Is His Reason For Ghosting Her Valid? 

“Man up” is why Mr. Depp didn’t tell anyone too so 🤨

He dodged a bullet. Know your worth king. They acting like he crazy in the comments also for talking about it with a friend, but who doesn’t talk about their dates with their friends? He was probably telling them about a girl he went out with that turned crazy and now she has a radio station reaching out to him. If it was a female in that situation y’all response would be completely different

If he felt uncomfortable it’s VALID. Why do we make it seem like ALL men should WANT to hook up. His feelings are VALID. PERIOD. He wasn’t into it, so let it go. She actually sounds like when some guys get turned down and “don’t understand”.

Why even accept the invitation to go back to her place, if he didn't want to be intimate? Should've just been honest. Plus, she knew exactly why he ghosted.

Its one thing to tell your coworker about your date but it’s another thing to openly say he and his coworker were laughing assuming it was her. He lacks tact and the ability to be honest even if it wasn’t until the next day. Even if he didn’t tell her why but to fake an emergency and ghost seems a bit ridiculous. Also I would never use a family emergency to get out of something.

As soon as she said they had a night cap I knew it was that...too much for a first date.

I don’t know how I feel about this one. If genders had been reversed and a woman had said a male caller had been too aggressive and she felt uncomfortable, would Davi and Bert’s advice have been the same?

Good for him. Not all guys just want to sex anything that walks.

When she asked him to her apartment I felt that was too much. But he was immature for not being honest

He didn't want to hook up with a sloot, which is valid. AND he could have been authentic and simply responded to her text by saying, "I enjoyed meeting you but I won't think we're a great fit."

Seems like she dodged a bullet. If he didn’t feel comfortable on the first date, he wouldn’t have communicated well in the future either.

I don't blame the poor guy

Girl, any time the pull the "emergency" text, take it as a sign they are not avoidant pussies and just don't want to finish the date. Never in the history of the world does somebody send a text in an emergency. They would call. Even so, it's the number one most ridiculous thing to do to get out of a date. His security and safety was not at risk, he just didn't want to date you anymore.

At the end of the date when the question arose if you want to come back to my apartment, often doesn’t Translate would you like a cup of coffee, or do you wanna look at my meat stamp collection…. These are two grown adults he knew exactly if he took her up on the invitation what was he thinking was going to happen?? I Will never understand why someone can’t call a time out and be just upfront honest and say I’m really not that into it and leave. And if it is the truth that he’s not into that type thing on the first day why did he take the invite back to the apartment? Total full of shit total! Because if he felt bad why was he sitting there laughing and joking about it to his coworker who knew what her name was that means he’s talked about it something happened that he didn’t like and instead of being honest he put it on she was too aggressive

I don't blame him lol

Jesus Christ the signs and symptoms are all screaming he’s not into you. WHY do some people need to have closure and can’t accept that? Her friend also should have been honest and just told her what he actually said about her. Instead she gets the old, oh it’s not you it’s him. She really needs to learn how to read people geez.

Going by her co workers reaction to the phone call, I'm betting they both set her to humiliate her.

I've never met a guy that is scared to turn down sex!!!

If a girl invites me to her place I'm hitting that for sure

The ladies storytelling was not good.

Double standards, double standards, double freaking standards. Man let this be a man saying “I thought I was being flirty” but like always, I don’t expect anything different from these guys. Men do nothing right, and women do no wrong.

Sexist and the double standards on here is kinda icky