Story 1 nothing the ex could say will erase from his mind that she still sees her ex boyfriend as her true love, in the end she is damaged goods and she settled for him, if the ex bf came back she would have cheated, glad op broke up with her.
Story 1: What’s said is said, and it’s what she believes. OP, now given this knowledge, needs to use it to call off the engagement and be done with her.
Update to the first story highlights: 1. Couples counseling was useless. She doubled down on what she said and took no accountability. 2. He did not tell friends and family why they broke up. Interestingly, friends and family assumed she was caught cheating. Which imo means they knew something the OP didn’t. Regardless, he went into “damage control” to protect her. 3. She became (still is?) verbally and emotionally abusive. She totally blamed op for the relationship falling apart. 4. They broke up.
It's for the best. I think he made it clear (and a lot of people picked up on the fact) that he was a back up. A rebound. Even after all this time, she still saw him as second best to the guy who left her behind. He shouldn't have gotten with her, because she probably never really loved him. I'm glad he got away from her
S2: The Op's parents were wrong and they created the problem, now they don't like having to be accountable for failure, nice.... He's better off without all 3 of them.
The guy in the first story needs some serious reflection and self respect, otherwise he's just gonna be a pushover for the next girl too and he will head the same things about "being a good provider". She wasn't over her ex hence her talking about how much better he was in bed than you. You shouldn't have gotten with her in the first place if it took months to start dating because she broke down in your arms over him. That's when you go NC. Because now her ego is already even more inflated thanks to OPs people pleasing tendencies
Didn't know a bike would mean so much to a college student but what op said does make sense, I remember my bike got stolen as a kid and to this day i still think about it and still makes me mad.
Even though a college might have a lot of parking available, they don't necessarily have enough. Some colleges don't allow parking for their freshman and even sophomore classes. So a lot of students rely on bikes and busses.
Story 1 was incomplete they did break up and OP had made a remark that got under my skin (saying she was “rightfully upset”) OP didn’t do anything wrong
I felt that too. Tho I feel he said that way more like "I am 100% aware that the reason I cannot continue this relationship is because your ex is bigger than me and that I cannot move forward 'knowing' this"
Story 2: This all started cuz they didn't like where he chose to eat on HIS lunch breaks?? Why did they care so much? Somebody gave their sympathies thinking something wrong, and she didn't like the "attention" he was getting instead of correcting them???
For those who have never been around a large hospital. A cafeteria has 20-30 tables. 80% of the people eating there are nurses and doctors. 15% are construction workers. Just because they prepare food for patients doesnt mean its some weird thing.
Story 1: the issue isn’t that BF’s ex was packing, it’s that she was disrespectful enough to say so in OP’s home in front of mutual friends while OP was there. To think it’s anything else is to be purposely obtuse.
Story 1: that woman is gonna be EXTREMELY disappointed when she finds out the average dingaling size ia 6 inches and she is upset her true love aka Ex was bigger than her current fill in who is above average. Yeah she's gonna end up alone with cats because shw will never be satisfied
@@CyberweaverVT she will. She will never be satisfied as she's so hung up on her ex. She's gonna be the crazy cat lady. No man will want a woman who always compares them to her ex who was above average.
@@Twist-The-Friendly-Hunter yeah I agree that no man would want someone with her personality but what’s wrong with cat ladies? Like, I get the sentiment, but you’re wording it like an incel
@@CyberweaverVT what's wrong with cat ladies? Its a stereotype, nothing more. Women who end up alone and can only get cats. Stop using incel for every little slight against women or any joke mate. Doesn't work and will just water down the meaning.
Yeah if you are packing under 6 inches in the trouser 🐍 department. I feel bad for you, but if you are around that size, don't compare yourself to black men/ 🌽 stars since some people are born with it and some aren't. If she has been with a king kong size, there is not much you can do but but a sleeve that goes over your tool to make it more beefy and ribbed. That's about your only option.
