Is Love On The Way This Year? Here's How To Know For Sure 

Important vocab for this video: Harbinger: a person or thing that announces or signals the approach of another. Synchronicity: the simultaneous occurrence of events which appear significantly related but have no discernible causal connection

I pray that we'll both be pleasantly surprised by life this year

My sorority sister traveled the world. Made money, bought a home and never considered marriage through her entire 20's and 30's. She's 42. She got married last summer and her baby just turned 3 months old. Quite honestly, my 40's have been my most powerful years. Physically and financially.

We’re girls who’ve never had boyfriends. My family definitely stopped asking 😂 my dad even said, “Angela ain’t worried bout no men.” I was like …. Dang!! I love men, they just haven’t started lovin’ me 🤷🏾‍♀️😂

Steph, I’m turning 30 in March and my biggest fear was not finding my future husband before 35. I never had a boyfriend, a relationship, or any men find me attractive. Well, end of 2023 I finally pushed myself and went on my first dates and now as of Jan 1st, a miracle has happened have gotten my first boyfriend who is head over heels for me. It hasn’t set in and I still can’t believe it. Kind of scary having to learn to be affectionate and intimate with someone but I’m excited for this year.

This video was so necessary for me in my life. I turn 32 this year and I'm so worried nothing is gonna happen for me. You're like a big sister to me and this chat gave me hope. Thanks sooo much for this

Hi Steph, as a hairdresser for overv35 years, it always amazes me the people that fall in love and get married at older ages , i can tell you of 3 woman late 60s even 70 falling in love and say they are the happiest they have ever been. Big woman, old woman plain Jane woman.

I’m 33 and the man I’m dating has surely made everything I felt about love switch around… I never thought I would be making plans for the future or spending so much time with a man. I didn’t expect the love I’ve been receiving from him and I’m so surprised at myself for letting it just be and not stopping it. I’m actually embracing it.

I'm 41, will be 42 in the year, and still single. I'm reminded that I should be so selective about what I should surround myself and who I should be. I hope we all get our greatest year yet.

Hi Steph! I have never commented but I just feel compelled to come and thank you today. I am a 28yo South African girlie who adores this channel. Your videos have been such a source of comfort for me. At my loneliest in 2021, I would put them on, leave them playing while I got myself out of bed and ready for the day. I had a weekend ritual of practicing my make-up application while propping a video of you next to my mirror. It felt like I had my own bestie who kept me company and made my days less lonely. You do not have to do any of this, however, I am so grateful that you do. In 2024, I continue to watch and doing so regulates my nervous system in a way I cannot explain - my emotional support RU-vid channel ❤ I enjoy your content, I enjoy hearing your views about issues, I enjoy you as a person. I hope you have the best year in 2024 my angel ❤

I wish we could unlearn some of these time consuming thoughts. Being single is not leprous. Being partnered isn’t a fairytale. Some of us get into relationships that ultimately fail because the self is not known or the self is lost in the pursuit of checking off a box. Hoping for a person and actively getting the right person are entirely different things that require entirely different energies. There isn’t one right person, there’s quite a few viable possibilities in one’s lifetime. Best to all.

You're spot on. I met and married my husband within a year and a half, just before I turned 30. We had our first child when I was 34, about to be 35.

Just turned 38, been in the wildest rollercoster of emotions with my relationships since 2020 and before , I came to a point where I said I’m done with dating and finding someone cause it was literally draining my mental health . Deleted the apps, deleted the IG messages that were leading me nowhere.I had to literally stop putting so much pressure on myself and let life happens even if it means that I hated that part of my life not being in a healthy relationship something I desired .Because it seems so easy for others. I relate so much to your video. Until my friend who recently got into a new relationship introduced me to her partner best friend and here I am in a healthy and lovely relationship so far so good. So yeah life can be surprisingly weird for the best with all their up’s and downs.

Steph, you’re metaphors are ALWAYS the best 😂😂😂😂 “March doesn’t even have the opportunity to stretch his legs and pass gas before my birthday even come and gone” 😂😂😂 What in the world 😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭

Omg. I was single all of my 20s and at 29 I found my husband! I married him in 2022 at 31. You're so right!

I hope you find love this year Steph.

I love this video. I’m 35 and seem to have the isolation spirit. Never had a boyfriend either. No matter what I do, I can’t get a boyfriend or make friends period. I’ve tried many ways to do so in person and online and nothing ever works. I’m so glad you spoke on these topics because not many people I know experience this at 35 years old.

I literally used to fall asleep to guided meditations where i would visualize my future husband holding me in bed. I could feel his arms around me. I felt safe and seen. I imagined being a wife and held that in my consciousness. I re-wrote my beliefs about love and men (to positive thoughts). That created the momentum for me to meet my fiance at age 33 (now i'm 35) and we are getting married in May. Literally everything I visualized came true. I ONLY acknowledged positive thoughts and didn't keep beating the drum of my single-ness (even when I was single) because I knew if I kept repeating the energy of being single out loud, the universe would keep bringing me more single-ness. So I shifted my thoughts and words to being in love, being attached. That is the key.

I love these back to back videos for us! Go Steph!

I’m 28 and I just feel so behind in life, no job right now( I’ve been fired) no partner and everyone around me seems to have their life put together, I feel so embarrassed and lost. I’m keeping up a front that I’m happy and know what I’m doing but deep down I’m so lost and depressed 😢

2024 is gonna be a cute year for a lot of people 🫶🏾💅🏾

It’s true I thought I would never get married I got married at 33 and got pregnant on our honeymoon.

I turned 34 in oct so we will see. But i thought i was going to be married by 25..never happened. I told myself if by 40 i am not married i refuse to do it. To me there is no point, companion fine but actually marriage while all i will have are pets no thanks. A lot of us millennial women will not get married and i had to make peace with it. For 2024, i got off all of the dating apps i was on because it is all filth on it. I have to make a conscious effort to go out this year and stop staying inside.

I’m 33 now. About a week before my 30th birthday my good friend passed away. Literally at his funeral I was thinking to myself “I’m so tired of having to process these difficult emotional situations on my own.” I went to leave the funeral and couldn’t find my friend who rode with me, instead I bumped into a guy who I ended up spending the next 2 1/2 years with 🖤by far the best relationship of my life and shifted my energy from toxic/f-boys to princess treatment only. I just want you to know how deep in your bag you are with this one!!!

I so badly needed this video. I turn 30 at the end of this year and it’s been weighing on me mentally being so very single 😂 and wanting to be married and able to start a family. I’ve been trying to remain delulu and reminding myself that for some it all happens seemingly over night and that is possible for me as well. I pray we see movement this year. Love your channel!

You're so pretty no matter what light you're in. I think it would be awesome to see you go on love is blind because your heart just shines through in your personality and voice. You're so real. I just wish you lived in Windsor Ontario! We would be besties for sure 😊❤

Reminds me of the time when I had a sudden “nudge within” to start packing my grandma’s belongings. I had started packing and giving away things out of the blue to prepare for her house’s sale that I didn’t know would happen shortly after. In your Lizzo example, the point about “when I got where I needed to go, there it was,” reminds me about alignment. That’s my prayer to by in alignment with God’s timeline for what I’ve been waiting and praying for years🙏🏾✨

Hey! Keep your head up! You desire marriage, so it will happen! I got married for the first time at 50!!!! I am amazed at how God has blessed us! 😊

I’m 25 but I have started thinking more and more about relationships and what kind of family I want. The part you mentioned about community is sooo important. Both as an indicator of what might be to come for you, but also simply for meeting people. Some of my interpersonal relationships have broken down over the past year and I’ve been thinking about how I’m supposed to meet someone. I feel like so many people I know who’ve landed in long term relationships met their s/o through friends. I’m also picky af so I tend to need a sounding board😂

Dang Steph! You are so deep! More talks like this ❤ & am I selfish to believe maybe you haven’t or didn’t marry or had children just yet is because you still have a calling/purpose in your singleness to fulfill? I always say this but your voice and transparency in this space makes me feel less alone because some of the thoughts and experiences you have I can relate to and I can’t even talk to my friends about without fear of being judged, so I feel like I’m selfish because I’m thinking “if she got married in her 20’s she wouldn’t have had all these experiences and dropping these gems of wisdom to me right now because God knew I would need to hear this” but I’m ready to release you lol and I want whatever you want in this season of your life & I just want you to know that you are a blessing and a delight & I really really enjoy your channel, I hope you know how blessed you really are and I admire you a lot ❤

WE LOVE THESE VIDEOS PLEASE KEEP THEM COMING! KEEP THE ASTROLOGY, NUMEROLOGY VIDEOS COMING . YES THE LIGHTING LOOKS GREAT!!!

I just wanted to say you are so sweet and an older sister anyone could ever ask for.

woah I just turned 25 and have been single since birth so I'm definitely in the target demographic for this vid hahaha. I've honestly never been scared about turning 30 so the idea that things could completely change in my next decade is exciting to hear. I relate to that girl's tiktok of finding it hard to imagine a connection happening when my lived experience hasn't pointed toward romantic love at all. But your theories have kept me hopeful! Also, I'm not very familiar with astrology but I do find the subject matter interesting so keep these types of vids coming (if you want to of course haha).

Love it when you talk about these things, gave me hope that the 30s will be better for me. Could listen to you talk forever.

My cousin (who was never in a relationship and very shy) met her husband and had a baby in her forties. No one in the family saw it coming. Wish I had the exact age to tell you.

I agree with you about the energy settling in your bones. The body keeps the score sort of vibe. But none of it is set in stone. Working on healing, self-love, therapy. You can transmute that energy and work on emitting the energy you hope to attract :)

Today is literally the best day of 2024 for me, bc I’ve gotten you back to back. I need you to just post what you want, bc I’m here for it all. ❤❤❤❤ I’ve been waiting for my thirties for a while now. I’m now 26 and I’m counting down. I’m looking forward to being wealthier in the bank and in community. I’m looking forward to traveling more and being kinder and more loving to myself and those around me. I’ve always looked forward to aging-though, as I’ve gotten older (after 25, I guess), the fear of ailing health started to become a worry of mine. I want to age with good health. Anywho, single since birth, and 30 is my cut off for romantic connections and all, bc I’m terrified of romantic relationships and all that it entails. I can do without it. Plus, I think it’s cool to be one of those rare adults who’ve never gotten into romantic relationships. We’re rare. And that’s cool-to me, lol. Also, happy birthday! Life begins at 40!❤

So here’s something to look forward to in your 40’s. I’m 47, in my 40’s I have fallen in love with myself, in the environment I live and in my journey. There’s so much fear out about 40 and the changes but what happens as you emerge is transformative. Not enough is said about the butterfly you become and the kind of people and opportunities that transformation attracts into your life. We can think we missed love in our 30’s, maybe we were given more time to shed the cocoon of our previous experiences. To know our worth and accept the amazing people who come into our lives without doubt and fear. 40s are a woman’s primal years, the years we exist in our core and realise our potential to live and thrive in our truth. The love we find in our 40s and 50s is the love that meets all our expectations (even if it’s a new love for your existing partner according to my step-mum) because we are not up for dealing with just vibes. Post 40 are the best years to find true love. ❤

I love this video and I totally agree that the energy settles in your bones and you radiate it out and attract it .I also believe that through healing, you can reset the energy positively . Fantastic video Steph, you are a natural when talking about these things 😊

I just turned 30 this past December and I’m excited to experience this new decade. But I will say this video really resonates with me, especially when you mentioned how from your very first love experience and there after being dysfunctional. Life is a trip.

Love this! I’ll be 22 this year and I’ve never had a boyfriend but this is really great information to know! I have been stressing patience for myself more recently. I don’t necessarily want a boyfriend but I have been craving a touch or cuddle, oh well I guess! I can wait. 😂

Hello! So I'm 33 and last dating experience was SO close to "my person" but that whole red flags & Avoidant/Anxious attachment stuff started happening. After an emotionally devastating "break up" my rebound has brought ALOT of reflection and understanding of my role in things. And I now feel like something great is coming. Like I went from a heart of turmoil, confusion and physical pain to a heart that is hopeful, open & at peace. I am FINALLY truly showing myself the love that I now EXPECT to receive and I feel the energy shift that you were talking about. THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO! It was so timely & confirming for me to hear that energy shift. I'm about to watch the video all over again. Many thanks!

The timing of this was perf! Thank you for playing your part in the Universe’s plans. ❤ I think manifesting is something you create *and* something you know, to me it’s one and the same. Two sides of the same coin. I can create because I know it’s already mine, and it’s already mine so I know I can create it. Idk but my mind understands it best that way. 😊

Whatever comes into your life should flow! -Stephco🙌🏾🎁💎🤍✨️🦋 I just A-D-O-R-E you!🙏🏽🕊

Just turned 30 on the 17th (wednesday) and have been holding back tears throughout the whole video, especially when you talked about how the way we're treated since birth is out of our control, and yet shapes so much about us, because YES, I always think about that and it's so devastating. But when you said you've seen miracles happen in people's 30's the floodgates were open lmao. Thank you for this video, Steph. So, so insightful. I really needed this.

I try not to focus on time lines or seasons cuz it feels so much out of my realm of control. I just focus on learning whatever God is trying to teach me during "the wait." Every time I learn something new about the kind of I mate I desire or the feelings I desire to feel when I'm with him , I work on cultivating those identical qualities and feelings in myself towards myself. Eg .. If in the past I attracted a slew of guys who don't want to commit, then I look for the areas in my life that reflect a lack of commitment to myself and work on it ... Or if I'm attracting guys who I don't feel very stimulated by, then I work on creating experiences that stimulate me. I can't say for sure if this strategy guarantees the partnership I desire, but I do feel that the quality of people I personally attract is often a pretty solid reflection of or feedback on that which I either lack or possess from within. "Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all of the barriers within yourself that you have built against it."- Rumi

My bestie got engaged on her 33rd birthday this past weekend

You're sort of talking about Attachment theory. very real.

This wig looks amazing on you Steph😘

My life trajectory has always been that whoever Ive been in a relationship with, has always happened spontaneously. And 100% when I wasnt looking for a relationship. That's why my personal belief is, just live your life and things will flow toward you if it's meant to be. I tend to not live my life looking, wanting or searching for something/someone. And honestly when you hear stories of how people met, more often than not it's always happen stance. Love simply comes when you're minding your own business and living life like it's golden. 💛

You articulate your thoughts soooo well and every video feels so well thought out. This is off topic but it would be so cool to see BTS of how you prep and organize your thoughts for a video. 💕☺️

Im 25 years old and I believe in intuition and manifestation both play a role in our lives. In October and November i and my cousins were making jokes about “never experiencing a loss” and how good God was to us for NOBODY even being ill enough to anticipate such a thing. Anyways, thanksgiving came and went and we mentioned it again. I told my cousin, we are talking about death too much, we better stop! December 17 in front of my entire church congregation, my father has a heart attack and dies. Never even had a sign of a problem in his body. He was dealing with copious amounts of stress but besides that I was expecting to have his grandchildren. I now know that was the spirit of intubation warning us but we didn’t listen.

Wishing you all the best in love and life this year 💜💜💜

I loved this video!! I also like how it came out before Valentine’s Day.

This is one of my favorite videos of yours. You did a great job laying out and supporting your points.

This video hit my soul. Thanks Steph ❤

Watched all your videos today...loved them all! You're on a roll 🎉

Hi Steph! I just want to say that you are inspirational, I always look forward to your videos all the time ❤ I love your honesty and your vulnerability. Your strength amazes me. Thank you for being you ❤️❤️

Girl, I wish you the best. That being said, there is a lot of magic in your thinking.

Brilliant video, Steph! 100% agree with your point of view

This video was so needed. Thanks for being a light! About to turn 30 in a couple of months.

You are offering some really good life milestone information on a high frequency. Thank you

This was such a good video. Thank you Steph.

Thank u for this video 🤗. Love your hair too!

Steph you are a beautiful person and I’m so proud as a viewer watching your growth. I hope you get good surprises this year❤️

I turned 29 beginning of Jan so I loved this video! Im looking forward to my future now. I feel so much more at peace and am joyful after watching this video! Loved it soo much.

Thank you steph ♥️ for putting yourself out there and talking about this subject, I’m 41 now and this is exactly how I feel also. It’s so inspiring listening 2 your videos.Again thank you so so much for this.

Steph 3 videos in the past two days!?!? Thank you queen 😊

I would love more astrology videos from you 😊

Keep yourself surrounded by very positive people and God will bless you. You are young, beautiful and influential so it will happen for you! Keep doing what you’re doing.

Steph I needed this video so much. Im 29 and thought it was all over for me. Thank you for your perspective 🥹🫶🏾

This was a really enjoyable video! Loved hearing your thoughts - you excel at this and you don’t delve into your personal experiences to communicate your message.

Wow this video was really felt in the depths of my soul. I absolutely enjoyed your spiritual take on what the happenings of our lives indicate. I will be rewatching and rewatching girl.

This will be a beautiful expansive year for us, Steph. I’m rooting for you and I admire you like the big sister I’ve always wanted.

Nowhere near my 30s, I only turn 21 next month, but this video really came at a perfect time. Right before new years I just had a gut feeling that this was gonna be my year, and not like the cliche “new year new me” but a real definitive this year has a lot in store and I just couldn’t explain why. I’ve been watching u for a while and this video just made me feel even more hopeful not just for this year but way far ahead when I do get to my 30s and beyond

You will have feelings about things that you are meant to experience - amazing!

I can totally relate to this comment, Steph has a way of expressing her views in a way that makes feel like im seen and she gets me, and everything will be just fine, even if that version of fine is not what we had hoped for ourselves . But we are here, and we are okay

Okay, yes girl!! I loved everything about this video. (And the quantum leap comment! 😂) I have been able to "feel" the change in the air of several life path shifts for myself before they happened. I feel a lot of big things for 2024, but I don’t know if I "feel" love. The forecast doesn't show anything on the horizon. But I am ever hopeful as always! I do, however, feel a promotion in the air, so I will definitely be leaning heavily into that energy frfr. (I guess I'll have to return to this comment at the end of December to see if anything came true, lol!)

Happy Birthday! 🎉 I love the new content

Beautiful video Steph! I, also love your lighting and background 😂. That aside, I truly hope the tides change in the best ways for you this year ❤. You deserve every happiness that's enroute to you. Have a blessed and prosperous 2024 ❤.

God's timing is always perfect, when He knows you're ready, He will send them. 🥰 trust in Jesus and anything is possible.

This lighting makes you glow!

Great video as always Steph!❤️

Stephco! I don’t know if I’ve ever commented. Usually I’m a silent watcher, but I have to say I am loving these numerology videos. It’s a good video about a pseudoscience without it feeling new-age culty or bordering on insane LOL I always knew my Life Path Number 8 too (and a Pisces too) but I never knew about universal or personal year numbers until now. You sent me on a deep dive. I was literally up until 3 am researching because of your videos. I have a friend who used to be into some spiritual/psuedoscience things but the videos she would watch seemed very creepy but this video makes me feel like I’m listening to a regular everyday person talk about a topic I just happen to be interested in.

Love the honesty and woowooness of this video! Honestly don’t watch much as I don’t care for the gossip content, just not for me. But this is my cuppa. Still wish you well on your YT journey 🫶

Your videos have been recommended to me over the past year and I kept saying, “I’m gonna check her out soon!” This is the first one that I’ve watched and you did not disappoint. I’m looking forward to upcoming videos and catching up on what I’ve missed. I also don’t see any patterns around me now and feel doubtful that love will find me this year (though I will turn 35 so fingers crossed). However, I do recognize that there are some things I need to work on in the meantime that are best for me and will positively impact any future relationships. So this year I’m focusing on improving the love I have for myself and building a community that is filled with deep, platonic love. Best wishes to you, me, and everyone else watching!

Really good video! Very informative. Thank you ❤❤❤

Claim what you truly desire because its already yours. Remove negative self talk and limiting beliefs about your love life

Loved Everything you said in this. Thank you so much ❤

Happy birthday, Steph! 🎊🎉🎂🎈🥂🍾

YESSSS PLS Keep them videos coming !!!!!!!!!!!

Side note: I love that she has guidelines for the comments lol 😅 very teacher of her 💅🏽 But anyways, I hope the best for the genuinely good people this year and wish everyone some form of fulfilling love 2024 ! I want to put love out there and while I haven’t yet had a boyfriend before (whether that happens or not this year) I want to have loving new friendships! May God bless me and others ! 💜 💜 💜💜💜💜💜💜

Comparison is the thief of joy

I just realized that with my Lizzo example (you'll know what I mean when you watch the video lol) someone on her staff could have absolutely called ahead and requested the item without her knowledge. BUT, I've still received similar feelings/inclinations and without a staff to preorder everything for me...I have received the item or had the experience at a later time through seemingly unrelated events. Anyway, thanks for watching :)

Beautiful and informative video as always! I don’t think I’ve ever commented but wanted to tell you how timely this is! I just turned thirty a few weeks ago and have met a man that I can see myself committing to.

Steph, your energy theory is RIGHT ON. My personal philosophy about the omniscient spirit of this world is not as much religious, spiritual or magical as it is practical: I believe peoples' energy, behavior, words and attitudes that they put into the world directly effect what they get back. I even use the terminology of people being able to "smell" it on others. It's a 6th sense we all have by growing up in society and learning how to survive since before we could walk and talk.

Yes, lighting looks great 👍

The lighting and quality of the video is beautiful steph. When it comes to all the stuff in the video I genuinely do believe that there are set times for events to happen in each of our lives. For instance My career. I wasn't supposed to have a great start, Or I would have stayed In that specific area of science. And now i've branched out, I make more money and I enjoy what I do. And for myself I didnt believe I would be one of those women who would have children In my twenties. I can feel that i'm going to be an older mum. I also believe in the red string theory that links people. I think a moment like that happened to me last week.

My parents didn’t get married until they were in their forties! Love has no age and will find you if you want it

I just want to tell you that this hairstyle fits you well!!! 😍 you look super gorgeous!!! ✨