You guys need to stop coping, I know ugly and short guys pulling 8s+ on a regular basis. Your only "lack" is mental hence you create excuses and appear to lack confidence.
This works every time she looks back at you and responds well to your eye contact. That is the whole point of the video I think, not mass approaching every woman.
The key here is not what to do when everything's going well, but to teach men what to do when things go south, learning how to handle and brush off the bad situations, so that those concerns can be eliminated in the first place.
Dude stop the excuses there are ways to fix that hit the gym have good hygiene and smell good be confident about yourself girl hate men who pity themselves and say I look ugly it makes you look stupid if you don’t look you good you can fix that by using your words make the conversation playful and funny girls love a guy how can make them laugh and tease her a lot I don’t know how you look but I have seen ugly guy pull girl that are straight 10 and 9 you just need practice but I doubt you ll do it keep your boring life with failures
late ass reply but you also have to realize the chance of finding your person is low but we pass by potential partners every day because out of 8 billion people there’s gotta be at least one 🤦🏻♂️
These types of channels paint a rose colored picture because they are selling some material of course. At the end of the day social circle is the only real deal.
your channel didn't gave me that much confidence in myself, but a TON of approches inspiration and good ideas. plus, your the only one to say and prove that you can approaches anywhere, anytime, it's just a question of motivation. i like your minset.
It was always fun then walking up to her and say the unexpected: I couldn’t help noticing you noticing me noticing you! Smile and follow with, how are you? I’m JJ.
The video dude is a 'player' - decreasing in value after every encounter - he only meets one type of woman and hence, remains single until the next fake encounter - he teaches naive guys to become a walking doormat - quality women recognize and avoid this type - dude is not relationship material, but a worn out doormat.
What about in the bus?, a girl looks at me with a smile and I smile back at her but I can't talk to her because of too many people in the bus and I felt awkward to talk to her and ask her out for the reason of people will judge us
Notice how all 4 are of those things can be changed. They definitely help but you can’t use it as an excuse and let it hold you back man. I’m sure if you’ve seen the guys attractive girls are with, you’ll notice they don’t necessarily have all these qualities so there’s still hope.
I live in Denmark, and really everybody don’t like eye contact and void it. It’s really hard to flirt in daily life because the culture is so reserved and awkward
i feel tempted to approach with a sarcastic opener, here it is: "I thought i'd walk up to you and open my mouth because i'm a guy and its what we do". Just kind of being sarcastic in a resentful way, because i know i'm not the only guy in the world, thats always hated how its expected of guys to approach
hey Benjamin, I've watched your videos on youtube and learned a lot. This week I approached 2 girls and all successfully get the instagram, but the problem is after having a back and forward and leading to asking them out, both of them said going out as a friend is fine, but something the same meaning as not for relationship. For this kind of situation, should I keep going for the meet up and see what happens after? Or move on to approach other people and don't waste any time and money?
I am not Benjamin, but don't waste your time. This is to a high degree a number game. Don't stop even when you have a girl that shows interest in a date. In most cases, you will eventually dumped before getting into a relationship.
Two possible scenarios. 1. You came across as too much of a nice guy and not a potential partner. This can happen if you don't show a lot of intent, if you beat around the bush or just seem overall friendly. I have had one girl tell me "you don't like this music, we would be bad friends" to which I replied "don't worry, I don't want us to be friends😏" Met with her sometime later and we didn't do friend stuff. 2. She says you go out as friends because maybe they don't want to appear too eager or available, more so having a "see where things go" attitude. I have had this happen before as well, I had a couple of dates where we were supposed to go out just as friends, but if you can make yourself seem as a potential partner, by escalating and showing sexual intent carefully, you will naturally progress from just friend to something more.
I think the youtube algorithms have burried you. Some of your videos from several months ago dont have new comments. Im sure that's a sign that theyre not being suggested to people. Typically videos 11 months old would have at least one comment since then.
@@excripto1 we dont know if Benjamin was behind Zeus or not. he made a post a few weeks ago saying that he would change the channel name and there will be no more animations.
@@user-cn7bn8km5m Probably it was a different person that wants to move from youtube (zeus) and benjamin wants to stay, they probably came to an agreement for benjamin to get full benefits on the channel of some sort.
@@Dreamoen No, Benjamin has always been Zeus('s manager). But he probably does not have time to make animations anymore. His channel will die (if it's not dead already) sadly. Today I am also unsubscribing, not because this change, but because I finally found a gf thanks to the help of Zeus and I don't need his content anymore, but I will remember him forever!