Is Masturbation WRONG? With Riley Kehoe | Episode 190, Heart of Dating Podcast

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Riley Kehoe joins Kait and JJ to get into the nitty gritty of masturbation and if it’s right or wrong with some practical steps included.
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TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 Introduction
10:45 Stats from Riley’s Article on Masturbation & When Kait, JJ, and Riley were introduced to masturbation
21:20 BIGGEST QUESTION- Is masturbation wrong?
22:25 Can you explain to our people the 2 sides of Masturbation?
33:55 Let’s talk about the positive about masturbation for a moment- you are a sexual being and that is a GOOD thing about you.
39:45 Conviction vs. Shame
44:33 Let’s chat about how to steward a life without masturbation. How does someone get FREE of masturbation? And within that, how does one combat the SHAME that comes with it?
58:05 What’s the difference here between behavior modification and pursuing holiness?
1:03:50 JJ, what would you say to men who say they need to masturbate because they physically need that release?
1:10:35 Any final thoughts?
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@CesarI. 9 дней назад

Difficult topic, laced with shame and secrecy....I appreciate that Riley Kehoe's firm stance on this, coming out of real Spirit-led struggle, in minute 31 she introduced Scriptures that really speak to the heart of this. Of the three speakers, she presents the most mature position. Thank you JJ for tactfully challenging the Brene Brown shame narrative, it is not done often enough in Christian discussions.

@Trinity3Hathaway Год назад

I myself as a women have experienced wet dreams so I do want to ad that based off my personal experience that It's not just men...Very vulnerable to say online but just felt the need to comment this.

@silencedogood711 Год назад

Ok Trinity.

@northwest_rain Год назад

Please don't pay attention to the previous comment, thank you for your vulnerability. As a guy, I learned that female wet dreams existed only a few years ago and I was absolutely mind blown. I definitely think it is something that a lot more people need to be educated about and understand that it happens and is normal.

@silencedogood711 Год назад

@@northwest_rain lol you guys are so weird. Matthew is definitely a creep. "Female wet dreams need more awareness" I've never read anything dumber 😂😂😂😂

@Trinity3Hathaway Год назад

@@northwest_rain I appreciate your support as well as knowledge :)

@nightguardian26 Год назад

Saw the title of this video and I knew I had to dog-ear and watch for later. This is such a hard topic and it's one which ended up breaking a slow-burning relationship between myself and another Christian woman pretty early. It can be such a sensitive subject to many so it's good to approach it slowly and, not to try to avoid, but to maybe delay approaching until you have a well-founded relationship with someone.

@heavencamedown Год назад

In my personal experience, asking Holy Spirit for strength to overcome the desire, and impulse is a a big help. Holy Spirit power and strength is a HUGE advantage we have as Christian’s for turning from sin and having a transformation of heart. Asking Jesus how He is meeting my need for intimacy, (need for feeling known, need for feeling loved, and/or the need of feeling pursued)? Jesus answers! Close your eyes and listen ❤️ “rhema” is His spoken words to us.

@Gday85 Год назад

Great point JJ. When you said “does this advance my relationship with Him Or detract” my men’s is going over porn Monday so very informative here

@letsseeif Год назад

How about we refrain on Sundays and the other days optional.

@lenzp2776 Год назад

Women and Men’s Body are different. Men have a high level of testosterone, that makes it so much harder, as compare to women. If you don’t believe me ask women that got a testosterone shot from the doktor. What I don’t get, as a single, everything is lustful and when you got married nothing is lustful, than everything what you do it’s good because you building connection. You can do everything, if your spouse agrees to it. From extreme to extreme!

@letsseeif Год назад

Is this the devils work or just God's wonderful relief system?

@northwest_rain Год назад

You wanna elaborate or nah?

@letsseeif Год назад

@@northwest_rain probably nah

@leesabravo Год назад

I've questioned this as well..🫢 However, i believe praying to our Father (who has left us with the Holy spirit ) so we can find strength to deny our Flesh. It's hard, it really is but do-able. Ultimately we are NOT condemned. We repent & we have daily grace. Thank you Lord for that gift ❤

@northwest_rain Год назад

This makes a bit more sense now.

@tonileolion9702 Год назад

@@letsseeif😂😂😂😂

@rcg1111 Год назад

I cannot believe 😱😱 the heresy of suggesting people think of God whilst m@$turb@ting. They should think of him before and pray for strength, not give into their physical desires and pretend that it is spiritual. Any pastor encouraging this is leading his flock astray.