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I have learned to be friends with women who are more confident then me so i want have to worry about them pushing there insecurities off on me and it works
She’s mastered feminine energy. Of course it comes easily to her. How many professional women do you see with her demeanor? Super soft, non confrontational, praises god. Of course abundance comes to her
I was single for a long time and my friends were all married. I thought things were great with all of them. Then I met my husband and got married. My career was also going really well. That’s when they all turned on me. I realized they always thought they were better than me. And when life became really good for me it upset them. The irony is I introduced them to each other and now I’m out. It has taken almost 14 years but I’m finally at peace with it. They were never really my friends.
@@adammcme8856She’d still be stunning. You can see in the proportions and symmetry of her face that she’s good looking. The makeup is only enhancing that. Middle eastern women are just genetically blessed.
It’s a thing. I am a very physically attractive single woman and it took me a while to get over the fact that some women automatically perceive me as a threat. I actually used to go out of my way to not talk to any married guy at a party because I didn’t want to be perceived a certain way. Then at some point I realised it wasn’t my problem. I am just natural now and I immediately can see who is secure with themselves/ the relationship and who isn’t. If someone is giving me dirty looks I mainly just feel sorry for them that they are insecure. I am super lucky as I have several good female friends who are true friends and don’t care about superficial stuff.
Jealousy comes from the feelings of lack, and little confidence in themselves and the future. And a perception of an overblown fantasy of another person's particular fortunes. It also comes about if we feel a threat, or a boundary crossed....
I’ve had the same issues in my life. I have dealt with jealousy and betrayal by women as well as in my family. It’s easier for me to be friends with other pretty women or I get along with men more easily.
“Two happily married women tend not to be jealous of each other “. 😂😂 I wonder where she gets her facts. Other women can be jealous of your career, wealth, beauty, there are endless things for a person to be jealous of if they feel insecure from inside. It’s not only of men!
Sadia, you look like Monica Bellucci, your beauty is beyond. Inside out. You are extremely intelligent. It's a fatality, most women are going to be jealous of you. ❤ I personally feel incredibly inspired by you. I cherish your presence.
She’s pretty that’s why. However as much as I’ve had the same trouble, I will never say “I have better friends in men” 😂. Men are not real friends, they want you!
Women have always been jealous and insecure about me 😔. I used to try to dull my shine so that other women would like me but it was never enough. Wear the cute outfit and get done up to go about your day ❤️
Ironically I think dulling yourself can backfire. If you succeed then the people attracted to you like the dulled version and when you start feeling comfortable and be yourself their insecurities will get triggered much more dramatically.
I remember back in the day when I used to work at Circuit City there was this girl who worked at the Verizon kiosk. She was good-looking, and my male coworkers thought she was especially hot because she had a nice figure and rode a motorcycle. We ended up talking and she actually told me that I was the only girl that worked in the store that was nice to her. I don't understand why women get threatened by other attractive women? The only time I have an issue with an attractive woman is because she's got a lousy attitude. I've also had women be bitches towards me and I don't think I'm even all that. 😂
Jealousy is quite a thing. Suprised to see how jealous I was and for what reasons, was a huge learning experience to know myself. I was not jealous of that particular person, but what they had that made me one❤
I’ve had really bad experiences with women being jealous also and can immediately spot it. I learned to not trust them with good or bad news but just staying neutral.
Sadia it is because you are STUNNING! Intelligent, confident, classy and kind. Your light shines so bright and you are so gorgeous! Competitive insecure women don’t stand a chance around you. Right now I have a “copycat twin” friend who cannot handle sharing the stage. She has to be the prettiest in the room and has to have all the attention. 😮
I’m glad she’s talking about this. It’s a real thing we, I think mostly women, have to deal with and it hurts when it happens. I had a jealous fake friend try to destroy my life in every way just because she was jealous of me. I now know it’s called betrayal trauma.
It's an interesting video, thank you for sharing. Usually, women get jealous of other women when in their childhood they had to compete for the love of their mother, or female care, or a significant for them woman. What helps here is going back to the childhood and try to find what happened there. Basically, trying to find the root cause of the issue. I was in the same position until I did a constellation, and ever since that happened the couple of male friends that I had suddenly drifted away, and more female friends came into my life. I am happy to say that now I have very solid and healthy friendships with all my female friends.
I've had similar experiences with girls/women starting from when I was a teen. It was always interesting to me that there would be some women who were obviously jealous and others who weren't at all and were absolutely kind and wonderful. I would try to figure out what I was doing wrong - why such a contrast? It took me years to understand that it stemmed from their own security/happiness or lack thereof. One would interpret me as sweet and another as a b*tch. Sometimes it had to do with men and other times not at all, married women included. I've learned to appreciate those who accept me and stay away from the ones who don't.
Both of you are, what most women aren't and on top very beautiful. I learned having female friends who are much older and wiser, make it so effortlessly easy to be friends with. They don't care for stupid gossip, they're happy for you and good in giving caring advice. Women my age (I'm in my thirties) drive me nuts. Maybe I attract older women, cause I might be an old soul... Women treated me mostly with jealousy and evilness. I can't sit there all day long and trash other women or whatsoever... very rare to find genuine women these days
Mmmm you have to guard yourself from older women… I had a period in my life where I relied on some older women and it did not go well They will be resenting your youthness and beauty They will gossip about your life and will live to hear bad news Unless they are your mother sister or grandma Be careful Older women are not young and hates you for being young or looking younger
I agree with you for the most part, but I've had my run-ins with older women too since my 20's. The snide remarks about if they were younger, skinnier, what they used to do when they were younger, "I'm not doing anything special" or "I'm not anything special"... basically bitter older/old women. The funny thing is I'm not even young as they think I am. I'm already in my middle-aged years when they say those things and behave that way. But because I guess I don't "look like" what I suppose people think someone in my age range is expected to look like, they think I'm likely in my late 20s or 30s but I'm already in my late forties and I've had snide remarks like that throughout my adult life and now while in my late 40s. It usually boils down to whether or not the woman is fully in her own and secure within herself regardless of how old she is.
@FoundSheep-AN ... and honestly, that's the other side of the coin. Not to mention, I recall listening to a video on another platform that specified exactly this. The video was done by Cassandra Mack and the video is titled "Envy doesn't stop as you get older. Sometimes, it gets worse because the clock is ticking." Boy, did that video resignate with me because I think it's my fate once I become a senior citizen. She mainly speaks on how senior women actually speak behind their own peers' back if that particular person/group of women basically aren't fitting the stereotypical image of a senior woman and so on. But oh yes, these older women can work to sabotage what you have going well for you in the workplace and socially simply because of how you look and/or carry yourself.
Great podcast. In my experience, kids raised with insecurity, dysfynction and conflict often grow to be jealous and since you dont see an impact ( there is surely one but not in a way to affect functionality) , people rarely grow out of it. They just continue being jealous of whoever they perceive to be better than them at that moment. Trust me its not just about a man. It extends to kids and money and well being too. Ironically, the jealous ones are the first to believe that others hate them, are jealous of them and if something bad has happ it's others who wished them bad. Its like how cheaters are often times the most suspicious ones. We see in others what we are from within.
Both women are absolutely beautiful! Smart and I think people just get jealous because they see other people as beautiful smart and successful and they just try to tear people down because they feel bad about themselves. I have always had that type of bully, jealousy even within my family because of my beauty but you know I just made friends with other beautiful people inside and out.
Single women keep women single- Kevin Samuels 🙏🏾❤️ Those are pretty good signs. I always say watch people facial expression and body language when you are around them when you speak. Men are just as bad.
My childhood friend is like this. I’ve very supportive of her and support her when she is successful but it’s not the case for her in my end. I know she’s jealous but I would hate to lose the friendship
I agree that a man becomes a cause for jealousy within female friendship. I’d also add that it’s not always because they want the man, but they can be jealous of the relationship.. of male attention.. etc
Me too I choose extremely wisely NOW I am friendly but I DONT Allow certain people in any more only selective I CHOOSE very wisely now I have lately just deal with women I have known for a long time
Similar experience even though I don’t think I’m beautiful but maybe they see what I don’t see, the more weight I gained the happier they seemed, the more miserable my life, the more friendly they became. All they would do is want to know how bad my life is but vanish when I needed support.
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As a woman that experiences this. First if you’re a beautiful woman with standards and you have the ability to demand things out men they can’t. If a dude crushes on you n not the friend that’s crushing on him smh… Jealous women remove themselves when things are good for you… RUN…😊
I think jealousy comes from who we are being, and we can see that more because we are used to feeling like that. It translates to how you see others. We tend to attract those similar to ourselves, either men or women, from who we are, which shows up to those around us. That is why the more we work on ourselves, the more we become better and have compassion for ourselves and others. You are a beautiful and intelligent woman, Sadia. I love listening to your insight. P.S. No one on this planet is perfect-We all need space for humility and love. For those who are not well yet, we don't have to invite them into our life. As a survivor of the killing field in Cambodia, I have a lot of trauma. I'm now 53 years old, and through the grace of God, I have the resources to work on myself for the last five years, which helps me see humanity on a different level. We must know who we are and not allow sick people to control us. I praise and glorify God forever and ever in Jesus' Name for me being here today in the land of the free and home of the brave.
Jealousy is a natural instinct for most humans but can be counteracted by thankfulness. We have been told to control and diminish it so thst it doesn't lead to other sins.
The jealousy stopped when I carefully chose women friends on my level in terms of looks, intelligence, money, status, etc. Broke, overweight, unhappily married women treated me poorly. Make sure the people around you are doing BETTER than you. They will help you level up too.
Sadly, I can relate. Women can be so brutal to each other. I hated that I had so many problems with women, but I like how you mentioned you're blessed in other ways, that's such a great reminder for me.
Jealous and Friends is an oxymoron. You're not someone's friend if you're jealous. A jealous person can kill you so that person cannot be a friend. I think she's confused and wants friendship but it's hard to find.
This has always happened to me I just didn't realize it because I thought people were not this wicked,but I've learned that the biggest fear of someone who is insecure is someone who is very secure,it's their kryptonite,so light up there insecurities by being yourself,they hate that and i love it😂🤣👽👽👽🌹
Jealousy and envy comes from the idea of "I am in a bad situation, you are in a good situation" and the "solution" led by emotions is to attack the presumed successful person. That person targeted with envy and jealousy may be facing personal tragedy but the self absorbing feeling of jealousy and envy does not allow the enious person to realize about that. Weak people spread pain, strong people heal pain. When the common bond is a wound, there is a risk of finding weak people.
I can totally relate. I’ve always had issues with females my whole life. Woman always betrayed me and hate me. I just choose my peace and shine on my own. I’m only in competition with myself. Look in the mirror and think how can I do this or that better. Stay strong ladies and choose your peace ❤
MY WHOLE LIFE I've been asking 'why is she so angry with me?' ...starting with my mother. I think it's the reason I'm less vain and competitive than most women. I'd hate to feel the way these women feel about me. It must be awful because if it's not me they're hating, it will always be someone. What a terrible way to live!
Wow. Great conversation. Just a wonderful and insightful women, smart. I hope there will be more women like you - inspiring us all and teaching a lot of useful and interesting information
Yes but it can be unfair to expect someone who isn’t doing well in their own life, to be happy for you and celebrate. Then it’s not necessarily jealousy, just that they are struggling.
Whenever I loose weight! The comments start. But when I’m overweight, we’re all fine ! Older female friends are the best. They don’t compete because they’ve already been through things and don’t care. At least, that’s my experience.
@@FoundSheep-AN That hasn’t been my experience. The women I know consider me as a little sister and guide me. They accept me fully and there’s no competition. Maybe because they’re very much accomplished !
You’re beautiful and intelligent I think not only they would be jealous but insecure as well. Coming from a woman your really inspiring and genuine love your content and the way you think ❤
I experience the same thing, not so much in my family but amongst my friend group, coworkers, strangers. I don’t believe men are the common denominator to initiate jealousy amongst women, jealousy is derived from fear, feelings of inadequacy and wishing you had something someone else possesses whether it’s personality traits, looks etc…
The day that I realized I could no longer tell an estranged "very good friend" of mine that I've known since childhood good news that happened in that moment as I typically did after I would tell my husband and parents, that's when I realized it was time for me to shift my distance from that person. There had just been a questionable incident that occured while I was visiting her at her place on day that had me in reflection mode and subsequently led to my realization of the type of "friendship" it had been all along but I ignored and excused the signs.
Public comment. Every one have feelings and emotions but it is important to control your taught and actions base on how you procieve life journey begins with you. Living quality life. Self realization is the key to successful relationships in words and taught or deeds weather physical mental or emotional self realization is always good .
Jealous friends may not show you but they will find ways to sabotage your relationship by secretly making out with your man or rather lie maliciously about your boyfriend cheating on you with someone else.
YES!!! The jealousy and envy is REAL!! My last boyfriend WAS actually jealous of me, my femininity, beauty & authenticity!!! Then again, he’s a narc. Very RARE to find awesome, secure WOMEN, who are on your level!!
I've had this my whole life too from female friends, co-workers and family members. I think you are smart and beautiful. Its shame how woman don't prioritise each other over men.
Actually it’s the other way around. Two men can be best friends until a female is involved. It’s the same in the cat world. Having two male cats works out fine. Having one male and one female create fights. Two female cats also create fights
Well, I think she made some valid points when it comes to men being part of the equation. But I'm here to tell you it doesn't even have to involve men. From my own personal experiences and observations as well, it can be the way the woman dresses, the way she looks, her personality, the type of job she has and education she has, or her lifestyle overall. "The man" is the icing on the cake that really top things over especially if a woman had an interest in that particular guy... like a "Why her, and not me?" case OR, said woman/"friend" is married and on the up and up while the other is single or has a relationship that maybe by comparison doesn't measure up. But again, a man doesn't even have to be part of the equation. As long as a woman is not about to manage her own insecurities, once another woman comes on the scene who tend to bring out that woman's insecurities, jealousy/envy can form.
I can relate with that. Somehow I trigger other womens(sometimes and men) insecurities. It is so sad that people reflect that on you. But strong woman support eatch other no metter hapily married or not. All you need is 1-2 good friends. And nothing is cooler that having strong woman as a friend. That is pure power baby🥰🤩
This is definitely a thing. It took me a while to realize: for THE longest time I could not understand why some people (because MEN are jealous af, too, which still confuses me given the patriarchal system in which we live, but the WOMEN really disappointed me because I am such a champion of other women) were such assholes to me, for NO reason. And at work?! Oh my lorrrd: they'd make my life a living hell at work, especially if it was my direct supervisor. I'd get reprimanded for the smallest things (that other people would do BLATANTLY but never with any consequence... not me, though!); they'd try to bully me, ice me out from the group, gossip behind my back and even try to get me fired!! (Or fire me directly if possible despite me producing excellent work.) I don't treat people like this, and again- these were people that I was always polite towards. I simply COULD NOT UNDERSTAND. Eventually, I realized that there was nothing wrong with me at all (and there still isn't 😂). The problem was/ is them and whatever insecurity THEY have that I trigger, but that it's also not my issue or responsibility to fix. If you're mad because I have strong boundaries (I believe that your coworkers are not your friends and I'd rather keep my personal business private... plus they were usually just trying to figure out what kind of 'box' to try to put me in) am confident, comfortable in my own skin and don't need validation or approval from anyone, then you look crazy AND you have issues.😢 And, I can't help how I look: I had absolutely NO say over the physical body that I was born into. I've had people apologize to me out of the blue, leaving me confused enough to ask, "Why? What are you apologizing for?" Many would outright admit that they'd just assumed that I was stuck-up (not a SHRED of evidence to rationalize this; they just looked at me and their minds were made up 🥴) and felt ashamed because I was one of the most kind and humble people that they'd met once they got to ACTUALLY know me better. 🙄 People assume that life is easier for attractive people, but rarely does anyone talk about the bullying, harassment, ASSAULT (physical and sexu@l) and various forms of abuse that attractive people- women, especially- are subjected to (men who want to try and "humble" you... women who try to socially terrorize you...) Anyway. Others' insecurities are not my problem, and they're not yours, either, if you've been a victim of this kind of treatment just because you're attractive. May the best parts of ALL of us keep right on shining.
I had the same experience and I thought it was because of the field I work in. I think also my sister teacher people to treat me bad because she treats me bad in public and my mother always expects more of me and that's unfair so I think bad friends radiate and attract more bad friends. I also realized: all the conflict comes from other people wanting me to accept alot of bullshit when I know they would never accept any of it and never forgive me for it. Anyone who is happy to show you what bad of a person you are, step back and watch the situation. I saw I didn't actively do something to someone and somehow there was a conflict. No. I'm the black sheep in this situation. Whether it's in my family or in social functions of my sister and her friends.i think I was also very unlucky but I will say, I'm very jealous of girls who have a really good sisterhood either blood or friendships. I don't feel I have that and I thought that was because there's something wrong with me. But it could be that there are just alot of rude people. Now I spend time in people who I want to be with and they want to be with me instead of pretending I'm a problem yet still wanting me around. No you want someone to bully and you choose me.
Sometimes it is because of your achievements,sometimes simple things like if you dress well, if you are attractive. Even if they they have good things going on in their lives they still may be jealous
You are both adorable, gorgeous and dynamic women who anyone should feel privileged to be friends with. Many women are not happy with themselves and compare which has nothing to do with you. It's all about them. You don’t need alot of friends, just the right ones.
The secret to everything being easy for you is the point in your video where u said “Praise Be To GOD”. this is the formula for the success actually. The sincerity which is the opposite of jealousy is the second key Praise GOD. Quran [65:4] .........Anyone who reverences GOD, He makes everything easy for him. [65:5] This is GOD's command that He sends down to you. Anyone who reverences GOD, He remits his sins, and rewards him generously.
