INFJ LIFE COACH | ACCELERATE YOUR LIFE THROUGH EXTRAVERTED SENSING (SE) 

I understand that, put pissing people off is sort the byproduct you can't remove. Stepping into your SE means making YOUR vision a reality. It is hard and draining but you reenergize and do it again. With time your reality looks more and more like your vision and you will realize it takes less and less energy to move forward. You become stronger AND there is less and less resistance because your reality already looks so much like you would like your NI. Best thing I ever did.

Talking. I am wondering how should I express myself to others so that I wont get hurt. I do it anyway, but becouse I do it I can see that the fear dont go away. I would love to hear your viewpoint on how to have a conversation and infj's weaknessess, strenghts and developement and is there a differences between infj male and female conversations. And btw, this video was a blessing. This is exactly what I go through: developing Se. I have been going to different groups and have seen great developement in a fairly short time. Started gym, made a budget, read about boundaties and applying them, planning future, cleaning my house, eating well, planning career etc. I am starting to really feel and see differences of people, but my obstacle is getting to know people outside on the group. I see almost always one person that resonates and I would like to know more from them. I just realised this. So I should initiate. I am also a man, so maybe men particularly should initiate? As an infj male i am sensitive, but I see the high intuition is a benefit, becouse I can also see more easily to whom I can approach safely. Thank you, this video really touched me.

So helpful. Thank you so much.

HI WENZES, WOW. I AM SO INSPIRED BY YOUR VIDEOS. THERE R SO MANY VIDEOS OUT THERE TALKING ABOUT INFJ BUT YOURS IS TRULY OUTCLASS. FAR AHEAD. YOU ARE DOING EXTREMELY GREAT WORK. CONGRATS. IN YOU AND WHAT YOU SPEAK, I CAN SEE MYSELF AND YOU RIGHTLY SAID, SE IS MY BIGGEST OBSTACLE. BUT IN ONE WAY I FEEL A LITTLE DIFFERENT FROM WHAT YOU NARRATED OR MAYBE I UNDERSTOOD YOU WRONG. I AM A BUSINESSMAN, IN A FAMILY BUSINESS IN INDIA AND UAE. EVEN THOUGH EVERYONE COMES TO ME FOR ADVICE SOLUTIONS, COUNSELLING ETC, THEY ALL KNOW VERY WELL, HOW SLOW I AM WITH MY ACTIONS. LOL. MOST OF THEM TAKE MY ADVICE OR STRATEGIES MOST OF THE TIME. BUT MOST OF THE TIME THEY ARE ALL WORRIED ABOUT THE ACTION OR IMPLEMENTATION PART ON MY SIDE. SO WHEN I FINALLY WITH A LOTS OF EFFORT GET TO MY SE MODE AND START TO IMPLEMENT, THEY ARE ALL SO HAPPY & IMPRESSED RATHER THAN GETTING AWAY FROM ME. I AM HERE REFERRING TO MY PARENTS, PARENTS-IN-LAW, OUR MANAGEMENT LEVEL MANAGERS ETC. THEY ALWAYS COME IN AND SAY THAT ONCE AJU GETS INTO ACTING MODE, THERE'S NO STOPPING UNTIL HE COMPLETES THE TASK WHICH MANY OF THEM THOUGHT IMPOSSIBLE OR VERY DIFFICULT. THEY FEEL, I HAVE MANAGED IT WITH SO MUCH EASE, WHAT THEY THOUGHT, MAY NOT BE POSSIBLE. THEN THEY ALSO ADD AND SAY THAT AJU ONCE GETS ON SOMETHING, HE IS UNSTOPPABLE BUT HE NEEDS TO HAVE THE INTENTION TO START IN THE FIRST PLACE. BUT MY ACTUAL ISSUE IS NOT WITH MY INTENTION. I HAVE THE INTENTION MORE THAN ANYONE ELSE BUT ITS ALL TO DO WITH MY SE PROBLEM WHICH I TRULY UNDERSTAND NOW. THANKS, A TON TO YOU WENEZES. WHAT I MEANT TO IMPRESS HERE IS THAT I MOST OF THE TIME FELT PEOPLE GETTING CLOSER TO ME AND HAPPY FOR ME WHEN I GET TO MY SE MODE, BUT WITH FEW EXCEPTIONS WHEN I HAVE A DIFFERENCE OF OPINION WITH THEM, AND I GET TO MY SE MODE. THE HAPPY PEOPLE ARE ALSO MOST OF THE TIME WHO ARE ALSO BENEFICIARIES OF MY SE MODE. I M SOMEONE WHO SUFFERS GREATLY BECAUSE OF MY INFERIOR SE MODE. DO YOU KNOW HOW MUCH OF DIFFICULTY I HAD TO START PENNING DOWN THIS REPLY? LOL. I AM SUCH A WELL-WISHER OF YOURS AND YOUR TALKS HAVE GREATLY HELPED ME IN UNDERSTANDING MYSELF EVEN THOUGH I AM NOT SURE IF I AM AN INFJ IN THE FIRST PLACE. YOU KNOW VERY WELL HOW MUCH I WANT YOU TO KNOW ABOUT WHAT I FEEL, YET I FOUND IT SO DIFFICULT TO GET STARTED WITH THIS REPLY, THEN IMAGINE, WITH MY USUAL WORK. AND I WANT YOU TO KNOW HOW MANY DIFFICULTIES I FACED. JUST AS MUCH DIFFICULTY YOU HAD IN TAKING A SHOWER, WEARING YOUR MAKEUP, AND DOING YOUR FIRST VIDEO. THIS IS WHAT I FEEL IS THE BIGGEST OBSTACLE IN MY LIFE. THANKS, A TON ONCE AGAIN, AND SORRY IF WAS TOO LONG. ALL THE BEST WENZES. YOU ARE DOING AN AMAZING, AMAZING JOB. HOPE TO HEAR FROM YOU SOON.

Cash and Labor. Besides the egomaniac "want to be thugs from the neighborhood who are cowards and like to hack and stalk because they are cowards".

We grow and we learn 👍😊

Interested to know what helped you overcome this?

@@bribai82 I built something myself from the ground up. My other problem was I would rush into things, I didn't have a problem with the work, it was just the direction. I took time to consider and asked for advice. Then when I started I knew I was on the right path and didn't get distracted and just relied on myself

so happy to read that :)

👏👏👏 great 👍

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It doesn’t have to be much, but tapping into SE will make a huge difference 👍 happy you are taking care of yourself

I've been doing this too. Helps a bit.

Glad the video gives you another push in the right direction for you 👍👍👍 consistency and small wins over and over again. You got this!

For me SE is to make REAL

Lovvit.... earthing our idealism.

Woohoo!! Happy you are taking care of yourself and taking control of your life 👍 way to go 👏👏

Glad you like it :)

So happy the video is helpful!!! Yes, watch it a couple of times. There is always something new we learn when we rewatch, re-listen or re-read something that resonates with us.

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Glad it‘s helpful Aude 😊👍👍👍

My pleasure 😊👍

Thanks Dandin 😊

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You're more than welcome :)

you're welcome 😊 glad the video was helpful!

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Please explain how it reflects in Hod and Netzach! I am fascinated by Kabbalah but I understand only the basis, let’s say. Thank you so much!

@@mgdkns6678 At first I viewed the Ni-Se relationship as being more like Keter to Malkut in Kabbalah, and in some sense I still do. But Keter to Malkut is like a complete manifestation from imagination into physical matter reality, which can happen in many ways and within individuals of all different sociotypes. So Keter to Malkut is a different dimension of its own. Now, there are some new isomorphisms I have noted between cognitive functions and sephirot, and I have a little drawing of them. I will upload and link to show this diagram...

@@mgdkns6678 ibb.co/Pgwwj1v Ok, here is my diagram. The Fi/Te axis is not listed with Kabbalah equivalents here; I’ve had ideas on why that might be, but at this time I cannot detail them. There are also some ideas about how brain chemicals might be mapped within this system of isomorphisms

@@mgdkns6678 Tiferis and Yesod may indeed be Fi and Te respectively, leaving Keter, Malkut, and Da’at the hidden sephirot as the three sephirot that go beyond cognitive functions into other dimensions of manifestation

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& zikr before helps to counter Ni-Ti Loop

😉 just make sure you really are doing what you want and are really just smiling and not putting yourself in your own jailcell