I have a year round capsule wardrobe. I live in Montana, USA and we definitely have seasons...very cold winters and very hot summers and amazing springs and autumns....but in one day, it can go from hot to cold or cold to hot....plus we go to the mountains a lot and it is usually chilly up there even during summer. So I love having all my clothes in ready reach at all times. Praying for you as you walk through this grief. I love your channel...it is so peaceful.
I never comment on any video, but I have to tell you, thank you for always being so real, honest and for sharing your life in thoughts. I found you a couple of months ago and I'm glad I did. Wish you all the best!
Your vlog was recommended to me and the first thing I saw was the part about Rainbow Bridge. I just lost my sweet baby girl, age 9, very recently. I am devastated and very depressed. It's nice to know someone else loves their fur babies as much as I do. Thank you.
I think you are fantastic and thank you for your wisdom. You are spot on about grief. I am so sorry about Dolly and your past health issues. I live in Canada and started just recently to follow your vlogs. Thank you.
Thank you for always being so honest about your feelings. You truly are an authentic person. I commented on your Instagram about Dolly and how I struggled when my cat Jack crossed the rainbow bridge last year. You will never forget her and loved her so much while she was with you. ❤️
You are such a wise soul, Jess. Wishing you all the best with the new website and ebook designs. I wanted to say that I just started cycle charting after your recommendation and it has been a wonderful new discovery for me, coming into who I really am, and figuring out how to flow through mood and hormones fluctuations without loosing the sense of who I am - especially during the "autumnal week" by challenging and facing my inner critic. I also wanted to mention that you always look good in your clothes and your take on a year round wardrobe is refreshing.
@@JessicaRoseWilliams oh for sure! I think the key is to not wallow in the bad - but to feel and acknowledge it enough to move past. It's easy to say during a non-dip though :D
Loved your raw honesty. I just started crying as you were sat outside with sunglasses on, talking about Dolly. My heart was literally contracting. I lost me Mom almost two years ago, and just seeing the box with your Dolly’s ashes, triggered a twang of grief. It’s so true. The tiniest things trigger grief, and we just need to allow that feeling to come and feel it xoxo
It's horrible that some people may believe that greif and hardships are a sign of weakness or that we feel we can't share "bad" times due to what others think or what we may think they think. Thank you for sharing this part of your life on here. Here's to celebrating all the insy winsy wins and rolling up and down on this life coaster day by day 🙂 Small request: I'd love to see more clips of your horses! Your boys are both beautiful and from a horsey girl to another, is a pleasure seeing others enjoy their horses 🐴💕
Our dark moments are a gift to us so that we appreciate more the small happy moments that pass through our days, they help us learn about ourselves, and make us stronger and wiser.
I think it’s wonderful that you posted while you’re struggling. I have noticed that my productivity dwindles when I’m dealing with emotional issues but over the years I’ve learnt to just go with it and take some time. I’m so sorry to hear about Dolly, she was such a sweetheart, I had a little cry for you while I was watching you collect her ashes. I hope things get easier soon and you can think about her with a smile. X
Thank you for how real you are here with us on RU-vid. I can't think of a single RU-vidr I watch that can show realness in such a "real" way. Loved this vlog! Take your time to grieve...its not easy. People used to tell me that the pain of grief gets easier. I found it doesn't, but you very slowly get used to it being a part of you (which in a strange way can bring some comfort )
Here in the Texas panhandle last of April can be really hot and that lasts through September. One light jacket will work for any slightly cooler day. Jeans are so hot so shorts or loose pants. Then all of a sudden the weather usually changes. I love a slow fall when we can get it. So I pack away anything slightly warm for months. You get a rainy cool day in the middle of the hot days which is such a blessing. We had two weeks of over 100 and then it cooled to 75 and we felt like we could live again.
Hi Jess. I’m thinking of you. I can see your sadness in your face and you are so brave to do a vlog. It’s very much appreciated. I have my little spaniels ashes by my bed. It’s a massive comfort to me.Every day gets a little better. Sending love and a big hug to you xx❤️
Lost my wee westie, Bo, back in April at the height of lockdown. She was 11 years old and much loved - I miss her so much everyday but have our other dog to give all our love to now. Thanks for sharing - much love x
Collecting Dolly from the vets may not have made you too sad but I was bawling watching her on your lap on the drive home 😭 Sending all love & hugs your way. Thank you for your honesty in sharing how you're feeling. I too have felt super unproductive - I'm going to have a read of the article you mentioned now. Xx
Thank you for sharing this Jessica, so important to just be in our feelings and let them move through us. This year has been so so hard in so many ways. Sending you a big hug and can't wait to see what magic Jack has created together with you! He is such a gem
So sorry for your loss Jessica. I have definitely not been ok either. My pupils would never know the difference, in part because I have been a good actress, but mainly because those beautiful little people buoy me so much. Unfortunately I can’t be less productive when I am feeling exhausted with the worry of my husband’s job, my parents’ health and my risk in school as an asthmatic. I do envy you working from home but know it comes with other negatives too such as not having the support network of colleagues and the routine that forces you to keep going. We will get through this and the other side will mean so much more than it otherwise would. X
It’s so true and I believe it’s like in that article - its our job to stay human!!! And to show vulnerability and weaknesses just like our strength and happy side of life!! Without shadow there can’t be light!! Like always it’s not about choosing one or the other but always the balance and the coexistence of dualities!! Sending you and everyone reading this much love 💕 you are all beautiful and worthy 💕
It gets so hot in Texas I only want sleeveless, shorts and dresses in the summer. So I switch out each season! I like shopping my own wardrobe and being reminded of my favorite pieces for each season. Thanks for an open, honest vlog. 💜
Hi from California! Sorry for your lost with Miss Dolly. Life is full or ups and downs and I agree it should be shown equally. Love all the content you create and appreciate your authenticity.
Good to see you Jess...takes time to grieve in our own way without pressure and we should have no expectations . We lost our Westie 5 years ago but have her casket still and keep it with her photos..it brings us joy and sadness but reminds us of her and what she bought to our lives...x
I lost my 37 year old horse last week. Indeed, one moment I am fine, the next I collaps with grieve.... it does come in waves. But if you are experienced in losing loved ones, you somehow cope with it faster each time. I also have a year round capsule. Always need Tshirts and tank tops, always need jumpers ☺️
Big hugs I have lost horses in my life it is truly devastating they are such a part of the family and our identity , and life is never the same without them.
Love the message of this vlog, Jess. Grief really is a strange thing. And it definitely can hit you when you least expect it. I lost my Mom at. The beginning of 2018 and the most random things can start me crying. It is a long process that I don't think I'll ever fully work through. Once again , I'm sorry for your loss. I can only imagine how much you miss little Dolly, as I miss seeing her sweet face in your videos and stories. It's lovely you have her home now. ☺️ Being in Canada I completely understand your obsession with the weather. Here in Calgary we can go through four seasons in one day. 😂 So that's a big yes to a year round wardrobe. The only thing I ever put away are the three pasties of shorts I have. Have a great time in Greece, you lucky duck! xoxo
Thank you for this video 💕 It IS okay to not be okay, glad you are putting it out there, I'm sure there are a lot of people who could do with a reminder (either for themselves or people they are close to)
Hi Jessica! Thank you so much for reminding us that it's OK to not be OK! I really needed to hear that. I am so happy that you have your beloved Dolly back home with you! Sending you lots of love and positive vibes :-)
I love this: celebrate the little wins. When you think about it, each day is filled with so many wonderful little wins, which are overshadowed by the losses. Losses that can be very tiny, but seem monumental. xo
You look exceptionally beautiful in this vlog. I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm such an animal person, too. I personally do have distinct clothing collections for each season (which also helps against wardrobe boredom). I just like having different silhouettes and styles for the different seasons (e.g. corduroy is autumn/winter for me). But I keep everything in one closet in my bedroom, so I can access what I need, if the weather changes within the current season.
Jessica you speak so beautifully and yes it’s ok to feel not so good sometimes especially in your case after Dollys passing. Life is all about taking one day at a time and getting up dressed and doing our best on any given day. Take time out for yourself, enjoy your little holiday and keep being yourself as I love seeing you here on this channel. Hugs 🤗 and good wishes always from Annie
Such a gorgeous video as always, always love hearing your insights ✨ And thanks so much for the lovely mention too... that was a nice surprise! Can't wait for everyone to see what we've been up to 😘 xx
Ah the jobs thing is so true! I literally have two jobs but also Covid(!) and some personal stuff going on - no wonder I don’t have any brain space for much in the evenings! Thanks for sharing that article Jess. Hope you’re doing ok 💕
Not sure why but I always feel exhausted in September and October. Probably due to starting the new term in primary school after the long summer break. I’ll remember your little wins Jess and not worry to much about the big stuff in life until my energy levels rise. Thanks and take care.
Thank you for your video. Your openness and reflections are wise, and perhaps spring from or are balanced by what you keep close to you. I keep all my wardrobe out as well for similar reasoning! Big HUGS Edit: I was just looking at your beautiful website for the first time, and I was reading your Wedding piece. Here are a few timely quotes: "Whatever our situation at the time, our happiness is dependant on us accepting it. Trying to bury or suppress reality will only lead to a facade or dysfunctional behaviour that feels far from good.", and "Perfect is boring and the cracks are where the light gets in.". XOXO
So sorry you lost Dolly...remember she had a wonderful life full of love! Sending love... Take your time to get back in the saddle and back to normal routines. I am written off sick again due to work stress.. I have been suffering from burnout and depression for years due to marriage/divorce and work.. Nightmare!.. But can't change my job due to present circumstances especially with covid19... Homeschooling from March to August.. And trying to digitalise all teaching stuff etc. Hope things will change someday! So true about grief...modern society really doesn't allow for it... Sadly :( I also have a year round wardrobe, always have (having to box and store stuff would drive me crazy) .. That is also easy to do when you have a reduced and/or minimal capsule wardrobe.. Because there is space for everthing... And when you live somewhere where you have 4 seasons and can have changeable weather it makes sense.. Because you generally use the onion principle to dress all year around.. Even my skiing clothes I keep in my wardrobe.. And with the current crazy climate it makes even more sense.
Have really enjoyed the vlog, I cam on thinking I don’t want to listen to a ‘down’ vlog, I need to listen and surround myself with up beat things. BUT I watched because I love the beautiful vlogs that you do. And o goodness so glad I did it was uplifting. ❤️❤️
I highly recommend reading Pema Chodron's book "When Things Fall Apart". I helped me get through some tough times last year and is a book a refer to constantly when I'm feeling down.
I do prefer to change my wardrobes, it’s annoying in September but October onwards it’s FREEZING and no need for summer dresses until March/April, so I like to have a wardrobe full of things I can wear instead of having summer dresses out x
Hello from Canada. You are lovely and talk about some difficult topics in a way that is meaningful to me. Thank you...I just subscribed and look forward to your vlogs. Xo
Hi Jessica! I hope you're feeling a bit better by now ❤️I finally had the time to catch up on your vlogs and really enjoyed them, as always! I was wondering about the article from the new york times you mentioned. I really recognise the productivity struggles.. I've been feeling so unfocused and unmotivated, it's driving me nuts.. would love to read the article, but didn't find the link in the description. Could you maybe send it through?
i lost my partner of 15 years a year and a half ago. i found him dead in the bed one morning. it changed my perspective on life and death. it's not easier to say goodbye to anyone one loves but maybe i've learned to accept death as part of life. maybe even my own death. at least i think i have learned to apreciate life more and profite of the good knowing that everything is fleating.
Hi, I just wanted to say I really feel for you and your loss. I’m so sorry. I feel like I welled up so many times in this. I lost my 10 year old pug last month and the pain is very real 😭. I also wanted to mention how I really appreciate seeing raw vulnerability as well as ‘the highlights’ I honestly think it’s important to see the struggle as well as the accomplishment! Your vlogs have helped me in so many ways and please continue to share your highs and lows 😊 Sending loadsss of love! X
