Let's talk about JAPANESE MAN'S characteristics."Red pill" or "blue pill"? 

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Japanese who spent some considerable time abroad are the easiest to get along with. PERIODT. These are the Japanese who are so refreshing to talk to, my husband is one. The best aspect of these Japanese people who spent some time abroad really drop the tatemae thingy most of the time and I LOVE IT.

Hi Santi, this is an interesting topic. The typical Japanese man is “Blue Pill”. I can’t agree more because I have Japanese colleagues in Tokyo and have dealt with expats working in my country and Singapore. The expats would do their best to adapt to the local culture where they are based to gain experience, for they are dedicated to their job, have sat for English proficiency test and are on his/her way for a promotion upon return to Japan. On the surface, they would treat you with respect and behave in unity toward Soto people. They would not disagree openly with the locals on work related matters and tend to bring the issues disagreed upon later, privately with Japanese colleagues for they can understand each other. When you are part of Uchi, you will see their real character and they would connect with you at a deeper level. I must confess back then, I was not well versed with Japanese culture, so what l learned in words used for Uchi people , I applied it to Soto people. I wondered why they have a blank look and laughed kindly at me. After watching your videos, I am very embarrassed. I would say Japanese people treat me well knowing that I am a foreigner who made blunders but with a friendly demeanour. But you, Santi san, although a rare “Red Pill”, I personally think you are sui generis! I am still learning about Japanese culture, the more I know it, the more I appreciate it. I learn a lot from you Santi san. Thank you!

One of the most refreshing voices in this corner of RU-vid. Wish I found this channel earlier. Please keep up the good work, I'll be listening in.

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love the video!!

It's very interesting hearing your perspective. We all have uncomfortable things in our nation's history but we are not our nation. You might be from Japan and I might be from America but Im a human first , my humanity means more to me than my nationality. Ilove my country, i even love Japan but i love humanity more. Your perspective is very very valuable. To hear a person who was raised in Japan and who has that Eastern mindset or atleast understands the Eastern cultures and still speaks English, it allows westerners like myself a glimpse into the deepest recesses of Japanese culture. Its a very wonderful experience. Thankyou for these videos. I've always loved Japan. If i were to give a tour of the planet to a group of Aliens and they were to ask me to see the most exotic and cultured places , id take them 2 places. Japan and Austria.

Thank you, Santi. That was very interesting. Though I was not surprised by some of the things you said, it made me a little sad for Japanese people. I'm not sad for the people who are happy being as they are. I merely wonder if there are those who wish to experience other things.

Very deep and logic! Thank you Santi, please talk about herbivore carnivore japanese man 🙏

I like your calm attitude, Santi. I'm glad to hear you are red-pilled. Continue following the truth my friend, we need proper men more than we ever have. I wanted to give you some advice: You don't have to display aggression when you disagree with someone's opinion. If you don't like cheesecake, say it. Because if that girl finds out you were just saying that to appease her, the chances of her losing interest is high. Say what you mean and mean what you say, you don't have to agree with everyone and vice-versa. Maybe she'll learn a thing or two from you. Don't frail. I'd love to see more red-pill videos from you.

I live in China for 10 yrs, i think Chinese people don't have such a difficulty, they are less polite and modest, so it's quite normal to stare at people or do some freaky things that can never be seen in Japan or Korea, so it's quite easy to make friends with someone when you are a foreigner. They try to talk with us all the time. Also red pill guys are usually trying to keep closer to foreigners as they know they will not be misunderstood but acting like who they are. Problem comes out if you are both from same country as it's difficult to recognize each other.

Hello, Santi! I really love your input as a Japanese person. I have a question about Japanese self-perception. How Japanese people used to percieve themselves, and how do they perceive themselves now? I imagine it has changed since バブル景気-times. Foreigners love to complain that Japanese people always put the labels on them, but I often see that Japanese are stereotyping even about themselves: oh, we, Japanese, all are polite and shy and workholic and "feel the air" etc. And who is not like that is not a "typical Japanese". What do you think: do these stereotypes need to be changed? Do they bring more harm than good? Or they are accurate and nothing wrong with that? I'm curious, because as a Russian I observed this kind of "identity crisis" that we had after the USSR crumble. Russian self-image has been changing drastically through the history (Russian Empire, Soviet Era, Perestroika, nowadays) and many young russians don't want to do anything with the stereotypes we've got since the 90s like tough, blunt, alcoholic etc.

Really great topic today, Santi-san! I always appreciate red pill people. To touch on one of your comments, I think dogs are great conversationalist, or should I say listeners? And I mean this in the most non sarcastic, red pill kind of way. I talk to my dog all the time :)

Im not japanese but i lived in japan for about 6 years now im on the younger side im only 15.. but i noticed that obviously everyone is different but something about japanese people like they all seem the seem even tho they have different traits but they all seem to have the same traits like they all seemed balanced its very rare to see japanese people who are more unbalanced. You look like a typical japanese guy what i mean is your appearance but you are like a more outspoken and confident I also noticed most japanese people are shy even if they seem like they arent most japanese people are people pleasers..

legendary topic santi, red pill alpha male

You are a wonderful red pill guy :)

I agree. The education in Japan do not need to have a superstar like Einstein. This tendency hasn’t changed since the past. So Japan has social pressure and then the military and company are organized, but we maybe do have our own opinions.

hello Santi watching you from Philippines 🙂

I just lost a japanese friend because of world's war 2 topic today 😂 and this video come out. 🤣🤣🤣 idk if i should cry or laugh 😃

I think that in younger generations, that is changing actually!! They go abroad more. I feel that, even if you were not japanese, you would still be kind of unique, santi san😁 (I'm saying it in a good way) Let's hope for more red pill guys (and girls) in the future!!

Hey! Santi, nice to meet you. ..... can you please answer my question ... I met a half japanese guy online and then we met in real life ..... and after some meetings we became friends and then we started seeing each other often! I started getting feelings for him.... after approximately 2 years of friendship he asked me if I wanted to go on a drink with him , I answered yes but I got drunked easily after 2-3 shots because I never drinked before ..... now he was sending me to my hotel because it was late and that night I accidentally kissed him I remembered correctly and then next day when I asked him what happened last night I can't remember .... so he just told me that I sended you to your room and nothing more ......we're still friends but I can't forget that moment. .... what will happen if I try to take a first step because he's to shy to do that. .... can we be able to become a couple or I'll just ruin our friendship too. ..... so,I want your opinion on this... I think I'm falling for him day by day..... I'm waiting for you to reply 🙏

Cue in One Ok Rock's Stand Out Fit In...😅 But seriously though, listening to Santi is like standing in front of an art on a wall, and then taking it under a microscope... Looking at the smaller pigments that comprise the whole picture. And then zooming out out again to see the big picture one more time. Ok, im not making any sense again 😂 sorry verbal diarrhea! 😌

I think if you're a Japanese RU-vidr speaking English, there's a good chance you're a 'red pilled' Japanese, not always, but it's a good measure lol. (ie Santi, Sora the Troll, Shunchan, Asagi)

How can I find a cool red pill guy friend like you Santi 😢

I understand what you mean. There are not many red pill people in general.

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Are there a lot of red pill women in Japan?

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I think there is no need to put labels on anyone. The same person may have both red and blue pills characteristics. Doesn’t matter if a Japanese man studied abroad or not he is still Japanese so as a person he formed before he went overseas.

Wow I'm lucky then I found 2 Japanese red pills lol

Santi … I’m talking to a guy 20 yrs older than me. He doesn’t look old. I really enjoy talking to him. He said he liked me however when I said I like him too. He kinda stepped back. Why is that. :(

I can’t believe incels infested Santi-san’s channel now too 😪😪😪

I have exactly the same age as you, ( I think Japanese children re raised to suppress their emotions ) , I wish I had that Japanese education, because I am too emotive, I am controlled by my emotions, and that depress me most of the time, makes me too mentally vulnerable to criticism, drove me to make poor judgments, over-analyzing peoples attitudes towards me, and ruin my relationships with people, specially women, I wish I could be like a Robot, just like you 😅 ( Its a Joke btw )

I also don't like the history of atomic bomb dropping on those 2 prefecture. Atomic bombing is not about to end the war/WW2, they just wanna flex their power, they just wanna show who's the boss.. I know Japan is already defeated/surrendering when they'd to drop the bomb. Einstein is an ...hole for giving those formula for the WMD; to be honest he's not a good father too, that's what I've learned when I watched his story/series from Nat Geo.. Yeah the Matrix, it's really like happening and showing now, sheep people is slowly awakening from reality..