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Interview: Former JW Elder Speaks on Unconditional Love and Cognitive Dissonance 

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@mygutfeelingoverlooked199
@mygutfeelingoverlooked199 9 месяцев назад
nice interview brooo.... this week my ex assistant in the sound department wants to talk me... and his wife... in the real world this Guys and his wife are successful in business with 2 talented daughters in university.... he knows me Justin... he's complained last 5 years bcs not being appointed ministerial servant...... i told im 3 months ago the org. is a farce.. de your research... I told him there a better work we can do!!! by helping the ones waking up heal from the lies and indoctrination.... I think he is awake.. i keep u posted. good work keep going bro.
@NubianStone
@NubianStone 9 месяцев назад
Wow that's awesome news!! Looking forward to your updates.
@exjwdiaries
@exjwdiaries 9 месяцев назад
Wow that’s awesome! Hopefully he’s waking up! Keep us updated
@Alittlelexus
@Alittlelexus 9 месяцев назад
Be careful
@beautyRest1
@beautyRest1 9 месяцев назад
Yes, let us know. But be careful still. I met someone on the exjw website and we exchanged phone numbers. She lived close by and we are friends now. I was invited to thanksgiving at their house. It was so awesome. I’m grateful I met her and her daughter. We all woke up.
@denishartley3828
@denishartley3828 9 месяцев назад
Hi Justin & Tony, great interview, I identify as I lived through the 1975 WT propaganda era. Can you advise link to the first video, thanks. And if you are ever in London UK you're welcome to stay with us x
@jessicacaldwell6262
@jessicacaldwell6262 9 месяцев назад
I’ve ACCEPTED my still in JW family might never Wake up ….you have One lifetime live this one to the fullest let it be Happy having peace of mind and move forward and if they wake up then be there with open arms Love is Unconditional 👍🏼😊👍🏼
@tjmiller5060
@tjmiller5060 9 месяцев назад
I lost my sisters whose husbands were elders and po’s when I left in 1999. I was married for 21 years to an inactive abusive husband, I had to leave to save my life physically and mentally. Once I got out I saw the reality of the mind control. I was in counseling for four years once I got out.
@davidh5403
@davidh5403 9 месяцев назад
Justin your continued sincere and genuine interest in the welfare of the exjw community is palpable indeed!! Thank you.
@toddhayes3506
@toddhayes3506 9 месяцев назад
God is Love Support and Love All Unconditionally Happy Holidays
@lorawilliams346
@lorawilliams346 9 месяцев назад
thank you both for this great discussion!.. Crisis of Conscience helped me sooo much too.. God Bless Raymond Franz for having the courage to write this book.. he truly gave all of us a priceless gift. .i could not put this book down and i think it was something like 700 pages.. i got up early in the morning and stayed up late reading. i could not believe what i was reading but i knew it was true because Raymond Franz wrote so sincerely and honestly and candidly.. the detail is incredible.. i went on to read his 2nd book In Search of Christian Freedom which was equally good.. a beautiful soul who gave the gift that keeps on giving.. love to all
@alecfowler157
@alecfowler157 8 месяцев назад
Well done for getting out from this manipulative American Real Estate Corporation
@universeworld1782
@universeworld1782 9 месяцев назад
That's where my wife is. Cognitive Dissonance keeps her focused on the GB or what she calls the Faithful Slave. When you talk to her you find she cannot separate her relationship with Jesus or Jehovah without the GB! In other words she has put the Faithful Slave in place of Jesus. So she will tell you she does not want to lose her faith. Because her faith is not in what she cannot see, but in the now 9 men in NY. So it becomes a delima with her. I tell her you do not need imperfect Corporation from America to read and understand the bible. You can use what they write that is truth, but spit out the bones that are speculation. And that is where she is stuck. This Cognitive Dissonance permits her at times to shun me several days at a time thinking that will scare me. Or somehow teach me a lesson. And she does this because this is taught by all local Elders. You judge then you shun Doctrine. 😮 after years of seeing this in the Congregations it just becomes automatic for the majority of 8.5 million! So that's how they can drive that wedge in between family members 🤔
@joepublisher166
@joepublisher166 9 месяцев назад
One of the interesting points about this interview is that Tony's personality and attitude totally wipes out all the negative adjectives that the WTS attaches to ex-JWs, in hopes that it will cause members to never listen to them. And, that alone is one of the things that helped me wake up. I would say to myself, these ex-JWs are so sincere and humble, they don't fit the harsh and negative description(s) that the WTS constantly and frequently reminds the flock of: bitter, haters of truth, an ax to grind, etc., etc. The WTS's description of apostates is simply unwarranted character assassination and they teach the flock to fear them. There's the word fear again, because all cults use fear mongering to control their cult members.
@K-Fred
@K-Fred 9 месяцев назад
I enjoyed this. Thanks Tony for sharing this. Thanks Justin for putting this on.
@exjwdiaries
@exjwdiaries 9 месяцев назад
Glad you enjoyed it
@wk2761
@wk2761 9 месяцев назад
Great interview! Thank you Justin and Tony. It amazes me how when we reach out to the family that we shunned, they graciously accept our apology and give love. Real love! Unconditional love! WT has to keep it's loyal members, VERY close! WT knows that it's business plan is VERY fragile! Yes, I agree with Tony, "don't look back but look forward." Karma is biting WT in the butt! Keep up the good work, all you whistle blowers. You are making an impact! Thank you for all you do!
@rdhawk929
@rdhawk929 9 месяцев назад
Excellent interview! Glad to see Tony enjoy life. It is NEVER too late. 🤗🎉✌️
@toddhayes3506
@toddhayes3506 9 месяцев назад
God Bless You Justin
@dawnbehatin1224
@dawnbehatin1224 9 месяцев назад
Yet ANOTHER great interview with Tony!! This man is so kind and loving in spite of the trauma he's been through. He has a teaching spirit and is a blessing to all of us who've escaped a high control group. ❤❤❤❤❤
@Estee.Ar.6869
@Estee.Ar.6869 9 месяцев назад
Thank you Tony and Justin. That was a fantastic follow up interview. Great explanation of what Cognitive Dissonance is.
@beautyRest1
@beautyRest1 9 месяцев назад
Beautiful!! I wish him the very best! I also hope that this community comes together even more and STOP bashing each other! That’s another reason why I love this channel and subscribed! Thank you Justin!
@exjwdiaries
@exjwdiaries 9 месяцев назад
Thank you 🙏
@solidsnx
@solidsnx 9 месяцев назад
10 minutes in, and I'm reminded of my aunt and my uncle on my dad's side. I always saw them as "worldly," but they were still family, so there was this weird, uncomfortable "love" between us. When I left, I began to heal the relationship to the point of having a candid conversation with them, explaining things my dad never did or could even he was alive. I asked them for forgiveness, which they both gave me freely. I now feel truly blessed to have far better relationships with them.
@jackijax505
@jackijax505 9 месяцев назад
Great video!! I’m interested in those who were the only ones in their family that came in & as a result, their “worldly” family shunned them. Then got df’ed, reinstated & then faded. And those who are now out, dealing with narcissist non jw family. It’s like the nightmare never ends!!! Are there any others out there like me? I’m eager to connect with those ones. I’m way older now, but literally have no support on either end. Isolation since a work accident nearly took me out, showed me a lot about people in general. The world is full of narcissist behavior. There are true friends outside the org, but like with anything, cognitive dissonance is everywhere. I’d love to have exjw friends who see things for what they are. I think they’re the only ones who would truly understand at this point. I love your channel & all your content. It’s truly refreshing & comforting. 🤜🏻🤛🏻💪🏼💕
@diannmills5074
@diannmills5074 9 месяцев назад
Enjoyed hearing this interview. It’s always good to hear all the ways your life changes when you know what unconditional love really is. Shunning destroys families and that’s just not right.
@dissidentfairy4264
@dissidentfairy4264 9 месяцев назад
So many things that you said struck a definite chord with me. First of all, none of us who are still believers left Jehovah, that's a fallacy. JWs do not have exclusivity with the one true God. He's God for all who believe in him. I started to wake-up in 2014 after I found out about the UN affiliation. From there it just snow-balled with the absurdity of the 'overlapping generations' doctrine, the 607 BCE-1914 doctrine, Jesus isn't our mediator doctrine, failed predictions, the history of the organization, etc., and of course reading Raymond Franz book, but I wouldn't say that I was fully awake until the last couple of years or so because it's a Long long process. Even after one has all their facts and ducks in a row and can methodically and intellectually go down the list of all the things that are wrong with the organization, there's still a little voice in ones head saying, 'what if I'm wrong' and they are right in spite of all the evidence? Is God blinding me? Weeding me out? Am I missing something? You ask yourself these questions a million times almost to the point of thinking you must be crazy. It has to be the "truth" it just has to be, until one day you finally realize it's not you, it's the organization. It is like a death to walk away from the organization when one wakes up. It's worse than losing a close family member in death because we were so certain it was the truth, most of us would have given our lives for it, I know I would have, and that is a bitter pill to swallow. Like you, I will never become involved with another religious church or organization. I'm a believer in spite of religion. I chose to stay on my own and do research as I cling to my faith in God and Jesus Christ without wavering. I have only made one ex-JW friend but we live in different countries, but I do see the attraction in regards to making ex-JW friends. We have so much in common and I'm certain that most of us still hold fast to our morals and ethics we had as a JW, so it makes them easier to trust than most. I still live my life as if I were a JW in that regard. For most of us it's not the morals and ethics we are leaving behind, or God, it's the religion, which we have deemed isn't the entire Truth. As there is a vast difference between some truth and the whole truth. 🧚PS Fortunately, my father, who was an elder, never abandoned his "worldly relatives" and neither did my mother. It would have been a travesty to do so as his relatives were just as ethical and moral as JWs. They were exceedingly decent people who believed in God. My mother's side was a bit more questionable in terms of some of their lifestyles, but they weren't criminals, and I will say they were entertaining and fun and there was never a dull moment. lol It would have been sad for me to miss out on experiencing all of them as a child. Some of my fondest memories was the time I spent with all of them. I feel bad for those who were denied the interaction with family. Our lives were difficult enough as children with all the weekly meetings (which I often enjoyed) and living up to our JW obligations at school, meaning standing out as different, meaning no flag salute, or standing for the National Anthem, or holiday activities. I'm not complaining because I still shun holidays, but JW children deserve a lot of credit for the bravery they have to endure, it's not easy. My parents became JWs when my mother was pregnant with me, so they never had to stand out as different while they were growing up at school. That's why I say that JW children need to be recognized for the sacrifices they make/made. End of rant. lol
@TallKulWmn1
@TallKulWmn1 9 месяцев назад
Thank you for sharing your heartfelt story. I’m so sorry for the loss of your son. I am glad you’ve escaped the Wicked Tower 🫶
@janespitfire9884
@janespitfire9884 9 месяцев назад
Yes EX Jw need to have conference to build each other up. The Washington DC meeting was GREAT. Tony and Justin thank you for helping so much so many people.
@Cherlock13
@Cherlock13 9 месяцев назад
Hi Justin Enjoyed this interview, thank you. I appreciate the work your activism is producing. Look forward to hearing more about upcoming events. Thank you Tony for taking time to share more of your story. I’ve been out for 5 years. A lot has happened with WT since then. I’m so happy to no longer be associated with such deceivers.
@coldboltlighting1237
@coldboltlighting1237 9 месяцев назад
Thank you for this video, I love you all unconditionally!!!
@lynetteedwards
@lynetteedwards 9 месяцев назад
Thank you Tony for sharing. We have been out 3 years now after 50+ years in the org. For a religious group that prides itself in "love" being the dominant feature we now have 2 daughters shunning us because we" foolishly left God." Every word you said is so heart wrenching because we all experience the same treatment from family and so called friends. Praise our Lord Jesus for rescuing us all.
@veronicasalas2666
@veronicasalas2666 9 месяцев назад
Justin I just want to thank you so much for helping me a few months ago when I was in a very frightened? state after I realized I wasn’t in the “Truth” ❤️🙏🏻
@exjwdiaries
@exjwdiaries 9 месяцев назад
Happy to help! Stay strong 💪
@Urbexprepper321
@Urbexprepper321 9 месяцев назад
His two interviews were the best I’ve ever heard
@grammargoddessNYC
@grammargoddessNYC 9 месяцев назад
This is such a powerful outcome for Tony and his wife and family. For everyone. These outcomes just prove there is NO real love INSIDE JW org. All the behaviors prove this. I am very happy he reconnected with family!! 🙏🏽
@toddhayes3506
@toddhayes3506 9 месяцев назад
Great Job
@julieevanb
@julieevanb 9 месяцев назад
Great interview!
@kelliwilliams9996
@kelliwilliams9996 9 месяцев назад
This is really really good!!!
@dannycasey8261
@dannycasey8261 9 месяцев назад
Y'all two should do podcasts together. Y'all blend so well. Be blessed and thank y'all for this video.
@joepublisher166
@joepublisher166 9 месяцев назад
OMG! I'm glued to this interview - great video, it's going to help a lot of exJWs!
@Cindy-yq1cy
@Cindy-yq1cy 9 месяцев назад
Congrats, Tony! You bring so much hope & humanity to all of us!😊 Warmest regards & positivity being sent your way!❤
@yurizhivago4591
@yurizhivago4591 9 месяцев назад
..I really enjoyed this interview Justin..thanks,
@stoobpendous
@stoobpendous 9 месяцев назад
So happy to see you turning the indoctrination over on its head and doing something positive and fulfilling with your energies. I enjoy the entertaining channels as well. But you're more about helping people stick the landing rather than just having a laugh and a poke at WatchTower.
@dannycasey8261
@dannycasey8261 9 месяцев назад
I LOVE This Uncle Tony! He's nothing like the Gobber Body Tony.
@carolreilly1697
@carolreilly1697 9 месяцев назад
Absolutely loved this interview! Thank you both. ❤
@Esther-1914
@Esther-1914 9 месяцев назад
"Crisis of Conscience" really helped me to understand that the grubbering body is not inspired of god like JWs preach. That was one hurdle to overcome. I never looked back.
@Riebill
@Riebill 9 месяцев назад
So so Happy for him!! This is the prayer that I have for my biological father! ….. and family on that side really! Such a wonderful human being but believing a lie! So glad that because I didn’t grow up in his home, my sister and I were never converted…though he continues to try… but at least we can have relationship because we were never JW’s. So though they believe that we are in a false or apostate religion (Christian)…we can still have a love relationship. I am yet praying!!🙏🏾
@dannycasey8261
@dannycasey8261 9 месяцев назад
Your channel is about the Only one that I chose to have Notices on. Great Job bro!
@haan3549
@haan3549 9 месяцев назад
Thanks so much ❤
@ronaldjasper3695
@ronaldjasper3695 9 месяцев назад
I have the best story ever for when I joined a foreign group .what a nightmare
@fuzzyh1ghland3r28
@fuzzyh1ghland3r28 9 месяцев назад
I felt alot of emotion waking up and how I treated people in the past . As witnesses your supposed to be raised humble but you gave a sense of superiority to others because your taught they are all gonna die except jws at Armageddon anyways. After waking up I feel so much regret but at least I’m fading at 33 and not wasting more life for watchtower . 😢
@lorenmartinez7613
@lorenmartinez7613 9 месяцев назад
You are in your way to being a much happier person.walked out a year ago myselfe.
@klsawake3446
@klsawake3446 9 месяцев назад
Excellent interview Tony!! Bless you! Do you have a link to the first interview?
@denishartley3828
@denishartley3828 9 месяцев назад
❤Please advise link to the first interview, I can't find it. Thanks! Great interview x
@rickwilkerson3865
@rickwilkerson3865 9 месяцев назад
‘Return to Jehovah’ perfect example of loaded language. Don’t live up to our requirements,Have a moment of clarity? Entertain your own thoughts, call into question any of our unbiblical practices? We’ll ostracize you and tell others YOU ‘left Jehovah’.
@user-nn1yb5ld9h
@user-nn1yb5ld9h 9 месяцев назад
The loss of so many sheep becoming awakened, and no longer slaving for their publishing house, they've lost a great deal of revenue and must now beg for donations. After all, they still have to finish their movie studio and that's a costly adventure. Yes, they've lost a great deal of their slave labor due to folks waking up.
@zeemorgan5425
@zeemorgan5425 9 месяцев назад
Ginuwine unconditional love i very much miss
@dannycasey8261
@dannycasey8261 9 месяцев назад
I went and saw the movie Venila and they said Sophia asked me! Funny that Sophia is used in the movie and in WitchTower?! And what does Sophia mean translate to?!
@dannycasey8261
@dannycasey8261 9 месяцев назад
"Yes Sofa, you can give the 10¢ you saved by getting One scoop instead of 2 scoops to Lett or Tony Morris. They are in contact with and see Je Hooover often. They can hand the dime to Je Hooover. Je Hoover sucks that's why his last name is Hoover!" 😂 I'm sorry I lied. Jes last name is Hovah. It seriously means Destroyer. A fitting name for the one and Only that destroyed my family and many others!
@tracyking4518
@tracyking4518 9 месяцев назад
Cognitive Dissonance, the unreliable narrator, invites us to find the truth between extremes, neither here nor there
@itsjustme6315
@itsjustme6315 9 месяцев назад
❤😊❤
@dannycasey8261
@dannycasey8261 9 месяцев назад
God is All Powerful and Loving. But when he saw his Son being murdered, Either he Chose not to protect his Son, Which in itself is Unloving Or he wasn't Able to help his Son, Which is Limited Power?! Doesn't sound Loving nor All Powerful to me. And If Blood must be spilt to forgive sin and God makes the Rules, then God Chose the spilling of blood to be the way to cover sin. In Fact he chose that His Only Begotten Son had to be The One to be murdered. In the American Just US system 😂 Everyone involved in a murder are guilty. If you helped move a body you're as guilty as the one that pulled the trigger (not pulling Roy Rogers horse Trigger but a trigger on a gun). So that would mean that God conspired in the Crossing of his Son.
@pamelasloan1664
@pamelasloan1664 9 месяцев назад
Are you an xjw?
@karenmoody2763
@karenmoody2763 8 месяцев назад
God of Bible is the Hebrew strom god ,the jealous god ,the revengeful god and not a god i care to worship
@derrickroper7318
@derrickroper7318 9 месяцев назад
JEHOVAH'S ORGANIZATION & WITNESSES ARE FILL WITH LOVE, OF COURSE WE ARE ALL IMPERFECT. BUT JEHOVAH'S WITNESSES ARE A GREAT UNIT
@michelleallen4585
@michelleallen4585 9 месяцев назад
They are filled with love until they get u into their Organization, after that U will Truly Wonder Where Did the Love Go,
@jessicacaldwell6262
@jessicacaldwell6262 9 месяцев назад
As long as you believe and belong in the WT organization otherwise that Love you talk about Will Definitely STOP !!! 😱🤨🤣
@elainebraindrain3174
@elainebraindrain3174 9 месяцев назад
You are choosing deception😢
@michelleallen4585
@michelleallen4585 9 месяцев назад
@@elainebraindrain3174 what is more Deceptive Then a Group of Men, Who Don't Know Me or My family At All, Is gonna tell My Mother and Father!!!! Not to Associate with me because we don't Love A "Spiritual Being" to whom U or I have Never Seen, Heard His Voice, Nor felt his Touch, No @elainebraindrain3174, it is YOU Who is being Deceived
@Godly-Beard
@Godly-Beard 9 месяцев назад
The moment you question things and believe differently that "love" will disappear.
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