G G it’s confidence and those guys give them excitement. it doesn’t forgive women who cheat but many men think that once they are with a girl long term/get marrried they don’t have to work at it. you still gotta flirt and take them out. most importantly OTHER women need to find you attractive. and you need to convey that you choose to be with her even tho you can get a hotter woman at the drop of a hat. go watch patrice o neals black phillip show if you want more info.
Try living out the day where you eventually DO find out the reason why she did, and it is all your fault... the secret is learning you REALLY hated her by then!!! Life Lesson.
Bruh a simple breakup could only be perceived and thus overexaturated as hell: if you never is and was shit in the first place and had to have another human being fill up the hole you dug on yourself through an absence of self confidence and relience. Patch that shit up immediately it’s imaginary pain in the grand scheme
He isnt kidding, relationships can f*ck people up, when my ex cheated on me I spiraled into drugs, crime, etc. I went from a good person to a bad person.
Trust me , recovering alcoholic . Id you're not mentally strong and have problems it can fuck you up bad . But the best thing is surviving it . The hardest part is just trying to put back the pieces. When i heard joey tell this story of this poor kid. If made me think back to 7 months ago when i was drink . Just glad my life is getting back to order. Im jaded to a few things but im working on it .
I was losing weight, nearing the low 200lbs. Then my s/o of 4 years left me and I spiraled. Gained the weight back, got depressed, all that stuff. Just now after a year im finally out of it and getting back on top of things. Went back to school and the gym
Got cheated on by two different girls, back to back. Didn’t really care about the first girl but the second girl broke my heart. What can you do though, they don’t like you then they don’t like you. Simple as that.
Good way to think about it, especially goin into other relationships. People tend to get more controlling, but if someone wants to cheat or leave you, they're gonna do it. Trying to control them only speeds it up.
@amanda miller no, it's the society norm and culture we're in today. Our rules are different and it encourages shit like this sadly. It's just not that safe to be committed anymore. Everyone wants a FWB now or 3somes with the husband watching and other shit I'll never understand that guys allow and willingly participate in.
Went through something very similar as an advanced and very street smart 17 yearold. Never had any problems picking up girls but I lost THE ONE, it was devastating ! Crying like a little girl in my room and my mom tells me "this is the best thing that ever happened to you, it'll make you a man"....mom was 100% right, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. You have to love YOU more than anything else. Patrice O'neal
Hey man.. my ex fiance cheated on me. My first true love. I was broken for years and still at times feel like a shell of myself. But it gets better. Time is what shapes us Aint no girl worth your happiness.
Nothing is more frustrating than listening to Joey talk about a story or topic, and then someone has the nut sack to interrupt his thought process and he doesn’t finish what he was saying
I was thinking to myself - Joey is the only host that can be talking and you get pissed when the guest interrupts. Like stfu bro, you made this about you and added no value to the conversation. He’s telling a story about someone else, let him finish.
I got cheated on while i was home taking care our infant daughter, she slept with my friend, her friend, and her friend's boyfriend all in the same night or at the same time. After i found out she kicked me out on the street and filed for custody, knowing it'd be hard for me to fight it while homeless. Dragged my name through the mud and tried to destroy my reputation and effectively did all while pretending i didnt give a shit about my daughter when i asked to see her everyday and got on a city bus ince a week to see her at my ex's house while her, her mom, and aunt scold me and watch me.
If my gf cheated on me, my spirit would get annihilated. Its so risky to rely on the faithfulness of another imperfect human, in order for you to be happy. Dont even have to be cheating, they could just up and change their mind about being with you for whatever reason, sometimes no explanation. "Being in love" is one of the most terrifying things you can go through. I hope i found it already💯 i been with my gf for 3 years
krissy get off my youtube I was with mine for almost 7 years bro.....I saw other people talk about their girls cheating.....and I would feel bad for them and say to myself "well, at least my girl isn't/wouldn't do that to me" She did. Happened like 3 months ago and she broke up with me. Shit is super lame.....because you build them up in your mind to be these good people....but its always an assumption. You never really know who you're dating. Even after years. Watch your girl bro, and pull your heart away. Anticipate this shit. Never think your girl wouldn't cheat. Most do. And they are absolutely amazing at hiding it. They are crazy master level experts. It is almost terrifying how good they are at lying.
Sorry to hear that man. Being cheated on is the fucking worst, but time heals all wounds. In another year, she'll just be a fleeting memory and you'll be a wiser person. Much love
Was just married for 20 years, had two kids, ones in college. Wife started hanging out with 20 year old girls from her work, then right before Christmas moved out and abandoned me and my son. She just had her mother bring me divorce papers. OUT OF NOWHERE after 20 years of having a perfect family. No fights, alcohol or drugs. I am going shithouse rat crazy right about now. Never take a female seriously, ever. Use them for their purpose and treat them like a dirty napkin. Only way you'll ever retain your manhood.
Whelp looks like me n my gf couldn't last. She didnt cheat or anything but we're just too toxic for another. Alot of crying and anxiety man. I wish all of yall the best man for real.
krissy get off my youtube hey bro just keep your head up and remember that there's many of us going thru the same situations. I just try to remember that the god (or the universe if you're atheist) will always right wrongs. Balance will always ultimately be brought. These chicks will pay for it one way or another. Things will even out. It is a law of reality.
I had the exact same thing happen to a friend who was the same age as him. Dude completely lost it and got committed. After he got out he ended up going to prison luckily he'll be home soon.
This is one of the many stories of Joey that honestly make me cry every time , the fact that this story hits so close home to me makes me appreciate even more to know that I made the right thing to walk away on my terms once I learned what a nutcase and monster she had become.
Yo this is like this Jordan Peterson video (hes a psychologist) i saw, where hes talking about how getting betrayed is really hard on people, and some people never recover - because it changes the fundamental way they see the world. Especially if they were naive and innocent to start with, then they see the "dark" side in someone that they really love, and they just can't understand / come to terms with it. That guy was probably being haunted by the glimpse of the dark side he saw in his girl, and he couldn't come up with a proper explanation for it coming from his naive world-view, so he was desperate for her to explain it to him.
I feel that man. Since my ex fucked me over all i see and feel when woman look at me is darkness and evil around me. They aren't worth it man and they aren't necessary either, thank God
My first girlfriend cheated on me after 3 years. After that, whenever my new girlfriend flirted with someone I would lose all respect. I felt bad about it, I thought it was mistakes to be forgiven. But it is not. It’s called betrayal and it’s one of the worst feelings ever. Jordan explained it to me nicely and now I am alone for 3 years, after a bunch of failed relationships, I feel great and dealing with my life. If I can’t find an honest girl who can’t refrain from small betrayals, then it’s not a problem for me to be alone. What kind of mother would that be? I don't want to know.
@@majorkade I've seen it happen to many times if there is other good looking people around you got to watch out. All men know what's up we'd fuck anything so it's up the the boyfriend's of this world to watch out
Got my heart broken and it sucked bad. It took at least 5 months to get over it start exercising and getting back god had my back I thank him everyday. Love yourself before you love someone else
First 3 girls I was with cheated on me, I was a bit soft in my late teens early 20s. Ended up making me tougher in future relationships to the point where any red flags and they’d be dumped without hesitation. In my 30s now and been with same woman 7 years and have a beautiful son. At the time I felt like my world had crashed around me, it’s hard to convince people that heartbreak is just part of life and things will get better.
I was with a girl for 6 years, we had a beautiful little girl together. At the end of it I found out she was cheating on me almost the entire time. Completely broke me down and I’m still asking myself why.
I love how everyone ends up selling blow in his stories, she wound up selling blow an some shit went down.. come to Long Island there is a million Joey Diaz’s walkin around
I’ve never been cheated on thank God, I’ve had situations happen where I can see why this dude never recovered. Soul crusher. Love is a euphoria that blinds you. What I have been through is minor compared to that and was years ago now, but it has still given me great hesitation to try a serious relationship again. You just can’t let the emotion of love fool you into allowing yourself to be vulnerable.
am a bit late with this one but anyways im gonna say it - if u get ur heart broken too many times (how often depends from person to person) u will not be able to trust anybody anymore. There are many ways to look at it - One way is that if something like this happens to you then obviously you had wrong expectations about them. I believe not all people are like that - unfortunately today too many tho. One big reason so many people are on medication (antidepressiva, drugs and so on) is that there is no emotional stability anymore. People go to work and in their minds they dont know whether they still have a home later at the evening, because the other person may go off so something else with somebody else. I hope we find a way to fix this in our society - i believe that indians are married so young (not anymore unfortunatly) and the parents choose the spouse is a very underrated tradition
Once you come to the realization that no one can claim ownership over another human being, you free yourself from the burden of cheating or being cheated on. You're free. Just enjoy your life.
@@sk8trryan1997 - Never give up, bro. There's 2 out there that ripped my heart up and it knocked me down hard. Had to start over/reinvent myself but I got back up again. I finally found the one meant for me; next month is our 24th wedding anniversary. 3 children and our first grandson. N E V E R G I V E UP, EVER!
Lol fr people are like why are you always looking at me? Cause I have thoughts like this just examining and observing everyone, seeing how people are adapting and reacting. It’s an amazing trait as you learn why people do things and how to avoid doing those things when something happens to you.
My girl is actually pretty hot and she doesn’t go to clubs or bars or anything without me. Idk how people let their girl go get drunk with their friends at the club without them. Like bro are you fucking stupid. You go to the club as a guy and even the ugliest girls get dick.
Married for 10yrs have 3 kids together. Couple years ago I find out she’s cheating on me with a coworker. Coworker gets her pregnant. We live in a state 1800miles from where I grew up. So I move back “home” for a few months, start dating, drinking every day. Worked things out with my wife and decided to try fixing everything with her. Flash forward almost 2 years I’m in a loveless marriage. We decide to end things and I find out she’s back with the same guy as before. Word of advice, if you’re going through this, realize that none of this shit matters. What you wife/girlfriend is doing during and after the break up doesn’t concern you. Focus on yourself! Build something for yourself. A new life. Distract yourself from dwelling and DO NOT destroy yourself trying to figure out why this happened to you. It doesn’t matter why it happened because nothing she says can be an answer for you to own. It’s a character flaw the cheater has. They’re not happy with themselves! Keep your head up and keep moving forward!
MOST would be either giggling school girls, or constantly trying to one-up and out talk Joey every chance they get. The grey area would'nt even bother.
I got my heart broken five years ago I went through all the stages of depression for about 3 years got healthy, sober I train my body looks amazining I've been with numerous other people but I still nearly everyday get so upset I have to fight the urge to cry or ball my eyes out. IT AIN'T EASY, STAY STRONG AND KEEP MOVIN FORWARD.
Imagine all the years spent bitter over someone else's action.. Now imagine all those years spent being successful in everything else you love. How much of a waste is resentment though?
C Efc same exact thing here man. 8 years. From 17 to 24. It’s been a year and a half. The first year is the worst but trust me it eventually fades away. You don’t forget it but you learn to let it go.its okay. It wasn’t meant for us. Nothing good or bad is meant to last forever. Would I take it all back if I knew this would be the outcome, Absolutely not. Because I was in love all those years and I was happy. Now you just have to find what makes YOU happy. And do more of that. Trust me you’ll get through it. Good luck.
I totally know what that guy felt . People think it's jokes or easy it's not . U spend years wondering why someone u trusted can mess u up . And that stuff turns u into a different human being . U can either get destroyed or come out of the tunnel stronger. And after years when you recover and look back from the moment I knew that I should never mess with love
I can relate to the man who lost it after the girl left him. I wouldn't give up my LIFE over her deciet. But I get it. I was DEVASTATED when my ex-wife cheated on me. Took me a while to get over. I hurt physically everytime I thought about it. But the point is to think about it. Don't hide it because then it never goes away. Deal with the pain, it allows you to move on. Hard as it is in the moment. When that happens you realize this person wasn't worth your suffering. They didn't love you the way you loved them, so let them go. They're not worth your time and energy anymore. It's not easy by any means, but once you come to that realization you can then view your situation objectively and make rational decisions.
i rmemeber when i got cheated on. the idea of someone telling you one thing and doing the a whole complete opposite. then them not having any regret to what they done, can reallly really fuck you up on a mental and physical scale. its hard to come back from. some people can jump out of it in a few days and some people stay in that funk for years bro....years.i mean on a scale of never getting into a relationship again.your trust has been betrayed. i would never cheat on a girl. always tell a person who you are.
I’ve been through this. Extremely painful. What always hurt me was that she didn’t want me like I wanted her. I wanted to kiss her , hug her, take her to Disneyland... she wants that to ... but just not with me ... the sooner you get over that the sooner the healing begins... I started smoking weed right after I got cheated on it was hard man but keep yourself around good ppl and vibes and you’ll be fine
I’ve been in this same position before. Mother of my three daughters cheated after fifteen years and to this day I’ll always asked why? It’s tough but I fortunately for over it and been the best father I can. Karma has bitten her in the ass three times over so while it was hard I overcame it!
So cringe when ppl force that in, like they can’t wait their turn or know when it’s their place to say it, they get so Anxious that they won’t be able to get their edgy background in so they can get more attention/woe is me/my trauma was worse statement out there because they identify so hard with that shit and don’t really have a personality. But idk that’s just my take.
1Leggo9my9Eggo2 man I can remember in Afghanistan dudes plotting on killing their wives/gfs of course I talked them out of it because ain’t no women worth stressing yourself over. The sad part these were good ass men and they’d do what a man is supposed to do and those are the ones that get cheated on the most
The only reason I didn’t leave to the military straight out of high school because I didn’t want to come home and see my girlfriend pregnant with some dudes kid. Heard stories about shit like that.
The betrayal and divorce ARE one of the worst situations to get past. Fuck forgiving, just move on and don't let that anger and humiliation control who you are. We're better than that and have much more to live for.
Love is a crazy thing. I think the guy would've been ok if she was honest with him. But if you're madly in love with someone, seeing that person you would die for literally betraying you in real-time would break any guy. Some guys snap and take out the lady, or the guy, or possibly both. If anything, the guy was a puppy compared to what some crazy fuckers would do in that situation. I'll be honest, If I was in that situation, I'd probably be in jail.
Ex GF cheated on me with my best friend of over ten years when I was asleep in the room next door. He phoned me up and told me about two years later after we broke up. No words really to describe how shit that was, have not spoken to him since. Shame, as we were good mates for a long time.
Broke your heart or not. Don’t waste your time on someone who don’t deserve it in the end. If you gotta cry, cry. If you having bad days, have them. And if you need someone to hear you out, don’t be weak and go to a friend or family and be heard. But handle that shit firmly, reflective, and like a man. That shit they say that “time heals” well that’s true. And the other thing they say “you’ll meet other girls” well that’s even more true. Trust. One thing that helps the most is lift weights, stay sharp, and drink to forget till you no longer need to forget to drink. If you reading this and you going through some shit, it’s all temporary bro. Stay cool.
It'll be 3 years in February since she left me for another guy she worked with Just came home one night from work and she was packing it's still tough on me i still feel lost everyday
god damn relatable. Old high school best friend drank himself to death when his wife left. She was right to leave, he made mistakes. Always had alcohol issues, but this time she wasnt there to turn his head when he puked. RIP, dude. You had demons and anger I didnt want to talk about. and I know some were there because of me.
Love Joey he's amazing, but sometimes it seems like he has on guests as just a new person to listen to his stories. I enjoy his stories, they are all good and He does have so many stories it seems like he has lived 3 lifetimes in 1
Uncle Joey. Not every 8 year old watches their Mom and her friends do blow at 6am when they get home from the bar. Then their mother have him dance with nothing but his underwear on and a hat for her female friends 🤣🤣. Let's just say your upbringing was unconventional at best . But that's what makes you the best. Much Bless y'all
Anyone who relates to this guy Joey's talking about, whether male or female - I would recommend you go listening to Patrice O'Neal talk about love and relationships. It may not be a pretty picture, but it's definitely a perspective worth adding to your worldview.
