real with yourself in order to support others. I wish you all the best. You will have so much to offer your future clients.

I pray that your story saves others from self mutilation and harm. Thank you ❤️ I hope you go into mental health so that you can be a voice of truth to help protect our children. 🙏🏾

Whatever you do, I hope that you will be compassionate, kind, and patient with yourself. As an older GenX lesbian, I can assure you that most lesbians are very supportive of Detransitioners, as we have watched with great sadness so many of our lesbian sisters falling to trans ideology for decades now. I send you strength and support.

I know it doesn’t seem like it now but 5yrs from now when there are tons of transitioning teens that are now adults… they will need honest, brave people like you to turn to.

You are brave for speaking out. You go girl.

You are so brave to share your story ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

As a woman with alopecia, if your hair doesn't return, look into wigs! I finally found really nice, human hair, natural ones and am so much more comfortable!

two things i know about kc miller: 1) all she did was share her story, in calm, measured words, and 2) she has got the trans community scared out of its mind! look at all the hate she is getting, for really not even saying anything bad or hurtful at all, just the truth. we stan a queen.

"I can't help people if I am lying to myself." KC, you are so right, and I think you are amazing to have reached that conclusion at such a young age.

Keep documenting. There are A LOT of people that are here to support you.

I transitioned at 16 too. It’s never too late to get your life back. We are so proud and routing for you!!!🎉🖤

Please be patient with your hair. I lost all my hair triggered by shock then stress. Doc said try not to stress about it will be your best course of action. Easier said than done. I resigned myself to being hairless and to my surprise it started growing back. Takes a while..now have a full head. So try to be patient x

Good for you! I don't even know you, I literally just heard about you, but I'm so proud of you! You are doing something that takes a lot of courage and like you said, not lie to yourself, which can be such a difficult thing to do. You may not know it, but you have a massive group of people rooting for you and hoping for the absolute best for you. I can only imagine what you've been through and what you're going through, but stay strong. We're here for you! ❤ Also, totally unrelated, those glasses look wonderful on you!

REMEMBER: Your DNA doesn't trans...We are WHAT we are. NO Surgery or Cosmetics can CHANGE that.

I am a born again Christian and are rooting for you. It must be so hard to go through this and have so much compassion for you. Praying that everything works out well for you!

Detransitioned female here to show my support! Believe it or not it WILL get better. You may never be able to undo every single little thing that changed on testosterone, but you WILL be able to find a version of yourself that you accept and feel comfortable as! Keep sharing your story!

You are so obviously intelligent. The way they get people like you is reach you while you are young... I don't blame you for not having faith in the "medical" community after the harm you have suffered. My heart goes out to you!!

You are very brave to share your de-transition story. Thank you for being strong and speaking the truth about your experience.

Don't worry about your hair yet. We live in a wig loving world, so you have time to get to that in due time

68 year old, straight Grandma here, and if you were my grandchild, I would tell you the same as I'm telling you right now; you be YOU. Do not let other's derogatory statements or judgments affect your choices!! Take care of yourself emotionally the best you can, that is the beginning of this path forward. Above all, do what is right for you to live your best life.

Youre doing so much for so many kids, who may not know what theyre doing. 🙏🏽 thank you

Brave person you shine a light in the darkness and bring truth to a challenging situation. I wish only the best for you and I’d love to see you happy with life. Such raw honesty is precious. You take care as you do matter and you are important.

GC here. I'm glad you make the decision you did. Going off the meds could at least prevent you going through a hysterectomy, and at the very least you'd suffer no further side effects from the testosterone. This is a long hard road, but I think you have the right attitude and you will get there. I'm glad to see you have plans, that you think about your professional future, because you will probably need goals and a bit of a light at the end of the tunnel to get through this. I hope you find people to network with that are going through the same. I'm sure you are not alone. Wish you all the best.

When I detransitioned, I focused more on being pragmatic and harm reduction. "I am female. Anything and everything I do is a thing that women do/can do." There wasn't anything in my life I did as a trans man or NB that wasn't easily within the life experience of thousands, millions of women with me and before me. It's in acknowledging the biases and judgements we had going in, that we can dismantle the cage we had made for ourselves. ❤️ You've got this, and I am so grateful that you have spoken up.

You are not too far gone. I don’t have much more to say than that. ❤

You are a very courageous, intelligent young person who is wise beyond your years. You’re a great role model. May your journey take you to a place of peace, good health and NEVER forget, you’re a gift to anyone who has the opportunity to meet you! 👍🙏🤗❤️

When I detransitioned, I didn't focus on "living as a woman" whatever the fuck that means. I focused on accepting my biological sex and accepting whatever pronoun felt natural to other people. I dont believe in compelled speech and that includes pronouns. I get correctly sexed like 90% of the time now but it has been 2.5 years since I started detransitioning. Good luck going off of T, I hope your ovaries come back online in the next few months 💞

I'm here as an older lesbian to show you love and support! There is no judgment-- we all know this could have been us. As I write I'm holding back tears. I admire your courage, strength, and perseverance. Your journey is just beginning-- stay strong and encouraged!!!

I do think there is a ton of lying that takes place in the name of empathy, where friends & family will tell you that you're passing and that nobody can tell. We can all tell. The percentage of trans who "pass" legitimately is absurdly miniscule.

I am not trans but part of the LGBTQIA+ community, and you have my support! If you ever want to vent or just would like a friend, I'm here for you 💗

I'm a lesbian (bio) woman in my 30s and I think you're pretty cool. Being young is confusing. Keep following what is healthy and financially sustainable in the long term... it WILL pay off.

My son has just started down this path. He’s gay, loves all girls music and baking. He’s perfect as he is. He’s still at home. No counselling just drugs within 6 weeks. I don’t lie to him. I don’t think embracing a life on drugs and surgeries is any kind of life. We try to avoid the topic but I reserve the right to send him info about medical harms and any detransitioners. I wish you well. The voice of people detransitioning people are going to be so important in stopping this iatrogenic harm. Much love from a mum who wishes my son could accept his sex/sexuality. ❤️

Yes. They have been lying to you. They thought they were “being nice”. Don’t lie to yourself. Be gentle with yourself and go on, one step every hour. Please avoid uterine cancer and ovarian cancer. Your voice is very attractive. You don’t need to worry about your voice. You don’t need to worry about hair loss. Lots of us women have thin hair. You do need the support and ppl who give your journey recognition. ❤❤

So proud of you! Your honesty is beautiful and so desperately needed today! Sending you love and prayers for your successful detrans journey, that you will find good doctors! 💕🙏🏼🤗

At 21 years old, you're still so young! It's never too late for anything. You're an inspiration for many women and your strength, your intelligence and your authenticity are truly admirable. Stay strong and take care of yourself. :)

Please remember, there are so many of us out here supporting you - we see and hear you, and most of all, believe in you.

Women just need XX chromosomes, that's all. Short hair is not manly, liking dirt ralleys is not manly, not crying is not manly. I know so many women including me that thought they were trans in our teens cause we were lesbian/bisexual and hated the way men sexualized us, followed us home, groped us, talked to us, stared at our developing breasts. So many girls think these emotions make them boys and womanhood is a cage. Womanhood is and never was the problem, it's men's view on us that see us as objects belonging to them, to breed with and abuse.

Your story hurts my heart, and it also makes me so proud and so unbelievably in awe of someone that I don't even know. You are so brave and I pray that you find what what makes you happy and the most comfortable in your skin. 💕

Given our brains don’t stop growing until we’re 25, coupled with the greater neuroplasticity of younger brains anyway, now is probably an ideal time to investigate detransitioning. That said, whether you do or you don’t, don’t let worries cast doubt over your choices.

Thank you for so bravely speaking out about your experiences. I wish you all the very best with your attempt to detransition. Plenty of women will support you as much as we can, even via social media spaces. I really applaud you for giving it a go! Truly, good on you for trying! Probably a hundred people telling you that you are young, and maybe that might rub the wrong way, but it is true. You have so much ahead of you and so much to learn about yourself. I truly wish you the best and cannot thank you enough for speaking out. I have a young female family member who is walking the path towards a gender identity right now. I've been told I'm not to say anything. I hope she might hear voices like yours. Cheers

From a 52 yr old English mum who never felt she fitted into the social construct of ‘woman’ (it is, after all, an illusion), but was lucky enough to grow up in an era of acceptance, I salute you and support you. I hope you find happiness and health. I grieve for some young members of my family who have fallen (possibly irreversibly) for the trans hype but feel unable to be open with them - so I give my opinion here instead. What a state of affairs 😢

you should be very proud of the beautiful brave thing you're doing, whatever the outcome, you did good and were more honest than most people in society right now.

You aren't "de-transitioning". You are just accepting who you've always been.

Brave as fuck. Really really proud of you KC

Sweetie, you are not over. You are starting over. You have a beautiful complexion, and incredible clear and open eyes. A couple of suggestions is to consider a cute wig. When I was bald due to chemo, a pretty wig helped me a lot. I lost my breasts and a good padded bra helps to create the shape I was missing. Best to you. Please keep on. You just started starting over! Grandma hugs here, 🦚

I think its going to be just fine because you’re bloody strong and pure of heart. Pure. ♥️

Your willingness to tell your story publicly, is so generous. You are helping many people see the truth. May you find the road easier now. Nature is with you, as are many people following and hoping for your happiness and success.

We listen to you because we care and you deserve to be heard. 💗

Stop caring what anyone else thinks. Talk to others that have and are going through this as they will be most helpful and also will really understand what you are experiencing. God bless you for sharing.

Thank you for your honesty, your bravery and wanting to help people. May God keep you safe and fill you with happiness and love. Truly wish you the best in all areas of your life ❤

I'm really proud of you 🧡 I really am. And of course you can tell. In your original video, the one you call infamous, that's the first thing I noticed. A beautiful, kind woman. And I'm not saying that just to give you a compliment. I mean it. I tend to not say anything when I don't mean things. You'll be absolutely fine. 🧡 Good Luck KC 😘

Good for you, KC. You are young and have your life ahead of you to do what you want and be yourself. 🦋

You’re a bright young person, big future ahead. You are needed in this world ❤️❤️

As a disabled woman, I'll suggest that you keep an eye on whether these changes affect your disabilities. My guess is that they will, since everything about our bodies is interconnected. But the effects may not be negative ones. They may be neutral, or even positive. Who knows? I do hope you can find someone to help you through the medical aspects of this process, and I hope suddenly stopping T isn't too hard on your system. Good luck, from a menopausal old gal.

Whether you realize it or not, whether you see us or not, we are here, an army standing with you and behind you in support and love of your essential humanity as a human being, no matter what you choose to do with your life. Your eloquence, intellect, and authenticity are captivating because you are honest with yourself and with your viewers. Every step of the way, there are so many people sending you love.

Thank you for sharing your story. You are truly beautiful inside and out. You are articulate and genuine and a true blessing to so many. May you continue to receive the support you need as you journey through this. Allow yourself time to heal and grow. Again thank you for sharing your story.

This generation of kids NEEDS your voice so desperately. Do not stop talking, do not stop sharing. Your words do more than you know 🙏🏻

There are thousands of people to support you. Thank you for being so brave. 💞💪

i can see why people said you were able to pass, they werent lying. BUT i can also see that beautiful woman in you. You have clear skin and those “on fleek” eyebrows. Once you get comfortable expressing yourself the way you want to will definitely help others see the woman you are. Just keep pushing, youre not too far gone. You’re gorgeous with symmetrical features. Sending woman to woman love from cali🤗💚

This is the second video I've watched of yours. Good luck. My heart breaks for you. I wish you the best. I love your bravery ❤️

I admire your wisdom and caution. Stay strong! ❤

It breaks my heart how the trans activists are all over kids, telling them it's all about being "who you really are," but then, for those who decide to detrans, it's "how dare you betray the movement." If it was really about the individual being true to him or herself, then they'd be a LOT more cautious about pushing irreversible treatments and a WHOLE LOT more supportive of detransers.

You are a courageous woman, an important voice speaking truth that needs to be heard. As others have said you are genuine, kind and wise beyond your years.

Thank you for sharing and being so open. I think you are very wise and articulate. I will pray for you as you take these steps. Remember, you are created, you are loved, you are seen, you are valuable and precious. 💙

I'm sorry for the online bullying you've endured. All you did was share your own personal story at a vulnerable moment, which was brave to do. I wish you all of the happiness and peace in the world.

I'm proud of you. And I'm very sorry for the blowback you are getting from both sides. I love you, God loves you and we will be praying for you.

No one is ever “too far gone”. Be you. There’s only one you in this whole world, only one. You’re one of a kind. Like you said if you don’t try, how will you know. Be strong.

My friend told me that what other people think of her is none of her business. She struggled with self esteem when she was younger. I thought that was so right. You do whatever you need to to be happy. I can see you are a gentle person. Be good to yourself. Its nobody's business but your own. She also told me that if people don't treat me right I should just say to myself 'bless them and help me'. Don't give anyone with bad vibes any time. Good luck with your goals.

Your story needs to be shared with the younger people considering this

I’ve been following many destransitioners… My heart goes to all of you❤ I am a Christian woman, Hispanic, clinical psychologist… I learn a lot from all out your videos. I send all my love and prayers 🙏🏾I am certain you will be fine!

Praying for you. You are precious and my heart is overwhelmed by your raw honesty and desire to make things right. I hope you have family or friends who are walking this road with you for support. You have your entire lifetime ahead to use this experience to help others who have been lied to as young adults to transition. I think you are so brave to put yourself out there onto social media. I really will be praying for you in the days ahead for God to lead you to the right people to help you in your desire to come off of the drugs and for your body to accept the changes. God bless you. You are beautiful!

KC I'm a 68 year old Grandmother also I I echo the other Grandmother...You do You. I think it's great that you are focusing on other areas of your life as you go through this journey. So that this is not your only focus as stressful as it is. Don't worry so much about how things will be, if this will work or that will...one secret of life is one day at a time works best. I believe it takes a lifetime to really get to know yourself and we have all been influenced by the times we live in and what everyone else says one way or another. It sounds like you've determined to not be influenced by anyone else but yourself and THAT is a BIG life lesson. I think you are a very attractive person male or female. Who really cares about voice, men and women have all kinds of voices and tones and distinctions? If you learn the secret of accepting yourself for the unique person you are, and care about that person you will be accepted by those who matter. Know a lot of people care about what you are going through, think you are brave to face it head on and and are an intelligent person who will be ok.❤️

I am so sorry that most of trans community is bullying you for just being honest. As a trans guy myself, I’m glad that you shared your story. Keep sharing it KC!

Now THIS is bravery! I wish you luck in your detransition phase. There are tons of women already supporting you. You can do this and you will be so much happier now that you don't have to spend energy trying to "pass."

God bless you, thank you for being so brave and sharing. It's going to be OK! You are in my prayers. ❤

Bless you KC for your courageous decision to detransition. Our prayers and support are cheering you on!! I lost faith in the medical system decades ago and pursued natural and holistic medicine. I am believing and praying for miraculous healing for everyone detransitioning !!

Transman here, I hope you treat yourself with grace and kindness through this process. Your body, your choice KC - I support your decision, not that you need that. But I know you're getting a lot of flac and just wanted to express some positive vibes. Take care of yourself fam~!

I'm a firm believer of if we're still here and alive kicking and screaming there's no such a thing as impossible and too late, good luck ❤️

KC, thank you so much for sharing your thoughts with us. Your journey is an important indicator for all of us that the trans movement is failing the people it claims to help.

Bless your heart!! Sending you prayers, good thoughts, and strength. Be strong and know you are supported - in whatever you do!! I can’t imagine how hard this is for you!! Pray you get all the support and love you deserve!!🥰

Don't worry about passing. Just worry about taking care of yourself and being true to yourself. You are not "depedent" on testosterone, and never will be. Best of luck in adjusting to and handling the backlash for detransitioning. Stay strong.

What your doing is so unironically brave. I hope you are being supported. Please know just how much you are helping the next person. THANK YOU SO MUCH

Thank you so much for your honesty and bravery. It saddens me to think if someone had cared enough to give you the proper therapy you may not have found yourself in this struggle. Praying God opens doors for you and that you will once again feel contentment and complete.

I applaud your commitment to authenticty & recognition of this truth in working in helping fields. I think you are going to do great. You are divine and very beautiful inside and out!

Congratulations, you have accepted reality! Things will only get better from here!

I don't know why RU-vid suggested this video to me but I'm glad it did. Your story is heartbreaking and you were failed gravely by the medical community. Luckily you are very very young and will bounce back. In time you will look completely different and can put this terror in the past. We all are rooting for you ❤️