Is Withholding SEX in a Relationship a Form Of Emotional Abuse? 

Of course it is abuse. Married 22+ years, less and less after 4 years, and nothing, not even a kiss for the last 8. always the ever moving goalpost and reason. Always comes back to accusations of me being a Cluster B Narcissist - I simply state I would not have stayed if this were the case. Once the kids are out - .........(all adopted, so post partum issues are not the problem)