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If you don’t like yourself, here’s how to *actually* change | ✨SHADOW WORK✨ 

Zoë Winter
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If you don’t like yourself but can’t seem to change no matter how hard you try, this video is for you🫶🏻
Whenever you’re doing something that you don’t like that you do, it’s a good sign you’re dealing with your shadow. This is the suppressed & inferior part of your personality, that has an unconscious influence over everything that you do.
Your actions are the result of both your conscious & unconscious motivations, and you self-sabotage whenever they’re in conflict with each other.
So, even though you try to reach your conscious goals, if you keep getting in your own way it’s because of these unconscious influences. The problem is, anything that is unconscious cannot be controlled or changed. So to change it, you need to make it conscious. You need to integrate it.
This is the idea of shadow work- retrieving these inferior parts of your personality, making them conscious, and fully developing them to reach your highest potential.
I hope this video may be encouraging for you to understand that YOU aren’t the problem.
But as long as the problem is unconscious, you may end up blaming yourself and making things harder than they need to be. As soon as you can recognize the root cause of your self-sabotage, fear, limiting beliefs, etc, you can actually do something about it and not only will you be stronger but all of these “symptoms” will stop as well.
I hope you like this video, tysm for watching😊✨
chapters~
0:00 Intro
1:24 What is your Shadow?
4:30 Why you feel stuck
7:17 How to stop self-sabotaging
13:00 Integrating your Shadow
19:18 Develop your self-trust
24:24 Change your self-concept
27:22 tldr rant
#shadowwork #carljung #shadowintegration #changeyourmindset #changeyourself #shadowworkforbeginners #liveyourbestlife #uniquepotential #highestpotential #jungianpsychology #stopselfsabatage #selfdevelopment #changeyourthoughts

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@itszoewinter
@itszoewinter 2 месяца назад
Your actions are the result of both your conscious & unconscious motivations, and you self-sabotage whenever they’re in conflict with each other✨ It’s not your fault, you’re not bad, but if you want to change you have to first realize why you act the way you do, and shadow work can be a great help with this! I hope you like this video, let me know your thoughts & if you have any questions!😊
@Kidrobot016
@Kidrobot016 Месяц назад
You broke shadow work down to an elementary level, and I dont know of anyone who has done so. Thank you!!!
@itszoewinter
@itszoewinter Месяц назад
I love to hear this, thank you!!☺️🤍
@lunamoondrop
@lunamoondrop 2 месяца назад
I have only watched half of this video and I actually had to pause it because I wanted to write a comment. I am so glad that already almost 2,500 people have watched. You so clearly explain things and in such a beneficial way, non-triggering way. I hope that so many more people see this video. I am already feeling the benefits from this message... and this is from someone that has done very large amount of shadow work already. I was on a walk with a friend yesterday and I said to her, "Sometimes you have to say it when you're pissed to know how you feel... otherwise, you're not gonna know how you feel." I could feel her energetic response. She is not someone at utilizes anger in that way, and I could feel how much she was holding her tongue because she was disagreeing with my statement. Though, she is someone that could really benefit from expressing anger in a healthy way because it is this thing that exists and you can't act like it doesn't exist.
@itszoewinter
@itszoewinter 2 месяца назад
Firstly, thank you so so much for writing out this comment, it really means a lot to me to hear this🤍 I’m happy to hear the message resonates and I’d be curious to hear about your own shadow work practices! Your friend is lucky to have someone like you to encourage her, I believe that relationships are the best tool for shadow integration as other people often see you more clearly than yourself, just as your example shows! I know I often fall into the trap of just “thinking” my feelings and then dismissing them instead of actually expressing them and it makes a big difference as you say🙂‍↕️ Thank you for the kind words and support, I really appreciate it!
@daleseaton5670
@daleseaton5670 2 месяца назад
Your voice is so sweet, very easy to listen to which is good because this is the first I've ever heard of this shadow concept and I found it very interesting
@itszoewinter
@itszoewinter 2 месяца назад
I’m happy to hear that and I appreciate the kind words☺️ Admittedly, my voice is a bit of an insecurity for me so this compliment means a lot, thank you!
@giampaolodandrea2578
@giampaolodandrea2578 2 месяца назад
First 29 seconds it's basically me talking to myself through a RU-vid video 😅 so relatable... Thanks a lot for this new gem 💎
@itszoewinter
@itszoewinter 2 месяца назад
I’m happy to hear it resonates haha☺️ My favorite thing about making these videos on RU-vid is realizing just how many people share the same struggles/experiences/dreams, and it makes me so happy to hear these things🤍
@nisha5461
@nisha5461 Месяц назад
Thank you so much dear. This is bery helpful. Definitely a answer from Source ❤🙏 Bless u beautiful soul 🙌
@itszoewinter
@itszoewinter Месяц назад
Thank you for such kind words! It means a lot to me☺️🤍
@CG-wr4no
@CG-wr4no 2 месяца назад
"cover stories" i like it. So true.
@itszoewinter
@itszoewinter 2 месяца назад
Haha I’m glad it resonates!☺️
@gavinandrews9026
@gavinandrews9026 3 дня назад
Good work. Eloquent, and you get the feeling you live and use these techniques for insight and living better.
@richardw7010
@richardw7010 2 месяца назад
A lot of wisdom here 🙌 I'm curious about how inner child work fits in? I've seen it mentioned with shadow work.
@itszoewinter
@itszoewinter 2 месяца назад
Yes, that would be really interesting! It’s not an area I know much about, but as your shadow also contains pieces of yourself that have never surfaced or had the chance to properly develop, I imagine inner child work would help with going back and allowing these parts to be expressed ~ If you have any reading or channels you like on inner child work, please share them with me as I’d be very curious to learn about it!☺️🫶🏻
@blackeneddove
@blackeneddove 2 месяца назад
@@itszoewinterif you aren’t familiar with Heidi Priebe on RU-vid, I would recommend her channel highly. She is a psychologist and very enlightening. 🙂
@nisha5461
@nisha5461 Месяц назад
Tysm Baba 🙇‍♀️ ❤🙏 for this gold guidance. Bless , heal all ❤🎉
@zcounts
@zcounts 2 месяца назад
great video! blessings!
@itszoewinter
@itszoewinter 2 месяца назад
Thanks Zac, I appreciate it!😊✨
@selfhealingasanhsp3007
@selfhealingasanhsp3007 2 месяца назад
Thank you soooo much for this video, ur helping us understand the shadow better. Plz keep giving us more examples and videos on this subject. I my self am dealing with expressing my anger. So this resonates so much with me. This is why i thought i was weak as a man, now it makes sense. Love ur accent by the way. I am self conscious of my own accent so this makes me appreciate other individuals accents. Thank you very much, im grateful i discovered ur channel.
@itszoewinter
@itszoewinter 2 месяца назад
Thank you so much, hearing this means a lot to me!! I love talking about this stuff so it makes me happy to see there are others who feel the same☺️ And yes, this is something I’d want to stress in every video- suppressing your shadow doesn’t make you good, it only makes you weak. True morality comes from realizing your worst and disciplining it so you can use it in controlled & intentional ways! I’m really happy this resonates with you😊 The shadow holds our personal power, and by integrating it we can start to use it.. something I’m really trying to work on too! Haha thank you, I’m also very self-conscious of my voice so I appreciate the compliment! And I hope it can encourage you as well! Thank you so much for the support🤍
@selfhealingasanhsp3007
@selfhealingasanhsp3007 2 месяца назад
@@itszoewinter Man I really appreciate this kind of information. thank you once more. this is Lifesaving info❤‍🩹. so, never stop creating content! I cannot wait for your first book either, I also aspire to sharing my message to the world through a book. I even bought The Book You Were Born To Write by Kelly Notaras. I don't know if you have heard of it. I began to do the exercises but didn't continue😶‍🌫, my friend self-sabotage. i really appreciate your encouragement thanks. Can you also do more videos about your journaling process please.
@user-bt2su4ob7s
@user-bt2su4ob7s 2 месяца назад
thank you 😊 now I understand more
@itszoewinter
@itszoewinter 2 месяца назад
I’m happy to hear it! Thank you for the support☺️✨
@experiencelifelittleone
@experiencelifelittleone Месяц назад
Thank u this is a really good introduction and I hope to get more into this. =D You are a breeze of fresh air in this world!
@itszoewinter
@itszoewinter Месяц назад
Thank you, that’s so kind! I wish you the best & will also be making more videos like this as it’s what I most love talking about😊🫶🏻
@Hurlburton
@Hurlburton Месяц назад
Sounds like me at a earlier age The cure for it Age Once you get older you don't worry as much anymore
@itszoewinter
@itszoewinter Месяц назад
This sounds just like my father’s advice! He says that when you’re young, you feel as though the whole world is looking at you and judging you, and then you get older and realize that nobody cares, that you’re free✨
@CG-wr4no
@CG-wr4no 2 месяца назад
I really like the idea of the gradient of emotions in excess, deficiency, and balance. I.e. Jealousy on the deficiency, inspiration in balanced, and lets say.. over achieving (from the place of insecurity, never enough, I have to go overboard to make up for what i think i lack at the core bc I myself am not enough) for excess. Would be great for a video on most common negative emotions and their grandient list with examples of how it shows in our life. Pride, Anger, Despondency, Anxious, Embarrassment, etc.
@itszoewinter
@itszoewinter 2 месяца назад
Yes! I love how you’ve put this and that would be really interesting to talk more about☺️ I also like how you’ve described it as a spectrum with deficient, balanced, and excess- I used to talk about this as two sides of a coin but the way you describe it fits so much better, may I use this in the video? Thank you!😊
@CG-wr4no
@CG-wr4no 2 месяца назад
@@itszoewinter Yes please do use it!
@JCarrera27
@JCarrera27 2 месяца назад
Such a good message 🖤👏
@itszoewinter
@itszoewinter 2 месяца назад
I’m glad it resonates, thank you!!🤍
@sid5027
@sid5027 2 месяца назад
thank you for explaining! you're really pretty btw 🥰
@itszoewinter
@itszoewinter 2 месяца назад
That’s so kind, thank you☺️🫶🏻
@JonnyBGood-mb5mg
@JonnyBGood-mb5mg 2 месяца назад
This a fantastic message you’re giving to a lot of people, like me, who really appreciate your kind words and can relate to your struggle. Always be kind to yourself, and thank you!
@itszoewinter
@itszoewinter 2 месяца назад
Thank you so much! It makes me very happy to hear this and that my videos might resonate with you☺️ I appreciate the kind words and support 🤍
@christineweber8480
@christineweber8480 Месяц назад
Thanks so much beautiful! Working on my shadow! ❤
@itszoewinter
@itszoewinter Месяц назад
Thank you, I’m really happy to hear it☺️💗
@sunnyjim369
@sunnyjim369 Месяц назад
Thankyou ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤!!!
@itszoewinter
@itszoewinter Месяц назад
Thank you for the support!☺️🫶🏻
@fT2217
@fT2217 Месяц назад
Thank you for the knowledge
@itszoewinter
@itszoewinter Месяц назад
Thank you, I hope you may find value in it!😊
@fT2217
@fT2217 Месяц назад
@@itszoewinter Yes, absolutely
@SkillShooter88
@SkillShooter88 2 месяца назад
Thank you Zoe, for the profound message you have gone all the way to share with us. Godspeed
@itszoewinter
@itszoewinter 2 месяца назад
Thank you for the kind words! I’m really happy to hear it resonates 💗
@alovesupreme76
@alovesupreme76 2 месяца назад
very informative and calming video, amazing to listen to
@itszoewinter
@itszoewinter 2 месяца назад
Thank you, I’m very happy to hear it☺️✨
@husain86
@husain86 Месяц назад
Thank you so much for This great method
@itszoewinter
@itszoewinter Месяц назад
I’m happy to hear you find value in it! Thank you for the support 😊
@xisalive7927
@xisalive7927 2 месяца назад
ur the greatest thank you
@itszoewinter
@itszoewinter 2 месяца назад
Thank you🫶🏻
@juliematon7461
@juliematon7461 Месяц назад
So brilliant thankyou
@itszoewinter
@itszoewinter Месяц назад
Thank you for the kind words!☺️
@blackalshukrey1555
@blackalshukrey1555 2 месяца назад
Great vid
@itszoewinter
@itszoewinter 2 месяца назад
Thank you!☺️
@paraspective
@paraspective Месяц назад
You are super cool!
@itszoewinter
@itszoewinter Месяц назад
Thank you, that’s super kind😊
@Dr.Zen_NeetPG_INiCeT_FMGE
@Dr.Zen_NeetPG_INiCeT_FMGE 2 месяца назад
Falling in love with you girl ❤❤❤
@itszoewinter
@itszoewinter 2 месяца назад
Haha thank you! I hope you may find value in it☺️🫶🏻
@davidruiz3003
@davidruiz3003 Месяц назад
I love you
@austinmattole
@austinmattole Месяц назад
You are so coherent. Did you practice that? Did you study Psychology? Cute video 😊.
@itszoewinter
@itszoewinter Месяц назад
Thank you, that’s the greatest compliment! I love to write as I learn new things, and some of that I’ll turn into videos😊
@user-bn5ir3um3j
@user-bn5ir3um3j Месяц назад
❤❤❤❤❤❤
@itszoewinter
@itszoewinter Месяц назад
😊🤍
@DAClub-uf3br
@DAClub-uf3br Месяц назад
I've lost my persona and i don't know who i am. Hoping to find some answers in the shadow.
@itszoewinter
@itszoewinter Месяц назад
This could be an opportunity to write new stories🤍 I can somewhat relate to this; a shadow work exercise that I find really helpful to get to know myself was recognizing who I am through own my projections.. here’s a prompt you can use: What do you criticize in others? -> this reveals where you know you can do better in yourself, what you need to change or let go in your own life What do you admire in others? -> this reveals your hidden/undeveloped talents and potentials, if you didn’t have it in you, it wouldn’t resonate so pursue it! I hope this might help! I wish you all the best in your own shadows work journey😊
@s3renity274
@s3renity274 2 месяца назад
How do you resolve the conflict?
@itszoewinter
@itszoewinter 2 месяца назад
You resolve this conflict & inner tension by integrating these suppressed parts of yourself! You can read about shadow assimilation from Jung, I also have a similar video on how to get started with shadow work on my channel☺️ But the idea is recognizing these “shadow” parts of yourself, and learning to express & control them- if you notice you’re holding your tongue and feeling resentment, practice speaking up. Or if you have a lot of guilt, shame, self-doubt, you want to lean right into this (ideally figuring out why) and “fix it” intentionally by practicing ways to forgive yourself, improve yourself, trust yourself etc.. this is something I’ve shared my step-by-step process for in the other video! But bit for bit, instead of trying to reach for a goal and unconsciously always holding yourself back, you want to focus on developing your own unconscious weak spots because these are the very things, if developed, will help you realize your unique potential✨ I hope this helps, please let me know if you have any questions or how I might explain things better! Thank you😊🫶🏻
@s3renity274
@s3renity274 2 месяца назад
@@itszoewinter thanks!
@murranz
@murranz Месяц назад
How TO
@itszoewinter
@itszoewinter Месяц назад
What do you mean? :)
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