Thank you for the words of wisdom a true blessing Totally resonates, unfortunately for me, but now I've learned a good understanding why thank Thank you best wishes love abundance n light🫠
I'm so with you on this!! It's so heartbreaking to of given fully of your self only to realize you have waisted your time and energy all along 😢. We are worth way more then this!!! Stand Strong and hold yourself worth value!!!
Please consider everything that could possibly be going on in his/her life. People have bills to pay, a full-time job and domestic responsibilities. Not everyone has the time to be dating these days.
I'm no longer interested in a romantic relationship. With anyone. It just costs too much, and too many opportunities for deception. Would destroy my peaceful existence. Destroy my peace. No good will come of it.
You are so right. I've been in a relationship for 5+ years and he started pulling away. I said my peace and left him alone. It was hard, but to keep my sanity, I choose me.
o that is good, valerie. yep. i chose me too, a long time, again, never will be in a situation like that again. 6 to 8 years almost, back and forth him pull away,then try creepin back, done, for good and that was a long time ago. im much happier choosing me, love how i am older, wise now, out of 20s, when that was going on, never ever again. and if EVA still here, i agree, with you. g-night."
He pulls away when I confront him about him lying to me or being deceitful. And he ghosts me to manipulate me and make me feel guilty for things he has done wrong.
Omg right!! I had to get out of a marriage, it almost destroyed me. Still figuring out how to move forward and be the best version of who I was before him
As I’ve come to learn, sometimes communication just doesn’t work and all you get is the cold shoulder. That is the clue to just leave and wrap things up. What else can you do if you’re trying and still get nothing. I don’t have time for anything one sided.
I noticed his attitude towards me changed. I had approached the subject a couple times, he claimed everything was good between us, but his actions didn't show that- that was my cue to walk away.
I did the same thing in the past. I just walked away, because it drains too much energy. I explained this before walking away, and there was no response. Ridiculous
I was secure before him. He literally turned my mind upside down and my heart inside out. I’m working on finding my way back to myself but I know I won’t be the same again.
No you won't be the same, you will be BETTER. Now you have something to share with others that are going through or will go through what could have broke you. You should not let this define you🙏🏿♥️🙏🏾
You will become stronger & wiser which is better than you were... It is an opportunity for your growth, love... Self reflection & Self-worth... Boundaries..
I can relate. I was doing just fine living and loving my life just to have someone come and disturb my peace and happiness. I’m more mad at myself for allowing said person to even get to me…he likes to take more than he gives and always has an excuse. Why bother me at all then. I was perfectly happy. Time to go back to my normal life before he ever even stepped foot in it.
Me too. I was happy on my own and hadn’t dated for 5 yrs then he pursued me relentlessly, sweet talk, love bomb, and it felt good. Had a fun for a year then pulls away and says he needs to be on his own. I’m heartbroken💔
I don't think I need to let someone know I'll be talking to other men if he keeps pulling away. I'll just do it and if it works out with someone else I'll be moved on with him. No need to announce it ahead of time.
If he pulls away, is it best to just let him be rather than reaching out? I want to stay in my feminine energy and have heard from other coaches let him pursue you.
Wow I am Soo glad came across this video. Especially the part you said " he love bombs you then it's like he pulls a rug out from under you and goes distant.
All I can say we each individually are responsible for our own growth, evolution, and transformation. We either do it together in a relationship, partnership, familyship, friendship, communityship or we do it alone. You gotta know when to throw in the towel of wasting your energy on the growth of other people who clearly cant/wont change and turn INWARD and focus on ourselves. Evolved people are better people. Wasting energy and time especially on the wrong people, places, and things will likely leave you battered, insecure, and drained. ❤
I ask him if everything is ok and he just says he's been busy. But every time we get close he pulls away. We've been friends for a long time and this 'pulling away' behavior has been ongoing for years! However, recently, it seemed like our friendship was getting deeper and going to another level. I think he started feeling something he couldn't handle and didn't know what to do with. So now when he texts, he gives me short questions and responses. Something has definitely changed.
I was single and secure for 3 years before I met him. The honeymoon phase was great then his divorce papers arrived and he changed. He stated he was depressed and had mental health issues. I thought my support patience and love would help him get through this. I was dead wrong. His disrespect was like a hamster wheel. He knew what was going on and felt guilty, so he walked away. I could not let him make me feel insecure any longer. Thank you for this video, it helped me so much✌️
You are 100% right. My husband has changed after 16 years of marriage. He doesn't satisfy my emotional needs. Whenever I bring up an issue, I'm told I'm too emotional and dismiss whatever was said. We hardly communicate and He's now interested in polygmy, 🤦🏾♀️. "It's not a sin, it's biblical." he says. Help!
He was one sided with everything from day one. I brought him up time and time again. Then turn around and want to threaten on leaving. Yet for some reason I kept bringing it up and telling him. Well I end up not being happy any more because he's not listening or just don't care. Finally I said what I had to say and walk away. Lord have mercy lesson learned.
This is what happened to me recently recently the only mistake I did I retaliated due to high emotions I had to yell at him which I wish I wouldn't have done.
I agree with you 2000%. The worst thing you could do is jump the gun start criticizing. Or putting out there what you’re not going to put up with like yeah that would be really bad.
Thank you, Sir. Very helpful. ... and yes, exited a 6 year narcissistic relationship a year ago. Took 2 years to end. I am now 99.9% healed. So happy this video popped up on my feed.
It’s never too late ❤ walk away and see how you go girl he can only come back when he’s changing or accountable and ready to change! Get yourself back :) x
He was love bombing me and leaving me on read.I addressed the issue in a calm way as this was not the first time. He came back with some bs answer, so i gracefully walked away without no explanation, i didn't argue i just simply just walked away and got on with my life. Thankfully, we were just dating and had not been intimate even though i have known him for years. Im sure someone from above was looking out for me 😌
Most definitely I was perfectly fine & those insecurities were created into the relationship!! He wasn't evolved emotionally and hadn't outgrown his traumas
*You can talk with someone for years, everyday, and still, it won't mean as much as what you can have when you sit in front of someone, not saying a word, yet you feel that person with your heart, you feel like you have known the person for forever.*
I can related.....he says women have men energy masculine traits but if I act with emotions and caring even overly concern about him he says I am scarey and weak...... it is a no win situation
YESSS I can relate- came in good- left /leaving with insecurities. I need to get back to the me I was.... :( Im so mad at myself for allowing it. smh. He was never worth it I am starting to see.....
Yes! A bad relationship can cause insecurities, make you a jealous person and damage your self esteem. That is why now I make a priority to keep my dignity
Hey @sulyrodriguez890, I just want to say that I admire your courage and vulnerability in sharing your story. It takes a lot of strength to open up about your struggles, and you're not alone in facing challenges in relationships. Remember to be kind to yourself and give yourself grace as you navigate through these tough times. If you're looking for some guidance and support, I just launched a new master class that dives deep into building healthier relationships and finding true happiness. You can watch it by checking out the link in the description of this video. Keep pushing forward and never hesitate to reach out for help when you need it. You got this! 🙌 #RelationshipCoach #BuildingHealthyConnections
I adore how you define " humanity" in such a creative way. If people would get passed the ideology everyone is out to take something and identify we need ea other and we all have to work together to define what can or can't be given...you've made a great sacrifice yourself to TEACH. ( thank You!)
