Katie looks back at her tearful goodbye with Matt James, and examines why their breakup hit her so hard. From 'The Women Tell All,' season 25, episode 9 of 'The Bachelor' 2021. Watch MONDAY 8|7c on ABC, streaming, on demand, and Hulu.
The other women weren’t hard enough on Victoria and instead blamed Katie for everything... very disappointed at these women. It’s like they don’t want to own up to the fact that there was bullying.
Amen! I honestly thought most of the women would use this opportunity to apologize for their bullying, especially after seeing themselves on tv...I guess not though...mad respect to Katie for everything she stands for...Im so grateful for some of the issues on the Bachelor franchise being addressed, but bullying is another issue that Chris Harrison and Bachelor producers have not addressed, and it's so disappointing...
Good point! So disappointing to see so many of them go after Katie when Victoria was a legit troll. I wish the women that Katie stood up for had spoken up on her behalf. Also missing was Victoria’s roommate on the show, the one that she lied about and Matt sent home early because of it . She got away with far too much and producers obviously loved her. They should have just cut her out as much as possible. She’s not fun to look at. 🤢
She was the realest and kindest woman in the whole house! 😭❤️ It makes me sad to see how heartbroken she still is 🥺 She deserves to find true love and happiness 👏🏼✨
If the bachelor doesn’t take stand against bullying and toxicity then eventually viewers are gonna stop watching bc it’s NOT ok no matter if it fits their producer agenda and whatnot. Bullying is not ok. Katie should be bachelorette and take a strong against the bullying hopefully with the new host and their new plan with the show it will be ALOT more better.
I'm so happy they highlighted the girls that said something. Like Jessenia too. They barely gave spotlight to the bullies. Only Victoria to get grilled.
Agree. I was especially surprised by Chelsea's strange reaction. She seemed so mature on the show, yet she seemed oblivious to how her and the women were participating in bullying. It was really weird how she reacted especially, because I didn't expect it from her.
Don't think she'll be made the next Bachelorette because she's too mature and too good a human being. So no scope for drama. She's too real for reality TV.
@@nifemionatoye1733 I would agree...I think most of the bachelorettes tend to be more on the mature side. I think there have only been a few who had a lot of drama surrounding their season. To which most of them are no longer their choice. I'd say the only outlier on that one is Becca, I do think if that if they didn't have such completely different world views they may still be together.
We don’t really know anything about her and she didn’t really have a relationship with Matt, which is why I personally don’t think she’s the best pick.
Good lord she’s gorgeous! Being so sweet and understanding throws her over the top. It’s the immature people that don’t like her if you haven’t noticed.
I love her personality and how she stood up for others but let’s be real she’s average looking. I’m surprised she got cast given that they usually cast women who look like models.
@@cookiesarelikecream I agree with you on her personality. I think it's great too! I'm similar to her in that I try to be true to myself as much as I can. I don't outwardly project a lot of emotion, bit try to handle conflict as neutrally as I can. I like to fight for the underdog. I actually wish the producers hired more woman like Katie to be on the bachelor (who I think is gorgeous too, but who is simply not your cup of tea and that's ok.) What I mean by that is older, average looking or unconventional features/blemishes, naturally darker skinned, curly haired (wavy doesn't count). woman like Katie who are emotionally mature and confident enough to not need to put other people down or start rumors or acting overly jealous. I'm tired of seeing a parade of mean girls with perfect skin (most of them white with an Uber dark tan, straight hair/ LOOSELY wavy hair, lighter eyes, dyed blonde hair) I want to see dreads, and braids, and crazy poofy afros! I feel like we need to train our youth on a WIDER range of beauty instead of inundating them with images of different versions of a white girl and "ethnic" versions of them. I feel like the producers tried this season, but it wasn't that genuine. Although I will say this. Blake moynes is a VERY tall glass of water, so if she can get a guy like that to fall in love with her, there is hope for a lot of us "non models." Have a great day! Be safe out there! Seriously! Don't get co vid....it sucks!
I was shocked how much hate she was still getting from the girls last night on women tell all. They were still treating her like crap and making out like there was no toxicity. I hope she becomes bachelorette and shows up them all. It made me so mad the way they were still talking to her.
When someone said “you should’ve asked them like Chelsea” really?? Chelsea only asked bc it was already brought up...by Katie. Chelsea, Mari and Piper have always been part of the mean girls too
I gained even more respect for her last night. She re-iterated why she stood up to the bullying behavior, and the other women couldn't understand it. Chelsea was acting extremely weird last night, especially. She seemed cool on the show, but seemed oblivious and mad that the women were called out for bullying. Out of all of the women, I was most surprised by her.
This season should have been about addressing bullying and Katie deserved to be the bachelorette. It’s sad she is not getting what should have been rightfully hers.
I was upset that they cut off a lot of the footage of the girls bullying the crap out of Sarah. They should've shown that so that Matt could see how all these women really were.
LOL I commented under Chelsea's (the short hair girl) instagram how "Katie had every right to speak on the bad energy in the house". I got so many likes (300 in an hour before I went to sleep) she blocked me. Lame. She'd rather be a bully.
@@SexAndCandyHair92 I never felt that until last night I was so disgusted how she attacked Katie. And she blocked me for supporting what's right 🤪 Some people!
@@mercylago4744 She definitely participated in the bullying especially against Sarah. She would roll her eyes and make faces as Sarah was talking and participated in the ganging up on her. The reason why she’s so adamant that there was no toxicity in the house is because she was fully involved in the bullying and she knows it. That’s why she was hating on Katie for speaking up about it too. I got a lot of bad vibes from her. In the beginning I thought she would be one of the favorites but she proved that she’s a mean girl.
@@SexAndCandyHair92 you know I'm not sure why I didn't notice that. Maybe I forgot but I hate bullying and I was so happy Katie didn't back down when Serena C yelled at her. That's why her & Jessenia got chances to speak. They didn't highlight those bullies except to expose them. And MJ was embarrassed cus they played what she lied about on stage 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@@SexAndCandyHair92 you know now I do remember. I didn't like she interrupted one girls time but they did go too far. And I'm happy Katie said you have to take time and get to know people (like she did with Sarah) because it's true. Sometimes we don't know how our words can hurt people. At least she cares how she effects others.
*~I really want Katie for Bachelorette!!~* 💖 (But apparently they are trying to cast a POC bc of all the backlash they’re getting which I understand, but Katie would have killed it!) Her personality is bold, she’s older, she knows what she wants, she doesn’t take crap from anyone, & calls it like it is. Ugh. She would have been an *~AMAZING~* lead. What ppl were hoping Clare would of been, but better.. 😔💖
She was supposed to be! 😔 But then all the drama w/Chris & the franchise in general not being diverse enough, they pulled Katie out bc now they’re looking for a POC to cast next...
@@xkathleenle I mean that’s always a good thing but that shouldn’t be the only thing they look for in a bachelorette. Katie was so widely loved this season. I think most people would love to see her as the lead regardless.
@@Mel-zv1gf I mean she was also given a good edit by the producers and a lot of the WOC (the good ones who didn’t bully) were edited out of the season or were given less screen time in favour of Katie and the other white women.
Apparently she was going to be, but with all the backlash/Heat the bachelor nation has been getting, they are looking for a POC bachelorette now.. Sucks bc I really wanted Katie to be the next one. Her personality is bold, she’s older, she knows what she wants, she doesn’t take crap from anyone, & calls it like it is. Ugh. She would have been an AMAZING lead. What ppl were hoping Clare would be, but better.. 😔
i cant belive we are living in the world where beautiful and smart women keep questioning themselves " am i enough? " "is it something wrong with me i am being single"?... how many guys you ve seen questioning themselves? lol
Katie for Bachelorette! Lots of respect for her standing up against the bullies, and just disappointed in all the women who initiated the bullying and those who idly stood by (they're still complicit)
I was so surprised to see the women (I should say girls) attacking Katie at the tell all. Like no one took any responsibility. Bullying should be called out and that’s what Katie did and they didn’t like that.
What a lovely girl you're katie⚘your mother did a super great job raising you! Respect and treat people like human being! And YES your person is out there! Don't worry! You're still young, in God's timing you'll definitely find your special someone❤😃💖🍒
I love her so much and I am so disappointed in the way that he sent her home because I felt like he knew he was going to send her home the entire day but just really wasted her time. It’s also disturbing how many of the women in the house were upset that Katie stood against bullying because he didn’t get time with a guy as if spending time with a guy is more important than acknowledging bad behavior and bullying against another woman especially when that woman creative of easily been any one of them. She deserves love and the best because I tend the day you can see what kind of character she has and the true person she is whether she likes you or doesn’t know you at all
This is the type of storyline I watch the Bachelor for: people on a journey of trying to find love and figuring themselves out in the process. Which is why I stopped watching this season in the midst of all the bullying and nastiness.
I have tbh most of those girls , that don’t like her are immature. Katie is very mature. I know because I am still childish and immature, that sometimes I did hate Katie but she is right for sticking up for other girls and doing the right thing.
I have so much love for Katie, as for Chelsea I'm really disappointed in her, I loved Chelsea till now. What they did in the house was one thing but justifying their actions is another childish problem. I honestly pray Katie gets a chance to be the next bachelorette, please, she deserves a beautiful love story.
Katie's has point those mean girls that got their own karma good for them it a wake up calls she will be good to be bachelorette but I don't think she will be bachelorette she too real and pure and kindness for reality tv but I hope she find love and happiness .
Girl - you are gold. you are guac. you are real. No doubt there are great things waiting for you. Thanks for being the light we needed. Keep up the good work and stay positive!
Currently, at this moment, I’d either like to see Jessenia, Katie, or Abigail be the Bachelorette. Also as an individual who is apart of the Deaf and Hard of Hearing community, I’m thankful that finally we were able see a little representation, although there needs to be way more.
Yup, producers need to understand that we watch for romance not for drama. The drama is a bit of interest, but not the reason we watch. The franchise need to try to match people up and to show the connections, NOT the drama. I would like Katie and Michelle Serina and Bri, and Abigail to be Bachelorettes together. It would give a whole new feeling to the show. 110 men and 5 Ladies, stretched over a longer period. It would be VERY interesting to watch the dynamics, and give the ladies a bigger pool to choose from. It would mean the format would have to change but change is good, creates anticipation and interest. I have lots of ideas
The most UNDERWHELMING Women Tell All EVER. Why put everyone in the room if 45 minutes of it is just one-on-one “hot” seat chats with Chris Harrison and snippets of cut out scenes that should be posted online! Actual group talk only lasted the first 15 mins. What a disastrous season, start to end.
# just for ratings ! When you go on these reality shows you can't script when your 💔 I guess 15 minutes of fame can't be expensive if your intentions is real or not !
Katie was actually begging to be the bachelorette, but all that is games to be the bachelorette, pretents to be so emotional and hurt but its game fir the lead, we dont need katie give Michelle or Bri or kaylah and Piper a chance
@@KirstiStephenson Absolutely, the bachelorette should be the most beautiful woman, but she should be black. There were so many black beauties in this season. I think that Bri was the prettiest and she was also very classy. I think that she should be the bachelorette.
I really dislike Katie. The fact that so many women were negating everything she said about the "bullying" and "toxicity" in the house should tell you something. It seems as if she got good edits throughout the season.🤷🏾♀️ Maybe if she would've focused on her relationship with Matt she would've actually been one of the final contestants.
