I skipped her wedding  

The rest of the story: Now when the topic of the father daughter dance came up she started making excuses about how she didn’t know if we were gonna make it so her “stepdad” offered and well she doesn’t want to hurt his feelings. Husband feels like that right is solely his as he raised them all his life and honestly WE are the only ones who have always been there for her. I kinda do feel like the dance is solely a hers with my husband but it’s a situation where as the step parent I will always be 2nd plate. I supported hubby and did not attend. Am I wrong?

Why wouldn't she want her real father, who was there for her, walk her down the aisle?

I think I know this one the mother was manipulating the daughter and said she’d pay for the wedding if her stepdad walked down the aisle

I feel like OP is leaving out some information.

With how much info is here, I feel like things are being left out. Especially how after the daughter left for college she just doesn't wanna talk to them much anymore. We're getting one, very biased, side of the story that would 100% make themselves out to be the good guys

Screw the story that food looks so good , like it always does sure, but woah the chicken and the Mac and cheese and omg so good ahh

If my daughter called and told me I am getting married tomorrow, you bet I am missing work to attend. 2 weeks notice is plenty for a courtroom wedding. Seems like OP isnt telling the whole story.

Finances family😂

Ngl this story is very confusing.

Finances family Did no one else pick up on that?😂

OP is good. A truly supportive partner.

I understand her mom is the one that paid for the dress but she should have called her stepmom to be there because it's a big moment

How can you throw away the daf that raised you just because your step dad is paying. She is young is grt but i dont get it. She will regret it.

Yeah i have a feeling details are missing here and that it would be a different story if we also got the daughters side of event's

Bet FIL and bio mom only paid if FIL did the dance/walk. So.... Daughter best understand the cost of her own choice. 🤷

I mainly interect/like these because you add the rest of the story, and then they pop up more, makes it more interesting and less of a headache. Good job! 👍

Yes you’re wrong. You don’t skip your daughters wedding because of the father daughter dance. Maybe you could have suggested two dances to represent both father who she clearly loves. It’s immature. I understand dad being hurt though and I think the daughter may regret her decision later but I’d still go to the wedding because you’ll also regret it later

You should fell ashamed of yourself she made all these arrangements for you to be there and you skipped it for shame

Her ‘finances’ family 😂

I’m still wondering how people ask their parents to pay for their wedding

Who says op isn’t lettting some stuff out of here to sound better

I think I remember this one as the mother manipulating or forcing the daughter to get the step-dad to do the dance and walk her down the isle because of some bs reason that I can’t remember

It's still your child.. tf wrong with people

Nope....he's daughter is in the wrong.

it's quite interesting about the father daughter dance. are you willing to nuke you whole relationship over a dance. Was there no compromise, such as sharing the dance [maybe bio dad first then step dad second] or another compromise like one walks her down the aisle and one does the first dance. nta being upset but she's allowed to choose who she wants. the consequences of that is you both not attending and the consequence on not attending may be losing you daughter. So it's whatever. no one's an asshole. you aren't entitled to father daughter dance. and fyi Many adults can contribute to your child's happiness and be integral in their life. He lies are not helpful. if she prefers her stepfather she should just say that.

The daughter changed the wedding date for the parents who couldn't even go to the courthouse wedding. As soon as the rest of the family pays to upgrade the wedding for the new date. Now the dad wants the privilege of the daddy and daughter dance. Sir, you wouldn't take a day off for the wedding. Her marriage ceremony must not have been that important to him. But now that the relatives are there, it's a show. On the daughter's side, the father showed how little he actually cared for her special day and the step father stepped up (pun was not intended, sorry) with a promise to be there. They probably are practicing the dance while they're planning the wedding. And the father and step mother are still not going to the wedding even after the date was changed for them. This makes the stepdad look more reliable when he attends thr wedding and does the dance. The poster and her husband are assholes trying to make the wedding about themselves.

Dos semanas si dan tiempo de pedir permiso o te reportas enfermo es la boda de tu hija

Because he's (step-dad)playing for that

Story 1 nta

Leace going to the whole wedding all together, she doesnt appreciate you, focus on something else

Video giving me migraines, why would you make the visual part so fast??

Those lot is heavy

Most people would send out invites about six months before the ceremony, even if it's a civil ceremony. My son and his wife did this. We had plenty of time. She's just wants her Bio Mom to be there, be careful what she wish for, you might not like it

I'm sorry but you lost me when saying you can't be with me to 'one of the biggest day of my life' because you have 'Work'. I'll be damn assuming not to expect you to my wedding, daughter in-law was considerate to change 'their' big day because it was too 'inconvenient' for you? The entitlement of some people.

All of this sound weird, guess it miss details

Both choices are equally shitty

Not wrong

I bet they were always working and that’s why she didn’t come home much. Cause why bother we they are there to see you.

Wait wait so you choose not to come because she had a back up plan? She wants to do the dance, if you could have made it then there would be no issue and you choose to not go bc of something that might not happen and you deciding not go made it happen. People be petty about the dumbest things 😂

Post a whole story or don't post. "Do not recommend this channel" button goes hard.

Program these ais to read words correctly

She is simply " useing" bio mother n her " step- father for the financial advantage of having a 'better' wedding....it's called 'payback' as she matures she will realise and appreciate her father and your contribution. Bet patient and leave the door open.

Women. The mom should apologise