If women stop doing what you mentioned men would step up!! I started to be in the same position trying to make a man be something that he is not. So i left. Point blank period!! I did not understand a man's character plays a big role in a relationship until tony mentioned a man's character and what it meant.
I met my ex few months back. Broke up with him because I realized he was watching my pockets. One day he asked me if I made 80k or 100k as a RN. Told him what I make is none of his business. Next day we’re out and he told me I should cover the cost of something very minor($40) because I make more money smh, told him I’m not covering the cost idc how much I made. That was it for me. Just be careful ladies, they out here lurking.
I recently dated a man for a few months but I wasn't really that into him. One day he said to me that I was perfect for his future because his plan is to quit his job and go into real estate and he needed a woman that could pick up the slack the months he didn't get a commission. My total gross income between my two jobs is about $75k and I work extremely hard on both of them. That statement was exactly what I needed to hear to realize he definitely wasn't the man for me.
My city is full of men like this. A small city with high poverty rate. Men are looking for their cash cow. Women really be thinking it’s love but he really just need somewhere to stay.
Yep...I saw a video the other day where a man was saying that he watched a video on IG where a man is teaching men how to trick women to get into their homes [ I'm paraphrasing ]
A lot of men will begin by asking "so what do u do". I always respond with Nothing. Cus in Nigeria a lot of men are struggling financially and the economy is bad. A lot are looking for a come up
A male acquaintance of mine was working retail and met a women who was an attorney. He proposed to her in 2 months, and they married within 6 months. Cut to 5 years later, he is now making closer to $50K, and all of a sudden, “they having problems” that he can’t fully articulate. 🤨🙄And he’s filed for divorce. So y’all better LISTEN to Tony.
Ladies open your 👀 eyes be aware. A man tried to play me like this and I walked away. Its pitiful for a 6 foot man to want wear the panties in the relationship. Broke. Bad credit. Prior divorce. Lives with his momma. Low income job. I told him best wishes and stay safe. 🌹
Yes ladies. As a new nurse I’m nervous to even tell men what I do for living because of the trash cans that are attracted to me. “‘I’m in customer service” I tell them. 😂👩🏾⚕️💋
It’s true-some men are looking for an opportunity BUT...It kinda goes both ways because some men are asking what we do to make sure WE as women are actually working and have a life because some women are gold-diggers too!
I normally say, "7 kids, living in my grandparents basement, and getting my G.E.D." Some of them were like, "so, when do you want to hang out"? Sir, 😳 😳 😳
What you think, or be around about a man, former Marine, now 1stRsp/PD, never married, no kids, 🤔, acting like hes not sure if its what he wants? Close to 50, white. Lol Works Alot. All his friends are married w/ kids? Interested in your impression.
I used to be triggered when I heard Tony talk about folks not wanting to work for themselves; being content with working for someone else and following the norm of society. My rebuttal was always, not everyone can have their own business....our society isn't set up for that.... I had to realize that my thought process was toxic conditioning. We all have talents and a purpose that would benefit others and it's ok to be financially rewarded for those talents/purpose. I had to shift my mindset. I had to release the toxic programming. Y'all forgive me. I comment a lot now. Not because I'm attention seeking but because I live alone and this channel is a huge part of my daily life and I don't feel ashamed to say that. Blessings tribe 💯
Ladies don’t let men make you feel like a fool for setting a financial standard. Especially if you are a high earner yourself. As Tony would say, Don’t get got! Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Don’t let a man trick you into believing you should settle for less.
🙋🏾♀️ (Financial Treasurer Here) SSI is a dividend that can only be paid out after the age of 65. Only exception to early SSI is with a classified disability. If you have a form a retirement through last employer; you should be able to cash out depending on employer’s retirement investment pre-qualifications. I would advise leaving it there and waiting to the age of retirement to cash out and you all should be paying into your own retirement packages tailored towards self-employed individuals! Hope this helps! 🙏🏾
You told the truth in this video. My older brother manages the money his wife earns. He has never had a decent job, had an apartment in his name, or filed taxes.
A gold digger is a gold digger. It doesn't matter what is our income ladies. A man is out to get what they can from us. Be care and wise ladies. Beat them at their own game. You old your cards and no when to fold
Yay another episode of my favorite show! And this woman needs to abort mission immediately. Why is him proposing to her contingent on her finishing her master’s degree? And he’s only saying he’ll pay the mortgage only ( and that’s questionable). RUN! she was right to cut things off! Male gold diggers are very real!
"WOMEN, " MEN ARE LOOKIN FOR A COME UP!" SO THAT THEY CAN FILL UP!" LET HIM BE ! AND " LEAVE !" TIME TO MOVE ON! THANK U TONY ! LOOKIN FORWARD TO MORE! GOD BLESS U AND YR FAMILY! AND EVERYONE IN THE WORLD! RIGHT NOW! SEASON BLESSINGS TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD! RIGHT NOW! 😊🙏💖
I love every time you start describing how a man needs to be dripping in anointing in order for these women to believe what they're saying. Lol "You need to look over there and see Jesus" 😭😭😭 I love these videos 🙌🏿💯
Hi tony, i am a white woman. I do need to hear your videos. U hit a lot of subjects that i need to hear. Especially the ones about being equally yoked. And what u give of yourself better kids, family and business and men with a vision. Thanks so much for your videos 🙂
Maaaaan, true story: There was a young woman in our town, who was a psychologist. She married a dude “fresh out”. He killed her. Court records revealed a history of abuse. I hope these ladies listen to you.
"Cuz one thing bout me I'm from the skreets "😂😂😂 I swear to God, when I say my older brother use this line so many times. He even had the courage to use this line on me in a argument . I picked up my little binder, and left from the kitchen table. I refuse to listen to a guy, who don't know how to wash clothes and burn noodles. 😂
Wow! TONY I love your transparency, and humor but it’s so real! Thanks for teaching us with such passion! Blessings to you and your beautiful wife! .......you’re sooo funny
@justglendalo exactly! This is because honestly he saw things in you and it wasn’t enough to tap into human nature to claim you and vice versa, I’m happy for you queen.
Don't flaunt your career and what you do as a selling point..then you won't attract men who want to use you for that. Trust your intuition...if you felt specifically that he was looking for a come up..then he was.
Uncle Tony is so right, military relationships can be quite hard 💯It takes people to know their path and gifts to have purpose in life, plus deployment could a affect communication too. Not impossible, just a bit harder.
"Hitch their wagon to a woman's horsepower"👏👏👏 keyword horse..because you will get in a relationship and be the horse doing all the work. Lordt Tony you said somethin with that!
@@DsCompilations It’s not off topic. He literally was speaking about Beyoncé and Jay in the video and how Jay is a business man constantly evolving. Maybe rewatch the video sis.
@@VintageAfro91 VERY smart because he has the money to grow and produce top notch product. Snoop and Whoopi were one of the first to take advantage and get into the business. So I’m happy black folks are continuing to get into the business that once oppressed and incarcerated them. 👌🏽🤑🤑🤑🤑🤑
You know Tony I didn't want to be shallow, but I realize now this isn't something I can bend on. All of my relationships since high school I have made more than the man I was with. And the result has been the same. It's time to raise that standard & stick to it so that I can attract my husband. Because it's not an issue for me, but it clearly is an issue for the man.
I know of some professional women who SETTLE with low poviding men who are living off them and treating them poorly. These men have really pulled the hood over these senses!!
Tony is smart, I never thought of black men and women in that manner when it comes to longevity when making money or career wise; really interesting points and perspective there right there Tony. We learning here about EVERYTHING.
Don't get what Tony's saying confused, with the man "TALKING" about his passion and big dreams but has no direction, plan and his ACTIONS don't ALIGN with his words. All should match: passion, dreams, direction, plans and ACTION!
First and foremost, no man is coming to live with me. He has to marry me and move me to live with him or stay where he is and I stay where I am. If he dont make same money I make or more, he is not meant for me. God made Eve after Adam was given dominion over everything and not vice versa.
I left my husband because he's so cold to me n lying about money. We don't even hardly have sex he's constantly accusing me off cheating and were together every day. He pushed me till I left now he's putting me down n telling everyone I've cheated. He wants a divorce but I've never cheated. I feel like he just married me to use me and for revenge. He constantly says mean n hurtful things. But he's threatening people he thinks I'm cheating with. I just need a second opinion I know I don't need to go back
Mrs. Steph Curry is also Executive Producer on some cooking shows, as well as home decor shows, Cllothing line..so one day she may out earn her NBA player husband.
