6 Things Introverts Need in a Partner 

Are you an introvert, extrovert or in between? Comment below. Let's see what the total are.

I would mostly want someone to feel free to hug, that doesnt make me feel forced to talk, but also someone that accepts me as i am dont matter my weird personality and things i love

As an male introvert, I just want one thing, that a woman I fall for is someone that does not expect me to be tough or really íntense all the time. Sometimes I need hugs or affection that make the sad days less difficult, I want someone who allow me to cry without thinking Im weak or less masculine for it, I want someone who treats me like a human, not just as a man

The "someone who is comfortable with silence" one is so true. To an introvert, silence isn't golden. It's not platinum. It is diamond. I've recently heard the quote "speak only if it improves upon the silence." What extroverts need to understand is that silence is often more meaningful, and speaks "louder" than noise for the sake of noise.

As someone who has recently "adopted" their introverted friend. I couldn't help but chuckle at how accurate your points are. This was a great listen and a nice perspective I needed to hear.

1. someone is who is comfortable with silence 2. A good listener 3. Someone who values quality time 4. Someone who understands personal space and alone time 5. A love for deep conversations 6. Something who can take things slow

As an introvert, probably THE strongest sign of a really good relationship is that it *doesn't* feel draining. If you find someone who actually makes *you* feel extroverted, hang on for dear life and do whatever work is required. Even if it doesn't last, it will be permanently memorable. : )

As an introvert, one of my biggest concerns on dating is my partner misinterpreting my alone time as me just not wanting to be with her. I sure hope I find someone who understands that some people need to recharge by having some alone time.

Me and my SO are, both, introverts. We started dating 3 months after we met. Officially started our relationship a fortnight after we first kissed. We spend a lot of time around ourselves, and in private places. Seeing movies and enjoying a co-op game. I love it, and love how our relationship is mainly based on communication and caring.

As an introvert I've always despised small talk and love taking things slow whenever I'm in a relationship.

As an introvert, i agree.

My fiance and I are both introverts. Around friends and general people, we do not talk, we enjoy just being to the side and listening to conversations. When it's just the 2 of us though we both chatter non stop over the most random things including the conversations that we listened to... its like when no one else is around we become extroverts together

As an introvert, who recently had to leave a rocky relationship, I realized these were all things I noticed I was missing from my relationship and constantly struggled to get. The fact that this shows there are people out there who mesh with me gave me a warm fuzzy feeling inside.

There’s nothing better than finding someone you can sit in silence with 💜

I'm an extrovert (ENFP to be precise) and I've been in a relationship now for a couple months with an introvert and many times I've thought I'd done something wrong when it just turned out to be nothing. Taking things slow is a huge struggle for me but I can honestly say that it has made the experience so much better and I think has made us much closer. This video intrigued me because I wanted to see what else I could do and I'm comforted in knowing that I am doing all these things. Ultimately, the advice I would give to another extrovert dating an introvert would be to have patience and understanding and try your best not to jump to any conclusions.

As a male introvert, this is true! Sometimes I just don't feel like talking, socializing, or hanging out. Maybe I just want to relax, and have some quality time with my love ones! I do enjoy taking things slow, cause anytime I'm in a quick relationship, it ends with them rushing and not liking anything about me, which puts me down and makes me worried about opening up about myself... Another thing for me, is if you leave me alone without a reason, I worry...and like A LOT...so if you're gonna do something at least let me know when you'll come back..! Cause then I would think for HOURS if I did something wrong...

The first relationship i was ever in, one of the hardest things I dealt with was that she didn’t understand personal space and alone time. She had to be in constant communication, and that caused stress in me that I didn’t expect.

man, I just want someone who doesn't tell me to speak up or get mad at me for not being talkative like im used to. Someone who just wants to cuddle and watch a show while talking about whatever is on their mind with no expectations or judgment. Ive tried dating some extroverts but, they never last because im "boring".

I'm not sure if I'm alone in this but honestly, as an introvert myself (INTP), I would want an extrovert for my partner. Someone to bring me out of my comfort zone a bit and help fill in the gaps that I might be missing. Basically like a yin to my yang. Of course the relationship would have to be built on trust and understanding above all else, but at least for me, having someone else that compliments my weaker points like that (and hopefully I would do the same for my partner) would be ideal.

I currently have a crush on an introvert, I am a more extraverted person, but maturity has brought me to be a little more introverted, through that I’ve learned to be okay in the silences and long pauses. While watching this I realized I’ve already learned to do all of this and I’m still learning more! Thank you!

love the references, the tips are amazing and you can mostly relate to what they say. i absolutely love this channel's dating related videos, i have spent 2 legal nights watching these on a row and feel like more people have the right to know what this channel has to offer in relationship content

Definitely the understanding of needing a social recharge

What I won't compromise for in a partner: 1. Fierce loyalty - If there's one thing above anything else that I want from another person, it's this. Especially after my recent breakup. 2. Emotional support - If you're there for me I'll be there for you, always 3. Physical love - Be ready to give & receive a lot of it quite often 4. Comfortability - We should be able to share anything we want, interests, hobbies, feelings, random thoughts, etc and not feel judged. 5. Humor - When the imposter is sus you'll get hit by the 10 o' clock bus.

i love how you allow your artists to insert references to different media! It adds so much personality to each video!

#5 is accurate for me. All my teen life i wasn’t always able to speak my mind. Whenever it was school or at home, No one really paid attention to what I had to say. I was usually silenced and i gave up trying to speak since my ADHD made me forget what i had to say if i didnt get it out.

Funny how my alone time was completely replaced with time with her. Since she's ok with silence and doing creative stuff with me that I usually do alone, she doesn't really make me spend any social energy around her. I heal from pesky extroverts while I'm with her.

I already knew I was more introverted but it’s crazy just how much it hit here. Every point was right on the money. I still fall in the middle of intro and extroversion, but I definitely lean towards the latter.

I love being introverted, but it's hard to find a partner with the same personality. I tried, but I wasn't lucky to find the right person. I thought I hit jackpot, but that was just words I wanted to hear. Understanding partner transformed to someone who can't understand a sh*t. When I wanted to be alone for a day, I was suddenly the worst person in the universe.

Love the DDLC, Deltarune, Undertale, and Frozen references. As someone with ADHD (and I guess I'm an introvert, since a lot of what the video talked about sounds like stuff I've done or needed more than once.), I can relate and agree that this is literally exactly what we need. Though I find myself a lot more awkward and strangely emotionless (Which apparently is part of the disorder?), but that's only because I haven't had time to spend time with my significant other, due to Covid and stuff.

1. Someone who is comfortable with silence 2. A good listener 3. Someone who values quality time 4. Someone who understands personal space and alone time 5. A love for deep conversations 6. Someone who can take things slow at first

As an introvert, i approve of this message. It doesn't share everything i want, but it does hit the more important ones.

Thank you! I have a friend who is an introvert, I am an extrovert, myself. I appreciate your videos. I don't want to make anyone uncomfortable and am using this information to improve myself. Knowing that deep conversations are better than small talk, is most helpful. Thanks!

Not only is this channel amazing for helping with ourselves,it also makes a lot of references,really nice!

Can confirm, as an introvert silence and just being around someone without necessarily doing anything particular can bring us joy. Vibes, one might say, are all it takes.

Ma'am we love you for this kind of content, like being an introvert, it really feels good.

As an introvert and someone with mental issues, this channel is godsend in explaining what's happening with me, calming down my fears of me having overly negative traits, etc... Thank you! Great video on this too, most of the stuff is relatable to me, I notice that in myself. And I do notice discomfort when I'm not able to satisfy some of these needs...

REMAINDER TO EVERYONE: Shyness and introvert are not the same thing or maybe you're just depressed. Don't do self diagnosting, refer to professionals if you need help. Love lots for my fellow introvert 🥰

So much cute animation, wonderfully geeky references, and insightful relationship advice. You've become one of my favorite channels to unwind with at the end of the day. ❤

I'm dating an introvert, and I can confirm this video is 99% true.

the voice is so soothing- honestly. makes me feel good and listen

I'm positive I'm an introvert. You described a lot of the way I feel.

I want someone who understands that "attention isn't love" because I love spending most of the time alone so giving that person much attention will do me no good

I've always been an extroverted and talkative. I find myself exhausted and constantly feeling like I need to entertain my partners as well as friends/family. I recently started seeing a woman who is the opposite of who I typically spend time with and for the first time I feel relaxed being around someone im interested in. No small talk, just kind words, deep conversations, and time to think in between statements.

This is informative, animated, and an asmr all in one. What more could you ask for?

0:12 Undyne and Alphys!!!!! I did not expect them but I absolutely love them!!! the flowers on their heads are gorgeous!! Thanks for the Undertale representation, I love it 💜

I am an ambivert with an introvert partner, i can understand how she feels so I'm always trying to give her time and space when she needs it or asks me for and new topics to talk about, since we can enjoy both small and deep talk (is just s thing of being used to each other i think) , i let her talk to me about her problems and i listen carefully and i let her know she can find comfort and not only a partner but also a best friend in me and i know i can feel the same about her

Your voice is so calming and soothing, so enjoyable~ it fits the theme so well

I love how much of a cheerful tone you have through the entire video :)

I loved the Elsa, and Anna part of moving slowly. It was so funny and adorable. :)

I think to me as someone who consistently scored over 90% on introversion throughout my life, my biggest absolute pet peeve with any relationship is assumptions. I'm typically quiet/reserved but can be more talkative on some days than others with my close circle, however, when people make an assumption about what that (or anything else I say or do) means and just run with it instead of asking or just assuming the best intention, that really gets on my nerves - primarily because I can't help but think that it's done out of arrogance based on false belief of knowing better or out of spite. I've recently started talking with a new person and them at some point asking if they did something wrong actually felt soooo so good and refreshing! I really appreciated them not being scared to ask and me having the freedom to clear myself up right then and there. Please, understand that you may know an introvert for many years and still not fully understand what's going on in their head and that's okay - as long as you don't think you're entitled to that knowledge.

This helps actually. I'm currently in a relationship with an introvert and watching this helped a lot to understand what I need to do in our next conversation. Thanks for sharing ^-^

As a male introvert, I only fall for people who make me feel like I'm ensured safety, especially while dealing with stuff at home, I have been single all my life, I haven't gotten much hope that I'll eventually date someone, most of the time I can't bring myself to say anything at all, I enjoy my alone time as well, I feel relaxed while I'm alone, but what I need in a partner is that they respect me for me in general, not just focusing on things I do, a person that doesn't care about looks at all, that just wants to be there for me, and help me succeed, and a person who I know I can trust and talk to about my trauma and problems, I am already talking to a friend about it, and she is kinda going through the same stuff I am

I really needed this video, I'm dating an introvert, it's pretty recent, I confessed that I liked him and he basically asked if I wanted to start a thing, I'm glad I've been doing some of the right things, specially when it comes to give him the space he needs, but now I know even more, thanks!

As an introvert, I definitely agree with all of these things and love how each of these traits are explained.

everything you said is exacly on point and i love hearing things like that

The art style is adorable and I LOVE THE VIDEO GAME REFERENCES!!

6 Things Introverts Need in a Partner Psych 2 Go 1. someone is who is comfortable with silence 0:20 2. A good listener 0:55 3. Someone who values quality time 1:41 4. Someone who understands personal space and alone time 2:15 5. A love for deep conversations 2:57 6. Something who can take things slow at first 3:46

I'd say me and my ex are both introverts, and us sitting in silence kind of made me a little uncomfortable, because I could never tell if I was boring or we were enjoying doing our own thing. This led to me forcing some small talk, which I feel like I regret doing now, and I wish I realized that we were just spending some nice quiet time together. This video really helped me realize things about me that I haven't noticed before.

As an ambivert who fell in love with a girl introvert this could truly help me to get much closer to her, thank you!!!

Loved the new animator style! Keep going ms/mr Kami!

I’m Autistic and an Introvert. I like to be sociable, but I’m jaded thanks to years of bullying from my peers in school(my mother said I use to just go up to random people and say hi as a little kid). Pretty much everything in this video is who I want in a partner. One of my two favorite Christmas songs is “God Rest Ye Merry Gentlemen” and in the song is the part of “tidings of comfort and joy”. I want the comfort to my joy. I’m a goofy guy who enjoys a good laugh and making people happy. But, I always have issues with Anxiety and Stress. I need someone who is willing to comfort me and calm me down when a panic attack comes along. I will obviously be there to make them smile when they’re sad or angry. Also, I live next door to my parents in the middle of the country side. I want my future wife to be okay with a simple life; quiet and peaceful. I don’t like city life. Plus, it’d be nice to make a day of driving into the city every so often, just to get some things or see the sites. I also am okay with traveling to places for vacations. Just as long as I get my quiet time. Also, I am a religious person, and go to church on the regular. I hope she’ll want to go to church with me, or at least be accepting of my faith. All in all, I want a wife who will want to enjoy spending her time with me in our nice country home, gazing at the beautiful views we have here, raising a happy family, and just being each other’s missing half.

Honestly, this video actually made me feel so much more relieved and comforted. My past relationships have been tough, one of them kept complaining how silent I was, and I barely talk, like he doesn't like that about me. That made me upset, as if I'm not a good fit for them. Consequently they guilt tripped, and were so not respectful about my personal space or plans. People need to understand, for a healthy partnership, we must give one another their needed space and time. They must also know, that it isn't possible for telling them everything about what I'm doing today or who am I hanging out with. Surely I'm a loyal, but my boyfriend even used to get so jealous even if I wanted time to go out with my friends. So I'm really grateful for this wonderful video, it really made me feel calmer!

As an introvert myself, I found this video very insightful and relatable. I agree with most of the points that were made, especially about the need for space, understanding, and respect. I think these are essential for any healthy relationship, but especially for introverts who tend to get drained by social interactions and need time to recharge. However, I also think that some of the things that introverts need in a partner are not exclusive to introverts. For example, having shared interests and values, being supportive and encouraging, and communicating honestly and openly are important for any couple, regardless of their personality type. I don’t think that introverts should limit themselves to only dating other introverts or people who fit a certain criteria. Sometimes opposites attract and complement each other well. I also think that introverts should not use their personality as an excuse to avoid challenges or compromise in a relationship. Sometimes we have to step out of our comfort zone and try new things or meet new people for the sake of our partner. Sometimes we have to be more expressive and attentive to our partner’s needs and feelings. Sometimes we have to work on our own issues and insecurities that might affect our relationship. I think that introverts can have successful relationships with anyone as long as they are compatible, respectful, and loving towards each other. It’s not about finding someone who meets all our needs perfectly, but someone who is willing to grow with us and make us happy. Thank you Psych2Go for making this video! It was very informative and helpful. Keep up the good work! #introvert #psych2go #relationship #personality #comment

such cute drawing =w= also as an introvert, i can relate pretty much everything in this video TT

As an introvert I think I want a partner who would, most importantly, not judge my weird ideas, but also value personal time and just peace overall. In short, everything said in this video is true for me

While I am an introvert and I feel as though this should be common knowledge I realize that a lot of people just don’t realize this about a lot of introverts and I really appreciate the awareness that this channel is spreading about introverts and personalities in general.

I have never known what I needed until I saw it. This explains so many things in my life. I am definitely an introvert, and it makes it difficult to meet people. Though I'll keep trying. Thanks for the video.

You hit the bullseye. As an introvert, these are my exact values in a relationship. How are you so good at this?

DDLC references in the thumbnail: 1: Background 2: Yuri's hair style (Not including her clip) 3: School Uniform (But opened, just like Sayori's) 4: The "Just Monika" type of pose when sitting on the desk

Im an extrovert and have only had introvert partners. I think the fact that my dad, brother and more than half my cousins are all introverts helps me understand the need for quiet, space, a break etc with people I love. I prefer introverts as a partner as I think it helps balance out the dynamic 🙂

your voice is so calm. I love it :)

I am an introvert and this video helped a lot with some questions I had. You guys do a fabulous job with these. (also love the Frozen reference)

As a social introvert, this is quite literally a list of things I feel related to when it comes to romance.I don't like to jump straight into dating, so I rather meet someone beforehand who can gain my trust and know me better with patience and determination.

As an introvert, it’s a relief to see that it’s not only me that need these things. I sometimes feel annoying talking only about philosophical theories and talking so much. I’ve never been in a relationship before, but I hope I’ll find someone sooner or later.

We haven't talked for more than 5 minutes in 5 years. Our relationship which isn't official yet is based on kindness, patience, loyalty, and lots of touching. Plus we have this intense connection and I feel like sometimes I communicate with her telepathically. She's more introverted so I'm waiting for her to get fully immersed and trust me. But I can give her what she needs because I need the same things.

As an extrovert, it’s nice to see that I’ve been doing what introverts appreciate. When I was with my ex, I was always worried that I was doing something wrong and that she didn’t want to spend time with me but she was just more reserved and shy.

It’s strange, I used to be a complete introvert but as I got older I forced myself into more and more social groups and situations until I actually enjoyed them. I still have some introverted qualities, but I’m more of an extrovert now. I had honestly forgotten how it felt to be an introvert, so when I started dating my gf, I was constantly thinking something was wrong, that she was mad about something. I was getting worried that she didn’t want to be with me anymore, but this video actually perfectly describes what’s been happening, so I guess I just need to relax and let her open up in her own time

As an introvert (INFJ) people who can appreciate my alone time is a huge one for me. I also am drawn to confidence because, in a way, it makes me feel confident to be with someone who is. My previous partner was neither of those things but I hope I can someday find someone who is

As an introvert myself- I really feel this, thank you!

Introvert confirm and approve this video, all numbers on point. Great video & thank u so much for spreading positivity ^^

Thanks for your help. I wouldn’t be who I am today cause of you guys ❤️

I’m definitely an introvert. My ideal partner would be someone who’s sweet, gentle, likes video games like me, and who I can fully open up to without fearing an awkward response. One of my nerdy passion topics is the idea of crossovers between universes. I’ve liked the idea ever since the original Super Smash Bros., and I like making deep stories out of crossovers. Someone who shared those interests would really make me smile!

Thank you for this video! :)

I'm an Introvert with ADHD, yeah you can guess how well that goes. It's a chaotic mess for relationships because I 'shift' quite easily. Though the general dislike of crowd rooms and random small talk remains the same.

I have to admit. I found this video, to be one of the best videos you've done so far. Being an introvert, in a world where most people still don't understand the difference between the two... Yea... I appriciate material that highlights their differences... Thanks...

U never fail to impress….just get some satisfaction after seeing ur videos daily

I agree with these points and some even apply to not only romantic relationships but normal friendships as well.

i got this in my recommended and i clicked and i got a Jump scare from your voice. HOLY COW is it soothing

We need a video on "You should get an introvert as your partner."

I just want someone who doesn't get annoyed when I don't talk. Forced conversations are the worst!

This hit in the feels. I wouldn’t put any of these over another but theirs something really great about the quiet but still there time.

I’m an introvert and I look for in a partner someone, who has a good personality, sense of humor, compassionate, kind, has confidence.

Thank you for being constant.❤️

2:17 FİNNALY A COOKİE RUN KİNGDOM REFERENCE I hope we can get more of them and dig characters psychology I especially want to see analys of 'Cookies of darkness'

When i was a kid, I've always thought small talks like those are normal convos and mature topics, and things that i like to talk about are "childish" and self-centered. I thought it might be something that comes with growing up, but growing up i still find it really difficult to get into those topics, so what i did is i kept quiet and only talked about them whenever someone brings them up, or if i saw them doing/talking about them and i delt comfortable enough to talk to them. This video is an eye-opener, and i hope some extroverts out there also learns a thing or two in this video, Thanks Psych2go!

Yes! I'm very introverted, but I'd actually enjoy having an extroverted partner. I imagine her taking me places that she likes and trying to get me to do things that are a little out of my comfort zone, but I'd be happy to try! I just hope for quality talks and a bunch of quality time together! A great way to make me open up is to ask to do simple things with me (like hanging out one on one) and ask me deep questions. I especially like being one on one.

I would be so glad if I'll be able to meet someone who is able to understand me even when I am not able to put my words together or when I am silent.😊❤️

I honestly really loved the art and style of the new animator, Kami! The little cat mouths look super cute, and I enjoy seeing a variety of styles here! The references of course were a lovely addition (though I may not have caught them all) -Undertale, Deltarune, Doki Doki Literature, and Frozen. :3 The video was great, too! I chuckled a couple times at the script to myself. As an introvert (an INFP to be specific) I liked some of the things you brought up!

Im an extrovert and my best friend is an introvert, I love spend quality time with her, i love listen to her too, this video literally describes things that introverts need in a partner or a friend

Introvert here, married to another introvert. I love the long hours we spend in the same room, not talking and working on different things. ❤