WHY THE MATURE INFJ KEEPS IMPROVING THEIR EXTRAVERTED SENSING 

Very very important! And I think it is more rewarding when engaged with for the sake of Fe or Ni. I am initiating more lately, scheduling more with friends, also go out for a run on a beatiful day. I used to think doing too much might be too draining, but it can actually be very emergizing, especially when it pays in Fe or Ni rewards (strenghtening relationships and having good experiences with friends, or getting better insight because I gathered more).

It's all about the first step. It's a long proccess for an INFJ, but when you once take the first step you will be surprised how quick can the things work out. In fact that's an enormouse advantage. I think that this long proccess of stepping into action is what define's an introvert and our biggest power and advantage. We can take everyone by surprise when we finaly take action. You can never know how deep the still water actually is.

Before I knew I was INFJ I recognized that I often needed to get out of my own way in order to get things done or to find happiness. In a sense I had to embrace the practice of putting myself in uncomfortable situations; to run towards my fears instead of away from them; to make bizarre statements and stand by them; to pursue relationships and accept my awkwardness. I tried to learn to laugh at myself and my failures - even when it was painful to do so. The most moving characters in movies for me are the ones who face impossible odds armed only with inner principles and knowing they will fail or even die. This is how I defined virtue for myself. I saw myself as an underdog, outlier and outcast. When I was told that I didn't have the competitive instinct to become a doctor it only motivated me even more to become one - even if it put me into contact with many personality types that I avoided socially. When I interviewed for medical residency at Brown University (which should have been out of my league given my lopsided educational background) I learned to sell my eccentric background, ideas and traits as strengths to come across as visionary. It worked. At the end of my residency I wanted to confront my insecurity about my clinical knowledge and public speaking so I became chief resident where I had to lecture every day. I always strive to better myself. I always believed I could do better. I'm not sure where that came from, because my early life was full of self-doubt, self-flagellation and a good deal of clinical depression. I guess I realized that true suffering, to me, was the notion of living in isolation with my greatest ideas and hopes unrealized.

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Same with me. She’s amazing!

Feed Ni with Se. I can do that. Thanks kid.

Definitely can relate to that, keep at applying, take your breaks, and things will change eventually 🙏🏿

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A cool idea would to make like a mini bootcamp video maybe 1 on 1 like a coach sesh video

How to register for bootcamp ? Is it happen on this channel or by some other link ??