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Is Your Ex Testing You
During breakup recovery it is very common to think is your ex testing you when you hear from them, or when they ignore your calls.
Every day we get asked is my ex testing me and what you should I do about it.
Ultimately a breakup recovery is your personal process of growth and transformation and if you are focused on the right things it won’t matter because you will be ready for all the tests that come your way.
As coach Alex like to say, throughout your breakup recovery every second of every day is ultimately a test.
We hope that this video will inspire you to dig deep and inspire you to keep fighting the good fight to be in a heathy and fulfilling relationship with the one you love!
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@marloninquirer 4 года назад

No contact works if your ex is really seriously in love with you. Doesnt work with players and users

@melissamiller4740 4 года назад

marlon luistro my ex said and i know this is crazy he said he still loves me, cares about me, wants me to be happy and wants to keep everything that i gave him. I do want him back but another part of me is that should i really give him a third chance?

@rebeccamarya2162 4 года назад

@@melissamiller4740 update pls???

@donna2693 4 года назад

Not really...see I really love my ex I also broke up with him 7 weeks ago due to his game playing...weve had no contact and although I do still love him the distance created between us now I don't want him back even if he did now get in contact....I need connection and interaction to keep things alive, distance I learn to deal with it and get over it, I'm more a out of sight out of mind kinda girl rather than absence makes the heart grow fonder type, doesn't mean I've stopped loving him though xo

@How.Dare.You. 2 года назад

But then you dont want those back

@Janani.G 2 года назад

Exactly

@katarina9168 3 года назад

Alex is my favorite coach, accent doesn’t matter. He is so sincere and cares deeply

@rosanneallen-hewlett9973 5 лет назад

Alex.. do not worry about your accent. Anyone can become acclimatized to an accent when they focus.. n'est pas? Your content is what matters. Merci beaucoup.

@ilariagiordano9958 6 лет назад

I absolutely agree what you said. You have to think with your own mind and without think what they are thinking, this is give them control of you. Completely. You have to think about who you are today and don't let the thought and feeling of the thought overcomes on your present. It's so fucking hard. I wish i knew it before the breakup and when he lost interest. First off i suppose everyone here should be able to tell them self to be healthy instead of emotional unstable. I really hope i will be happy with myself soon even if i have down and be healthy enough and strong enough to get him back. I dreamt i was texting him and i get him back, poor me, i was so happy. Thanks again for the amazing content you made today too! I was looking for it! Now i really just to take actions based on me :( everyone if they fix this they are in a good spot for themself and in case for getting their ex back. A hug from italy.

@ilariagiordano9958 6 лет назад

Bankers4life for real? Well every experience is pretty different cause we are unique so we create also unique relationships. Anyway i hope you are still together, i'm 100% sure i can also help her! Actually i'm dealing with up and down, negative thoughts are killing my hopes. This morning i was so happy by myself and superconfident but i had a bad thoughts that makes me unsure about what i want now... it is hard to deal with these. But i'm learning to listen to them and to accept them with calm and chill. I have no idea how to contact people in private but if you want to tell me your story you will be welcome mate.

@streetkingfrankenstein2809 6 лет назад

My ex lives with me so she can go to school and she completely trust me here. But I miss her and want her back. She broke up because I almost gave up on myself but now for the first time I have my own place, lost weight and going back to boxing. Now its been two weeks and we laugh and play games together. I keep my distance and hide my emotions. But one thing for sure we always made each other happy. Im continuing my career in my new job and boxing to keep improving me. Today she ask me to go to the movies with her tomorrow, is that a sign that Im close?

@jupiter-walk5461 6 лет назад

Fuck yeah that's a good sign, hopefully you went since it's already been a month. I feel like she is seeing the new you and she is starting to get attracted to you.

@fatengarrouch6707 6 лет назад

Yes sure she saw ur changes

@mosteez6928 6 лет назад

That’s a great sign man with my ex it’s somewhat like that but she would like take forever to respond after leaving m won seen n she would be dry but in person ik there’s a connection

@SolidLan 5 лет назад

JJ Rising I hope you get back with your ex. If that’s her in your profile pic she’s beautiful.

@soulace24 5 лет назад

Yea bro! Great job!

@bluesun2001 6 лет назад

Alex is so cute when he doubts "Subconscious, eh?" ))) It would be nice to hear Alex speak French (with subtitles) sometime. You guys are great, thanks for the video!

@mariannakrejniuk6858 5 лет назад

Well, he has french videos as well (without subtitles) under his name Alexandre Cormont.

@jcymngo 8 месяцев назад

He would say pu***n a lot. 😂

@benblexbenblex 5 лет назад

I think "unconscious" was fine

@Banana-lk7tf 4 года назад

Same.

@bryansolis3139 6 лет назад

"Your ex is just an actor", wow

@nicolebrowne3632 6 лет назад

Ok what’s the difference if they are testing you or just playing Games? My ex I’d say has now moved on , i only texted him yesterday for Father’s Day and he replied straight away with thank you ! Nothing else was said .. I cried over and over and can’t do it no more , obviously he don’t care ..i will continue to watch all these videos hopefully one day I’ll meet a man that will actually care and I’ll be more understanding how men operate.

@nicolebrowne3632 6 лет назад

What are the signs of them testing you coach ?

@alexandraflores7028 5 лет назад

nicole browne I have the same question too.

@mercedesrasso3633 4 года назад

Same question!

@Twannes 3 года назад

What would you do to get a reaction from someone? It’s al about reaction and indifference

@jayk7395 5 лет назад

My ex is testing me real good, she has another boyfriend.

@Jojo06190 5 лет назад

Same bro

@j.k.play2much625 4 года назад

Felt that

@alcwyndavies897 4 года назад

Where old doors close new ones open ......better doors will open for you, everything is tempary nothing is forever,

@RedRexxius 6 лет назад

My ex wanted me to keep doing boyfriend stuff I told her if aren't gonna work things out i can't be in her life. Did i do the right thing

@milanvujcich 6 лет назад

You did the right thing

@chloesammie9193 6 лет назад

When u have changed, u want someone else.

@BrinChan 6 лет назад

true

@jorgezavala5512 5 лет назад

then you change, transform you

@munirazaira5465 5 лет назад

Then i think i didnt change yet...but...i will get there!!! * . *

@sangitasarkar8275 5 лет назад

True

@nazaninmostafavi8480 4 года назад

Chloé Sammie well said 👍🏻

@wendyhenderson2698 5 лет назад

Thank you.. I know you right but its so hard when you love someone..

@hermitsplayground9182 5 лет назад

Were currently stuck in the same house until our contract runs out in 5 months. She says that she fell out of love and that everytime she sees me she only feels irritated. We've been together for 7 years and we know each other almost inside out. Could you please provide me a 5 month plan of what to do to evolve and let her see that I am changing. In this case she would be testing me everytime we are at home which is unavoidable.

@kyliestone588 2 года назад

This is a small thing, but I really appreciate how the editors left in the part where Alex said unconscious but meant subconscious. I don’t know why but it makes it feel more genuine.

@TheKITTYTZ 6 лет назад

What if she replied that the fact he thought it was a test proved to her that he was still jealous and thinking in complicated ways (I’ve been there that’s why I’m asking) they won’t admit they are testing you and you risk being accused that you still have that in your mind Just a thought

@barbaratadla2499 6 лет назад

Coach Adrian I would like to say thank you for all your videos and advise , you helped me a lot for the last two years . I was going through the most difficult time in my life. It helped me not to feel lonely and depressed . I still have anxiety and sometimes feeling down but slowly I am getting better. I never get back with my ex but I am happy that finally I feel free from that terrible person who put me in so much pain and suffering . Once again thank you !!!

@fatengarrouch6707 6 лет назад

I like ur English Alex U are very good

@uwaridiomari3991 5 лет назад

My x boy send me a birthday wishes and sometimes like my picture and comment on my Instagram what does it mean? He leave me because he told me he get a new girl

@emptyblu5409 5 лет назад

It means he's trying to keep you as a backup plan if things don't go well with the other girl, or is just being nice

@Ren08520 6 лет назад

My ex started showing up to my building where I work more often in the last couple of months, however, he's now moved to a different state with the girl he left me for. I was always wondering if that was his way of testing me and why he was doing that. I tried not to make anything out of it though. I've been in no contact for 5 months now and counting. He also told me that he was blocking my number but later found out he never did. Does that also seem like his way of testing me? I had chased for a while after and realized my mistakes there but suddenly stopped after I started gathering my emotions and began to implement my change.

@antman8646 6 лет назад

45k subscribers.. well done love advice TV. I been watching yous since pretty much the beginning when you started. happy for you three.

@LoveAdviceTVCommunity 6 лет назад

Thank you my good man, appreciate the kind words! Sincerely, Adrian

@afiabici 5 лет назад

He broke up with me and I didn't no contact, he text me after 2 weeks saying he thinks we can still have something special and I said we should talk in person about this and he said I agree, then he didn't reach out at all....I was waiting for him to come forward and take action. Few days after I text him asking if he still wants to talk and he said because I didn't reach out to him that he came to think that I'm moving on and that as much as it hurts we made the right decision and then he said he loves me so much and all that. Did I miss the opportunity? What should I do now?

@rnair8045 6 лет назад

Hi Adrian, Me and my wife are legally separating next month. She decided to part ways however now mostly its her who calls me and she checks how im doing. Last week i called her out for lunch and she came along without any hesitation. She was emotional, angry and upset which means she is not over me yet. I expressed myself and told that i want her to reconsider this relationship without being needy or desperate and told her that if she is happy leaving me, then she can do it so. 2 days after our meet up i get anonymous calls from some unknown number and unknown person. He says he sees my wife with some person going in his car during break and after office hours. This is the second call im getting after a gap of 1 month. I never called my wife and asked about this incident. i dont know if its her who's asking her friends to call me so that i move on to another relationship. Or is this a test from her to check if i lose my temper by calling her or if i become emotionally weak after hearing this? How should i proceed further?

@justamannothingmore1999 5 лет назад

I’m working my ass off to change and I have changed, now it’s no contact wish me luck

@remasbaraga5330 4 года назад

Alex accent is super cute, omg, am in love with it 😘😘

@piyushpandey4358 5 лет назад

hey coach Alex My ex gf broken up last 4 months ago... I chased her and begged her around 15 days... after that I started no contact .... in between NC I saw my ex blocked me on Facebook then later she unblocked too ... after completing NC first I done with message to reach her... she talked me of 2-3 text and then she started ignoring my text later I disappeared for 10-15 days and once again i texted her and apologized my mistake over text to her .... and finally she said she dont want to be in relastionship with me and told me to stop dramas .... and blocked me on fb .... and i noticed yesterday once again she unblocked me on fb...... and finally I blocked her from everywhere... am not able to understand why she behaving like this .... blocking and unblocking, ignoring my text and all please help me please coach Alex and how can I get her back

@queenxravencake985x 5 лет назад

Okay, so i told my ex I'm not changing beacuse i want someone to love me for me but he always sticks around so i guess he likes me for me but he has a girlfriend and still hangouts with me and takes me get my errands done he takes my little sister to places she always wanted to go and he still calls my mom mom and we did have a one night stand but i told him that I'm not having no sex with him without commit and he understood. right now he's said he wants to help me better myself meaning like help me find a job and stuff he has talked about us living together but i always said idk about that beacuse he has a girlfriend we have kissed once he complements me but recently he hasn't talked to me. my litle sister said his girlfriend is getting more mad with him and she blocked me on his social media but he still comes to see me in person he has kissed me once and he always gives me me a hug when we see each other and when he drops me off back home I'm not Sure if he really likes me tho beacuse we don't go out places and he told me he would leave his girlfriend but he never did so question is what should i say or do?

@jkonering4270 5 лет назад

Hello. Ive been constantly watching & liatening ur videos & talks & i so love each word u telling. I just want to seek help re my ex fiance. What if the ia very high pride. How to deal with him?

@louisalouise472 5 лет назад

Hi Alex can you please explain to me... my ex left 2 months ago. . No contact however he expresses his anger on FB through posting...post about relationships. Of course he's always the victim .... still states he is in relationship via his status. ..n will ocassionally look through my time line n like old postings ????? He left no contact 2 months till present. What is this all about?. .. thank you

@jaredbaty2229 5 лет назад

Adrian my ex messaged me to see if I had a new girl but when I asked what are you talking about she said Idk nevermind is she testing me?

@juviegonzalesgalutan73 5 лет назад

Hi alex can u give me advise because my ex borrowed a money to me at the time that we were on and when i break up with him because his a pathological liar now i just want to have my money back but still he is like playing my mind and controlling me because of that money please give me advise how to deal with this situation. Thank you and more power im learning a lot on your every single videos. Godbless you

@yeahtbh.161 4 года назад

03:41 blue shirt is so proud! bless him.

@isaacsmith3529 5 лет назад

As soon as accepted want she wanted, I start seeing jealously attempts and unblocking to see if I’m stalking her... it’s best I just don’t do anything... game I don’t want to play. She’ll hopefully reach out now she knows I can stand on my own 2 feet. I do love her but I didn’t walk away, she did.

@bossbitch4423 6 лет назад

Hi my ex broke up with me 5 days ago and has been contacting me during the 'no contact' period. She has just stated today that she's pregnant. I don't want to break the no contact period, however this news is important to me....any suggestions into 1. Should I break the no contact period? and 2. How shall I approach the situation via text or call (What to say etc)?

@Bigsky1991 5 лет назад

I was tested very early on in the breakup.... and I failed lol! She reached out, full of doubt and guilt...and I reacted with being cold, dismissive, and rude. I know... Hindsight is 20/20, and considering the mess I'm in NOW, I would have played it much differently. I was SO focused on bettering her and being "hurt feelings guy" that I was ignoring all the "shut up and kiss me" hints she was throwing at me...add to that Two 35+ day no contact periods gone by (with a terribly botched at the last second meetup in the middle) and now her blocking me on WhatsApp after reaching out to her on her birthday recently all tell me, she's feeling guilty, but my reaction is just pushing her away... she's now in a rebound basically to spite me....and I think the frustration of the disastrous position she's put herself in is feeding the problem. (Painted herself into a corner scenario) Well... after my reach out on her birthday (in an attempt to elicit an emotional response AND sabotage any birthday evening date she may have had planned) I think got SO deep inside her head that I did indeed get the emotional response, but not the one I planned on! Anyway... nothing I can do, other than just delve into my new direction as an Airline pilot (recently transitioned from Military aviation) , keep going to Colombia and bang my "roster of hotties" down there until her rebound has run its course, and she comes to her senses. In the meantime, C'est la vie! Live life...

@secretdt704 5 лет назад

Big Sky 1991 oh no....I’m in the same situation. My ex reached out to me yesterday at 8pm (with something that reminded him of me). It took up more than half of my screen and I didn’t respond until the next day at 10am with a dry response. He then messaged me a question 10mins later and I didn’t respond for another 6 hours with another dry response. He then messaged me after 20 mins and yet again I gave him a dry response. He hasn’t responded yet. Btw my responses were two words. Do you think I...lost him...forever? 😭

@Jetar7 6 лет назад

My wife said after months off being separated she said she been testing me see if I would’ve lost my temper. Now she sees I don’t she still seems like not willing to work on our marriage yet. She is making bad choices senses we been apart. The guy that lives with her i believe is pushing her for our divorce. What should I do & believe...

@penelopestraw7826 6 лет назад

I have kind of an odd question, my ex just got into a relationship with another girl he has known not long. We still text and I think he is an attention seeker from everyone. I think he is looking for someone to validate him. If I just start giving him A lot more compliments and validation in pics he sends do you think he will come back to me? He doesn't see his new gf much. I did no contact and it seems like when I don't give him attention or talk to him he feels down. We have known eachother 7 years.

@rubybansal4023 6 лет назад

No validation! Let him show the true efforts which you deserve. If he has a gf, then just stop talking to him. Work on yourself. Live your life Queen size! I hope this helped you.

@timothyperry3850 6 лет назад

I wonder if my separated wife is testing me I hope she is . She contacts me daily I don’t live their but still pay the rent , she sends me pics but tells me she needs space sometimes she sees me she jumps passionately on me other rimes tells me she hates me . She had weight loss surgery in May and her hormone levels must be sky high I can’t take the anticipation anymore if she didn’t love me why would she not cut me off completely ? I’m very confused

@user-jc9yz5xl9b 5 лет назад

I am grateful for having to view a few of your videos about relationships and the 'process' of what may or may not happen during and or after breakup. I feel empowered and hopeful that my relationship will blossom once again. There are at times doubt and worry which I immediately erase from my mind bc it only attracts more. I will continue to focus on my Self by eating healthy, exercising and filling up my neurons with a plethora of different and inspirational books along my path. Thank you

@carmendiem6305 6 лет назад

It was a 3 year relationship the break up was April 3rd it has been over 2 months and there has been no contact and I dont know what to do??? Do i initiate contact and if so how?? isn't 2 month too long and has he moved on?

@pestaway2541 6 лет назад

Hey coaches, my ex wrote me a letter back after I sent her the handwritten letter that I wrote based off of your website. She then texted me the next day asking if I had gotten her letter and I replied "yes". She then asked me "so are we cool?" What should I say? I am still a little hurt by the things she said and did after the breakup. It has been a month of radio silence and I don't know how I should respond or even If I should. What should I do?

@dr.lecter8818 6 лет назад

She probably expects you to be heartbroken and want to fight her on what she said. Instead, agree with what she’s said and tell her you’re focusing on yourself right now. Like they show in this video, when people get a reaction they don’t expect, it causes them to rethink everything they know

@rana1604 5 лет назад

My girlfriend got married. And it was done without knowing me. Actually we had a misunderstanding and it was because of me and she got me wrong and she was very upset and very much angry to me and after that she went to her home. then she decided to get marriage suddenly. Even the man she married I knew that she didn’t like him but she married him because she was angry to me and her family made the arrangement for this marriage. But now days she is trying to love him just because of her family wants to stay with him. And after married she got that she misunderstood me and she didn’t get me well before marriage. After married she came to me actually we were leaving together at home. And still we are together. Our relationship has been for last 2 years. And we had some great time, hangout, and sex recently after her marriage. But she wants to stay separate since she got married. Although We didn’t have clean break up or separation. And She told me I am her best friend she ever met. But she can’t marry me. But she wants my company always. And I think she still love me and she doesn’t want to miss me. Although her husband lives in another country and he can’t come to her for next two years. And here she is staying completely alone. But I don’t want to be her best friend. I want her as my life partner. I want to get her back to me at any cost. Earlier I was bit emotional and I wanted to live her immediately but she requested me to stay with her at least this month. And now I am behaving normally with her. Actually i love her so much even if we stay separate for sure I am going to miss her a lot. I was thinking for no contact rules after get separate but she told me she wants to talk or text to me everyday. And she wants to hangout or meet me very weekend. And already she got new home and me too. From next month we’ll stay separate. I know she still loves me but she told me she can’t divorce her husband. Because it was an arrange marriage by her family. And she decided to marry just because of angry to me. And also she cares me a lot and it’s May be because of sympathy. Now I don’t understand that at all what is it. Is it that she is using me or wants to spend time just because she is alone here currently Or she still love me, or it is sympathy for me. And I get real confuse that what should I do now? Should I use no contact rule, or live her alone, or keep in touch with her? Or something else? Is she testing me? I really don’t know what to do now. Sometimes I get real crazy. And now I am unable to take all this pressure. Please give me a solution. I’ll be thankful forever.

@laylabasy2472 4 года назад

Oh God, it is so complicated... It is easier to start new relationship 😅

@LoveAdviceTVCommunity 4 года назад

It is complicated indeed :) But nothing worth having is ever easy :) - Adrian

@jessicaduartevasquez9119 2 года назад

Yes I like Alex I belive in him but just stay out of sight out of mind works for me ,,..

@justamannothingmore1999 5 лет назад

I think my ex is testing me asking questions about the changes?

@charlesmoreland7663 4 года назад

What does it mean to be tested? My ex ghosted me after several months together, then a week later was with another guy. When a mutual friend asked her what happened, my ex told her I was moving too fast, made her feel guilty for not going on a trip with me. How does that make sense, when we were together for months before the trip? She had plenty of time to say she didn't want to go and how was I moving too fast if she got with and sleeping with another guy a week after breaking up with me?

@SunilKumar-lv2cg 6 лет назад

Hi I just came to know about your channel and it’s amazing you guys are doing superb job..You guys really helping the people and congratulations for the same ..Similarly I need ur advice pls if feasible ..Okay my scenario is this girl is not my gf,we know each other from last 6 months,we hang around a lot,went movies,drink together ,met her friends .And I have confessed her many times that I don’t see her as my friend and I want more than that..But she said she don’t see anything in romantic angle..Even after all this we keep on hanging around ,meeting ,drinking ,texting..But last weekend I asked her out and she said she was lazy and tired and I was bit upset cos she refused my invitation 3rd time in a row as she had some another engagements..She told me plan one meet in 14-15 June .I said I can’t plan so advance.Then she didn’t replied and on Monday she asked whether I’m angry with her.I said no and I don’t have any right to be angry..Is just I don’t know u I think..And she simply replied ok.. After that Their is no conversation and it’s really giving me pain and I don’t know whether I should stay no contact or not ?

@masonmorrison1904 5 лет назад

What if she is texting me lots and wants to hang out sometime but tells me she has a date and I should be dating and asking me if I have had a date

@conorm2524 5 лет назад

Friendzoned. Cease all contact.

@haydeejohnson8290 5 лет назад

"Confeedence"💘

@toosweet7237 4 года назад

Yes, Alex’s accent is so cute 😊

@jessiemaphala9860 5 лет назад

How do u know if its one of the signs DAT your Ex still wants u back,if your on No contact for 2 weeks ,if u have blocked him on what's app,then he decide to put one of your favorite picture of himself as his profile picture, he knows DAT when u guys u were in a relationship, u used to tell him, u like this certain picture of him,and he looks attractive on DAT pic...how do u know DAT ,by him putting ure favorite picture of himself, he wants u back

@hannahfaye3680 4 года назад

It looks like these coaches are speaking from their mind and heart on camera and not reading a script which to me shows these coaches actually care.

@rubypaul100 6 лет назад

My ex has told me that he'll test me check how much I'm putting effort in getting my job, this is the only thing he says i wasn't serious about he realized otherwise he finds me perfect and a girl who hasn't ego issues that's what he liked about me

@nancynavarro4537 6 лет назад

Why does an ex watch your social media but not text u back when you have reached out

@kugelblitz65 4 года назад

The same here 😅

@charmycree2024 5 лет назад

Yes it has hard to change! I know this from experience. If you focus on yr self & learn to love yourself & not focus on yr ex. It will not matter anymore.

@justinjashari4000 5 лет назад

What if my ex is hanging out with a lot of guys since we broke up?

@Sharkenite 5 лет назад

Probably trying to line one of them up the forget you. That's okay though because if the thing you two had was good, and if she dates one of them, she will start comparing them to you subconsciously.

@ToxicsmilesXD 4 года назад

living her best life and trying to move on.

@teckygotech6070 4 года назад

The hardest part I have to deal is dropped all her stuff from my place to her place and seeing her again and just speak lil words and walk away without letting her know how I felt

@aarondagraca3591 4 года назад

What test look like ? In the beginning I was blocked on Snapchat a month of no contact today i was just unfriended on fb not blocked I haven’t reacted our relationship has been basically 2 years we tried breaks twice but came back together fast she initiated the break up she felt I was too needy lost attraction and my trust for her slipped due to old mistake in the past . Is there hope I’m still doing me and what I need to do but is she testing me

@kristen9178 5 лет назад

My ex will text me good morning hope I have a good day I respond then he ghosts me until the next day saying sorry he was working I say no problem and try to make convo and he ghosts me again !!! Is my ex trying to make me lose my patience ? I was pretty inpatient and needy when we were in a relationship

@trixs90able 5 лет назад

Stop replying! You responding only strokes his ego.

@jacksonmonique2071 6 лет назад

What if its not a ex but someone you dated 19 years ago , and she's with someone else , but entertaining me . She has stopped calling a month ago but has always returned

@charlizemaggs3911 6 лет назад

So I haven't communicated with my ex for about a week since the breakup. Yesterday in a group video chat, he kept on trying to call me and somehow he got into our group video chat, and tried to make me jealous with him and his new girlfriend dancing and hugging and all that stuff. Is there any deep thoughts behind this?

@Fazzino_Tattoo 6 лет назад

He is obviously not over you, he wants to make you jealous because he still wants you and he is being immature about it, so he uses this new rebound relationship to try and make you feel bad

@apobarbersshotts9446 5 лет назад

I lost my beautiful gf because I was jealous, and needy , And I think and I know she loves me , but she wants to test me , she is a very smart woman , and I know she enjoyed life with me , I was with her for 3 month , but I was always had suspicions about her , she hangs out with friends and a guy gay ! I was getting in bad mood , I attend her party wile she invited her staff , so it was staff night out , but I went there in the bar and fight with anyone who stands next to her. , So she dumped me and I don’t blame her for that ! I would do the same if I was her ! Now I know I embarrassed her and I know I have no chance to get her back , but after she was blocking me I phoned her and texted her none stop ! She called the cops !! So even the cops didn’t stop me I continue to do that ! Then I get blocked every where ! So i knew I was wrong I didn’t know what I can do ! I run to the perfume shop I ask for a very expensive rapped up gift 🎁 And I went to the cake 🎂 shop I order 12 inch cake with a nice message and I wrote ( I am sorry and I love you so much FLAVIA ) I took the cake in to a busy bar were she was sitting with her 3 friends ! I put the cake and the present there and looked at her eyes and said I am sorry you mean the world to me ! And give her a hog and left ! So she straight away unblocked me on WhatsApp and text me her picture with the cake and the present and in the bottom of it she write ( thanks ) Since this day I still try to contact her but she is a bit cold on replying she reply only sometimes ! I called her today and text her she didn’t reply so I was worried, and I sent her voice message said hi I was only calling you because there was some one who give me an offer for using ATM for paying by card on my business , I said I only needed you to tell me your opinions ile the guy was here , I said how you done yours ? I want to know know if I can get a good deal for this ! So I was lied!!!! I only lied because I didn’t want her to know I was needy again !!! That is why I made that up ! So after she listened to my voice message she replied ! I call you soon And I replied with this 👍 So she never called back ! After this time I am not going to ever text her or call her because I feel like I don’t give her any space ! Please tell me what to do if any one reading this She told me she have feeling for me but she knows I am jealous and needy so how to fix this

@Sshaima1 5 лет назад

Awww ur are like my ex ..even tho he is jealous n needy i do love him alot

@lillyvgutierrez9685 4 года назад

Happy holiday friends thx.

@umamaheswaria6869 6 лет назад

My guy was desperate of marrying me last week, and I cut his call when he was going for movie wit friends was just teasing him and suddenly this week no contact not replying for my message or phone calls...wat would be the reason and what is running in his mind?

@BinaryTechnique 4 года назад

Idiot

@mariasoeters306 6 лет назад

In my case I find it hard. On one hand I have to show I changed sexually (I neglected my ex in that way). On the other hand he is really trying to maintain the balance of power. I have to walk away and the same time I have to show that I won't neglect him again. Last time he said he just doesn't believe someone just changes. I have been flirting, even slept with him and showed him the girl he fell for. But still, he is acting hot and cold everytime. I'm in no contact, the change I went trough is real. He is with someone else and I don't feel like sleeping around with him. He said he would like to have me as his sex partner. On one hand I think he is giving me the opportunity to show him I've changed. On the other hand it's trying to hold the power over me, at least, that's the way I see it.

@unknown36187 6 лет назад

He's trying to have his cake and eat it too. Go no contact and ignore all his messages. Unless he says or sends a message saying he wants to work out your relationship. Or move on, value yourself.

@guillermosanchez6284 2 года назад

I’m going through this now and i want my ex back but changes gotta be made for yourself not your ex. Whether or not I get back w my ex the focus should be on changing daily patterns and working on areas that I failed on

@PSIDoubleFlash 6 лет назад

Hello I have a question! After no contact for a while my ex girlfriend contacted me and we had positive texts back and forth, after a few days I asked if she wants to meet up and she said yes, after texting her some more she mentioned the idea of moving away and I responded neutrally/ positively (to not look needy) a little after that when I asked about meeting up she changed her mind. Was this a test from her to see if I was still committed or interested in her and if so did I fail? I know it's not good to look desperate but should I communicate to her that I still care? Thanks so much for your advice.

@darryljacksonreactions 5 лет назад

I feel like my ex is testing me bc she came home from work this morning and didn’t say not one word to me when just last week she was talking to me fine and we had seemed like we were making progress to talking again. Ps I live with my ex

@darryljacksonreactions 5 лет назад

I cleaned up the house this weekend and had folded all clothes and she completely didn’t say a word to me all she did was knock on my door and our dog thst we have he came out with her and she didn’t say nothing. I was so pissed thst after she showered and everything and went into her room finally I had to get out my bed and go outside for some fresh air

@originalgoldengoddess 2 года назад

The question is who is testing who here 🤔 👀 🙄

@TheMizmo23 7 месяцев назад

Can you do a video about an ex who demands no contact then contacts you about "their stuff " well, something they gave you but now is claiming they let you borrow it... example: can I get my storage containers I let you have, at your earliest convenience....

@LoveAdviceTVCommunity 7 месяцев назад

Will do!

@shubhamvats7110 6 лет назад

Hey after my breakup we had a fight over that she thinks that I'm over possessive and now she talks to me daily and tells me about her male friends specially those who got me jealous when we were in relationship. so is she taking my test ?

@Ghxidaa 6 лет назад

my ex texted me a picture of our memory together during no contact period , he's the one who initiated the breakup because he said that he didn't want to be committed anymore and no matter how i begged and pleaded he didnt change his mind , how should i respond or should i just not

@seb_boy3486 4 года назад

daa ' how did this go for you? Did you reply? In a very similarly painful situation at the moment. Looking back, would you have reached out first? Or not at all?

@neon_one_neo3317 4 года назад

So u telling me....she breaks up with me cuz she doubts a future with me....gets with a new guy....blow up facebook with tagged posts of either him and her.....just to make me...the person who basically begged her to stay....to make me jealous?😡😒

@Idecorateeyes 4 года назад

What to do if we have been broken up for 4 years ?

@elleh6642 4 года назад

Girl, you need to move on. 4 years is 3.5 too much!

@michellekillian8449 3 года назад

You guys have help me so much through my break up. Thank you!!!

@Seasicc_48 2 года назад

Make the change and then tryda work it out. Put your head down and grind for 6 months and really focus on your issues. Therapy, journal, read, workout, self-development is KEY to pretty much eveything in life. You become a better version of yourself and eventually get her back or find somebody else! Good luck!

@LudAciify 5 лет назад

What to do if you unfollowed each other on social media? How can he see the change?

@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 5 лет назад

He will see the change when you stop pursing him ..making your life as a priority.. he will noticed it .. when you stop speaking with him

@dawnfranklin7652 4 года назад

My ex broke up with me 2 1/2 weeks ago after 7 1/2 months. We are both in our late 40's. He spent a lot of time getting to know my kids esp my 9 year old. He ended it because he said he didn't want a relationship, didn't love me or love me enough to try a diff dating routine after the current lockdown eases & it was done. During lockdown his behaviour wasn't great ie would ignore my contact for days despite telling to contact him amongst other things. Prior to lockdown we saw each other 3 times a week & had a video call the other 4 evenings. We were going to change that. He lives with parents & does nothing other than work, see me and watch tv even though I encouraged him to see friends but he didn't. There has been no contact either way since the day we split - 15th May. The day we split he blocked me on whatsapp but unblocked me the next morning. Day after the split he changed his facebook & instagram profile pic from one of us to one of his grandaughter and made his status single. A week after the split he blocked me on whatsapp again - am currently still blocked. 2 days ago I was, along with 2 of my daughters, unfriended on facebook. I was doing no contact. Should I have contacted him to talk about stuff during the week I was unblocked? Was thay my window and he thought I had moved on as I didn't contact him? Should I try to call now? I didn't like or comment on any of his facebook stuff beyween being blocked on whatsapp & unfriended on facebook. Was that my other chance to show I still wanted him? Is there any chance of reconciliation? Or him reaching out?

@RiqochetRoseTarot 5 лет назад

They give the best insight on this channel ❤️

@owenmoodie3542 6 лет назад

Me and my ex girlfriend have been hanging out. We were talking last night and she said she was really tired and having a quiet night. I wake up this morning to her posting videos on her snap out clubbing, is she just playing me? Should I move on or is she just testing me? Me slept together 2 days ago and she said she is still in love with me.

@judithblanco4151 4 года назад

Well my ex emailed me asking to pick up my personal items. I replied do what he had to do. Then sends me a picture of some of my items packed. We were together for 5 yrs engaged for 3 yrs. He started changing on me n I believe he is with someone else. Anyway long story short am hurting. Guess were definitely over. I hadn’t spoken to him for 8 days. He initiated the conversation

@robertobastian7024 5 лет назад

This man sounds like a guyanese.

@Myakica160 4 года назад

Oh... it s hard when he speaks .... the way someone speak is VERY important in this format... I am nervous when he speaks constantly thinking that he will make a mistake... I am not native and probably I also sound bad but this is hard core bad sorry

@najmaali2140 6 лет назад

My ex sent me imoji like wow 😮 but i didn’t reply him back afater for 10 days Ignore me now I ignore him back 😝😝😝

@ronmel4514 6 лет назад

My ex and I broke up last year, this year he texted me, we spoke about 2 month. We was following each other on instagram since the breake up, he postet some times storys with other girls, I haven't react to it. But this year after we texted again I saw that he met a girl. I was jelaous and confronted him with it. He pulled away and we haven't spoke again since that. Yesterday I deleted him completly on instagram, because he postet a story with a girl bag again. Did I ruined everything?! What can I do?

@vmtz2001 3 года назад

Unconscious is right. It comes from your subconscious and it’s unconscious. As a typical articulate French speaker, he knows this.

@jefft3761 3 года назад

She dumped me 2 months ago. No contact. She still watches most of my stories. Recently tweeted a post about being sad but making the right decision.. is she trying to get a reaction out of me?

@zwikytipsmanbear8686 6 лет назад

Gentleman I applauded you!!!

@vmtz2001 3 года назад

This whole business of getting back with your ex shouldn’t be an ongoing thing. Yes, the best way to get her/him back is to break off contact, but there’s a good chance it won’t work, so it should be a time for you.

@mikeydoggy 2 года назад

No contact does not work.

@toosweet7237 4 года назад

What you both said sounds so right,..I do think that it’s horrible exes test us.. It’s like I’m at a job interview with them. Also, is there any hope my ex will contact me again , after I didn’t pass the test? I really want him back, and nobody else😢

@colemik2931 2 года назад

Its just in school, when you study hard and prepared, you are very excited of the exam and the result of the exam.

@kansafoster 4 года назад

Thanks for the videos! Do you have specific advice for an ex who is testing you by seeing if you will have sex with them? My ex and I broke up after 3 years because we grew complacent and stopped haven’t intimacy. I want to show him that I have changed, so I have been flirting back with him to build the attraction, however, I know that a golden rule is to NOT have sex with an ex who you want back until they commit. How do you balance this flirting without going too far? Thank you!

@evepeters3691 3 года назад

English is a confusing language to learn, yet Alex is so intelligent to be able to be bilingual. I wish I could speak French like him!🗼

@Hanka1981 4 года назад

He dumped last week by email the day after a one week trip together in the Caribbean that he paid for entirely.😔. He wrote that he came to the conclusion that we are not an ideal match with no specific reason and that he considered it more as a friendship . He added that was not the sole reason for the breakup as he wrote that his 16 year old daughter needs him (she’s very complex) his horrific breakup with his ex 6 years ago. He also wants to be friends in the future and I never responded to his email. He did send me a random text of a RU-vid video early the next morning regarding a book on negotiation I showed him that I bought. Don’t understand why. Still sad 😞 about all of this. We dated for 4 months and had a great connection and I was never clingy or needy, I’m very independent. He is 21 years older than me and lives a few minutes away from me. I will not contact him as I never chase. So disappointed 😔

@gandaako782 4 года назад

How about his problem is your attitude? And how can you prove to him that your change when you didnt see each other.

@chantehowe7798 2 года назад

How do the test you what do they do??

@mihailsashev3679 2 года назад

Another day another video. More improvement. Thank you for being here.

@marlenealves3535 Год назад

Where is coach natalie?!

@JackelineContreras 4 года назад

My ex contacted me and said " it seems like you're doing better now. Let me know if you need any help with anything." And then I said " i thought you didnt want to talk anymore." And he responded " kinda right I guess I'm not used to you not responding much anymore. I just dont want to be friends if theres a hidden agenda." I'm really confused