Jordan Peterson ~ Why Can't You Let Go Of An Unfair Treatment? 

clean environment and plumbing !! nize suggestion dude !! 4:10

5:40 It is in the interest of Conservative parties wanting to be re-elected, for the masses to be underfed. Very interesting fact.

Orbanist Nazi State Media: You have met Viktor Orban, who is also often maligned by certain media outlets. Do you think what you could have read about him reflects reality? JBPeterson: Possibly, I can't say for certain. I know that one of the things your PM is trying to do is reinstitute the metaphysical foundations of Hungarian culture. He might be lucky and succeed. Another the guest of Führer Orban in the Nazi eagle nest, the Führer-Castle of Buda, Father Jim Blount: I would like to tell you a secret about Jesus and a secret about your prime minister. Another name for Jesus is Viktor.

Thank you!

your welcome dearest Getcherd-woman@@getchertified Orbanist Antisemitic Racist Nazi State Media: You have met Viktor Orbán, who is also often maligned by certain media outlets. Do you think what you could have read about him reflects reality? Old White Misogynist Person: "my message to the Hungarians: Do not rebel against your leader! Your leader is trying to restore the metaphysical foundation of the 1000 years old Hungarian empire I would like to tell you a secret about Jesus and a secret about your PM. Another name for Jesus is Viktor"

Wow, thanks, I forgot what the video was about by the end

Thanks for clearing that up. I screenshot your summary too to remember the lesson.

Yes!

Beatriz Villacorta thankyou. is true.

I think this is where I’m at. I need to forgive myself for being an ignorant kid & I also need to forgive my parents for their ignorance & not protecting me.

Viktor Orban's Antisemitic State Media: You have met Viktor Orbán, who is also often maligned by certain media outlets. Do you think what you could have read about him reflects reality? Old White Misogynist Person: "my message to the Hungarians: Do not rebel against your Prime Minister. Your Prime Minister is trying to restore the metaphysical foundation of the 1000 years old Hungarian empire I would like to tell you a secret about Jesus and a secret about your PM. Another name for Jesus is Viktor"

Sometimes the battle is not worth it. Is it worth spending $10k of effort in court to win a $4k payment from a deadbeat client? Maybe it is for the principle. But maybe one might prefer to cut their losses.

No more truer a statement. I have 'keep the peace' fatigue with my family. Everyone strong is gone. I have internalized a lot only to find myself getting angry for not letting them have it! I get tired of fighting my own corner.

I've always thought that War inside yourself is noble,and part of self-actualization. While War with others is ignorant. Filled with righteousness and a failure to take responsibility.

@@barefootarts737 you start a war within yourself because you thought u did not do what was to be done, thats your conscience.

You don't know how much I relate to this.

Most people, whether admitting to themselves or not, have more or less often related to this in life

Yes!

The solution is to have retorts in preparation. Verbal judo and skill in discourse don't just happen. I like to think the best of people and still generally do but if you don't come prepared, that is no one else's fault. Not meant as an insult BTW. Protect yourselves out there.

When someone says something hurtful it triggers your fight or flight and your thinking brain goes offline. That’s why it’s hard to think of a good come back on the spot. Most of us can relate ☹️

Stand up for yourself. I have learned this in life. Don’t let people treat you unfairly because it makes you feel angry, frustrated, and used. Just saying that is wrong and unfair gives you a chance to gather your thoughts so you can respond to an unfair situation. People who criticise, or bully you expect to get away with it because they think they have the upper hand by being on the attack. Retaliate you will feel better in the end and won’t be berating yourself for being a coward or letting the aggressor get away with making you feel bad or small. Always remember they have no right to be cruel or rude to you.

not easy to do if you are at a disadvantage, e.g, alone, weak, tired, intoxicated, confused, lost, vulnerable etc

Exactly. And by not reacting, the other person or people will see that as a green light to continue what they were doing or to do worse.

There's no one way to react. If you react in rage to someone that is unstable it could escalate their behavior and become dangerous. Being cerebral can save a person's life. It all depends on the individual situation.

It's not always safe either.@@Natashahoneypot

Recovery from what?

Shanes Story Dr*

@@user-wf2tv4jl6h Benzodiazepine withdrawal

Shanes Story what happened to him

I would like to tell him that he is a very important person. That he always will be. That his work is done, just take care of himself.

You have no control over that. You only have control over yourself. Visualize putting it in a paper lantern, take a match to it, and let it go. Don't give away your happiness ❤

Agree

this right here is so true. I feel like so many people in my life have mistreated me, physical,verbal emotional and sexual abuse, and there was NEVER any justice. Alot of it is because it burns me inside to think about how they got away with it.

@@jk2642 I pray you get justice. This world can be so unfair, but it's temporary. The wicked may enjoy this life, but their end is destruction. Knowing there is a just God who sees everything gives me the hope I need to move on.

@@jk2642 and then its even worse because it bothers you to no end but you know they don't even think about it.

thanks to you I realized something that I kind of didn't before. There was a moment in the past where I was treated extremely disrespectful and not fair by an employer. I sometimes think about it, like once a year it comes back up. I am kind ok with that now, as I try to see the situation with forgiveness...as in that the disrespectful employer probably has loads of problems of his own, and you never know why a person turns up the way they do, because of socialization and many many more factors. Anyway I realized now that the reason why I think about that sometimes is because I didn't stood up for myself in that moment as the way I was treated was so sudden and unexpected, like a sucker punch in the stomach, by a person you thought was a friend or good person, and it's like you said, the shame of not standing up for myself. It makes sense. But I always try to learn from mistakes and see bad situations as something that makes me better in the long run. Trying to earn something useful positive out of a negative situation. Sorry for the long message, cheers and have a nice day stranger on the internet :)

@Helena Bad situations are generally learning experience for similar future situations, ie in order to avoid making the same mistake.

I’m right there with ya, I was exposed to hate crimes directed at me.

@@PG-qn8od Good point. Same here. After all, we´re to well educated to play the "Eye for an eye and tooth for a tooth"-game. But in order to counter properly on a higher level of - let´s say - smarter argument or behaviour, I´am often way to surprised and upset (shocked by the unexpected), desperately trying to find a suitable answer to the low and miserable attack.

@@PG-qn8od, It would be nice to see a collection of ways people got out of awkward, embarrassing situations in the moment. For example: A couple of times I’ve accidentally ended up in the wrong line at the store, causing real anger. The best response when an apology doesn’t work is to say, “Haven’t you ever made a mistake?” People even clapped for me once. I’d love to hear from others.

I just ended a relationships because I was treated unfairly, but I never addressed it with that person, and I feel disgusted with myself for not standing up for myself at the time. I blocked her off for 2 months now, and I'm still healing from all this, but I was wondering if I would heal a bit faster if I send her one last message to stand up for myself because I was unfairly treated, or should I just let time do its work to heal me?. please know that this is not about "getting her back" or anything of the sort. Thank you.

U were probably annoying and trying to force your opinion on how they should act on them so they viewed u as annoying/disgusting which pushed them away

For me I've been duped, please believe me because it's hard to believe that you can be harassed by ads or people can control your media but it happened. This is what I believe at least. Just minding my own business and they make you see yourself, the world differently. I'm pretty sure they're white supremacist, I guess I'll never know.

@@Beaulocks_ - If it were a man who posted, you wouldn't be asking that. Get a life and stop being offended on behalf of men you don't even know. They might just be jerks. She might be a survivor, and predatory men target women who come from abusive backgrounds. It's a cycle of abuse. In future, any time you feel emotional and want to post condescending questions to women, go do it to men. Men are not perfect angels. They are the aggressive, larger, more violent and irrational side of humanity. They commit 98% of violent crimes and 80% of their victims are women. Yes, it is entirely possible that a woman can meet not one, but two abusive men, especially if she came from an abusive background. Besides, WHY even ask that? You don't know her. It's none of your business. Worry about being a better person and contributing something positive to the world.

@@thinkingoutloud675 - You speak about yourself.

Well said.

Thank you 🙏🏽 I am such a person, from family, work, school. I surprised I’ve lived so long without bad things happening. Usually divine intervention always prevails over me.

You don't have to forgive someone who did you wrong if you don't want to. It is the wrong doer who needs to ask for forgiveness, and that can only happen when he or she feels remorse. The best thing to do for oneself is to forget, that fades horrible trauma.

Forgive them for yourself but dont forget the lessons and dont ever allow them.back into your life

How you are treated, well or unjustly, affects you for the rest of your life. Unjust treatment is never over. It is unreasonable to expect your feelings to change if the adverse circumstances remain.

Even when I stood up to my coworker I still felt the rage inside for a while. Maybe it resolved quicker though and there was the added feeling of vindication and feeling proud of myself.

I do not think it is a one size fits all answer. The injustice can come at such a young age that it is inconceivable to be upset at yourself. But you can be angry at the monsters who hurt you.

​@@suras8984That's a good point. I've felt similar where I've stood up to injustice, but injustice is still injustice at the end of the day. I was angry for a week or two, but I got over it. Someone who doesn't stand up for themselves sufficiently enough could be troubled for longer however.

No. You make recepients of abuse to be responsible for their abusers' actions. How mad it is

Replace the whole video with this comment

replace "justice" with "revenge" and you can understand they are destroying themselves.

@@billmoyer3254 there's a fine line between revenge and justice.

justice is agreed upon by an impartial fair judge. revenge is emotional retaliation and personalized punishment.

and yeah. I never got over women abusing me from 5-26... and it destroyed me

Nuremburg must be upheld. Freedom isnt free. Stay strong, your not alone. we together will not give up, we will not be silent, and we will drive until the end of days towards justice for the victims, and prosecution for the perpetrators. This will be a long battle. Take time to heal, to feed your soul. But never give up.

​@@ARouser15 Beautifully said.

I have been traumatised and devastated by loss of an executive career and my home because I chose what NOT to put in my body. The hurt of how I was treated with the employer inverting reality and playing a dirty underhanded game of “performance management” messed with my head and left me frozen and unable to defend myself. I chose to be stoic and hopeful, while they slowly and meticulously dug my grave. There is no support or recognition in Australia for those impacted this way…apparently it was our choice

I believe I don't recognise injustice directed towards myself at the time it happens because I don't have that traight in my own self. Same way why I don't recognise narcissism. But.. I am learning that when I do finally recognise it's happened again, I must address it, in some form, in order to value myself, not devalue. It's sad and confronting at the time, but one day, you realise that it's all really not something to bother caring about.

Can you give a couple examples what people have done, for you to realize after the fact?

Same. Some people are so bad faith that even trying to explain to them how their slander is wrong is not worth it. One guy heard a rumour about me that I'd spread rumours about him then treated me as if I was guilty. He misunderstood more than he realized about what I'd said and meant. I was defending him in the conversation with the fellow who he believed. Since he believed that guy and presumed it was accurate without asking me it seemed prejudicial. I was furious as this in part cost me a $200k job. But he wanted his friend to get it, and he did. At about $150k. This is a guy so gutless, his employees make propaganda encouraging violence and he says nothing.

You can give yourself a bit of a break. In order for people to enact their aggression with little to no consequence (which everybody wants, let's be real), they have to be at least somewhat covert about it. A lot of the time you could look at the act (whatever it is) without context and see it as an everyday sort of comment or action. But later when you have time to connect your negative feelings with what happened, you realize what the source was. And then you have to further analyze it to figure out why it was hurtful. By the time you connect all the dots and realize that they were actually being rude, manipulative or unfair, the opportunity to retaliate has passed. I believe it's actually a sign of being open-minded, thoughtful and cautious if it happens to you a lot. In the moment you are busy absorbing your environment and performing your social role. If you acted on the hurt in the moment, you would be acting somewhat blindly because you're not taking into account if you're being fair or what triggered the hurt. But yeah, the downside is that you have to cope with the loss of self-respect later. Eventually through encountering that same type of situation over and over again, you will not need so much time to analyze it, and you can then act "correctly" in the moment. I think the self-disgust motivates you to obsess and therefore learn faster so you can avoid being at a disadvantage too much in the future.

I can relate to what you’re saying. I find it useful to notice the thoughts/beliefs fueling the unpleasant feelings and question whether they’re actually true. For example, in recalling the incident you might be thinking that you were “weak” or “cowardly” or “stupid.” But maybe you were just being cautious, giving the other person the benefit of the doubt, or open-minded, or you simply didn’t notice something. So it’s reframing, but I also find this sort of updated interpretation is almost always more accurate.

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jerrygord3131 *tit

Tbezza 100% correct.

He predicted their violence too and to the year. In 2015 he said they are going to get violent

I thought he became addicted to pills.

This happened to me with Hand and Stone Spa! I lost weight, sleep, and almost my sanity

@@kristenshea5491 Sorry to hear that, it sucks doesn’t it? Those who won’t stand up for what’s right get to keep their jobs while you do the right thing and just get left to pick up the pieces of your life. I’m trying to take all the negative feelings I have; the anger at the unjustness of it and turn it into fuel for something positive going forward but tbh, it’s really not easy. I’m glad you did the right thing with what happened in your case though - when it comes right down to it, there are few people who do.

How do you deal with continuous unemployment due to this because even if you want to forgive and forget, the hunt for employment and answers you have give to interviewers will not allow you to forget it.

@@Aratiii06 I’ve had other freelance skills to fall back on but tbh, if I had to go for a job interview I’d just straight out tell the potential employer what happened and see what their reaction is. If they don’t agree that I did the right thing in my situation then I’d know their ethics are lacking so I wouldn’t want to work for them anyway. It’s been a hard lesson for me to learn but you have to look at an employer the same way you do any other relationship. If you see red flags and they treat other people poorly then find a way to leave before you’re in a situation where you’re reliant on them and they think they can treat you like sh*t. A bad employer is just the same as an abusive partner, you have to extricate yourself from their clutches before they ruin your life.

OMG...I'm goin thru this right now...they want me back but I don't think I'd look at some coworkers same without throwing up in my mouth....

I guess it's a matter of high expectations. Don't expect too much from others, life or even yourself.

maybe look into some of his other content.. the fact is that you could do it to others.. that evil is within you.. even if you have subdued it. Hopefully that helps 🙂

It's good to know, we are not them. Thank God.

Nobody likes injustice.

Its means you are naive.

Absolutely agreed. He speaks in pure gold.

Don't hate yourself for believing her lies, we are all guilty at some point of believing in words because we are human, and that's what humans do, they talk. Personally, as i'm getting older, I'm only trusting in others' ACTIONS and my own gut feeling/ instinct for fairness/justice. And also , there's one intangible principle : reciprocity. You can't allow yourself to do more for someone than they do for you.

You are allowed to forgive yourself

sounds like a borderline personality

Don't take this on as your own failing, put this squarely back into your ex friends 'court'. You have seen her for what she is, very manipulative. Learn to say one of the smallest words in the world but is the most difficult- no! I had a similar experience and it took me a while to realise I was wronged and I got my self back together by being good to myself. Go to a movie, hang out with other friends, live, laugh and above all, love again😃

@@emmawilson2837 That was beautiful. Thank you for the words.

Life is unfair by nature. Who are we to expect anything else?

Hits close to home, pun intended.

"Education" and "knowledge" are simply sets of information one acquires. The usefulness and efficacy of these information will vary accordingly. People with less efficient or faulty information will pass it on, making the behavior (thought processes) of the new little ones less than optimal (to various degrees). It just seems to me those who suffer more, in terms of psychological suffering, are those who are potentially more intelligent and capable, but that get "damaged" by lesser processes (information/education) being forced upon and into them.

Agreed

@@recreant359 Life is fair by nature. Complete chaos. Completely fair. Only in order, can unfairness arise. You're thinking about the fairness of outcomes, which is a perversion/corruption of the meaning of the word, introduced by radical marxists recently. Fairness is supposed to mean that you play by the same rules, not that you end up at the same point as everyone else. Ironically, by buying into this concept of fairness of outcome, people have been chipping at true fairness, because they have to change the rules so that the people who don't deserve to be at the top, rise to the top.

@Politely Correct I´m a teacher, they keep giving me chocolates and now I know why.

Or make sure you don't stand infront of one your all life, lol ! !

A fruit perfume maybe?

Never trust someone who is placed in a position to judge you.

@@erdftzgh You may not have a choice. Today " believe all women" Yeah. Right. Women never lie! Lolololol

I hear tons of people say this and I’m trying to figure out how, trying to make a change myself but don’t understand half of what he says with his big words

@@dl6043 I don't even hear any big words) In fact, most of what he says doesn't work in many places on our planet.

I think that's because the title relates to one comment or point, but the entire video is a clip from a lecture.

Totally. I've clicked on so many of these and the title rarely matches the content.

The title is 'Why can't you let go of an unfair treatment?' and its only quickly tied in the middle of segment however the entire video is about that exact reason: Why you can't let go is because of the psychological immune response feeling of disgust to a perceived breach of social boundaries and here is why that disgust response is so strong and deep rooted. The whole clip is about the title.

@@fortusvictus8297 Ah ok that makes sense

Really well explained, thank you

Haha! I know that one

I need to remember that one XD

Cute.

I noticed his genuine exuberance being in front of the classroom. That was a different lifetime…everything “pre covid” seems so much lighter.

Imo he’s likely much happier now. The amount of people he’s been able to reach since the days of his lectures is staggering.

We was all taught treat people how wanna be treated in kindergarten. You would think we would all know but no

@@MelodiousMelodies7 And before it was taught in kindergarten or an aspie rule, it was in the Bible : Do to others as you would have them do to you. “If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners love those who love them. And if you do good to those who are good to you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners do that. And if you lend to those from whom you expect repayment, what credit is that to you? Even sinners lend to sinners, expecting to be repaid in full. But love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them without expecting to get anything back. Then your reward will be great, and you will be children of the Most High, because he is kind to the ungrateful and wicked. Luke 6:31-35

Great way to signal how wonderfully virtuous you are.

@@mouseyman lol. Believers in a manic imaginary being always try to coopt or take credit for morals. Do you think the buy Bull was the first place this idea came up? No. It was not. Morals and ethics evolved as a way to help insure survival of the tribe or group. Since there is better survival in numbers rather than alone.

It was my understanding that treating others how they would prefer to be treated is “the platinum rule”. Treating others how *you would prefer to be treated is “the golden rule”. The Bible advocates the golden rule. In modern times we’ve moved beyond that, realizing that not everyone prefers to be treated the same way, necessarily.

Jay Chapman. Yes, I would like a conversation with him also, but I fear I haven’t got any where near his intellect unfortunately.

@@gailcrowe727 oh absolutely. I am pretty intelligent but the opportunity to enjoy conversation with someone more knowledgeable, experienced, and brilliant is the whole allure for me. I doubt very seriously that he would benefit whatsoever from the conversation. However I would immensely. Lol

​@@jaychapman2045great minds benefit even from the mind of a fool or a child

@@greenjupiter very true and wise statement.

@@greenjupiter True, but only when that person is actually interested in learning and not challenging you just for the sake of it, or to stay right.

also.. Spiritual cleanliness social cleanliness mental cleanliness

Cleanliness is next to managerliness. - SpongeBob.

That is a line from HINDU scriptures which was made famous by Mahatma Gandhi. It is very sad that Peterson NEVER credits his talks or that of his gurus to HINDU vedic scriptures. If u dig deep into any western philosopher, they all learnt their wisdom from HINDU scriptures.

And retribution is an act of cleansing

@@-.-Rob-.-XY What a wonderful comment. I bet that made you happy. Have a nice day sir and take care :)

@@Nicefail87 100% agree. That's why I started my own businesses, became a full-time investor, and pursue financial freedom every single day. When you have "fuck you money", nobody can touch you :D

Reminds me of high school. The jealousy is on a different level, and that's when you're broke. It only gets worse from there and you can't even be in proximity to bottom feeders.

@@javascriptkiddie2718 Fuck em all ;-)

Modesty is the best policy towards greatness😉

What happened

@@lenahuerta100 dependence on anxiety treatment along with the inverse effect of it

DJ Harps in the UK?

Thank you for sharing this ❤️

Wow. Thank you so much for sharing 🙏🏻❤️

But what if u don't have control over other's actions if they still being disrespectful?

@@amy2434 You never have control over others -- you only have control over yourself. I recommend using the method "When x happens, I feel x." Usually people will offer a solution, but if they don't, make your request here. You can follow that up with "Otherwise, I will x." And this should be something like removing yourself from the situation or ending the conversation. You can also research boundaries and assertiveness.

You're right. The brain keeps doing that because it ( yet ) didn't understand what happened and what to do in similar situations. Understanding the hit you took, your vulnerabilities that made it possible will materialize the change you need to do to prevent similar experiences.

Or if the person who wronged you is a narcissist they will seize the moment you react and label you the crazy one.

Doesn’t sound like the proper response… for you will hurt yourself more should you choose to hurt another (even in revenge).

Should women have the right to end the lives of their babies in utero?

I believe this is true, but why would you think that public and speaker belong to different groups?

As in, who's doing the fearmongering? They're the same, as they both contribute to the gestalt and influence each other, but there's consolidation on the Big Media end in most countries, just due to infrastructure and licensing. This is lessening as platforms emerge to collate public perspectives, which is demonstrating that the two zeitgeists have value differences. Hope that came across better.

@@marcus8710 Again, this is true, yet media works on rating money... It is as you say a complex system as every democratic republic.

MSM is like a bad trip for conservatives.

Decorated Kobold I know EXACTLY what you mean , but the brainwashing continues unchallenged , so many believe all they see on tv and msm

Quote from the new Tylor, the Creator album: "I don't know what's harder, letting go or just being okay with it."

100% true,

you can let go, right after inflicting consequences on the wrong doer!

@@foome36 Well i don't think just being okay with it is the antidote.

If you don't let go then its still in your mind. If its still in your mind then your view is affected by it.

Awesome insight

Now imagine the delusion when you're in the top of government for decades...looking at you Biden.

Seeing someone like you mirror these empty words makes any truth behind them impossible to accept, after all, you're here and why would I want to be among the weak? You're like a chicken soup for the soul book in human form, a sign that the entire idea of being helped is so played out and parasitized I might as well just stop trying

Yes we have to have compassion for our past selves who didn’t know any better.

Focus on how to improve the issues it caused you and forgive him internally. He played a huge part in making it extra hard for you, but more difficult is simply in need of more attention. You know what happened, and that's the biggest battle but most issues are also part of the person to take accountability accurately so if it was 80% your father make sure you're taking that 20% you because it's probably a pie of different things and sometimes the cure is something simple. For me, my stresses and trauma gave me enough tension to warp my body in a closed tight way, which gave me unreal problems, and focusing on the mental was good but the physical, symmetry weight ratio, body support, diet all were 10× more important to healing this trauma then sort of getting over how others hurt me and made it easier to hurt myself. When you get to the point where most things don't fluster you, the traumas that occur don't feel that bad when the symptoms are healed. And. they. can. be. healed.

Hey- it's been a year! 🙌 How you holding up? Did you ever find a good therapist?

But he does already a book, kids what other legacy?

What's happened to him?.

@@You_can_do_itt ik im late as hell but seriously people need to figure out how to do a 2 second long google search. i mean it makes no sense what people do whatsoever; you ask others questions to which you could find an answer to in 2 minutes, and then at the same time (obviously so) expect the answer from the person that you ask to come in a relatively LONG ASS TIME

Never miss red flags. No human being has the super power of maintaining the fascade in behavior and actions at all times. Even the best of the best players consciously or subconsciously give themselves away, so look out for red flags and when u see one, take note. Be observant but objective. The more you observe the more you will be confident in figuring out your own ways of knowing someone's character. For instance. I became acquaintanted with a person who was very mild mannered, submissive and smiley type, she and I ended up living together and started a business. One day she and I went to a business meeting and on our way back, she saw a familiar person and asked me to wait for a minute and went to chat with them. I decided to buy some sweets at the shop where she left me and when I turned around she was gone - - - with that person. It enraged me. On the surface it was a small thing but in my long observation of people I made the judgement that she was actually an opportunist, she was a non committed self centered person who will never be sincere or even honest with anybody she enters any type of relationship or agreement with, she is a user who hides behind a friendly fascade. Fast forward 2 years... She broke off all agreements we ever had and personal commitments as well acted like a stranger and all the time we were together and invested in stuff and took risks while having each other's backs. (she had been keeping many options on the side without my knowledge) she already had her exit plan in hand while I was 100 pct committed to the projects and personal connection with her. Result :I knew her type the day she left me on the road like that. All the business and personal agreements she abandoned became huge loss for her because I had kept all the legal matters in my control whereas this was her weakest point. When she took off the mask and hit at at my weakest I was still able to come out stronger. She held few cards but the whole game was in my hand and she only realised it after she abandoned our joint ship and jumped in another very small weak boat. A total idiot and true loser Had she kept her end of the bargain she'd have had more than she could ever dream of, but when she proved to me what I had concluded 2 years ago, I was prepared and she walked away as a stupid sh*t with no coins no respect and lost a great supportive friend. On the other hand if I was oblivious to all the clues she'd been unconsciously giving me about her true self I would have been dumbfounded and crashed and burned when she betrayed me. After the first red flag, countless others were out along the way, I kept record of all till the time she took off the sheep clothing and strike me. Seeing red flags and taking them seriously can truly make all the difference when dealing with people Sorry for the long story. This was a small incident of the fact that people ALWAYS reveal themselves in small things, always pay attention.

This is 100% true. I went to this restaurant wearing raggedy clothes and messy hair to pick up food and the staff treated me like shit. I went back again after work wearing my dress clothes and a badge and they rushed over to me to help and were extremely kind.

Although if you're a clean and well-dressed homeless person people might think you're not really homeless but a scammer.

@@leozzz4213 It is not fair, but that's reality. It's sad.

​​@@leozzz4213ahahahha I never believed this until it happened to me. I was wearing something not so cool with me hair tied and covered and face covered with mask and ordinary shoes and bag and went to some outlets at a mall and some offices and I was subtly looked at and treated as if I was a shop lifter or something. Felt so yucky surprising and annoying but it was new to me coz when I'm in my usual get up I get treated like a respectable person and most of the time get special treatment which is also not so comfortable for me, but damn the difference really opened my eyes and a bad thing that happened is that I lost respect for people in general. I feel like I've been overrating humans in general when in reality they are mostly superficial n are only kind and respectful when they consider someone influential in any way yikes

34 Ummmmm. What the fuck is the correlation to this Gift From God??!! Response prediction: Absolute Generalized Dog Shit. 😁

Yup.